What’s your drama?
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FireStar0139 wrote: »If anyone responds to this, I'll most likely start freaking out internally and wonder what to do, how not to offend anyone, come up with several responses, and then choose not to respond at all because I'll be too worried that I'll end up starting some kind of internet fight, saying something dumb, or something I'll regret in the future, and then by choosing to take no action I'll start to wonder if people think I'm being rude and ignoring them.
Hi. Can you shoot video of this, cuz I got admit, this is would kinda interesting to watch.
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FireStar0139 wrote: »I have a cat. I love her. But she only wants her butt in my face.
I very much have the same problem. Yesterday was a work day for me, and I only got one page done because she decided to live on my keyboard. T-T I know your pain. But cat's are the masters in this world. We are only here to serve them.
The big one tries to kill me once a day.1 -
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JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »FireStar0139 wrote: »My drama is I'm socially awkward, seriously shy, and bad with the communicating with people in the outside world in general. Usually people mistake my shyness for me being snobby or stuck up. Which makes me feel even more nervous about talking to others. If anyone responds to this, I'll most likely start freaking out internally and wonder what to do, how not to offend anyone, come up with several responses, and then choose not to respond at all because I'll be too worried that I'll end up starting some kind of internet fight, saying something dumb, or something I'll regret in the future, and then by choosing to take no action I'll start to wonder if people think I'm being rude and ignoring them. Eventually, in about a week, I might decide to like any and all responses, without saying anything back, because if I did respond, what I said would probably be misinterpreted, and I'd end up feeling awful for upsetting someone, or because my words were misunderstood entirely (S.O.M.L.). I'm probably the most socially awkward person you'll ever meet. Which is a shame because I usually like people once I get to know them, and this has sometimes resulted in me going years without having friends in the immediate outside world. Currently I have two, because I had a weird day where I was feeling super social and confident...which almost never happens. (This is awkwardly long now so I'm going to stop typing...awkwardly.)
I have basically no friends becyi inevitability end up asking questions that are too personal/insensitive or end up saying something annoying.
I have one IRL friend (god knows why) and I even cancel plans on them most of the time for no reason other than being social is exhausting.
I'll make it easy though, I expect a response to this, even just a smiley face, or I'm going to regret making a serious post.
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JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »FireStar0139 wrote: »My drama is I'm socially awkward, seriously shy, and bad with the communicating with people in the outside world in general. Usually people mistake my shyness for me being snobby or stuck up. Which makes me feel even more nervous about talking to others. If anyone responds to this, I'll most likely start freaking out internally and wonder what to do, how not to offend anyone, come up with several responses, and then choose not to respond at all because I'll be too worried that I'll end up starting some kind of internet fight, saying something dumb, or something I'll regret in the future, and then by choosing to take no action I'll start to wonder if people think I'm being rude and ignoring them. Eventually, in about a week, I might decide to like any and all responses, without saying anything back, because if I did respond, what I said would probably be misinterpreted, and I'd end up feeling awful for upsetting someone, or because my words were misunderstood entirely (S.O.M.L.). I'm probably the most socially awkward person you'll ever meet. Which is a shame because I usually like people once I get to know them, and this has sometimes resulted in me going years without having friends in the immediate outside world. Currently I have two, because I had a weird day where I was feeling super social and confident...which almost never happens. (This is awkwardly long now so I'm going to stop typing...awkwardly.)
I have basically no friends because I inevitability end up asking questions that are too personal/insensitive or end up saying something annoying.
I have one IRL friend (god knows why) and I even cancel plans on them most of the time for no reason other than being social is exhausting.
I'll make it easy though, I expect a response to this, even just a smiley face, or I'm going to regret making a serious post.
You're okay. What you describe isn't much different to how most people feel. Sounds like you don't fake the social exchanges you do have, which is a good thing.2 -
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JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »FireStar0139 wrote: »My drama is I'm socially awkward, seriously shy, and bad with the communicating with people in the outside world in general. Usually people mistake my shyness for me being snobby or stuck up. Which makes me feel even more nervous about talking to others. If anyone responds to this, I'll most likely start freaking out internally and wonder what to do, how not to offend anyone, come up with several responses, and then choose not to respond at all because I'll be too worried that I'll end up starting some kind of internet fight, saying something dumb, or something I'll regret in the future, and then by choosing to take no action I'll start to wonder if people think I'm being rude and ignoring them. Eventually, in about a week, I might decide to like any and all responses, without saying anything back, because if I did respond, what I said would probably be misinterpreted, and I'd end up feeling awful for upsetting someone, or because my words were misunderstood entirely (S.O.M.L.). I'm probably the most socially awkward person you'll ever meet. Which is a shame because I usually like people once I get to know them, and this has sometimes resulted in me going years without having friends in the immediate outside world. Currently I have two, because I had a weird day where I was feeling super social and confident...which almost never happens. (This is awkwardly long now so I'm going to stop typing...awkwardly.)
