meanest people ever

ma34113
ma34113 Posts: 93 Member
edited October 1 in Chit-Chat
what is the meanest thing you have ever been told by someone you didnt know

at work i was trying to help this lady and she didnt want to listen and i was having a good morning and still in a happy mood and then randomly yelled EAT **** AND DIE *****!

..on a positive note i laughed it off to try and keep my happy mood
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  • DreamLittleDarling
    DreamLittleDarling Posts: 800 Member
    shopping for swimsuits, another customer said "oh honey, YOU don't want that one. trust me." and walked away.
  • JulieTX86
    JulieTX86 Posts: 303 Member
    what is the meanest thing you have ever been told by someone you didnt know

    at work i was trying to help this lady and she didnt want to listen and i was having a good morning and still in a happy mood and then randomly yelled EAT **** AND DIE *****!

    ..on a positive note i laughed it off to try and keep my happy mood

    I'm confused. Are you asking what someone has said to us, or what we have said to someone. Did the lady say this to you, or is that what you said to her?
    LOL, it's early.
  • juggalotus
    juggalotus Posts: 227
    Someone called me a fat cu** sl** because i didn't want to sleep with him. LOL! I may be fat, but you're the one who wanted me until i rejected you :)
  • dittiepe
    dittiepe Posts: 557 Member
    I'm a nurse. I could spit out a list of things I've been told and called by patients and their family members that would fill up this page. LOL
  • fatgirlslove
    fatgirlslove Posts: 614 Member
    thinging about it the meanest thing anyone ever did to be was call me an *itch....I don't take things lying down...ppl don't mess with me too much lol
  • Kelly_Wilson1990
    Kelly_Wilson1990 Posts: 3,245 Member
    I was called a beached whale once by some teenagers.
  • ma34113
    ma34113 Posts: 93 Member
    what is the meanest thing you have ever been told by someone you didnt know

    at work i was trying to help this lady and she didnt want to listen and i was having a good morning and still in a happy mood and then randomly yelled EAT **** AND DIE *****!

    ..on a positive note i laughed it off to try and keep my happy mood

    I'm confused. Are you asking what someone has said to us, or what we have said to someone. Did the lady say this to you, or is that what you said to her?
    LOL, it's early.

    so sorry for confusion haha that is what the lady yelled at me...please share what people have said to you...
  • ivyann73deleted
    ivyann73deleted Posts: 67
    The lady who lived in the apartment above me hated me from the day she moved in. 'Til this day I still do not know why. She would stomp on the floor above my bedroom at 3am and scream are you awake now you f****** b****. Talk about startling. She would tell the office my daughter was tormenting her and I was stealing from her. I had only seen the woman a couple times and never even spoken to her. One day as I was leaving she was coming in and I held the door for her to be nice. She refused to walk through the door and told me straight out she did not like me. She waited until I closed the door so she could open it her self and walk through. I was completely dumbstruck that another adult could behave in such a way. lol!!
  • tidworth1972
    tidworth1972 Posts: 8
    I work in healthcare too, I once got threatened with death by the father of a patient lol, luckily i got rescued by an experienced old midwife who led the angry man away as he was preparing to thump me :)
  • MayMaydoesntrun
    MayMaydoesntrun Posts: 805 Member
    I'm a nurse. I could spit out a list of things I've been told and called by patients and their family members that would fill up this page. LOL

    Love it! I'm a nurse too...one that sticks out in my mind was one night I was working in Neuro ICU. There was this elderly lady who had been in there for a few days, (can't remember her diagnosis), but one of the things we did in that particular unit was HOURLY neuro checks. This lady had obviously had enough of them. I asked her to hold up two fingers, and she flipped me two birds! LOL
  • JulieTX86
    JulieTX86 Posts: 303 Member
    I agree with the nurses up ^^^^.
    Meanest things I ever hear are from patients.

    I had one guy just laying into me ALL freaking day. Calling me a stupid B*^&* get the F*** out of his room, leave him alone etc. etc.

    Then, a little while later he said "Hey goldilocks, you got a boyfriend? Do you wanna come lay in bed with me?" and a few other fairly vulgar things...

