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Research suggests there is more to it than simply CICO for obese people. More study needed.
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MargaretYakoda wrote: »goal06082021 wrote: »Oh, absolutely. It's always going to be easier to deal with the "CI" half of the equation, since there is no direct way to measure CO - even laboratory-grade heart-rate monitors are still only measuring heart rate, which is like a third-hand approximation of calorie burn. And if an obese person does burn significantly fewer calories than someone else doing the same exercise, the CI piece is going to be even more important. But it still comes down to CI<CO for weight loss - if that's not happening, either CI is too high, CO is too low, or both.
This is a calorie-counting website, so naturally MFP is best utilized as a tool to help you dial in the CI portion of the equation; and furthermore, human beings are just...really incredibly bad at estimating how much they eat. It used to be an adaptation, being able to eat more than we strictly needed at a given time, but it's not anymore now that we have, you know, McDonald's and grocery stores and UberEats. There's science about that, too. A person who is already overweight or obese has a clear and obvious track record of underestimating how much they eat; the way to correct that is to eat less, but you need to know how much you're starting with to make any lasting changes.
Yes. I think this is the key bit for MFP and helping people.
Maybe acknowledge the possibility that yes it might be a bit harder for morbidly obese people. As the article suggests, it might be harder but we don’t yet know for sure, or what the mechanism is. But the solution is not to give up, but to be even more precise with the part we can control.
Carbs in. And counted as precise as possible by a lay person.
Who doesn't acknowledge that people who have difficulty controlling their weight have a hard time losing it? Most people don't want to be morbidly obese and struggle walking up 2 steps to the bakery. If it wasn't hard, most would have already done it.12 -
cmriverside wrote: »MFP is based around calorie counting, but also has an adjustment for exercise which is applied very blandly with no comment or recognition of a) the problems with measuring/recording calories burnt, or b) what this shows, which is that BEE/BMR is affected by calories burned in exercise.
What is BEE?
Do you really think anyone uses an exercise calculation without thinking, "Hm, how accurate can this be? It doesn't know how hard I danced/hula-hooped/swam/played baseball?"
Ya gotta just do it and work out all the variables. Every single part of weight loss is individual from food choices to calorie-counting accuracy (or no counting) to daily chores and activities, to fidgeting, exercise intensity, general weight and health, nutrition, illness, stress, sleep, hydration...it isn't a simple, "It's harder for obese people." It's hard for everyone...but you have to run the experiment.
Right, I garden, and some times I use the whole calorie allotment but know to not when it's like this:
This was not a difficult decision.3 -
NorthCascades wrote: »MargaretYakoda wrote: »goal06082021 wrote: »Oh, absolutely. It's always going to be easier to deal with the "CI" half of the equation, since there is no direct way to measure CO - even laboratory-grade heart-rate monitors are still only measuring heart rate, which is like a third-hand approximation of calorie burn. And if an obese person does burn significantly fewer calories than someone else doing the same exercise, the CI piece is going to be even more important. But it still comes down to CI<CO for weight loss - if that's not happening, either CI is too high, CO is too low, or both.
This is a calorie-counting website, so naturally MFP is best utilized as a tool to help you dial in the CI portion of the equation; and furthermore, human beings are just...really incredibly bad at estimating how much they eat. It used to be an adaptation, being able to eat more than we strictly needed at a given time, but it's not anymore now that we have, you know, McDonald's and grocery stores and UberEats. There's science about that, too. A person who is already overweight or obese has a clear and obvious track record of underestimating how much they eat; the way to correct that is to eat less, but you need to know how much you're starting with to make any lasting changes.
Yes. I think this is the key bit for MFP and helping people.
Maybe acknowledge the possibility that yes it might be a bit harder for morbidly obese people. As the article suggests, it might be harder but we don’t yet know for sure, or what the mechanism is. But the solution is not to give up, but to be even more precise with the part we can control.
Carbs in. And counted as precise as possible by a lay person.
Who doesn't acknowledge that people who have difficulty controlling their weight have a hard time losing it? Most people don't want to be morbidly obese and struggle walking up 2 steps to the bakery. If it wasn't hard, most would have already done it.
