38 yr old divorced single mom- AMA

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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    cee134 wrote: »
    What Is The Perfect Amount Of Criticism?

    Well now, don't you think you might have phrased that differently?

    How is this germane to any discussion?

    What are you expecting her to say?

    ^ this much?
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »
    What Is The Perfect Amount Of Criticism?

    Well now, don't you think you might have phrased that differently?

    How is this germane to any discussion?

    What are you expecting her to say?

    ^ this much?

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  • Watching_The_Wheels
    Watching_The_Wheels Posts: 4,582 Member
    Although not mutually exclusive (except for #7), choose the better attribute to possess:

    1. Preparedness or Instinct?
    2. Honesty or Politeness?
    3. Loyalty or Independence?
    4. Creativity or Structure?
    5. Advanced Skill or Work Ethic?
    6. Physical Health or Mental Health?
    7. iPhone or Android?
  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
    Watching_The_Wheels wrote: »
    Although not mutually exclusive (except for #7), choose the better attribute to possess:

    1. Preparedness or Instinct?
    2. Honesty or Politeness?
    3. Loyalty or Independence?
    4. Creativity or Structure?
    5. Advanced Skill or Work Ethic?
    6. Physical Health or Mental Health?
    7. iPhone or Android?

    1. instinct
    2. honesty
    3. once upon a time I would have said loyalty, now wisdom has taught me that independence is better
    4. creativity
    5. work ethic
    6. mental health
    7. android (I've never owned anything Apple)

    Also, thanks for reviving this one. I had forgotten about it. :smiley:
  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    Every time I see this thread my first thought is

    “She is not 38, she’s lying”

    You look 28-30.

    38 and a half! I :heart: you.
  • Watching_The_Wheels
    Watching_The_Wheels Posts: 4,582 Member
    Although both of these 2 scenarios suck, which would be worse to you?

    1. You walk in on your spouse physically and passionately engaged in an affair...

    2. While cleaning your bedroom, you come across copies of love letters written by your spouse to someone expressing his love to her and that his current marriage to you is more of a convenience rather than love.
  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
    Watching_The_Wheels wrote: »
    Although both of these 2 scenarios suck, which would be worse to you?

    1. You walk in on your spouse physically and passionately engaged in an affair...

    2. While cleaning your bedroom, you come across copies of love letters written by your spouse to someone expressing his love to her and that his current marriage to you is more of a convenience rather than love.

    #2.
    Unfortunately I already lived through a very similar situation.
  • Mean_Spice
    Mean_Spice Posts: 279 Member
    Watching_The_Wheels wrote: »
    Although both of these 2 scenarios suck, which would be worse to you?

    1. You walk in on your spouse physically and passionately engaged in an affair...

    2. While cleaning your bedroom, you come across copies of love letters written by your spouse to someone expressing his love to her and that his current marriage to you is more of a convenience rather than love.

    This is so wrong at so many levels. Neither is appealing to me or most folks I know.

    Both would result in the same reactions.
  • RomaineCalm
    RomaineCalm Posts: 3,972 Member
    Mean_Spice wrote: »
    Watching_The_Wheels wrote: »
    Although both of these 2 scenarios suck, which would be worse to you?

    1. You walk in on your spouse physically and passionately engaged in an affair...

    2. While cleaning your bedroom, you come across copies of love letters written by your spouse to someone expressing his love to her and that his current marriage to you is more of a convenience rather than love.

    This is so wrong at so many levels. Neither is appealing to me or most folks I know.

    Both would result in the same reactions.

    I immediately had the thought that one of these happened to him.
  • Sunshine_And_Sand
    Sunshine_And_Sand Posts: 1,320 Member
    Cold weather or hot weather? (I hate cold)
    Bo or Luke Duke? (Bo all the way for me)
    Sofa or recliner? (Sofa for me)
    Granite or quartz? (Granite for me)

    You know all the important stuff...
  • RomaineCalm
    RomaineCalm Posts: 3,972 Member
    If you were anonymously gifted $1,000 cash this week, what would you do with it?
  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
    sarjenki wrote: »
    Cold weather or hot weather? (I hate cold)
    Bo or Luke Duke? (Bo all the way for me)
    Sofa or recliner? (Sofa for me)
    Granite or quartz? (Granite for me)

    You know all the important stuff...

    Cool weather (not frigid).
    Daisy?
    Recliner. Hopefully with heat and massage.
    Quartz I guess. I'm more about the back splash tho.
  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
    RomaineCalm wrote: »
    If you were anonymously gifted $1,000 cash this week, what would you do with it?

    I guess have the surgery I'm supposed to have but have had to postpone until I have $500 upfront (instead of them billing me 😠). Get an oil change. Pay my credit card down some.
    I'm such a boring adult.
  • RomaineCalm
    RomaineCalm Posts: 3,972 Member
    laprimaJenny wrote: »
    If you were arrested with no explanation, what would your friends and family assume you had done?

    I love this question.
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    Avocado_AS5 wrote: »
    RomaineCalm wrote: »
    If you were anonymously gifted $1,000 cash this week, what would you do with it?

    I guess have the surgery I'm supposed to have but have had to postpone until I have $500 upfront (instead of them billing me 😠). Get an oil change. Pay my credit card down some.
    I'm such a boring adult.

    Same question but you aren't allowed to use the money on boring adult stuff. Pretend that's already been taken care of.

  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    If you can flip a switch that will wipe off any band from the face of the world, which band would it be?
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    If you could replace all of the grass in the world with something else, what would it be?
  • navdeeprana
    navdeeprana Posts: 473 Member
    A lot of things but to keep it short, curious about your display name...Avocado ...probably you love Avocado alot may be :)
  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
    laprimaJenny wrote: »
    If you were arrested with no explanation, what would your friends and family assume you had done?

    Assault.
  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
    CookingWithCumin wrote: »
    Would you rather fight 1 horse sized duck or 100 duck sized horses?

    The horses. Because I'm afraid of birds.

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