    YUUCKKK! Yes please, I would love to take verbal abuse from you ALL DAY LONG and then jump into your patient bed with you.
  • AudgePaudge
    AudgePaudge Posts: 537 Member
    When my husband and I first started dating when we were teenagers, his friend yelled "I wouldn't touch that with a 10 foot pole!" He was jealous that my husband wasn't hanging out with him as much :)
  • sunkisses
    sunkisses Posts: 2,365 Member
    I feel weird having to think back to childhood to come up with an answer to this. Surely someone has said something mean to me since then...
    I guess I just don't remember. Yeah... I have to go all the way back to 17 years ago and having a racial slur yelled at me from a car window as I walked down the street with 2 black friends. Good times, good times.
  • bluemist248
    bluemist248 Posts: 207 Member
    There really are some crap people on the planet, who's words unfortunately stick in our minds for longer than the nice ones.

    I was walking back from the pub last night with my boyfriend, who is has very mild cerebral palsy, the only visible sign of it is a slight limp due to an operation he had on his leg when he was 16, anyway, as we were walking along happily chatting about the night's events, some boy racer drives past in a blacked out car and shouts really loudly out the window "Spag!" :mad: :explode: I HATE that word, really really HATE it! (I'm not sure if that's a word only used in the UK) I'm not a violent person, and when things like that happen I'm too shocked to even have a comeback, but if last night was a video game, I'd car jack the boy racer, then run over him, reverse, and repeat a couple of times! What a thoughtless bag of crap.

    Glad I got that rant out, that's p***ed me off all day.
  • gods_gal
    gods_gal Posts: 301
    Wow! These are eye-opening. One thing I'll never understand is why people treat their care-givers mean!! My father-in-law was being disrespectful to his wife and daughter when he was recovering from heart surgery. My son finally told him, "These people are responsible for your life right now. You better start treating them with respect!" He changed his ways fast!! Thank you, nurses, for all the stuff you put up with and still continue to give excellent health care!! We appreciate you!! :heart:
  • thenewkarisa
    thenewkarisa Posts: 207
    Kids in 4th grade used to tell me to call Jenny Craig. LOL Other than that people don't mess with me too much aqpparently because of the way I stare at people that are rude to begin with =D
  • koosdel
    koosdel Posts: 3,317 Member
    "Out of the car long hair!"

    I was just trying to have a good time :(
  • ItsMeLori
    ItsMeLori Posts: 346
    Not mean just stupid.... went to get my ring sized, she didn't ask me what size I wanted and handed me a 8 1/2 to try on and I needed a 6... DUMB!!
  • ivyjbres
    ivyjbres Posts: 612 Member
    I got desensitized to mean stuff as a kid, now I just notice bizarre stuff. Like getting called the N word because the restaurant I work at doesn't serve ice cream cones. I mean really, does that make any sense to anyone?
  • nerdyandilikeit
    nerdyandilikeit Posts: 2,185 Member
    I was called a beached whale once by some teenagers.

    I was called a beached whale once by someone I thought was my friend.
  • SCC88
    SCC88 Posts: 215 Member
    When I was at school, people used to say I looked like Sonia from Eastenders (a UK soap).
    Although Sonia looks nice now, this is what she looked like when I was at school :cry:
    150px-Young_sonia.jpg
  • BFit40
    BFit40 Posts: 163 Member
    Many years ago when I got promoted to a job which qualified me for a company ca. The first night of driving the lovely gleaming brand new car, I parked in front of a shop. A woman who was walking by started bending down and closely inspecting the car mumbling to herself. I said "Can I help you" and she stood up and yelled at me "How can someone like YOU afford a car like THAT? B*tch!"
    It really stuck in my memory.
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    I've been called every name in the book and a few that never made it to the book, but the funniest insult was a guy who'd already called me the b-word and c-word, with some f-words as adjectives, then said, that I wasn't "ladylike" because I liked the band Korn. :laugh:

    Seriously? It's supposed to hurt my feelings that some foul-mouthed wanker doesn't think I'm dainty enough?! So I'd still be an f-ing b-word and c-word, but if I listened to Kenny G, I'd be ok?
  • caroltina
    caroltina Posts: 453 Member
    On the day I made the local paper due to my weightloss, I was skipping out of the newsagents with the paper when someone took the time and trouble to while parking their car shout out the window - " you have a great big fat *kitten*" - I am so glad I just turned and shouted back - " and you have a great big fat mouth" - I was so angry, I wanted to go into the shop and show her the paper, I didn't coz I feared I'd be in the paper for giving her what for!!! I cried a lot! On a day I should have been proud
  • dragonfly1120
    dragonfly1120 Posts: 29 Member
    I'm a nurse too and I think the meanest thing is when someone tells me what I should know because I'm an RN and what they know because they know someone who did something in the medical field or sports. And then procede to tell me how to do my job and how they can tell what kind of infection it is or isn't or if there is a broken bone ...just by looking at it. I just say, "I'm glad you can determine that because as an RN I can't and even physicians have to do a culture or an xray to confirm a diagnosis".
  • suemar74
    suemar74 Posts: 447 Member
    I'm a nurse. I could spit out a list of things I've been told and called by patients and their family members that would fill up this page. LOL

