What's on your mind?
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I programmed my doors not to unlock in the morning unless I brush my teeth.7
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Meditating has changed my mindset so much, being mindful a few times a day or just a few minutes really help and keeps me motivated even when I feel sluggish (it's literally sitting down and doing nothing). More people, especially the very busy ones, should take a few minutes to be mindful and think positive thoughts, it's so refreshing.
Namaste and stay humble
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caco_ethes wrote: »
It's not programmed for you Hank!1 -
RunHardBeStrong wrote: »
Nice try Google.0 -
caco_ethes wrote: »Completely forgot to brush my teeth this morning
Sigh
Someone beat me to the deodorant comment. I hope there was deodorant at least.2 -
JustPassingTime wrote: »Try using radical honesty to a jealous insecure spouse and see what happens 🤣🤣🤣
i think the real solution is to just not carewhoever cares the least, wins
I think the real solution is to just not get married4 -
JustPassingTime wrote: »Moon_Stone wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
For me, a silent partner makes me rage. Im not saying a person should stay for abuse, but kitten respond, answer, argue back or apologize as you see fit. Don’t just walk away. The only exception would be someone who communicates that he needs time/space instead of just wandering off.JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Try using radical honesty to a jealous insecure spouse and see what happens 🤣🤣🤣
i think the real solution is to just not carewhoever cares the least, wins
Not really for example i accidentally knocked my wife's Fitbit thingy off the charger while trying to my headphones. She flips out coz it didnt charge I just kept quiet then she said do you not care? I didn't answer she kept asking so I finally said it was an accident! She still kept on and then said do you just want me to just shuttup huh? I said yeah it was an accident. She laugh said sorry and left. So not caring leads to more yelling 🤣🤣🤣
well if we're being brutally honest- i think the right thing to do would've been just accept the yelling and then said nothing in response and just got up and left for a few hours without responding.
the trick to that is having somewhere to go and something to do for those hours
One thing I've learned is keeping quiet just makes it worse. We didn't argue it was more of a b**ch*ng on her side. But she got over it.
She's aries I'm Pisces water puts out fire lol
why do you think it bothers you so much? if someone was to react to you that way i mean
Mostly Because it’s dismissive of my valid thoughts and emotions.
Because it communicates that he doesn’t think we’re worth putting up a fight for.
Eta: and because the silent treatment is mean
i do wonder how you react to an argument in a relationship. i imagine it could be fascinating.
if anybody out there is reading, and considering making this a new thread discussion, make sure and ask "when's the last time you shouted at your significant other and what was it about"
i think the answers, or non-answers, to that question could tell us more about each other than nearly every other thread combined.
i agree with the bolded. That's the scary part. Does anyone really want anyone knowing who they truly are deep down?
I always welcome changes in my life I always like the adventure part of it. I always thought I can handle it really well. We moved a lot when I was a child so everything should be easy right? Well there's a major change in my life coming soon and I've been stressing about it a lot it feels like I'm falling apart inside. I don't know why I'm so scared perhaps maybe it's because for almost 2 decades I controlled most of the changes coming my and this one im helpless. I dunno *kitten* it I guess. I can front all I want to but I guess deep down I'm truly a chicken chit lol
I think it is natural to fear certain changes in life. I bet you will embrace the *kitten* out of it though. I love that you are laying it out there. Your fear is just your perception that the change will be negative. It may open up some amazing opportunities for you. There are lots of positive outcome possibilities too whether it come directly from the change or whether you decide to make it happen outside of the original change.
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What’s on my mind? Dude finally ate a banana3
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1) I wish I was a raven
2) This song is great
3) My focus is trash today
4) My eyes are burning, but I got plenty of sleep last night. Weird.
5) My neck is stiff and painful and I could so go for a massage right now2 -
Reckoner67 wrote: »1) I wish I was a raven
2) This song is great
3) My focus is trash today
4) My eyes are burning, but I got plenty of sleep last night. Weird.
5) My neck is stiff and painful and I could so go for a massage right now
What kind of Raven we talking bout here - Just your everyday run of the mill Raven or bran Stark 3 eyed Raven - only 5 more days btw1 -
Reckoner67 wrote: »1) I wish I was a raven
2) This song is great
3) My focus is trash today
4) My eyes are burning, but I got plenty of sleep last night. Weird.