I have basically no friends because I inevitability end up asking questions that are too personal/insensitive or end up saying something annoying.
I have one IRL friend (god knows why) and I even cancel plans on them most of the time for no reason other than being social is exhausting.
I'll make it easy though, I expect a response to this, even just a smiley face, or I'm going to regret making a serious post.
You're okay. What you describe isn't much different to how most people feel. Sounds like you don't fake the social exchanges you do have, which is a good thing.
Thanks! I do fake small talk a lot. I'm not interested in how anyone's weekend was.
Nobody cares about small talk. People just do it to open the social channels enough to avoid being scapegoated by the pack animals. It's just a little mammalian insurance policy with very low premiums.3 -
JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »FireStar0139 wrote: »My drama is I'm socially awkward, seriously shy, and bad with the communicating with people in the outside world in general. Usually people mistake my shyness for me being snobby or stuck up. Which makes me feel even more nervous about talking to others. If anyone responds to this, I'll most likely start freaking out internally and wonder what to do, how not to offend anyone, come up with several responses, and then choose not to respond at all because I'll be too worried that I'll end up starting some kind of internet fight, saying something dumb, or something I'll regret in the future, and then by choosing to take no action I'll start to wonder if people think I'm being rude and ignoring them. Eventually, in about a week, I might decide to like any and all responses, without saying anything back, because if I did respond, what I said would probably be misinterpreted, and I'd end up feeling awful for upsetting someone, or because my words were misunderstood entirely (S.O.M.L.). I'm probably the most socially awkward person you'll ever meet. Which is a shame because I usually like people once I get to know them, and this has sometimes resulted in me going years without having friends in the immediate outside world. Currently I have two, because I had a weird day where I was feeling super social and confident...which almost never happens. (This is awkwardly long now so I'm going to stop typing...awkwardly.)
I have basically no friends because I inevitability end up asking questions that are too personal/insensitive or end up saying something annoying.
I have one IRL friend (god knows why) and I even cancel plans on them most of the time for no reason other than being social is exhausting.
I'll make it easy though, I expect a response to this, even just a smiley face, or I'm going to regret making a serious post.
You're okay. What you describe isn't much different to how most people feel. Sounds like you don't fake the social exchanges you do have, which is a good thing.
Thanks! I do fake small talk a lot. I'm not interested in how anyone's weekend was.
I always feel lame falling back on the weather, but a book I listened to, might have been Dale Carnegie, discussed how people actually expect small talk to be about mundane ish like the weather...
They're actually more uncomfortable when it's not so mundane...2 -
JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »FireStar0139 wrote: »My drama is I'm socially awkward, seriously shy, and bad with the communicating with people in the outside world in general. Usually people mistake my shyness for me being snobby or stuck up. Which makes me feel even more nervous about talking to others. If anyone responds to this, I'll most likely start freaking out internally and wonder what to do, how not to offend anyone, come up with several responses, and then choose not to respond at all because I'll be too worried that I'll end up starting some kind of internet fight, saying something dumb, or something I'll regret in the future, and then by choosing to take no action I'll start to wonder if people think I'm being rude and ignoring them. Eventually, in about a week, I might decide to like any and all responses, without saying anything back, because if I did respond, what I said would probably be misinterpreted, and I'd end up feeling awful for upsetting someone, or because my words were misunderstood entirely (S.O.M.L.). I'm probably the most socially awkward person you'll ever meet. Which is a shame because I usually like people once I get to know them, and this has sometimes resulted in me going years without having friends in the immediate outside world. Currently I have two, because I had a weird day where I was feeling super social and confident...which almost never happens. (This is awkwardly long now so I'm going to stop typing...awkwardly.)
I have basically no friends because I inevitability end up asking questions that are too personal/insensitive or end up saying something annoying.
I have one IRL friend (god knows why) and I even cancel plans on them most of the time for no reason other than being social is exhausting.
I'll make it easy though, I expect a response to this, even just a smiley face, or I'm going to regret making a serious post.
You're okay. What you describe isn't much different to how most people feel. Sounds like you don't fake the social exchanges you do have, which is a good thing.