    Love it! I'm a nurse too...one that sticks out in my mind was one night I was working in Neuro ICU. There was this elderly lady who had been in there for a few days, (can't remember her diagnosis), but one of the things we did in that particular unit was HOURLY neuro checks. This lady had obviously had enough of them. I asked her to hold up two fingers, and she flipped me two birds! LOL

    This one seriously made me laugh out loud =)
  • ohwhataday
    ohwhataday Posts: 1,398 Member
    The lady who lived in the apartment above me hated me from the day she moved in. 'Til this day I still do not know why. She would stomp on the floor above my bedroom at 3am and scream are you awake now you f****** b****. Talk about startling. She would tell the office my daughter was tormenting her and I was stealing from her. I had only seen the woman a couple times and never even spoken to her. One day as I was leaving she was coming in and I held the door for her to be nice. She refused to walk through the door and told me straight out she did not like me. She waited until I closed the door so she could open it her self and walk through. I was completely dumbstruck that another adult could behave in such a way. lol!!

    whoaaaaa. I have had my fair share of ridiculous neighbors living in a duplex and of course apartments but never anyone that crazy!!! although, the couple that lived above us once.. the woman worked in a bar and they had just had a baby.. she came home late, really late.. next thing we know we hear some loud THUMP THUMP THUMP. And quite a bit of screaming and door slamming. Uhm. She came home drunk and broke the dude's guitar because he was mad she was so late. And threw his amp down their upstairs/attic. We lived in a big house/duplex. And apparently bit the tip of his finger off and kicked HIM OUT!!! hahaha.. yes, I believe the cops were called. These people were the worst. The cops were there often. Sigh.
  • Queen_JessieA
    Queen_JessieA Posts: 1,059 Member
    The lady who lived in the apartment above me hated me from the day she moved in. 'Til this day I still do not know why. She would stomp on the floor above my bedroom at 3am and scream are you awake now you f****** b****. Talk about startling. She would tell the office my daughter was tormenting her and I was stealing from her. I had only seen the woman a couple times and never even spoken to her. One day as I was leaving she was coming in and I held the door for her to be nice. She refused to walk through the door and told me straight out she did not like me. She waited until I closed the door so she could open it her self and walk through. I was completely dumbstruck that another adult could behave in such a way. lol!!

    It sounds like she had mental issues ~ which, unfortunately, more often than not, goes untreated :( Sorry you had to deal with that!
  • Thriceshy
    Thriceshy Posts: 708 Member
    The lady who lived in the apartment above me hated me from the day she moved in. 'Til this day I still do not know why. She would stomp on the floor above my bedroom at 3am and scream are you awake now you f****** b****. Talk about startling. She would tell the office my daughter was tormenting her and I was stealing from her. I had only seen the woman a couple times and never even spoken to her. One day as I was leaving she was coming in and I held the door for her to be nice. She refused to walk through the door and told me straight out she did not like me. She waited until I closed the door so she could open it her self and walk through. I was completely dumbstruck that another adult could behave in such a way. lol!!

    She sounds pretty seriously mentally ill--I've known schizophrenics with similar behaviors. Scary stuff.

    Kris
  • keb80
    keb80 Posts: 394
    The one that comes to mind is my brother in law's ex-girlfriend. She effin' HATED me! I don't even care that she didn't like me but it was just so weird because she wasn't around long enough to get to know me. Looking back, i don't even think we spoke to each other... I think she was jealous because I had been a member of the family for several years before she came into the picture and she saw me as competition (as if I cared enough to compete to be top-dog among the daughter-in-laws) :noway: Psh-yeah right!!

    She would say *kitten* about me but she'd never say it to my face and, unfortunately, it wasn't until after they split that I found out about all the smack she'd talk. She'd say things like, "Thank God, she's gone", as soon as I'd leave my in-laws house. Or she'd call me a b**** to my in-laws and her boyfriend (my husband's brother). It really didn't even piss me off though because all her ranting and bad-mouthing just made her look like a CRAZY b*tch!! The chick had serious issues... thank goodness that relationship didn't last.
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