5) My neck is stiff and painful and I could so go for a massage right now
What kind of Raven we talking bout here - Just your everyday run of the mill Raven or bran Stark 3 eyed Raven - only 5 more days btw
Just a normal corvid with the usual amount of eyes0 -
Reckoner67 wrote: »Reckoner67 wrote: »1) I wish I was a raven
2) This song is great
3) My focus is trash today
4) My eyes are burning, but I got plenty of sleep last night. Weird.
5) My neck is stiff and painful and I could so go for a massage right now
What kind of Raven we talking bout here - Just your everyday run of the mill Raven or bran Stark 3 eyed Raven - only 5 more days btw
Just a normal corvid with the usual amount of eyes
nevermore.1 -
Reckoner67 wrote: »Reckoner67 wrote: »1) I wish I was a raven
2) This song is great
3) My focus is trash today
4) My eyes are burning, but I got plenty of sleep last night. Weird.
5) My neck is stiff and painful and I could so go for a massage right now
What kind of Raven we talking bout here - Just your everyday run of the mill Raven or bran Stark 3 eyed Raven - only 5 more days btw
Just a normal corvid with the usual amount of eyes
Which reminds me of one of my favorite quotes:
-Jack Handy4 -
your_future_ex_wife wrote: »What’s on my mind? Dude finally ate a banana
He no longer stores all his food on my cabinet
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I wonder why $18,522 dollars
ETA: That's only $12.86 an hour
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NotSo_LittleRichard wrote: »
I wonder why $18,522 dollars
ETA: That's only $12.86 an hour
If you only divide by the number of "work" hours, 40 hours a week for 8 weeks it's $57.88/hour.
But you're also confined to a bed for social things, so maybe not worth it.2 -
RomaineCalm wrote: »NotSo_LittleRichard wrote: »
I wonder why $18,522 dollars
ETA: That's only $12.86 an hour
If you only divide by the number of "work" hours, 40 hours a week for 8 weeks it's $57.88/hour.
But you're also confined to a bed for social things, so maybe not worth it.
Math checks out. Except you would be "working" 24 hrs a day. I'm not sure the atrophy of laying in bed 24 hrs a day for 60 days is worth it. Not to mention how many other side effects.0 -
NotSo_LittleRichard wrote: »RomaineCalm wrote: »NotSo_LittleRichard wrote: »
I wonder why $18,522 dollars
ETA: That's only $12.86 an hour
If you only divide by the number of "work" hours, 40 hours a week for 8 weeks it's $57.88/hour.
But you're also confined to a bed for social things, so maybe not worth it.
Math checks out. Except you would be "working" 24 hrs a day. I'm not sure the atrophy of laying in bed 24 hrs a day for 60 days is worth it. Not to mention how many other side effects.
I agree.0 -
I'd do itNotSo_LittleRichard wrote: »RomaineCalm wrote: »NotSo_LittleRichard wrote: »
I wonder why $18,522 dollars
ETA: That's only $12.86 an hour
If you only divide by the number of "work" hours, 40 hours a week for 8 weeks it's $57.88/hour.
But you're also confined to a bed for social things, so maybe not worth it.
Math checks out. Except you would be "working" 24 hrs a day. I'm not sure the atrophy of laying in bed 24 hrs a day for 60 days is worth it. Not to mention how many other side effects.
2 months in bed sounds like my dream vacay1 -
forsythia 😊
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isalsayourface123 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Completely forgot to brush my teeth this morning
Sigh
😂I hate when I do this...paranoid all day
Seriously tho, do you people not have a work and huge carry all bag that have a back up stash of a toothbrush and toothpaste?
Then I forget to restock the extra/emergency hygiene drawer.. i buy tortillas every time i go to the store but forget the necessities 🤨2 -
I'd do itNotSo_LittleRichard wrote: »RomaineCalm wrote: »NotSo_LittleRichard wrote: »
I wonder why $18,522 dollars
ETA: That's only $12.86 an hour
If you only divide by the number of "work" hours, 40 hours a week for 8 weeks it's $57.88/hour.
But you're also confined to a bed for social things, so maybe not worth it.
Math checks out. Except you would be "working" 24 hrs a day. I'm not sure the atrophy of laying in bed 24 hrs a day for 60 days is worth it. Not to mention how many other side effects.