I've actually seen on public forums all over the place that people don't acknowledge how difficult losing weight can be. "Just eat less and move more" is not acknowledging all the variables and individuality that constitute weight loss attempts.
Not in relation to your post in particular, but a general response: I have never been considered obese, but up until the last few years had struggled with my weight from childhood on up, losing weight at different point of my life but gaining it back. Once I shifted my perspective and tracked food more diligently, the actual losing part was about what one would expect for my size and TDEE. However, my experience isn't everyone's and it would be quite dismissive of me to assume everyone should be able to lose weight as easily if they just did what they were "supposed to do."
I'd also like to add that just because someone who is morbidly obese now has the knowledge that it may be difficult for them to lose weight doesn't necessarily mean the person won't even try. I know I educate myself all the time on possible negative outcomes/challenges related to my health and my kids' health and diagnoses. However, I use it to educate myself, make accomodations and plan accordingly rather than throw in the towel and say "screw it!"10 -
I’m kind of weirded out by this study because it finds the exact opposite of every other study ever - which have consistently found that exercise increases metabolism temporarily even after the exercise is complete. I need to know more about their methodology and what they measured before I have an opinion.4
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rheddmobile wrote: »I’m kind of weirded out by this study because it finds the exact opposite of every other study ever - which have consistently found that exercise increases metabolism temporarily even after the exercise is complete. I need to know more about their methodology and what they measured before I have an opinion.
It's not a research study like that - it's the kind of study to get others interested to do research into a study like you are thinking of. Those have been done too.
See the section on weight loss through calorie restriction enhanced by exercise.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3925973/
In this case they took database of available info from a lot of people measured at a static point in time, and tried to discern some info from it.
NASA years ago had a similar "study" with database available for researchers to cull through and try to discern some things. Many "studies" came from that.
It can be interesting on some things, because they'll have like measured RMR or BF%, along with simple methods or calculations or skin folders, in this case measured TDEE along with participant survey, VO2max tests, ect. And everybody at the company got a free physical basically. Better have.
But it's not truly giving a difference in change of behavior - they try to discern that.
That increased metabolism from EPOC has been found to be so minor though, easily adjusted through other activity.
And if your metabolism is increased the day after lifting say because of repair to muscles - you might be sore and moving a lot less.
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Over and over, people giving advice here will suggest that people (obese or otherwise) may differ from estimates made by so-called calculators (including MFP) or even estimates (yes, *estimates*) made by fitness trackers. People here have repeatedly suggested that people test-drive some reasonably-sourced estimate for a 4-6 weeks (whole menstrual cycles if relevant), then adjust. Then, after adjusting, keep tracking and adjusting. This kind of suggestion comes up in nearly every relevant thread, IME.
At extremes where people even then post that they aren't losing as expected, there's discussion of adaptive thermogenesis, under-recovery from over-exercise having counter-productive effects, exercise estimates being difficult/fraught (but zero is always wrong), the pitfalls of heart rate monitors as exercise estimators, etc., etc.
I've typed those kinds of things more often than I could hope or care to count.
Yes, it can be hard for obese people. It can be hard for people who are hypothyroid, aging, disabled, have PCOS, are insulin resistant, and in many other cases (without even considering learning/skills issues that apply to counting, exercising, etc.).
I don't think people here, taken as a whole, are generally special-dissing obese people. (A bunch of us have been obese people.) I can understand why obese people might feel so, however. (We each, me included, tend to be especially attuned to implications, possibly even unintended implications, that relate to our personal situation, IME.)
I think this study is interesting, but not - in overall implications - deeply surprising.
I truly don't see how it would change the advice I'd give here, in practical "how to" terms. I'm already trying - imperfectly, I'm sure - to be kind. (That's the case even when commenting obstacles that I consider to be 100% self-created by the OP, and I don't put obesity in that category - I'm talking more about people who feel sabotaged by unknowing people having treats in their presence, for example. I'm sure I do poorly at kindness sometimes, however, maybe even often, for some people's tastes.)
