Anybody know how to find love?

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  • Cutemesoon
    Cutemesoon Posts: 2,646 Member
    1sphere wrote: »
    Cutemesoon wrote: »
    LisaHeb1979 wrote: »
    Quit looking, it'll find you.
    But will it tho???
    It depends on what we do I think - how we approach life. If we just stay inside all the time, then no. If we treat ourselves like *kitten* and laze around 100% of the time, then of course no.

    One could do all of the quintessential "trying to find a mate" things and STILL not find love.
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  • The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_
    The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ Posts: 2,069 Member
    Not here
  • lins_w
    lins_w Posts: 3 Member
    I do not believe you are supposed to find love- otherwise it feels forced. You will have a beautiful connection with the person you are with. It’s also important to remember that true love is a verb- an action word. It’s not a feeling.
  • Cutemesoon
    Cutemesoon Posts: 2,646 Member
    denny_mac wrote: »
    MY question is:
    Once we do find it, what are we gonna do with it?

    Heavy D & I have that SAME question!

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNEgUPKxk7A
  • StormToday
    StormToday Posts: 46 Member
    We all know the key to love is f___ and a w_____ lot of it with even m_____ f____ to go with the o________ f___. Simply go to your local g________ s______ and pick up said f____ and then c______ i_. The s_____ of this d_______ f______ will attract a favorable mate.


    Hope that wasn't difficult to understand. ❤️
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    Craigslist still around?
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  • BigDougie1211
    BigDougie1211 Posts: 3,531 Member
    StormToday wrote: »
    We all know the key to love is f___ and a w_____ lot of it with even m_____ f____ to go with the o________ f___. Simply go to your local g________ s______ and pick up said f____ and then c______ i_. The s_____ of this d_______ f______ will attract a favorable mate.


    Hope that wasn't difficult to understand. ❤️

    Can confirm
  • Sunshine_And_Sand
    Sunshine_And_Sand Posts: 1,320 Member
    I'd say it's mostly about luck and timing. For some more than others, patience is a big factor.
    Some get lucky, find it early on, and never look back. Some have to wait a bit longer. Either way, it's not really something you can rush with good results.
    Good luck!
  • AlyssaP1987
    AlyssaP1987 Posts: 268 Member
    Stop looking!
  • lx1x
    lx1x Posts: 38,330 Member
    It's on isle 3.. next to happy bday cards
  • Cutemesoon
    Cutemesoon Posts: 2,646 Member
    Bump cuz i'm still interested in the answer to this question.
  • ghudson92
    ghudson92 Posts: 2,061 Member
    If you want someone to love you unconditionally just get a dog.
  • somejaykid
    somejaykid Posts: 52 Member
    ghudson92 wrote: »
    If you want someone to love you unconditionally just get a dog.

    sad but true
  • _Miss_chievous_
    _Miss_chievous_ Posts: 2,765 Member
    You find it when you're not looking.
  • Soccermavrick
    Soccermavrick Posts: 405 Member
    You have to love yourself first. Find out who you are, and what you love. From there love will come. If you are happy, and truly love yourself, the right person will see that, and want that. Until you love yourself, you are not able to really love someone else on the level that you really need to. Until you have found that, anything else is forced. And forced is why the divorce rate in this country is as high as it is, people either were not ready, did not truly love themselves therefore not ready to love someone else, or they were forcing the idea so hard they settled, and in the end it did not work.
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    onlyfans is a good start
  • LyndaBSS
    LyndaBSS Posts: 6,964 Member
    edited October 2019
    Love will find you only if you are open to it.

    Have an open heart and mind. Know what you bring to the table and what you really need from someone else.

    Don't have a laundry list of deal breakers. You know what I mean. She's got to have DD's. He's got to drive a vintage Mustang. Don't be those people.

    Don't focus on what you want, be open to what you need. Don't go for your typical type. Be open, vulnerable and your authentic self. 💙
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  • isalsayourface123
    isalsayourface123 Posts: 2,153 Member
    pizzamyheart wrote: »
    Just make up an Internet boyfriend or girlfriend. It will impress your friends and you can send yourself sexy texts and flowers.

    This is perfect! What do I do for Thanksgiving when my family wants to meet him???
  • pizzamyheart
    pizzamyheart Posts: 1,836 Member
    isalsayourface123 wrote: »
    pizzamyheart wrote: »
    Just make up an Internet boyfriend or girlfriend. It will impress your friends and you can send yourself sexy texts and flowers.

    This is perfect! What do I do for Thanksgiving when my family wants to meet him???

    He is coming! But when you show up alone on thanksgiving you say, "Its a bummer but he was suddenly called in to work" .
  • isalsayourface123
    isalsayourface123 Posts: 2,153 Member
    pizzamyheart wrote: »
    isalsayourface123 wrote: »
    pizzamyheart wrote: »
    Just make up an Internet boyfriend or girlfriend. It will impress your friends and you can send yourself sexy texts and flowers.

    This is perfect! What do I do for Thanksgiving when my family wants to meet him???

    He is coming! But when you show up alone on thanksgiving you say, "Its a bummer but he was suddenly called in to work" .

    Ohhhh. And then "he" sends a cooked Turkey to apologize for his absence?
  • nighthawk584
    nighthawk584 Posts: 2,023 Member
    geraldaltman wrote: »
    True love has eluded me for much of my adult life. I pretty much don't bother trying to find it anymore. It's just not worth the constant let-downs.

    same. I love myself and that is all that matters to me anymore.
  • Cutemesoon
    Cutemesoon Posts: 2,646 Member
    geraldaltman wrote: »
    True love has eluded me for much of my adult life. I pretty much don't bother trying to find it anymore. It's just not worth the constant let-downs.


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  • Cricketmad88
    Cricketmad88 Posts: 415 Member
    My advice is to just be you and don’t be afraid of rejection. Making the first move is better than no1 making a move at all.
  • km8907
    km8907 Posts: 3,861 Member
    pizzamyheart wrote: »
    Just make up an Internet boyfriend or girlfriend. It will impress your friends and you can send yourself sexy texts and flowers.

    You're a psychic 👳‍♀️

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