2 months in bed sounds like my dream vacay
Its 100% not bad. I’m wondering what kind of ectomy i can have this year so i can spend the spring in bed again1 -
JustPassingTime wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Moon_Stone wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
For me, a silent partner makes me rage. Im not saying a person should stay for abuse, but kitten respond, answer, argue back or apologize as you see fit. Don’t just walk away. The only exception would be someone who communicates that he needs time/space instead of just wandering off.JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Try using radical honesty to a jealous insecure spouse and see what happens 🤣🤣🤣
i think the real solution is to just not carewhoever cares the least, wins
Not really for example i accidentally knocked my wife's Fitbit thingy off the charger while trying to my headphones. She flips out coz it didnt charge I just kept quiet then she said do you not care? I didn't answer she kept asking so I finally said it was an accident! She still kept on and then said do you just want me to just shuttup huh? I said yeah it was an accident. She laugh said sorry and left. So not caring leads to more yelling 🤣🤣🤣
well if we're being brutally honest- i think the right thing to do would've been just accept the yelling and then said nothing in response and just got up and left for a few hours without responding.
the trick to that is having somewhere to go and something to do for those hours
One thing I've learned is keeping quiet just makes it worse. We didn't argue it was more of a b**ch*ng on her side. But she got over it.
She's aries I'm Pisces water puts out fire lol
why do you think it bothers you so much? if someone was to react to you that way i mean
Mostly Because it’s dismissive of my valid thoughts and emotions.
Because it communicates that he doesn’t think we’re worth putting up a fight for.
Eta: and because the silent treatment is mean
i do wonder how you react to an argument in a relationship. i imagine it could be fascinating.
if anybody out there is reading, and considering making this a new thread discussion, make sure and ask "when's the last time you shouted at your significant other and what was it about"
i think the answers, or non-answers, to that question could tell us more about each other than nearly every other thread combined.
i agree with the bolded. That's the scary part. Does anyone really want anyone knowing who they truly are deep down?
I always welcome changes in my life I always like the adventure part of it. I always thought I can handle it really well. We moved a lot when I was a child so everything should be easy right? Well there's a major change in my life coming soon and I've been stressing about it a lot it feels like I'm falling apart inside. I don't know why I'm so scared perhaps maybe it's because for almost 2 decades I controlled most of the changes coming my and this one im helpless. I dunno *kitten* it I guess. I can front all I want to but I guess deep down I'm truly a chicken chit lol
I think it is natural to fear certain changes in life. I bet you will embrace the *kitten* out of it though. I love that you are laying it out there. Your fear is just your perception that the change will be negative. It may open up some amazing opportunities for you. There are lots of positive outcome possibilities too whether it come directly from the change or whether you decide to make it happen outside of the original change.
Thanks for the positive outlook on things. I think I was subtle enough to get some things out of my chest without putting out too much info on my personal struggles.
I hugged it.1 -
RomaineCalm wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Moon_Stone wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
For me, a silent partner makes me rage. Im not saying a person should stay for abuse, but kitten respond, answer, argue back or apologize as you see fit. Don’t just walk away. The only exception would be someone who communicates that he needs time/space instead of just wandering off.JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Try using radical honesty to a jealous insecure spouse and see what happens 🤣🤣🤣
i think the real solution is to just not carewhoever cares the least, wins
Not really for example i accidentally knocked my wife's Fitbit thingy off the charger while trying to my headphones. She flips out coz it didnt charge I just kept quiet then she said do you not care? I didn't answer she kept asking so I finally said it was an accident! She still kept on and then said do you just want me to just shuttup huh? I said yeah it was an accident. She laugh said sorry and left. So not caring leads to more yelling 🤣🤣🤣
well if we're being brutally honest- i think the right thing to do would've been just accept the yelling and then said nothing in response and just got up and left for a few hours without responding.
the trick to that is having somewhere to go and something to do for those hours
One thing I've learned is keeping quiet just makes it worse. We didn't argue it was more of a b**ch*ng on her side. But she got over it.
She's aries I'm Pisces water puts out fire lol
why do you think it bothers you so much? if someone was to react to you that way i mean
Mostly Because it’s dismissive of my valid thoughts and emotions.
Because it communicates that he doesn’t think we’re worth putting up a fight for.