As an aside, if we only net-burn 72% of the calories from exercise on average, I don't think that's deeply meaningful as an error rate, in a context where exercise estimating is kind of a SWAG** in the first place. Surprisingly good, IMO, in fact. I suspect other common sources of exercise-estimating error may be higher percentages, though I have no objective evidence. The 50.5% percent at the 90th percentile of BMI distribution is much worse than that, of course.
** For those unfamiliar with the term, "Scientific Wild-A** Guess".13 -
Over and over, people giving advice here will suggest that people (obese or otherwise) may differ from estimates made by so-called calculators (including MFP) or even estimates (yes, *estimates*) made by fitness trackers. People here have repeatedly suggested that people test-drive some reasonably-sourced estimate for a 4-6 weeks (whole menstrual cycles if relevant), then adjust. Then, after adjusting, keep tracking and adjusting. This kind of suggestion comes up in nearly every relevant thread, IME.
At extremes where people even then post that they aren't losing as expected, there's discussion of adaptive thermogenesis, under-recovery from over-exercise having counter-productive effects, exercise estimates being difficult/fraught (but zero is always wrong), the pitfalls of heart rate monitors as exercise estimators, etc., etc.
I've typed those kinds of things more often than I could hope or care to count.
Yes, it can be hard for obese people. It can be hard for people who are hypothyroid, aging, disabled, have PCOS, are insulin resistant, and in many other cases (without even considering learning/skills issues that apply to counting, exercising, etc.).
I don't think people here, taken as a whole, are generally special-dissing obese people. (A bunch of us have been obese people.) I can understand why obese people might feel so, however. (We each, me included, tend to be especially attuned to implications, possibly even unintended implications, that relate to our personal situation, IME.)
I think this study is interesting, but not - in overall implications - deeply surprising.
I truly don't see how it would change the advice I'd give here, in practical "how to" terms. I'm already trying - imperfectly, I'm sure - to be kind. (That's the case even when commenting obstacles that I consider to be 100% self-created by the OP, and I don't put obesity in that category - I'm talking more about people who feel sabotaged by unknowing people having treats in their presence, for example. I'm sure I do poorly at kindness sometimes, however, maybe even often, for some people's tastes.)
As an aside, if we only net-burn 72% of the calories from exercise on average, I don't think that's deeply meaningful as an error rate, in a context where exercise estimating is kind of a SWAG** in the first place. Surprisingly good, IMO, in fact. I suspect other common sources of exercise-estimating error may be higher percentages, though I have no objective evidence. The 50.5% percent at the 90th percentile of BMI distribution is much worse than that, of course.
** For those unfamiliar with the term, "Scientific Wild-A** Guess".
I love your advice.4 -
You CAN NOT exercise out of a bad diet.
Weight loss begins in the kitchen and portion control.7 -
My takeaway from this is that when morbidly obese people say they’re trying hard but seeing little or no results, that we forum denizens might want to respond with acknowledgment of the hard work, and explain that tightening up of the calorie measurement and being as exact as possible is likely even more important in their case. And that what they’re experiencing is real.
Yes. Some people do exactly that.
But not everyone.
And soap tastes like cilantro.
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rheddmobile wrote: »I’m kind of weirded out by this study because it finds the exact opposite of every other study ever - which have consistently found that exercise increases metabolism temporarily even after the exercise is complete. I need to know more about their methodology and what they measured before I have an opinion.
There is an idea that if I go for an after work bike ride, then later in the day I'll check the mail while I'm walking the cat instead of doing those two things separately and going up and down the stairs twice. 🙂 I buy that it should be true on average.
I read the link and it talked about the body doing something similar with metabolism. I don't know to what degree I buy that. But I like to read.3 -
@haybales that comment about the knights who say nee made this entire thread worth reading😂2
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NorthCascades wrote: »MargaretYakoda wrote: »goal06082021 wrote: »Oh, absolutely. It's always going to be easier to deal with the "CI" half of the equation, since there is no direct way to measure CO - even laboratory-grade heart-rate monitors are still only measuring heart rate, which is like a third-hand approximation of calorie burn. And if an obese person does burn significantly fewer calories than someone else doing the same exercise, the CI piece is going to be even more important. But it still comes down to CI<CO for weight loss - if that's not happening, either CI is too high, CO is too low, or both.
