Treat days?

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  • Jayj180894
    Jayj180894 Posts: 286 Member
    Well whatever people may think. Whatever is wrong or right. To me the spike in blood sugar makes the most sense. I like my "diet" I eat what I want each day and still have things which are high calorie. I don't feel like I'm starving myself and like said the only time I have significant hunger is when I've "binged" the day before. No other time. And I'm losing at a rate that suits me. I don't feel like I'm pushing myself to hard and I'm genuinely more happy and have more energy so it's a win for me. Whatever people's opinion
  • Jayj180894
    Jayj180894 Posts: 286 Member
    lemurcat2 wrote: »
    Jayj180894 wrote: »
    I don't feel like I'm starving myself and like said the only time I have significant hunger is when I've "binged" the day before. No other time.

    You asked for advice and seemed to indicate that there was something about being hungry following a "treat day" that was bothering you.

    As I said, it seems clear that the "binging" (or simply eating high calories) on specific days isn't working well for you unless you don't mind and can deal with feeling hungry the day after. I made some suggestions on alternatives, but if you don't want to change anything and think it's perfect as is, totally cool. I guess I was confused in that you seemed to have posted seeking suggestions.

    Maybe that was the confusion as I was posting more for an explanation on why the body may do this rather than suggestions to stop it. Apologies
  • ALZ14
    ALZ14 Posts: 202 Member
    Jayj180894 wrote: »
    Well whatever people may think. Whatever is wrong or right. To me the spike in blood sugar makes the most sense. I like my "diet" I eat what I want each day and still have things which are high calorie. I don't feel like I'm starving myself and like said the only time I have significant hunger is when I've "binged" the day before. No other time. And I'm losing at a rate that suits me. I don't feel like I'm pushing myself to hard and I'm genuinely more happy and have more energy so it's a win for me. Whatever people's opinion

    No one said you couldn’t eat high calorie foods. I’m guessing you should probably be eating more of them if you are binging once a week and then still hungry the next day.
  • Jayj180894
    Jayj180894 Posts: 286 Member
    edited March 2021
    ALZ14 wrote: »
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    No one said you couldn’t eat high calorie foods. I’m guessing you should probably be eating more of them if you are binging once a week and then still hungry the next day.


    I'm more than likely binging because of the wine I drink the night before. Which I probably shouldn't be drinking so excessively, but I'm going to tackle that at a later date. Once I get a less stressful job lol. And as others have said probably a spike hence the hunger
  • Jayj180894
    Jayj180894 Posts: 286 Member
    PAV8888 wrote: »
    Lots of tangents to talk about and also some calculations that seem a bit off to me.

    So I'm coming up with just over 1025 Cal effective long-term average deficit and just over two pounds a week from beginning to now.

    First of all you can take that figure and what your Fitbit has been telling you you've been spending in terms of calories, and your MFP logging, and actually calculate how accurate your Fitbit has been for you.

    You have, actually, muddled up something about the Fitbit calories.

    Whereas MFP logged exercise has the **potential** to double count some of the "I'm alive" calories you burn, specifically, when it comes to Fitbit total day calories, the MFP adjustment has zero double counting potential.

    This doesn't mean that the Fitbit estimate will be correct given your type of activity and exercise and the way you log your food. But the Fitbit correction which is shown as an exercise adjustment in MFP is mathematically correctly dealing with net calories.

    This is a roundabout way of saying that you have no prior reason to be doubting your Fitbit adjustment.

    Now back to your > -1025 deficit regular schedule. Because given that you have overindulgence days, in order to average -1025 you are obviously creating a much larger deficit most of the time.

    You report eating about 1500? So we are looking at a ~2700ish+ TDEE? And you cutting in the high 30%s, or even more probably in the low 40% off from that.

    Deficits over 20% of tdee are aggressive. Take a guess as to whether 40% is aggressive.

    I'm not going to talk about gallstones or muscles, though gallstones would concern me.... I'm going to talk about the future and rebounding

    You see the hunger rebound you're experiencing when you eat normal amounts?

    There is a real good chance that this is hormonally mediated, i.e. your weight loss intensity has shifted hormone levels and when normal food levels become available your body is all ready to make everything extremely easy for you to regain. By being hungry. By things tasting good. By your body prompting you to stay on the couch today.

    Classic yo-yo in preparation--IF you don't try to counteract it.