Eta: and because the silent treatment is mean
i do wonder how you react to an argument in a relationship. i imagine it could be fascinating.
if anybody out there is reading, and considering making this a new thread discussion, make sure and ask "when's the last time you shouted at your significant other and what was it about"
i think the answers, or non-answers, to that question could tell us more about each other than nearly every other thread combined.
i agree with the bolded. That's the scary part. Does anyone really want anyone knowing who they truly are deep down?
I always welcome changes in my life I always like the adventure part of it. I always thought I can handle it really well. We moved a lot when I was a child so everything should be easy right? Well there's a major change in my life coming soon and I've been stressing about it a lot it feels like I'm falling apart inside. I don't know why I'm so scared perhaps maybe it's because for almost 2 decades I controlled most of the changes coming my and this one im helpless. I dunno *kitten* it I guess. I can front all I want to but I guess deep down I'm truly a chicken chit lol
I think it is natural to fear certain changes in life. I bet you will embrace the *kitten* out of it though. I love that you are laying it out there. Your fear is just your perception that the change will be negative. It may open up some amazing opportunities for you. There are lots of positive outcome possibilities too whether it come directly from the change or whether you decide to make it happen outside of the original change.
Thanks for the positive outlook on things. I think I was subtle enough to get some things out of my chest without putting out too much info on my personal struggles.
I hugged it.JustPassingTime wrote: »RomaineCalm wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Moon_Stone wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
For me, a silent partner makes me rage. Im not saying a person should stay for abuse, but kitten respond, answer, argue back or apologize as you see fit. Don’t just walk away. The only exception would be someone who communicates that he needs time/space instead of just wandering off.JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Try using radical honesty to a jealous insecure spouse and see what happens 🤣🤣🤣
i think the real solution is to just not carewhoever cares the least, wins
Not really for example i accidentally knocked my wife's Fitbit thingy off the charger while trying to my headphones. She flips out coz it didnt charge I just kept quiet then she said do you not care? I didn't answer she kept asking so I finally said it was an accident! She still kept on and then said do you just want me to just shuttup huh? I said yeah it was an accident. She laugh said sorry and left. So not caring leads to more yelling 🤣🤣🤣
well if we're being brutally honest- i think the right thing to do would've been just accept the yelling and then said nothing in response and just got up and left for a few hours without responding.
the trick to that is having somewhere to go and something to do for those hours
One thing I've learned is keeping quiet just makes it worse. We didn't argue it was more of a b**ch*ng on her side. But she got over it.
She's aries I'm Pisces water puts out fire lol
why do you think it bothers you so much? if someone was to react to you that way i mean
Mostly Because it’s dismissive of my valid thoughts and emotions.
Because it communicates that he doesn’t think we’re worth putting up a fight for.
Eta: and because the silent treatment is mean
i do wonder how you react to an argument in a relationship. i imagine it could be fascinating.
if anybody out there is reading, and considering making this a new thread discussion, make sure and ask "when's the last time you shouted at your significant other and what was it about"
i think the answers, or non-answers, to that question could tell us more about each other than nearly every other thread combined.
i agree with the bolded. That's the scary part. Does anyone really want anyone knowing who they truly are deep down?
I always welcome changes in my life I always like the adventure part of it. I always thought I can handle it really well. We moved a lot when I was a child so everything should be easy right? Well there's a major change in my life coming soon and I've been stressing about it a lot it feels like I'm falling apart inside. I don't know why I'm so scared perhaps maybe it's because for almost 2 decades I controlled most of the changes coming my and this one im helpless. I dunno *kitten* it I guess. I can front all I want to but I guess deep down I'm truly a chicken chit lol
I think it is natural to fear certain changes in life. I bet you will embrace the *kitten* out of it though. I love that you are laying it out there. Your fear is just your perception that the change will be negative. It may open up some amazing opportunities for you. There are lots of positive outcome possibilities too whether it come directly from the change or whether you decide to make it happen outside of the original change.
Thanks for the positive outlook on things. I think I was subtle enough to get some things out of my chest without putting out too much info on my personal struggles.
I hugged it.