This is a calorie-counting website, so naturally MFP is best utilized as a tool to help you dial in the CI portion of the equation; and furthermore, human beings are just...really incredibly bad at estimating how much they eat. It used to be an adaptation, being able to eat more than we strictly needed at a given time, but it's not anymore now that we have, you know, McDonald's and grocery stores and UberEats. There's science about that, too. A person who is already overweight or obese has a clear and obvious track record of underestimating how much they eat; the way to correct that is to eat less, but you need to know how much you're starting with to make any lasting changes.
Yes. I think this is the key bit for MFP and helping people.
Maybe acknowledge the possibility that yes it might be a bit harder for morbidly obese people. As the article suggests, it might be harder but we don’t yet know for sure, or what the mechanism is. But the solution is not to give up, but to be even more precise with the part we can control.
Carbs in. And counted as precise as possible by a lay person.
Who doesn't acknowledge that people who have difficulty controlling their weight have a hard time losing it? Most people don't want to be morbidly obese and struggle walking up 2 steps to the bakery. If it wasn't hard, most would have already done it.
Honestly?
I have seen exactly that on these forums. Multiple times. And I’ve only been here a short while.
It isn’t everyone. But it happens. Too frequently.
Also? Not every morbidly obese person struggles with two steps.
And cilantro tastes like soap. I forgot to put that in the OP. Which explains the disagree.
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MargaretYakoda wrote: »NorthCascades wrote: »MargaretYakoda wrote: »goal06082021 wrote: »Oh, absolutely. It's always going to be easier to deal with the "CI" half of the equation, since there is no direct way to measure CO - even laboratory-grade heart-rate monitors are still only measuring heart rate, which is like a third-hand approximation of calorie burn. And if an obese person does burn significantly fewer calories than someone else doing the same exercise, the CI piece is going to be even more important. But it still comes down to CI<CO for weight loss - if that's not happening, either CI is too high, CO is too low, or both.
This is a calorie-counting website, so naturally MFP is best utilized as a tool to help you dial in the CI portion of the equation; and furthermore, human beings are just...really incredibly bad at estimating how much they eat. It used to be an adaptation, being able to eat more than we strictly needed at a given time, but it's not anymore now that we have, you know, McDonald's and grocery stores and UberEats. There's science about that, too. A person who is already overweight or obese has a clear and obvious track record of underestimating how much they eat; the way to correct that is to eat less, but you need to know how much you're starting with to make any lasting changes.
Yes. I think this is the key bit for MFP and helping people.
Maybe acknowledge the possibility that yes it might be a bit harder for morbidly obese people. As the article suggests, it might be harder but we don’t yet know for sure, or what the mechanism is. But the solution is not to give up, but to be even more precise with the part we can control.
Carbs in. And counted as precise as possible by a lay person.
Who doesn't acknowledge that people who have difficulty controlling their weight have a hard time losing it? Most people don't want to be morbidly obese and struggle walking up 2 steps to the bakery. If it wasn't hard, most would have already done it.
Honestly?
I have seen exactly that on these forums. Multiple times. And I’ve only been here a short while.
It isn’t everyone. But it happens. Too frequently.
Also? Not every morbidly obese person struggles with two steps.
And cilantro tastes like soap. I forgot to put that in the OP. Which explains the disagree.
A little while ago you posted that soap tastes like cilantro, rather than the other way around, which made me think you should probably keep your mouth closed while washing your face!
OT but it does have a pertinent moral, the flavor of cilantro is something they have isolated the gene for. If you have the gene, cilantro tastes like soap to you, if not, it doesn’t. Just like two people, identical in BMI and other statistics, may have completely different experiences when trying to lose weight. Incidentally I like cilantro and it doesn’t taste like soap to me.8 -
MargaretYakoda wrote: »
Honestly?
I have seen exactly that on these forums. Multiple times. And I’ve only been here a short while.
It isn’t everyone. But it happens. Too frequently.
Also? Not every morbidly obese person struggles with two steps.
