Name one thing you DISlike about yourself

reinach31
reinach31 Posts: 71
edited October 2 in Chit-Chat
One of the previous topic was "Name one thing you like about yourself" .. now I ask "Name one thing you DISLIKE about yourself.

ME - I hate that when I get hurt or mad - I give people the silent treatment(I am like my father) ..and that's one of the things I HATE the most.. unfortunately I do the same... I tried NOT to do that..but some time I just CAN'T help it! I am know I too old for this ..but how do I change it and just learn how to let go of minor things!
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  • FearAnLoathing
    FearAnLoathing Posts: 4,852 Member
    honestly nothing
  • writtenINthestars
    writtenINthestars Posts: 1,933 Member
    The only thing I dislike about myself is my inability to keep my cool and think things through. Sometimes I get worked up so fast and the fuse is lit and there's not turning back!
  • medoria
    medoria Posts: 673 Member
    Congratulations, most depressing thread of the week. Focusing on what you hate with yourself is just sad.
  • reinach31
    reinach31 Posts: 71
    I guess, I was looking for some help - on how to be able to change that!
  • vanessaclarkgbr
    vanessaclarkgbr Posts: 731 Member
    Procrastination. Especially over exercise :-)
  • Splasheh
    Splasheh Posts: 30 Member
    Congratulations, most depressing thread of the week. Focusing on what you hate with yourself is just sad.

    No need...? it's general conversation, if you dislike this thread then don't click on it.
  • hannydee
    hannydee Posts: 246
    My stupid broad shoulders!
  • tomomatic
    tomomatic Posts: 1,794 Member
    My weight. That's why I'm here.
  • ohwhataday
    ohwhataday Posts: 1,398 Member
    I need attention, and it's annoying.
  • rangers1312
    rangers1312 Posts: 8 Member
    I dislike that a lot of times I am too nice and people seem to take advantage of it. It sucks, but I don't want to change who I am
  • sc1572
    sc1572 Posts: 2,309 Member
    I hate how obsessive I get with myself. Lately I have been obsessed over weight, what I eat, school, and everything. I stress out way too easily and forget to take time to relax!
  • porcelain_doll
    porcelain_doll Posts: 1,005 Member
    I tend to hold onto anger. When I get mad at someone, I have a hard time letting it go. Trying to get better about that.
  • rangers1312
    rangers1312 Posts: 8 Member
    Sometimes you just have to let it go...I used to be like that, and its something you have to outgrow by practice. I started out taking little annoyances and voicing them to the person, and then it turned into being able to confront someone when they made me mad. Its all about baby steps though
  • Gilbrod
    Gilbrod Posts: 1,216 Member
    I'm too nice!!
  • Jade_Butterfly
    Jade_Butterfly Posts: 2,963 Member
    :flowerforyou: I Love the fact that anything that is a DISLIKE. . can be CHANGED to be something you like! God bless the fact that nothing is pernmanent. .It is only a NEGATIVE. . if you allow it to be. .
  • GorillaNJ
    GorillaNJ Posts: 4,024 Member
    I'm a little too awesome... but I will work hard at fixing it :smokin:
  • GorillaNJ
    GorillaNJ Posts: 4,024 Member
    AND I double post....
  • porffor
    porffor Posts: 1,210 Member
    I'm a bit brash.. don't think before I open my mouth sometimes, it offends people and that upsets me that I have offended someone. I know some people would say 'tough luck' but I'm not that thick skinned.
  • sarahmaryfearnley
    sarahmaryfearnley Posts: 366 Member
    One of the previous topic was "Name one thing you like about yourself" .. now I ask "Name one thing you DISLIKE about yourself.

    ME - I hate that when I get hurt or mad - I give people the silent treatment(I am like my father) ..and that's one of the things I HATE the most.. unfortunately I do the same... I tried NOT to do that..but some time I just CAN'T help it! I am know I too old for this ..but how do I change it and just learn how to let go of minor things!

    I tend to this too and I don't like it. Thankfully my hubby does not let me get with it. He'll let me be pissy and silent for a little while and then he'll usually say something like, "Are you ready to talk yet?", and I usually am.

    I guess mainly if we know were like that, it's a big step. Just be mad and silent for a bit and when you start feeling silly about yourself STILL being mad, take a deep breath and just say to them, I'm ready to talk.

    If they hold it against you either they don't know you or they don't care about you and either way that's not your fault.
  • Cadenpet
    Cadenpet Posts: 79
    I am going to cheat.

    One thing I dislike physically are my thighs.

    And one personality trait I dislike is the procrastination I am so brilliant at.
  • lizziebeth1028
    lizziebeth1028 Posts: 3,602 Member
    I hate that I have asthma:( But fortunately it's controlled through medication. Thank you symbicort!!!!
  • BigDaddyBRC
    BigDaddyBRC Posts: 2,395 Member
    Hmmm, I don't. I love WHO I am. And I do my best to improve me.
  • bbygrl5
    bbygrl5 Posts: 964 Member
    My temper. It's a work in progress, lol.
  • ncgatorfan
    ncgatorfan Posts: 517
    I hate it that I have addictions. We won't go into what exactly....
  • MrsCon40
    MrsCon40 Posts: 2,351 Member
    My thighs.

    I swear that my life would be ideal if I had skinny thighs. Seriously.
  • rharris86dc
    rharris86dc Posts: 635 Member
    When I get stressed, I break out. Like right now. My chin/jawline is not lookin' so hot, lol.

    And those last few problem areas: thighs and belly. But we're getting there!
  • Kelly_Wilson1990
    Kelly_Wilson1990 Posts: 3,245 Member
    I have just learned to love me the way I am!!
  • MrsCon40
    MrsCon40 Posts: 2,351 Member
    Congratulations, most depressing thread of the week. Focusing on what you hate with yourself is just sad.

    Have you never had a job interview where they asked what are your greatest weaknesses? If they did, did you answer, "this is too depressing!"?
  • medoria
    medoria Posts: 673 Member
    Im just saying its a sign of selfdestructive behaviour talking about what you hate with yourself instead of talking about what you used to hate and how you overcame that.
  • SergeantSunshine_reused
    SergeantSunshine_reused Posts: 5,382 Member
    Congratulations, most depressing thread of the week. Focusing on what you hate with yourself is just sad.

    lol kind of nice reading them to see if people dislike the same things and i am not the only one.

    Congratulations, you post was pointless :p

    I also dislike how mad i can get over silly things. I have a huge temper and can be an emotional wreck. BUT it only happens when I am sleepy xD when Im awake im a ray of sunshine :]
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