If you had to be unhappy
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Single. I wouldn't want to drag someone I care about down.2
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If the source of my unhappiness was the other person, i would say single. But, if it was just unhappiness unrelated to my spouse? I would say married. Unhappiness is never permanent.0
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no man will determine my happiness.
sorry im a misery0 -
kinetixtrainer2 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »So all y’all can dish your own ice cream? That’s bullshrimp
“Scoop” seems to fit so much better here. 😘
Don’t foist synonyms at me1 -
caco_ethes wrote: »kinetixtrainer2 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »So all y’all can dish your own ice cream? That’s bullshrimp
“Scoop” seems to fit so much better here. 😘
Don’t foist synonyms at me
But could he thrust them?
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RomaineCalm wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »kinetixtrainer2 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »So all y’all can dish your own ice cream? That’s bullshrimp
“Scoop” seems to fit so much better here. 😘
Don’t foist synonyms at me
But could he thrust them?
What inducement necessitates you to importune by and by the most wantingWhy do you insist on being the worst?1 -
caco_ethes wrote: »RomaineCalm wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »kinetixtrainer2 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »So all y’all can dish your own ice cream? That’s bullshrimp
“Scoop” seems to fit so much better here. 😘
Don’t foist synonyms at me
But could he thrust them?
What inducement necessitates you to importune by and by the most wantingWhy do you insist on being the worst?
For the reason that yours truly is superb at doing such.Because I'm so great at it.1 -
I don’t think it’s that simple of an answer, especially if you have children. I truly believe if children are involved their happiness should be taken into consideration. I don’t believe parents should stay merely for the children, but if both parents are willing to work on things it’s best for the children involved unless abuse or infidelity is an issue. With that being said, ultimately unhappiness may come from within. If so, changing something externally is only a bandage to the actual problem. This unhealthy coping mechanism will be passed on from generation to generation if not attended to properly. Changing your relationship statues won’t fix the problem in this instance, rather more than likely will add to it.1
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Single, If I were married and unhappy I think I'd be resentful and blame spouse at least in part for unhappiness - even if the unhappiness would be there either way
...wow @newmeadow...it this a psychological experiment? If answered truthfully, it may be kinda telling of some core personality traits0 -
JustPassingTime wrote: »Single, If I were married and unhappy I think I'd be resentful and blame spouse at least in part for unhappiness - even if the unhappiness would be there either way
...wow @newmeadow...it this a psychological experiment? If answered truthfully, it may be kinda telling of some core personality traits
You know it is. One of the best thing in this place is trying to figure out people's personalities, traits and behavior kinda like people watching.
Except do people truly say things genuinely?! My experience in life is that people tend to say things that they think people want to hear.0 -
JustPassingTime wrote: »laprimaJenny wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Single, If I were married and unhappy I think I'd be resentful and blame spouse at least in part for unhappiness - even if the unhappiness would be there either way
...wow @newmeadow...it this a psychological experiment? If answered truthfully, it may be kinda telling of some core personality traits
You know it is. One of the best thing in this place is trying to figure out people's personalities, traits and behavior kinda like people watching.
Except do people truly say things genuinely?! My experience in life is that people tend to say things that they think people want to hear.
Behavioral pattern is kinda hard to turn off. I wonder if anybody has figured me out except for the stuff I show.
Yes agreed, except most people don’t pay enough attention to really notice the patterns.1 -
laprimaJenny wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Single, If I were married and unhappy I think I'd be resentful and blame spouse at least in part for unhappiness - even if the unhappiness would be there either way
...wow @newmeadow...it this a psychological experiment? If answered truthfully, it may be kinda telling of some core personality traits
You know it is. One of the best thing in this place is trying to figure out people's personalities, traits and behavior kinda like people watching.
Except do people truly say things genuinely?! My experience in life is that people tend to say things that they think people want to hear.
Unless Im being paid, I most often say things genuinely, or say nothing at all. I'm a blurter too. On here I'm even less inhibited, I feel I can express myself better written than verbally (I sometimes just ramble and forget what I say in person).
At work I'll bite my tongue, or say nothing and just smile and maybe shrug, or say something vague if I disagree with someone like "ya, maybe" or "I don't know", sometimes I just stare at them and say nothing (awkward silence has become one of my happy places).
Come to think of it, I often do this outside of work too, unless I feel like engaging in conversation...then I let loose what I think (even if it doesn't make sense) just to get it out or get feedback to consider why I think what I do.2 -
Single. More opportunities to try and find happy.0
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JustPassingTime wrote: »laprimaJenny wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Single, If I were married and unhappy I think I'd be resentful and blame spouse at least in part for unhappiness - even if the unhappiness would be there either way
...wow @newmeadow...it this a psychological experiment? If answered truthfully, it may be kinda telling of some core personality traits
You know it is. One of the best thing in this place is trying to figure out people's personalities, traits and behavior kinda like people watching.
Except do people truly say things genuinely?! My experience in life is that people tend to say things that they think people want to hear.
Behavioral pattern is kinda hard to turn off. I wonder if anybody has figured me out except for the stuff I show.
I have, you're Trouble :laugh:0 -
Single, mostly for the sake of simplicity. Adding more complication (which even good relationships have) to an already unhappy life sounds...unpleasant.0
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I'm single but quite happy. Since I have no idea what it's like to be married, & if I had to be UNhappy, I'd stay single. I've been there & I didn't have to spread the gloom around. I'd rather stay unhappy on my own without someone else joining me, as others have said. If someone else was unhappy because of me, then I'd end up being even more unhappy, & I wouldn't want it to worsen.0
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Married. It ain't about who's happy or unhappy. It's about making this *kitten* work even when it hurts down to your soul.1
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