And cilantro tastes like soap. I forgot to put that in the OP. Which explains the disagree.
That is certainly my experience. And I find that it is not only when an obese person posts asking for advice, but moreso in the discussion threads where the tone can be more difficult. I have definitely seen people write that the discussion threads do no need to be supportive and that people should look elsewhere for support.
@AnnPT77 Your advice is always welcome and I have found it well considered, and I absolutely agree that monitoring progress is critical to success. I find the approach of trying something and measuring its outcome after 4-6 weeks highly accessible, and reassuring that, no matter what I can make an assessment and adjust. This paper clearly shouldn't change your advice, not least because you have experienced the inexactness of these estimations and build that into your advice.
My concern is on a wider level: while these things aren't individually hugely difficult there's a degree of technical proficiency and independent motivation that are a barrier to uptake, and a major accessibility problem. The majority of people will not look at or read the forums. They wont correct the overestimation of calories from the machine in the gym or from plugging the raw numbers into MFP, but they will have been told that the route to weight loss is eating less and exercising more. This paper adds that further to that: even if someone has got to the stage of inputting all that information and working extremely hard, they are still likely to be overestimating their deficit-by-exercise by 50%.
This is compounded by the fact that this is not likely to be the experience of people who are not obese: so even if they reach a forum like here or r/loseit on reddit they are (and I have seen a lot of this) likely to get a response that says "that is not my experience" and at worst be told that they can't break the laws of physics and must be misrepresenting their CICO balance. And for every single time that happens there are a hundred obese people reading who have waning motivation and feelings of hopelessness, who are experiencing a real let down that their weight loss is slower than expected. When, in fact, they were let down by the tools they were supposed to use, and into which they have invested a lot of money, time and emotional energy.
Of course the reality is everyone can lose weight. The calorie deficit required to achieve weight loss is difficult to predict, but is the exists for everyone. And in the context of highly available nutritionally complete food (with or without micronutrient supplementation, in the absence of a reason for failing to absorb nutrients, this calorie deficit can be obtained safely for almost everyone (with the exclusion being those with a significant metabolic disorder, but including people with mild or controlled hypothyroidism, many people with PCOS etc). It's just the actual resources needed to achieve this (time, money, emotional capacity) are wildly different.
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MargaretYakoda wrote: »NorthCascades wrote: »MargaretYakoda wrote: »goal06082021 wrote: »Oh, absolutely. It's always going to be easier to deal with the "CI" half of the equation, since there is no direct way to measure CO - even laboratory-grade heart-rate monitors are still only measuring heart rate, which is like a third-hand approximation of calorie burn. And if an obese person does burn significantly fewer calories than someone else doing the same exercise, the CI piece is going to be even more important. But it still comes down to CI<CO for weight loss - if that's not happening, either CI is too high, CO is too low, or both.
This is a calorie-counting website, so naturally MFP is best utilized as a tool to help you dial in the CI portion of the equation; and furthermore, human beings are just...really incredibly bad at estimating how much they eat. It used to be an adaptation, being able to eat more than we strictly needed at a given time, but it's not anymore now that we have, you know, McDonald's and grocery stores and UberEats. There's science about that, too. A person who is already overweight or obese has a clear and obvious track record of underestimating how much they eat; the way to correct that is to eat less, but you need to know how much you're starting with to make any lasting changes.
Yes. I think this is the key bit for MFP and helping people.
Maybe acknowledge the possibility that yes it might be a bit harder for morbidly obese people. As the article suggests, it might be harder but we don’t yet know for sure, or what the mechanism is. But the solution is not to give up, but to be even more precise with the part we can control.
Carbs in. And counted as precise as possible by a lay person.
Who doesn't acknowledge that people who have difficulty controlling their weight have a hard time losing it? Most people don't want to be morbidly obese and struggle walking up 2 steps to the bakery. If it wasn't hard, most would have already done it.
Honestly?
I have seen exactly that on these forums. Multiple times. And I’ve only been here a short while.
It isn’t everyone. But it happens. Too frequently.
Also? Not every morbidly obese person struggles with two steps.