I felt it
I wondered why the earth tipped3 -
JustPassingTime wrote: »RomaineCalm wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Moon_Stone wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
For me, a silent partner makes me rage. Im not saying a person should stay for abuse, but kitten respond, answer, argue back or apologize as you see fit. Don’t just walk away. The only exception would be someone who communicates that he needs time/space instead of just wandering off.JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Try using radical honesty to a jealous insecure spouse and see what happens 🤣🤣🤣
i think the real solution is to just not carewhoever cares the least, wins
Not really for example i accidentally knocked my wife's Fitbit thingy off the charger while trying to my headphones. She flips out coz it didnt charge I just kept quiet then she said do you not care? I didn't answer she kept asking so I finally said it was an accident! She still kept on and then said do you just want me to just shuttup huh? I said yeah it was an accident. She laugh said sorry and left. So not caring leads to more yelling 🤣🤣🤣
well if we're being brutally honest- i think the right thing to do would've been just accept the yelling and then said nothing in response and just got up and left for a few hours without responding.
the trick to that is having somewhere to go and something to do for those hours
One thing I've learned is keeping quiet just makes it worse. We didn't argue it was more of a b**ch*ng on her side. But she got over it.
She's aries I'm Pisces water puts out fire lol
why do you think it bothers you so much? if someone was to react to you that way i mean
Mostly Because it’s dismissive of my valid thoughts and emotions.
Because it communicates that he doesn’t think we’re worth putting up a fight for.
Eta: and because the silent treatment is mean
i do wonder how you react to an argument in a relationship. i imagine it could be fascinating.
if anybody out there is reading, and considering making this a new thread discussion, make sure and ask "when's the last time you shouted at your significant other and what was it about"
i think the answers, or non-answers, to that question could tell us more about each other than nearly every other thread combined.
i agree with the bolded. That's the scary part. Does anyone really want anyone knowing who they truly are deep down?
I always welcome changes in my life I always like the adventure part of it. I always thought I can handle it really well. We moved a lot when I was a child so everything should be easy right? Well there's a major change in my life coming soon and I've been stressing about it a lot it feels like I'm falling apart inside. I don't know why I'm so scared perhaps maybe it's because for almost 2 decades I controlled most of the changes coming my and this one im helpless. I dunno *kitten* it I guess. I can front all I want to but I guess deep down I'm truly a chicken chit lol
I think it is natural to fear certain changes in life. I bet you will embrace the *kitten* out of it though. I love that you are laying it out there. Your fear is just your perception that the change will be negative. It may open up some amazing opportunities for you. There are lots of positive outcome possibilities too whether it come directly from the change or whether you decide to make it happen outside of the original change.
Thanks for the positive outlook on things. I think I was subtle enough to get some things out of my chest without putting out too much info on my personal struggles.
I hugged it.JustPassingTime wrote: »RomaineCalm wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Moon_Stone wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
For me, a silent partner makes me rage. Im not saying a person should stay for abuse, but kitten respond, answer, argue back or apologize as you see fit. Don’t just walk away. The only exception would be someone who communicates that he needs time/space instead of just wandering off.JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Try using radical honesty to a jealous insecure spouse and see what happens 🤣🤣🤣
i think the real solution is to just not carewhoever cares the least, wins
Not really for example i accidentally knocked my wife's Fitbit thingy off the charger while trying to my headphones. She flips out coz it didnt charge I just kept quiet then she said do you not care? I didn't answer she kept asking so I finally said it was an accident! She still kept on and then said do you just want me to just shuttup huh? I said yeah it was an accident. She laugh said sorry and left. So not caring leads to more yelling 🤣🤣🤣
well if we're being brutally honest- i think the right thing to do would've been just accept the yelling and then said nothing in response and just got up and left for a few hours without responding.
the trick to that is having somewhere to go and something to do for those hours
One thing I've learned is keeping quiet just makes it worse. We didn't argue it was more of a b**ch*ng on her side. But she got over it.
She's aries I'm Pisces water puts out fire lol
why do you think it bothers you so much? if someone was to react to you that way i mean
Mostly Because it’s dismissive of my valid thoughts and emotions.
Because it communicates that he doesn’t think we’re worth putting up a fight for.
Eta: and because the silent treatment is mean
i do wonder how you react to an argument in a relationship. i imagine it could be fascinating.
if anybody out there is reading, and considering making this a new thread discussion, make sure and ask "when's the last time you shouted at your significant other and what was it about"
i think the answers, or non-answers, to that question could tell us more about each other than nearly every other thread combined.
i agree with the bolded. That's the scary part. Does anyone really want anyone knowing who they truly are deep down?
