Things you don't get about your gender
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That toughness can be bought. A Harley, leather chaps, tattoos, a hummer, and talking loudly doesn't make you tough. It makes you a douche. Now get back to work at the office, poser.0
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Women who treat their husbands or significant others like children. My husband has several friend's who "aren't allowed" (their words, not mine) to play video games/go to fight nights etc.
He made a friend through work and we went out with the friend and his wife a few times, but she was so controlling of him that we couldn't stand hanging out with them. Especially since she seemed to think that I should be ordering my husband around like she was hers.
That was a fairly extreme example, but I see lesser examples of the same attitude all the time. I married a grown man who can think and make decisions for himself. I expect him to treat me s a equal and respect my opinions, I owe him the same.0 -
I keep coming across this one and it bugs the heck out of me: Suddenly changing your views/hobbies/interests to that of your SO. I get that people want to get along with said SO but turning 180 in order to match them- creepy. Get a backbone, disagree SOMETHING.0
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We should be sticking together, and ruling all. Instead, we hate each other for the same stupid reasons. Only making men look better. Sad.0
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That toughness can be bought. A Harley, leather chaps, tattoos, a hummer, and talking loudly doesn't make you tough. It makes you a douche. Now get back to work at the office, poser.
dont know who that was geared toward, but that sounds like something someone said hit a nerve about being a real man?
guess you dont like your housewife duties currently, no?0 -
Then act angry, and surprised when he gets it somewhere else. Sex is a need, just like affection, food or sleep.along the same lines, using sex as a weapon. If he's not getting any, neither am I... and how is that any good?
Most women don't understand this because sex is not a "need" for most women in the same way that it is for men, just like women need to express their emotions, while men are taught practically from the womb that showing your emotions is a bad thing.
But I agree, somewhat, on the cheating thing. I don't think the wife withholding sex makes it okay for the husband to cheat, but I do view withholding sex as a form of betrayal. And no, I don't mean a wife should give it up every single time the husband wants it, even when she's sick, exhausted, etc. I just mean that I know some women who stopped having sex with their husbands the minute they were done having children, and I think that is just a different kind of infidelity.0 -
We should be sticking together, and ruling all. Instead, we hate each other for the same stupid reasons. Only making men look better. Sad.
sad. but so true. girls are sooo mean! and all it proves is that most of us are b'''''s and then the nice ones get a bad rap0 -
why I went on holiday on my own a couple of years ago.
I cant understand this one, but then maybe its because i haven't been able to keep mine home long enough to get annoyed with him or spend quality time together.0 -
We should be sticking together, and ruling all. Instead, we hate each other for the same stupid reasons. Only making men look better. Sad.
I'm not sure they look better. They're having weenie contests and looking eachother in the eye while doing so.0 -
That toughness can be bought. A Harley, leather chaps, tattoos, a hummer, and talking loudly doesn't make you tough. It makes you a douche. Now get back to work at the office, poser.
dont know who that was geared toward, but that sounds like something someone said hit a nerve about being a real man?
guess you dont like your housewife duties currently, no?
Oh, I've had several older people mention that in a negative light. It's hilarious. If I want to take care of kids and drive around in a minivan wearing a pink dress, it doesn't erase what I've done in life. But I was more poking at the general attitude of AMerican men that buy into that macho BS.0 -
Women who treat their husbands or significant others like children. My husband has several friend's who "aren't allowed" (their words, not mine) to play video games/go to fight nights etc.
He made a friend through work and we went out with the friend and his wife a few times, but she was so controlling of him that we couldn't stand hanging out with them. Especially since she seemed to think that I should be ordering my husband around like she was hers.
That was a fairly extreme example, but I see lesser examples of the same attitude all the time. I married a grown man who can think and make decisions for himself. I expect him to treat me s a equal and respect my opinions, I owe him the same.
Totally agree with you, and I would include in that kind of behavior telling your husband that he's not allowed to look at other women (staring is one thing, looking is human nature), not allowed to go places where there may be attractive women, etc. I would say that I pity men who are stuck with women like that, but I don't; if they had any balls at all, they'd straighten the situation out. But some men seem to be deathly afraid of their wives. Doesn't make sense to me. I would not want to be married to a man who allowed me to lead him around by the nose like that.0 -
That toughness can be bought. A Harley, leather chaps, tattoos, a hummer, and talking loudly doesn't make you tough. It makes you a douche. Now get back to work at the office, poser.
dont know who that was geared toward, but that sounds like something someone said hit a nerve about being a real man?
guess you dont like your housewife duties currently, no?
Oh, I've had several older people mention that in a negative light. It's hilarious. If I want to take care of kids and drive around in a minivan wearing a pink dress, it doesn't erase what I've done in life. But I was more poking at the general attitude of AMerican men that buy into that macho BS.
we're young and full of cum... :P
unfortunately my balls sometimes outreason my brain0 -
i don't get why women get those fuzzy, slightly out of focus modelling photos taken. i mean, i know why they do it (to feel good and stuff) but i don't get why they buy the giant 64 inch canvas and then put it on their lounge wall. seems kind of wierd to me that you'd want to sit there and look at your own giant fuzzy head all day.
i hate the jealous women thing- let your hubby go to a strip club and look at naked ladies jumping up on a pole! he sure as *kitten* isn't going to see that at home. let him watch porn if it makes him happy- why do you care so much?
and i hate shopping. HATE it. never understood how it can make some women so happy. and high heeled shoes- how can they be comfortable? or thongs? they go up your crack! how can that be a good thing?0 -
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we're young and full of cum... :P
unfortunately my balls sometimes outreason my brain
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LMAO. that's probably the best thing i've read all day. So completely true for most guys i know. thanks for admitting it0 -
I've not seen this. Are they swinging their own, each others, or from each others?
