Sensitive topic, mostly for the guys to answer but the ladies can also answer

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  • kshama2001
    kshama2001 Posts: 27,898 Member
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    contir wrote: »
    Finally a topic on this board that's not idiotic! Thanks for bringing this up (no pun intended.) Great discussion. I wish there were more topics like this and fewer of the silly stupid stuff.

    If you find topics in particular forums to be idiotic (cough chit chat cough) you can hide them so you don't see that forum. If you want directions for that, let us know if you browse on your phone or on a computer.
  • OAS5
    OAS5 Posts: 374 Member
    edited December 2019
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    On a comical sense it is nice to be able to see it without a mirror. 🤣 This is the best side effect that I didn't even think of when I started to lose weight. It just didn't enter my mind or thought process because I was focused on other things related to losing weight like fitting into nice clothes again and not looking grossly overweight. My wife is definitely happy as well. Let's just say she wants it much more as well now. That is not a slight to me at all, I don't blame her at all. It was once a week, and not good quality. Now it's 3-4 a week and much better quality, longer lasting. Nice to hear afterward, well that lasted a long time. 🥴
  • bbongard961
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    OAS5 wrote: »
    Excellent info guys, appreciate it. I'm just glad I lost weight for a whole host of reasons, this just being one.

  • Mazintrov13
    Mazintrov13 Posts: 133 Member
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    kshama2001 wrote: »
    contir wrote: »
    Finally a topic on this board that's not idiotic! Thanks for bringing this up (no pun intended.) Great discussion. I wish there were more topics like this and fewer of the silly stupid stuff.

    If you find topics in particular forums to be idiotic (cough chit chat cough) you can hide them so you don't see that forum. If you want directions for that, let us know if you browse on your phone or on a computer.

    I’m not the previous poster but I would really like to know how to do this on iPhone!
  • neugebauer52
    neugebauer52 Posts: 1,120 Member
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    I agree, with weight loss things are looking "up"...
  • sgt1372
    sgt1372 Posts: 3,978 Member
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    MPDean wrote: »
    No beer belly obscuring the view makes it look bigger too.

    It looks bigger because you can see more of the apparatus unobscured by BF.

    Thing is, it's not really bigger - just more visible - bit it's confidence/ego boosting nonetheless.
  • nutmegoreo
    nutmegoreo Posts: 15,532 Member
    edited December 2019
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    psychod787 wrote: »
    kshama2001 wrote: »
    contir wrote: »
    Finally a topic on this board that's not idiotic! Thanks for bringing this up (no pun intended.) Great discussion. I wish there were more topics like this and fewer of the silly stupid stuff.

    If you find topics in particular forums to be idiotic (cough chit chat cough) you can hide them so you don't see that forum. If you want directions for that, let us know if you browse on your phone or on a computer.

    What pansy cake, mother licker reported this?

    It's flagged, not reported. It won't go to the mods until there's 5 on it. Plus it's not true abuse, so it's just abuse of the abuse flag, for whomever flagged it.


    kshama2001 wrote: »
    contir wrote: »
    Finally a topic on this board that's not idiotic! Thanks for bringing this up (no pun intended.) Great discussion. I wish there were more topics like this and fewer of the silly stupid stuff.

    If you find topics in particular forums to be idiotic (cough chit chat cough) you can hide them so you don't see that forum. If you want directions for that, let us know if you browse on your phone or on a computer.

    I’m not the previous poster but I would really like to know how to do this on iPhone!

    I'm not sure about on mobile, but from the desktop, go to the forum main page, hover your mouse above whichever forum you want to be rid of, click on the gear that shows up, and click "unfollow." Then go to the top of the forum, just above where the categories are listed, and change "view" to "following." It will remove any of the forums you've unfollowed.
  • ejohn753
    ejohn753 Posts: 5 Member
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    My husband ' drive ' has increased a lot since losing a lot of excess weight. It's not something we discussed but it is noticable now.
  • OAS5
    OAS5 Posts: 374 Member
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    ejohn753 wrote: »
    My husband ' drive ' has increased a lot since losing a lot of excess weight. It's not something we discussed but it is noticable now.

    Exactly, us either. Its just an added side effect. Its motivation to keep going and keep it off.
  • psychod787
    psychod787 Posts: 4,088 Member
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    nutmegoreo wrote: »
    psychod787 wrote: »
    kshama2001 wrote: »
    contir wrote: »
    Finally a topic on this board that's not idiotic! Thanks for bringing this up (no pun intended.) Great discussion. I wish there were more topics like this and fewer of the silly stupid stuff.

    If you find topics in particular forums to be idiotic (cough chit chat cough) you can hide them so you don't see that forum. If you want directions for that, let us know if you browse on your phone or on a computer.

    What pansy cake, mother licker reported this?