    And you're looking at an indefinite amount of time of this with the only hope that I can offer being that most people seem to recover to more normal hunger cues after an extensive time period at maintenance. With people making it to two years post weight loss often eporting that they're fine by that point even without regain. Regain of course also resolves the issue, but you probably don't want that...

    You've done great and you're doing good and you should be taking advantage of how good you're feeling to position yourself for the long term.

    You need to figure out what you'll be eating on a daily basis when you have to fuel up with 2000 to 2500Cal of tdee, or whatever you expect your activity level times reduced future weight needs to be.

    You need to embed that and make it easy to follow.

    You need to stretch out the time of weight loss and maintenance to give your body time to normalize.

    You sound, to me, totally primed to continue with rapid weight loss for a few months (often ending around the six month mark especially after a few weeks of trying real hard and not being rewarded by rapid rewards), followed by relatively rapid regain back to square one within the next 12 months... UNLESS you start fighting now to **generate time at lower weight** for your body to normalize there.

    When exactly you decide to do things is up to you. Currently it sounds like you have a double whammy:

    Suboptimal balancing of too few calories to begin with throughout the week

    Both the spread between daily and indulgence and the total deficit you're creating would probably benefit you to come down in size while extending time wise

    I am so sorry. It looks as if you've put a lot of effort in to try help, but you have confused the hell out of me. My little brain does not understand what you are saying lol 😥
  • kshama2001
    kshama2001 Posts: 28,052 Member
    Jayj180894 wrote: »
    Like I said it's averaged out. Some weeks I lose nothing other weeks like the week I came off of my period I lost nearly 6lbs. I know this isn't all fat. So I don't think you should be concerned. I only started January the 17th and to my understanding you lose a lot when you first start due to water retention. I started at 15st.1lbs and now I am at 13st5. I eat on average between 1200-1900kcal on my "good days" and this depends on my exercise and whether I'm working or not. I just want to know why my body feels so starving when I've had so much to eat the day before lol!

    What's your height and goal weight?

    (For those who aren't familiar with stones she is 187 pounds.)

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  • Jayj180894
    Jayj180894 Posts: 286 Member
    AnnPT77 wrote: »
    Jayj180894 wrote: »
    Oversimplifying, I believe he's saying that as he's run the numbers, you are undereating (underfueling) so much, and losing so fast, that it will be hard not only to keep going like this, but also extra hard to keep weight off longer term. He's suggesting that your hunger after your treat days is a warning bell.

    When PAV runs numbers, he's usually right.

    What I took from it, is that I am eating 1025kcal below maintenance. (Not that I am eating 1025) and that my daily TDEE is 2700. Which according to my fitbit is right. Usually between 2000-3500. So if that's is right I could eat 2200kcal a day and still lose a pound a week?
  • PAV8888
    PAV8888 Posts: 14,235 Member
    edited March 2021
    yup -- in "general" if you're eating about 500 Cal on average below your true TDEE (the number your Fitbit is attempting to estimate) then, if you look at your weight trend over a sufficiently long period of time, you will find yourself losing on average about 1lb a week.

    In order for you to be averaging an over 1K deficit in spite of your periodic overfeeds... your actual deficit on non overfeed days is substantially more than 1K.... which may explain some of the trouble you're running into.

    You really cannot view this weight reduction as a "one shot and done" -- you have to start preparing to fight for maintenance--keep adjusting and trying to make things as easy on you as you can while still moving forward with your goals. Perfection is not required... continuous incremental improvements and tweaks works wonders over time!

    Please note that you can look at your actual numbers from MFP and from the Fitbit data exports that you can run. You can observe your weight change by connecting Trendweight to Fitbit and entering your weight ins on Fitbit (which will then pass them to MFP and trendweight).

    The numbers I've come up with for you are "general" because I actually have no idea how much food you're logging and how accurate that logging is. All I really know is that you've lost xx lbs over yy days and that's where the 1025 rough deficit estimate is coming from.

    Take care... and be kind to yourself!
  • Jayj180894
    Jayj180894 Posts: 286 Member
    Thanks for everyone's advise
  • springlering62
    springlering62 Posts: 8,396 Member
    I think- and have been hesitant to state it here- that for some people, the first big chunk of weight comes off quickly and easily. Lucky us.

    I lost ten pounds a month for my first six months. I never ate less than 1470 at any time, and increased calories three and six months in.