I always welcome changes in my life I always like the adventure part of it. I always thought I can handle it really well. We moved a lot when I was a child so everything should be easy right? Well there's a major change in my life coming soon and I've been stressing about it a lot it feels like I'm falling apart inside. I don't know why I'm so scared perhaps maybe it's because for almost 2 decades I controlled most of the changes coming my and this one im helpless. I dunno *kitten* it I guess. I can front all I want to but I guess deep down I'm truly a chicken chit lol
I think it is natural to fear certain changes in life. I bet you will embrace the *kitten* out of it though. I love that you are laying it out there. Your fear is just your perception that the change will be negative. It may open up some amazing opportunities for you. There are lots of positive outcome possibilities too whether it come directly from the change or whether you decide to make it happen outside of the original change.
Thanks for the positive outlook on things. I think I was subtle enough to get some things out of my chest without putting out too much info on my personal struggles.
I hugged it.
I felt it
I wondered why the earth tipped
I don't get it?
Because cataclysmic axial pole shift analysis obviously 🤦🏼♀️2 -
JustPassingTime wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »RomaineCalm wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Moon_Stone wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
For me, a silent partner makes me rage. Im not saying a person should stay for abuse, but kitten respond, answer, argue back or apologize as you see fit. Don’t just walk away. The only exception would be someone who communicates that he needs time/space instead of just wandering off.JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Try using radical honesty to a jealous insecure spouse and see what happens 🤣🤣🤣
i think the real solution is to just not carewhoever cares the least, wins
Not really for example i accidentally knocked my wife's Fitbit thingy off the charger while trying to my headphones. She flips out coz it didnt charge I just kept quiet then she said do you not care? I didn't answer she kept asking so I finally said it was an accident! She still kept on and then said do you just want me to just shuttup huh? I said yeah it was an accident. She laugh said sorry and left. So not caring leads to more yelling 🤣🤣🤣
well if we're being brutally honest- i think the right thing to do would've been just accept the yelling and then said nothing in response and just got up and left for a few hours without responding.
the trick to that is having somewhere to go and something to do for those hours
One thing I've learned is keeping quiet just makes it worse. We didn't argue it was more of a b**ch*ng on her side. But she got over it.
She's aries I'm Pisces water puts out fire lol
why do you think it bothers you so much? if someone was to react to you that way i mean
Mostly Because it’s dismissive of my valid thoughts and emotions.
Because it communicates that he doesn’t think we’re worth putting up a fight for.
Eta: and because the silent treatment is mean
i do wonder how you react to an argument in a relationship. i imagine it could be fascinating.
if anybody out there is reading, and considering making this a new thread discussion, make sure and ask "when's the last time you shouted at your significant other and what was it about"
i think the answers, or non-answers, to that question could tell us more about each other than nearly every other thread combined.
i agree with the bolded. That's the scary part. Does anyone really want anyone knowing who they truly are deep down?
I always welcome changes in my life I always like the adventure part of it. I always thought I can handle it really well. We moved a lot when I was a child so everything should be easy right? Well there's a major change in my life coming soon and I've been stressing about it a lot it feels like I'm falling apart inside. I don't know why I'm so scared perhaps maybe it's because for almost 2 decades I controlled most of the changes coming my and this one im helpless. I dunno *kitten* it I guess. I can front all I want to but I guess deep down I'm truly a chicken chit lol
I think it is natural to fear certain changes in life. I bet you will embrace the *kitten* out of it though. I love that you are laying it out there. Your fear is just your perception that the change will be negative. It may open up some amazing opportunities for you. There are lots of positive outcome possibilities too whether it come directly from the change or whether you decide to make it happen outside of the original change.
Thanks for the positive outlook on things. I think I was subtle enough to get some things out of my chest without putting out too much info on my personal struggles.