I am socially awkward. I will talk about the weather and some form of pooping in the same small talk.3 -
JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »FireStar0139 wrote: »My drama is I'm socially awkward, seriously shy, and bad with the communicating with people in the outside world in general. Usually people mistake my shyness for me being snobby or stuck up. Which makes me feel even more nervous about talking to others. If anyone responds to this, I'll most likely start freaking out internally and wonder what to do, how not to offend anyone, come up with several responses, and then choose not to respond at all because I'll be too worried that I'll end up starting some kind of internet fight, saying something dumb, or something I'll regret in the future, and then by choosing to take no action I'll start to wonder if people think I'm being rude and ignoring them. Eventually, in about a week, I might decide to like any and all responses, without saying anything back, because if I did respond, what I said would probably be misinterpreted, and I'd end up feeling awful for upsetting someone, or because my words were misunderstood entirely (S.O.M.L.). I'm probably the most socially awkward person you'll ever meet. Which is a shame because I usually like people once I get to know them, and this has sometimes resulted in me going years without having friends in the immediate outside world. Currently I have two, because I had a weird day where I was feeling super social and confident...which almost never happens. (This is awkwardly long now so I'm going to stop typing...awkwardly.)
I have basically no friends because I inevitability end up asking questions that are too personal/insensitive or end up saying something annoying.
I have one IRL friend (god knows why) and I even cancel plans on them most of the time for no reason other than being social is exhausting.
I'll make it easy though, I expect a response to this, even just a smiley face, or I'm going to regret making a serious post.
You're okay. What you describe isn't much different to how most people feel. Sounds like you don't fake the social exchanges you do have, which is a good thing.
I am socially awkward. I will talk about the weather and some form of pooping in the same small talk.
I think the poopoo topic has become the new small talk.1 -
JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »FireStar0139 wrote: »My drama is I'm socially awkward, seriously shy, and bad with the communicating with people in the outside world in general. Usually people mistake my shyness for me being snobby or stuck up. Which makes me feel even more nervous about talking to others. If anyone responds to this, I'll most likely start freaking out internally and wonder what to do, how not to offend anyone, come up with several responses, and then choose not to respond at all because I'll be too worried that I'll end up starting some kind of internet fight, saying something dumb, or something I'll regret in the future, and then by choosing to take no action I'll start to wonder if people think I'm being rude and ignoring them. Eventually, in about a week, I might decide to like any and all responses, without saying anything back, because if I did respond, what I said would probably be misinterpreted, and I'd end up feeling awful for upsetting someone, or because my words were misunderstood entirely (S.O.M.L.). I'm probably the most socially awkward person you'll ever meet. Which is a shame because I usually like people once I get to know them, and this has sometimes resulted in me going years without having friends in the immediate outside world. Currently I have two, because I had a weird day where I was feeling super social and confident...which almost never happens. (This is awkwardly long now so I'm going to stop typing...awkwardly.)
I have basically no friends because I inevitability end up asking questions that are too personal/insensitive or end up saying something annoying.
I have one IRL friend (god knows why) and I even cancel plans on them most of the time for no reason other than being social is exhausting.
I'll make it easy though, I expect a response to this, even just a smiley face, or I'm going to regret making a serious post.
You're okay. What you describe isn't much different to how most people feel. Sounds like you don't fake the social exchanges you do have, which is a good thing.
I am socially awkward. I will talk about the weather and some form of pooping in the same small talk.
I think the poopoo topic has become the new small talk.
That’s a relief.1 -
JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »FireStar0139 wrote: »My drama is I'm socially awkward, seriously shy, and bad with the communicating with people in the outside world in general. Usually people mistake my shyness for me being snobby or stuck up. Which makes me feel even more nervous about talking to others. If anyone responds to this, I'll most likely start freaking out internally and wonder what to do, how not to offend anyone, come up with several responses, and then choose not to respond at all because I'll be too worried that I'll end up starting some kind of internet fight, saying something dumb, or something I'll regret in the future, and then by choosing to take no action I'll start to wonder if people think I'm being rude and ignoring them. Eventually, in about a week, I might decide to like any and all responses, without saying anything back, because if I did respond, what I said would probably be misinterpreted, and I'd end up feeling awful for upsetting someone, or because my words were misunderstood entirely (S.O.M.L.). I'm probably the most socially awkward person you'll ever meet. Which is a shame because I usually like people once I get to know them, and this has sometimes resulted in me going years without having friends in the immediate outside world. Currently I have two, because I had a weird day where I was feeling super social and confident...which almost never happens. (This is awkwardly long now so I'm going to stop typing...awkwardly.)
I have basically no friends because I inevitability end up asking questions that are too personal/insensitive or end up saying something annoying.
I have one IRL friend (god knows why) and I even cancel plans on them most of the time for no reason other than being social is exhausting.
I'll make it easy though, I expect a response to this, even just a smiley face, or I'm going to regret making a serious post.
You're okay. What you describe isn't much different to how most people feel. Sounds like you don't fake the social exchanges you do have, which is a good thing.
I am socially awkward. I will talk about the weather and some form of pooping in the same small talk.
I think the poopoo topic has become the new small talk.
