What makes you bond with someone?

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  • Diatonic12
    Diatonic12 Posts: 32,344 Member
    Chemistry. That chemical reaction that produces dopamine and serotonin. Might as well face it you're addicted to love.

    Your lights are on, but you're not home
    Your mind is not your own
    Your heart sweats, your body shakes
    Another kiss is what it takes
    You can't sleep, you can't eat
    There's no doubt, you're in deep
    Your throat is tight, you can't breathe
    Another kiss is all you need
    Whoa, you like to think that you're immune to the stuff, oh yeah
    It's closer to the truth to say you can't get enough
    You know you're gonna have to face it, you're addicted to love
  • Humor, when a person is clever, or when some writes for the first time like I'm a genuine friend.
  • salkavalka
    salkavalka Posts: 148 Member
    Crossfit

    But all jokes aside... I seem to bond well with high energy, loud, bubbly, ADHD kinda people...
  • BrustMannEiner
    BrustMannEiner Posts: 360 Member
    The easiest way to explain it is the more country, with a touch of redneck, someone is usually means we'll get along pretty good for a very long time.
  • char2point0
    char2point0 Posts: 784 Member
    edited August 2020
    The easiest way to explain it is the more country, with a touch of redneck, someone is usually means we'll get along pretty good for a very long time.

    Oh lawd 😆
    I was about the be the creepy one! Haha
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Yoshiboobs wrote: »
    I was typing some things and I realized that I'm *kitten* up. So nvm I don't know how in the first place and it's just me and the animals. We bond because they're soft and cute and when they judge me it's also cute.

    I hear you. This is why I work with animals and by default people (that I only brush on 'bonding' with like basic social niceties).
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    we'll get along if they understand and accept that geese are simply misunderstood dinosaurian remnants.
    like little velociraptors- only with feathers and big hearts and adorable honking instead of the whole murdering thing

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  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    When I think about it, the people whom I've been the closes with and or had the most fun with, have always been those who just understood me the best, and were looking for the same type of thing... 💕
  • KLoGetsHealthy
    KLoGetsHealthy Posts: 272 Member
    Laughter & good times!
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    we'll get along if they understand and accept that geese are simply misunderstood dinosaurian remnants.
    like little velociraptors- only with feathers and big hearts and adorable honking instead of the whole murdering thing

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    100% got remnants of a velociraptors, those geese!

    I used to be wary of them.

    Now I appreciate and admire them!

    Watching Canada geese fly and honk in formation makes me smile now - they are so fast and graceful for a biggish bird... look so streamlined flying...it's really cool when you think about it...like how much energy does it take a "big" bird to fly? And never mind the migration effort
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    yeah, there's probably a few action verbs more entertaining than 'bonding'.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    yeah, there's probably a few action verbs more entertaining than 'bonding'.

    jostling with?

    pow wow with?

    spiritual awakening with?

    shared consciousness with?

    ...hmm after all this deep thought, I think I get it!

    easy peasy lemon squeesy!

    sex with! (maybe)

    ...for the win!

  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    yeah, there's probably a few action verbs more entertaining than 'bonding'.

    jostling with?

    pow wow with?

    spiritual awakening with?

    shared consciousness with?

    ...hmm after all this deep thought, I think I get it!

    easy peasy lemon squeesy!

    sex with! (maybe)

    ...for the win!

    They're all good, except that whole 'spiritual awakening' thing, I mean really, who has time for that?
  • lx1x
    lx1x Posts: 38,330 Member
    A rope or cuffs ...🤷‍♂️

    😂
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    yeah, there's probably a few action verbs more entertaining than 'bonding'.

    jostling with?

    pow wow with?

    spiritual awakening with?

    shared consciousness with?

    ...hmm after all this deep thought, I think I get it!

    easy peasy lemon squeesy!

    sex with! (maybe)

    ...for the win!

    They're all good, except that whole 'spiritual awakening' thing, I mean really, who has time for that?

    I dont even know what that means...it just came out!

    (That happens when I open my mouth sometimes (often) or start typing without regard, just go with the thoughts!)
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    yeah, there's probably a few action verbs more entertaining than 'bonding'.

    jostling with?

    pow wow with?

    spiritual awakening with?

    shared consciousness with?

    ...hmm after all this deep thought, I think I get it!

    easy peasy lemon squeesy!

    sex with! (maybe)

    ...for the win!

    They're all good, except that whole 'spiritual awakening' thing, I mean really, who has time for that?

    I dont even know what that means...it just came out!

    (That happens when I open my mouth sometimes (often) or start typing without regard, just go with the thoughts!)

    It's okay... it happens in the best of families.
  • Revolu7
    Revolu7 Posts: 1,035 Member
    hrichts wrote: »
    trauma bonding is usually what does it for me.

    Like if you’re in a car accident together?

    War
  • SwolehouseBrotown
    SwolehouseBrotown Posts: 196 Member
    Boobs