And cilantro tastes like soap. I forgot to put that in the OP. Which explains the disagree.
Seltzer water tastes like tv static. 🙂
You have to keep in mind that different people come to the forums for different reasons, and get different things out of the experience. Which means we all see different things here, and we bring different attitudes and assumptions. That broad range of ideas and interactions you find in a place like this is part of its strength. Maybe part of its weakness too.
I'm here to share the info I've learned, pick more up, and to shoot the breeze with people like me. I'm a cyclist who likes to eat, a lot of cyclists are built like concentration camp survivors, and on the level of being hungry and appreciation of food, we don't relate. People here know the struggle.
I'm not here to hand out encouragement or motivation. If somebody else wants to lose weight, knows how, and makes it their priority they will. Sadly there's a lot of misinformation, so I'll pop into those threads, be one of the many people saying "this is how it works, this is what you have to do, this is what my experience was like or what my results were" to counteract the "all you need to do is keto your fat away." For the most part though, I'm here for the debate forum to expose myself to new ideas and points of view, and the exercise forum to talk about how to be fast on a bike and stuff like that.
I think it's almost universally understood that weight loss is hard. I've never met anyone who didn't think it's even harder for obese people. I think most people believe in something like "set points" and think obese people naturally gravitate to obesity, that's how they got obese, and that it takes constant effort to go against that. I personally think the world we live in is full of incredibly delicious, inexpensive, high calorie food everywhere and we have machines to do almost everything for us so we don't need to burn many calories day to day. But that observation or belief or whatever on my part doesn't make other people consistently eat fewer calories than they burn over a long term so they'll lose weight.7 -
autobahn66 wrote: »MargaretYakoda wrote: »
Honestly?
I have seen exactly that on these forums. Multiple times. And I’ve only been here a short while.
It isn’t everyone. But it happens. Too frequently.
Also? Not every morbidly obese person struggles with two steps.
And cilantro tastes like soap. I forgot to put that in the OP. Which explains the disagree.
That is certainly my experience. And I find that it is not only when an obese person posts asking for advice, but moreso in the discussion threads where the tone can be more difficult. I have definitely seen people write that the discussion threads do no need to be supportive and that people should look elsewhere for support.
@AnnPT77 Your advice is always welcome and I have found it well considered, and I absolutely agree that monitoring progress is critical to success. I find the approach of trying something and measuring its outcome after 4-6 weeks highly accessible, and reassuring that, no matter what I can make an assessment and adjust. This paper clearly shouldn't change your advice, not least because you have experienced the inexactness of these estimations and build that into your advice.
My concern is on a wider level: while these things aren't individually hugely difficult there's a degree of technical proficiency and independent motivation that are a barrier to uptake, and a major accessibility problem. The majority of people will not look at or read the forums. They wont correct the overestimation of calories from the machine in the gym or from plugging the raw numbers into MFP, but they will have been told that the route to weight loss is eating less and exercising more. This paper adds that further to that: even if someone has got to the stage of inputting all that information and working extremely hard, they are still likely to be overestimating their deficit-by-exercise by 50%.
This is compounded by the fact that this is not likely to be the experience of people who are not obese: so even if they reach a forum like here or r/loseit on reddit they are (and I have seen a lot of this) likely to get a response that says "that is not my experience" and at worst be told that they can't break the laws of physics and must be misrepresenting their CICO balance. And for every single time that happens there are a hundred obese people reading who have waning motivation and feelings of hopelessness, who are experiencing a real let down that their weight loss is slower than expected. When, in fact, they were let down by the tools they were supposed to use, and into which they have invested a lot of money, time and emotional energy.
Of course the reality is everyone can lose weight. The calorie deficit required to achieve weight loss is difficult to predict, but is the exists for everyone. And in the context of highly available nutritionally complete food (with or without micronutrient supplementation, in the absence of a reason for failing to absorb nutrients, this calorie deficit can be obtained safely for almost everyone (with the exclusion being those with a significant metabolic disorder, but including people with mild or controlled hypothyroidism, many people with PCOS etc). It's just the actual resources needed to achieve this (time, money, emotional capacity) are wildly different.