Well that makes sense... it was all my family could talk about for a good 20 minutes this past weekend on the day my niece decided to bring her boyfriend over for the first time. I was mortified and decided right then and there that I will NEVER bring a boyfriend home to meet them 😂😫😂2 -
burlygirl91 wrote: »Tankiscool wrote: »@RhiAnLewis17 & @HappilyDistracted are my current cause of drama. Throw @burlygirl91 for guilty association as well.
No blame lies here, I'm just an innocent bystander
No blame for sure.....but innocent?? Really? 😜1 -
My boyfriend left me3
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Ironandwine69 wrote: »My boyfriend left me
Well that sucks! Breakups are never fun. Just try to remember that time heals wounds and it will get better!0 -
Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »FireStar0139 wrote: »My drama is I'm socially awkward, seriously shy, and bad with the communicating with people in the outside world in general. Usually people mistake my shyness for me being snobby or stuck up. Which makes me feel even more nervous about talking to others. If anyone responds to this, I'll most likely start freaking out internally and wonder what to do, how not to offend anyone, come up with several responses, and then choose not to respond at all because I'll be too worried that I'll end up starting some kind of internet fight, saying something dumb, or something I'll regret in the future, and then by choosing to take no action I'll start to wonder if people think I'm being rude and ignoring them. Eventually, in about a week, I might decide to like any and all responses, without saying anything back, because if I did respond, what I said would probably be misinterpreted, and I'd end up feeling awful for upsetting someone, or because my words were misunderstood entirely (S.O.M.L.). I'm probably the most socially awkward person you'll ever meet. Which is a shame because I usually like people once I get to know them, and this has sometimes resulted in me going years without having friends in the immediate outside world. Currently I have two, because I had a weird day where I was feeling super social and confident...which almost never happens. (This is awkwardly long now so I'm going to stop typing...awkwardly.)
I have basically no friends because I inevitability end up asking questions that are too personal/insensitive or end up saying something annoying.
I have one IRL friend (god knows why) and I even cancel plans on them most of the time for no reason other than being social is exhausting.
I'll make it easy though, I expect a response to this, even just a smiley face, or I'm going to regret making a serious post.
You're okay. What you describe isn't much different to how most people feel. Sounds like you don't fake the social exchanges you do have, which is a good thing.
I am socially awkward. I will talk about the weather and some form of pooping in the same small talk.
I think the poopoo topic has become the new small talk.
Well that makes sense... it was all my family could talk about for a good 20 minutes this past weekend on the day my niece decided to bring her boyfriend over for the first time. I was mortified and decided right then and there that I will NEVER bring a boyfriend home to meet them 😂😫😂
Well, you know with the rise in popularity of probiotics the previously held social barriers are breaking down.1 -
I hate being held up, when I want to go... We go1
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CookingWithCumin wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »My boyfriend left me
I'm sure you'll survive
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Ironandwine69 wrote: »CookingWithCumin wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »My boyfriend left me
I'm sure you'll survive
Well damn..okay
Don't mind him... He just found out Noah is still cheating lol2 -
CookingWithCumin wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »CookingWithCumin wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »My boyfriend left me
I'm sure you'll survive
Well damn..okay
Still mad at me I see
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I had to file a Gross negligence complaint with my mental health clinic. I had to snitch on my unprofessional, toenail picking, always eating therapist and my sociopathic psychiatrist. So this coming Friday I have to have a meeting with the regional director. I’m so excited! 🤗
Next week I’m getting a chunk of my uterus biopsied, and then in February I have to get the nerve endings in my legs electrocuted aka a EMG test because I have poor reflexes in both my legs, so that should be lots of fun! 🤗🤗🤗
I’m also in the process of withdrawing from a college course, because my insomnia and anxiety are becoming unbearable and I can’t risk losing $1200 from my emotional and mental instability 😊😊😊😊😊
My cat is sick. I’m taking her to the vet tomorrow. My mom is not in the best health either. She’s always dealing with some type of ailment 🤦🏽♀️
My leg still hurts like hell and I had to stop taking my BC because it was giving me suicidal thoughts and I was having legit breakdowns in random places. Like in the grocery store. Full on ugly crying while walking down the frozen section.
So yeah I think that about covers it....... For now 💀 On a positive note my BP is really good and I’m no longer anemic 😁
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Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »HappilyDistracted wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »I only tell you what to do because I have to
Is that why? I just thought you were THAT guy.
No I'm the other guy
Oh, my bad. So hard to keep track of all of you men!0 -
Ironandwine69 wrote: »My boyfriend left me
Where? Can you get a ride at least?0 -
SirMxyzptlk wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »My boyfriend left me
Where? Can you get a ride at least?
Thank God for Uber0 -
I thought I heard thunder but it was just the garbage truck.1
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Browning and Kerning shirts.0
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