Spoken like a true Beta male haha just kidding....... I'm refering to the guys that have to be right about everything sports,politics,religion or anything else being talked about in their presence.
LOL oh that would be all the red neck, white trash, pseudo logical, misanthropic chest thumping that goes on whenever we throw a party for the crew that includes alcohol . Amusing but not threatening as my name is on their paychecks. Alpha is as alpha does.0 -
That toughness can be bought. A Harley, leather chaps, tattoos, a hummer, and talking loudly doesn't make you tough. It makes you a douche. Now get back to work at the office, poser.
dont know who that was geared toward, but that sounds like something someone said hit a nerve about being a real man?
guess you dont like your housewife duties currently, no?
Oh, I've had several older people mention that in a negative light. It's hilarious. If I want to take care of kids and drive around in a minivan wearing a pink dress, it doesn't erase what I've done in life. But I was more poking at the general attitude of AMerican men that buy into that macho BS.
we're young and full of cum... :P
unfortunately my balls sometimes outreason my brain
Actually, it's often not the young guys who are the worst offenders. As you get older, you start to realize that all the dudes who are the loudest are often the most chicken. They feel bad about all the crap they chickened out of when they were younger and now feel the psychological need to make everyone think they are tough guys. Case in point, Rush Limbaugh and Bill O'Reilly. Loud as hell, huge supporters of the military and american warfare. Also each dodged the draft with multiple deferments.0 -
I've not seen this. Are they swinging their own, each others, or from each others?
Spoken like a true Beta male haha just kidding....... I'm refering to the guys that have to be right about everything sports,politics,religion or anything else being talked about in their presence.
LOL oh that would be all the red neck, white trash, pseudo logical, misanthropic chest thumping that goes on whenever we throw a party for the crew that includes alcohol . Amusing but not threatening as my name is on their paychecks. Alpha is as alpha does.
interesting article i read the other day, btw.
http://ca.news.yahoo.com/nice-guys-finish-second-women-finish-last-155202883.html
alphas, typically out-represent other males in wallstreet and most high-earning positions. not to mention positions of power -
i dont think we disagree here0 -
That toughness can be bought. A Harley, leather chaps, tattoos, a hummer, and talking loudly doesn't make you tough. It makes you a douche. Now get back to work at the office, poser.
dont know who that was geared toward, but that sounds like something someone said hit a nerve about being a real man?
guess you dont like your housewife duties currently, no?
Oh, I've had several older people mention that in a negative light. It's hilarious. If I want to take care of kids and drive around in a minivan wearing a pink dress, it doesn't erase what I've done in life. But I was more poking at the general attitude of AMerican men that buy into that macho BS.
we're young and full of cum... :P
unfortunately my balls sometimes outreason my brain
Called thinking with the little head instead of the big one.0 -
Interesting. I was talking to a friend of mine the other day. Ben. Big guy. 6' 7". About 350. The subject of the "Alpha Male" came up.
Ben: "Not sure I'm following you."
Me: "You know when two groups of guys are approaching each other?"
Ben: "Yeah."
Me: "There's always one guy in one group that will acknowledge one guy in the other group. Head nod. Something."
Ben: "Yeah?"
Me: "Those are the Alpha Males from each group."
Ben: "Yeah?"
Me: "There's always one guy in every group that is the Alpha Male."
Ben: "I never noticed that."
Me: "Exactly."0 -
Interesting. I was talking to a friend of mine the other day. Ben. Big guy. 6' 7". About 350. The subject of the "Alpha Male" came up.
Ben: "Not sure I'm following you."
Me: "You know when two groups of guys are approaching each other?"
Ben: "Yeah."
Me: "There's always one guy in one group that will acknowledge one guy in the other group. Head nod. Something."
Ben: "Yeah?"
Me: "Those are the Alpha Males from each group."
Ben: "Yeah?"
Me: "There's always one guy in every group that is the Alpha Male."
Ben: "I never noticed that."
Me: "Exactly."
i agree. size has nothing to do with it - in fact throughout history, some of the smallest guys have had the biggest balls - look at napoleon.
its called the little man complex
or in psychobabble, 'inferiority complex'0 -
I don't understand why some girls pretend to be dumb because they think it's cute. >:(
Or shaving off your eyebrows just to pencil them back on
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I don't get why we think its funny to put sewing needles in tampons when we go over to other people's houses.
whoa, wtf?!0 -
This!!!Or shaving off your eyebrows just to pencil them back on0 -
along the same lines, using sex as a weapon. If he's not getting any, neither am I... and how is that any good?
I never got that either. Why punish me too?0 -
I would have to say the way some girls think men "should" support them with money! (Only knowing him 3 weeks)0
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Why they don't understand that it's not nice guys that finish last...but weak men.0
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women who make someone else responsible for their happiness. That is too much pressure for someone to have to live up to. I take responsibility for my happiness, it is not someone else's job!
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-Women who take duck face pictures. Just fyi, you look s-t-u-p-i-d, not cute, but stupid and like you have some mental issues.
Duck face pic= LMAO at work, It took a while till I got duck face... I have a friend that does this-I think understand. Just smile it looks natural0 -
Women who call themselves "friends", but won't do anything to inconvenience THEMSELVES. You always have to go see THEM, invite THEM out to lunch, call THEM, text THEM.......... one way street.
Oh my EX BFF is like this BUT she would call me at work 15 times a days to see what I was doing?0 -
I don't get why we think its funny to put sewing needles in tampons when we go over to other people's houses.
WHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAT? Worrrrrying!!!!!!0
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