I hugged it.JustPassingTime wrote: »RomaineCalm wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Moon_Stone wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
For me, a silent partner makes me rage. Im not saying a person should stay for abuse, but kitten respond, answer, argue back or apologize as you see fit. Don’t just walk away. The only exception would be someone who communicates that he needs time/space instead of just wandering off.JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Try using radical honesty to a jealous insecure spouse and see what happens 🤣🤣🤣
i think the real solution is to just not carewhoever cares the least, wins
Not really for example i accidentally knocked my wife's Fitbit thingy off the charger while trying to my headphones. She flips out coz it didnt charge I just kept quiet then she said do you not care? I didn't answer she kept asking so I finally said it was an accident! She still kept on and then said do you just want me to just shuttup huh? I said yeah it was an accident. She laugh said sorry and left. So not caring leads to more yelling 🤣🤣🤣
well if we're being brutally honest- i think the right thing to do would've been just accept the yelling and then said nothing in response and just got up and left for a few hours without responding.
the trick to that is having somewhere to go and something to do for those hours
One thing I've learned is keeping quiet just makes it worse. We didn't argue it was more of a b**ch*ng on her side. But she got over it.
She's aries I'm Pisces water puts out fire lol
why do you think it bothers you so much? if someone was to react to you that way i mean
Mostly Because it’s dismissive of my valid thoughts and emotions.
Because it communicates that he doesn’t think we’re worth putting up a fight for.
Eta: and because the silent treatment is mean
i do wonder how you react to an argument in a relationship. i imagine it could be fascinating.
if anybody out there is reading, and considering making this a new thread discussion, make sure and ask "when's the last time you shouted at your significant other and what was it about"
i think the answers, or non-answers, to that question could tell us more about each other than nearly every other thread combined.
i agree with the bolded. That's the scary part. Does anyone really want anyone knowing who they truly are deep down?
I always welcome changes in my life I always like the adventure part of it. I always thought I can handle it really well. We moved a lot when I was a child so everything should be easy right? Well there's a major change in my life coming soon and I've been stressing about it a lot it feels like I'm falling apart inside. I don't know why I'm so scared perhaps maybe it's because for almost 2 decades I controlled most of the changes coming my and this one im helpless. I dunno *kitten* it I guess. I can front all I want to but I guess deep down I'm truly a chicken chit lol
I think it is natural to fear certain changes in life. I bet you will embrace the *kitten* out of it though. I love that you are laying it out there. Your fear is just your perception that the change will be negative. It may open up some amazing opportunities for you. There are lots of positive outcome possibilities too whether it come directly from the change or whether you decide to make it happen outside of the original change.
Thanks for the positive outlook on things. I think I was subtle enough to get some things out of my chest without putting out too much info on my personal struggles.
I hugged it.
I felt it
I wondered why the earth tipped
I don't get it?
Because cataclysmic axial pole shift analysis obviously 🤦🏼♀️
Hank! Hank! Haaaaank! Really? I don't wanna Google anything right now
How can you not know about it already? I’m embarrassed for your mother1 -
JustPassingTime wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »RomaineCalm wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Moon_Stone wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
For me, a silent partner makes me rage. Im not saying a person should stay for abuse, but kitten respond, answer, argue back or apologize as you see fit. Don’t just walk away. The only exception would be someone who communicates that he needs time/space instead of just wandering off.JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Try using radical honesty to a jealous insecure spouse and see what happens 🤣🤣🤣
i think the real solution is to just not carewhoever cares the least, wins
Not really for example i accidentally knocked my wife's Fitbit thingy off the charger while trying to my headphones. She flips out coz it didnt charge I just kept quiet then she said do you not care? I didn't answer she kept asking so I finally said it was an accident! She still kept on and then said do you just want me to just shuttup huh? I said yeah it was an accident. She laugh said sorry and left. So not caring leads to more yelling 🤣🤣🤣
well if we're being brutally honest- i think the right thing to do would've been just accept the yelling and then said nothing in response and just got up and left for a few hours without responding.
the trick to that is having somewhere to go and something to do for those hours
One thing I've learned is keeping quiet just makes it worse. We didn't argue it was more of a b**ch*ng on her side. But she got over it.
She's aries I'm Pisces water puts out fire lol
why do you think it bothers you so much? if someone was to react to you that way i mean
Mostly Because it’s dismissive of my valid thoughts and emotions.
Because it communicates that he doesn’t think we’re worth putting up a fight for.