    It's flagged, not reported. It won't go to the mods until there's 5 on it. Plus it's not true abuse, so it's just abuse of the abuse flag, for whomever flagged it.


    kshama2001 wrote: »
    contir wrote: »
    Finally a topic on this board that's not idiotic! Thanks for bringing this up (no pun intended.) Great discussion. I wish there were more topics like this and fewer of the silly stupid stuff.

    If you find topics in particular forums to be idiotic (cough chit chat cough) you can hide them so you don't see that forum. If you want directions for that, let us know if you browse on your phone or on a computer.

    I’m not the previous poster but I would really like to know how to do this on iPhone!

    I'm not sure about on mobile, but from the desktop, go to the forum main page, hover your mouse above whichever forum you want to be rid of, click on the gear that shows up, and click "unfollow." Then go to the top of the forum, just above where the categories are listed, and change "view" to "following." It will remove any of the forums you've unfollowed.

    I forget.... some people are just "soft"......
  • LAT1963
    LAT1963 Posts: 1,375 Member
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    This may be a sensitive topic but maybe it's the best sales-point ever for getting overweight men to take their health seriously.

    Glad you got your mojo back.

    I was gonna come on here and dump some physiology on y'all but others beat me to it.
  • poisonesse
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    @psychod787... thanks for bringing up the "reported" thingie, and @nutmegoreo for explaining about the flag! I didn't know what it did, so I just stayed away from it, but thought that it might have been to "flag" updated posts to my feed! SO glad I stayed away from it! ;)
  • nutmegoreo
    nutmegoreo Posts: 15,532 Member
    edited December 2019
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    poisonesse wrote: »
    @psychod787... thanks for bringing up the "reported" thingie, and @nutmegoreo for explaining about the flag! I didn't know what it did, so I just stayed away from it, but thought that it might have been to "flag" updated posts to my feed! SO glad I stayed away from it! ;)

    There's a lot of people who don't seem to understand it, so you're not alone.

    Flag gives a drop down of options. Spam is for spam-bot posts. Abuse is for blatant abuse: racism, porn, stuff like that. Everything else should be reported, once you hit report there are options as to what community rule is being broken and a text box to add an explanation.


    OP, sorry for the side conversation here in your thread.

    I think this is a great topic to discuss. It's not something that's brought up often, but should be. Sufficient consumption of fat is important, since it impacts hormones. As weight is lost, the fat around the pubic bone decreases, revealing more length. Additionally, with less fat over the pubic bone there is better (firmer) contact during the act, which can be more enjoyable for her. It's a win-win as long as you don't go too far in the other direction. Congratulations on your weight loss and your other added benefits!
  • kshama2001
    kshama2001 Posts: 27,898 Member
    edited December 2019
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    psychod787 wrote: »
    kshama2001 wrote: »
    contir wrote: »
    Finally a topic on this board that's not idiotic! Thanks for bringing this up (no pun intended.) Great discussion. I wish there were more topics like this and fewer of the silly stupid stuff.

    If you find topics in particular forums to be idiotic (cough chit chat cough) you can hide them so you don't see that forum. If you want directions for that, let us know if you browse on your phone or on a computer.

    What [********] reported this?

    Someone who has never read up on the proper use of the flagging system:

    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10007789/flagged-content-reported-posts-warning-points

    Abuse: Use this flag to report extreme abuse of our guidelines; such as posting of pornographic images or hate speech. 5 flags will automatically move that content into the abuse queue to be reviewed by our moderators. Items in the abuse queue are hidden until they are either approved by a moderator as not being abuse or are deleted by a moderator after being verified as abuse. Items marked for abuse should be both severe and urgent. If it does not meet this criteria it will be approved by a moderator and returned to the community without further action.
  • OAS5
    OAS5 Posts: 374 Member
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    I don't get it? What was flagged as I am the OP and have not seen anything offensive at all? Been a great discussion I thought.
  • psychod787
    psychod787 Posts: 4,088 Member
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    kshama2001 wrote: »
    psychod787 wrote: »
    kshama2001 wrote: »
    contir wrote: »
    Finally a topic on this board that's not idiotic! Thanks for bringing this up (no pun intended.) Great discussion. I wish there were more topics like this and fewer of the silly stupid stuff.

    If you find topics in particular forums to be idiotic (cough chit chat cough) you can hide them so you don't see that forum. If you want directions for that, let us know if you browse on your phone or on a computer.

    What [********] reported this?

    Someone who has never read up on the proper use of the flagging system:

    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10007789/flagged-content-reported-posts-warning-points

    Abuse: Use this flag to report extreme abuse of our guidelines; such as posting of pornographic images or hate speech. 5 flags will automatically move that content into the abuse queue to be reviewed by our moderators. Items in the abuse queue are hidden until they are either approved by a moderator as not being abuse or are deleted by a moderator after being verified as abuse. Items marked for abuse should be both severe and urgent. If it does not meet this criteria it will be approved by a moderator and returned to the community without further action.

    Well ma'am, you must have "triggered" someone by calling the chitchat "idiotic". Really? Lol on a topic about male erections?🤣