    The last thirty came off much slower, of course, but that first sixty was embarrassingly easy. I often feel, listening to people here, that I somehow cheated the system. Maybe I’m a unicorn and maybe there’s other unicorns in the unicornverse. Bully for us. This isn’t directed at you if you’re not.

    I think that YOU have to be the best judge if what you are doing is safe and sustainable. Listen to the very good advice people are giving, absorb and consider, don’t do anything foolish that would threaten your health, and adjust as needed, as I immediately did, upon the advice of a RD and a trusted trainer.

    I hear in your voice what is in my head.
  • Jayj180894
    Jayj180894 Posts: 286 Member
    I think- and have been hesitant to state it here- that for some people, the first big chunk of weight comes off quickly and easily. Lucky us.

    I lost ten pounds a month for my first six months. I never ate less than 1470 at any time, and increased calories three and six months in.

    The last thirty came off much slower, of course, but that first sixty was embarrassingly easy. I often feel, listening to people here, that I somehow cheated the system. Maybe I’m a unicorn and maybe there’s other unicorns in the unicornverse. Bully for us. This isn’t directed at you if you’re not.

    I think that YOU have to be the best judge if what you are doing is safe and sustainable. Listen to the very good advice people are giving, absorb and consider, don’t do anything foolish that would threaten your health, and adjust as needed, as I immediately did, upon the advice of a RD and a trusted trainer.

    I hear in your voice what is in my head.

    I just feel that I'm not doing anything unsafe. I definitely don't feel like I'm starving myself and I always eat when I'm actually hungry. I am going to adjust my calories accordingly, but I like you do feel like it has just dropped off, without being too extreme. But I will definitely take in the advice
  • yirara
    yirara Posts: 9,928 Member
    Jayj180894 wrote: »
    I think- and have been hesitant to state it here- that for some people, the first big chunk of weight comes off quickly and easily. Lucky us.

    I lost ten pounds a month for my first six months. I never ate less than 1470 at any time, and increased calories three and six months in.

    The last thirty came off much slower, of course, but that first sixty was embarrassingly easy. I often feel, listening to people here, that I somehow cheated the system. Maybe I’m a unicorn and maybe there’s other unicorns in the unicornverse. Bully for us. This isn’t directed at you if you’re not.

    I think that YOU have to be the best judge if what you are doing is safe and sustainable. Listen to the very good advice people are giving, absorb and consider, don’t do anything foolish that would threaten your health, and adjust as needed, as I immediately did, upon the advice of a RD and a trusted trainer.

    I hear in your voice what is in my head.

    I just feel that I'm not doing anything unsafe. I definitely don't feel like I'm starving myself and I always eat when I'm actually hungry. I am going to adjust my calories accordingly, but I like you do feel like it has just dropped off, without being too extreme. But I will definitely take in the advice

    The problem with undereating is that people at first experience some kind of 'all is fine' feeling, nearly an euphoria. Until they don't anymore and binge. Also, your body is doing well, until it doesn't. The hairloss, brittle nails, loss of menstruation, etc all come weeks or months after the fact and not immediately.
  • Jayj180894
    Jayj180894 Posts: 286 Member
    yirara wrote: »
    The problem with undereating is that people at first experience some kind of 'all is fine' feeling, nearly an euphoria. Until they don't anymore and binge. Also, your body is doing well, until it doesn't. The hairloss, brittle nails, loss of menstruation, etc all come weeks or months after the fact and not immediately.

    I will look at the calories and actual intake. At the moment all I have been looking at is making sure I eat my 5 a day, which is what they push for in England. (I do realise its meant to be10) and make sure I get protein.
    I read a lot of post on here and do see a lot of people eating 1500 to 1800kcal or people who have lost the at same rate as me and no one saying they're under eating. Most guidelines are between 1200 and 1800 mark to lose weight so didn't understand why I was told I wasn't eating enough

  • PAV8888
    PAV8888 Posts: 14,235 Member
    edited March 2021
    It's not just plain under-eating and losing fast. It's the combination of BOTH a large deficit as a percentage of your TDEE AND the large increase in appetite that you experience when you eat more calories during your treat days.

    The large increase in appetite (to me) is a POSSIBLE indication that your hormonal system is getting pushed hard enough by your large deficit to make a weight regain rebound more likely. Or at least it FEELS this way to me based on my personal experience of doing similar things in the past.