Eta: and because the silent treatment is mean
i do wonder how you react to an argument in a relationship. i imagine it could be fascinating.
if anybody out there is reading, and considering making this a new thread discussion, make sure and ask "when's the last time you shouted at your significant other and what was it about"
i think the answers, or non-answers, to that question could tell us more about each other than nearly every other thread combined.
i agree with the bolded. That's the scary part. Does anyone really want anyone knowing who they truly are deep down?
I always welcome changes in my life I always like the adventure part of it. I always thought I can handle it really well. We moved a lot when I was a child so everything should be easy right? Well there's a major change in my life coming soon and I've been stressing about it a lot it feels like I'm falling apart inside. I don't know why I'm so scared perhaps maybe it's because for almost 2 decades I controlled most of the changes coming my and this one im helpless. I dunno *kitten* it I guess. I can front all I want to but I guess deep down I'm truly a chicken chit lol
I think it is natural to fear certain changes in life. I bet you will embrace the *kitten* out of it though. I love that you are laying it out there. Your fear is just your perception that the change will be negative. It may open up some amazing opportunities for you. There are lots of positive outcome possibilities too whether it come directly from the change or whether you decide to make it happen outside of the original change.
Thanks for the positive outlook on things. I think I was subtle enough to get some things out of my chest without putting out too much info on my personal struggles.
I hugged it.JustPassingTime wrote: »RomaineCalm wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Moon_Stone wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
For me, a silent partner makes me rage. Im not saying a person should stay for abuse, but kitten respond, answer, argue back or apologize as you see fit. Don’t just walk away. The only exception would be someone who communicates that he needs time/space instead of just wandering off.JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Try using radical honesty to a jealous insecure spouse and see what happens 🤣🤣🤣
i think the real solution is to just not carewhoever cares the least, wins
Not really for example i accidentally knocked my wife's Fitbit thingy off the charger while trying to my headphones. She flips out coz it didnt charge I just kept quiet then she said do you not care? I didn't answer she kept asking so I finally said it was an accident! She still kept on and then said do you just want me to just shuttup huh? I said yeah it was an accident. She laugh said sorry and left. So not caring leads to more yelling 🤣🤣🤣
well if we're being brutally honest- i think the right thing to do would've been just accept the yelling and then said nothing in response and just got up and left for a few hours without responding.
the trick to that is having somewhere to go and something to do for those hours
One thing I've learned is keeping quiet just makes it worse. We didn't argue it was more of a b**ch*ng on her side. But she got over it.
She's aries I'm Pisces water puts out fire lol
why do you think it bothers you so much? if someone was to react to you that way i mean
Mostly Because it’s dismissive of my valid thoughts and emotions.
Because it communicates that he doesn’t think we’re worth putting up a fight for.
Eta: and because the silent treatment is mean
i do wonder how you react to an argument in a relationship. i imagine it could be fascinating.
if anybody out there is reading, and considering making this a new thread discussion, make sure and ask "when's the last time you shouted at your significant other and what was it about"
i think the answers, or non-answers, to that question could tell us more about each other than nearly every other thread combined.
i agree with the bolded. That's the scary part. Does anyone really want anyone knowing who they truly are deep down?
I always welcome changes in my life I always like the adventure part of it. I always thought I can handle it really well. We moved a lot when I was a child so everything should be easy right? Well there's a major change in my life coming soon and I've been stressing about it a lot it feels like I'm falling apart inside. I don't know why I'm so scared perhaps maybe it's because for almost 2 decades I controlled most of the changes coming my and this one im helpless. I dunno *kitten* it I guess. I can front all I want to but I guess deep down I'm truly a chicken chit lol
I think it is natural to fear certain changes in life. I bet you will embrace the *kitten* out of it though. I love that you are laying it out there. Your fear is just your perception that the change will be negative. It may open up some amazing opportunities for you. There are lots of positive outcome possibilities too whether it come directly from the change or whether you decide to make it happen outside of the original change.
Thanks for the positive outlook on things. I think I was subtle enough to get some things out of my chest without putting out too much info on my personal struggles.
I hugged it.
I felt it
I wondered why the earth tipped
I don't get it?
Because cataclysmic axial pole shift analysis obviously 🤦🏼♀️
Hank! Hank! Haaaaank! Really? I don't wanna Google anything right now
How can you not know about it already? I’m embarrassed for your mother
Is that like global warming?
Hahahaha! Oh my gosh your ignorance is adorable 😂 now will someone please google it and explain it to us 🤔1
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