Yes, people have been told to "eat less and exercise more", in unhelpful ways.
They've also been told, "calorie counting doesn't work" (or "CICO doesn't work" by people who equate CICO with calorie counting).
They've been told that weight loss efforts will always fail (statistically, most will), so "diet culture" is toxic, and no one should even try to lose weight.
They've been told about the vital importance of a bunch of stuff - superfoods, and EPOC, and more - things that at best have only minor impact.
They've been told nonsense about how sugar intake will always be stored as fat (or trigger other food to be stored as fat, no exceptions), that you have to exercise in "the fat burning zone" or you won't burn fat, that it's important to "confuse" or "shock" your body to make progress.
They've been told that "the type of calories matters" which only makes sense if understood as employing a figure of speech (metonymy, say), because it's certainly nonsense taken literally. (That wouldn't be a problem if it didn't obscure what actually matters about food choice, but it does.)
They've been exhorted to "lose 20 pounds in 4 weeks on the Dr. XYZ diet", and buy the latest magical supplement (with ". . . when following the recommended diet and exercise program" in the fine print no one reads).
They've been encouraged to think of eating as some kind of epic battle between good and evil, and think of "dieting" as something like a punishment for the sin of being fat. They've been encouraged to see being fat as a personal failing, character fault, something that should cause shame or guilt.
And more.
It's insane. It's dysfunctional. It's confusing.
It's a miracle that anyone succeeds, really.16 -
This just makes me stand by my point even more that weight loss happens in the kitchen and fitness happens in gym... I have it right on my profile, even.
I work out because I enjoy it. Its good for my body. Its good for my heart, my muscles, my other organs. It's good for my brain and my mood. It burns calories, sure, but not as much as when I weighed almost 400 pounds (quite the bummer at less than half that weight now LOL). And almost all of us suggest for people starting to increase their activity level by some degree at least. I know I do. But an hour of any cardio does not burn nearly the calories that any of us wish it did. And the less you weigh... the less it burns. Cause ... physics.
And we all know you can't out exercise a bad (surplus calorie) diet.
And Ann is absolutely (as always lol) correct in how crazy and dysfunctional diet culture is. We moved to this area 4 years ago. No one here knows me as being fat. well, not almost 400 pounds fat (i still do have weight to lose, lets not kid myself. But needing to lose 40 pounds plus maybe some vanity weight is a far cry from whatever it is i started needing to lose). Even my HUSBAND has never known me as being 'fat'. And when people find out how big I used to be, the first thing they almost always say is ' How did you lose all that weight' and when you say 'eat less move more' their eyes glaze over. They want a quick fix a magic pill, a shake they can drink 3 times a day or saran wrap voodoo to shrink away their fat cells. Drink apple cider vinegar and put butter in your coffee (what? why? lol) Being an ACTIVE PARTICIPANT well, that takes effort. and time. and isn't... instant.
They think hours at the gym eat eating lettuce all day and boiled chicken. They think no more pizza or burgers or dessert. And sure, some people choose to do it that way. I certainly didn't.
The way I see it, losing weight IS easy. It is simple math, at the end of the day. What is HARD? Is the COMMITMENT it takes to stick with it. Because it takes TIME. I've been at this since 2014. YOU have to be more stubborn than the weight. More stubborn than the plateaus. When what you are doing stops working, you start doing something else, or figure out what you may be doing wrong. If you need to take a break, take a break- but eat at maintenance. Not above. I did it for 2 years? Maybe a bit more. I needed that break. And came back, in a good place mentally at the end of last year, to take on the rest of it. Hopefully, by this time next year... I'm at goal. And if not, thats okay. It's not a race. But a lot of people view it as one. And that, I think is why they fail. Because they don't see themselves as 'winning', even though, they are. They just don't have the 'pace time' that they want.12 -
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you had my husband laughing so hard he almost couldnt breathe LOLOLOL3 -
Here's a good breakdown of the research. I appreciate the aspect of SOME compensation - not totally.
While watching, with our knowledge of common recommendation on logging MFP exercise - see if something catches your attention that may explain why the recommendation works for some people, not needed for others.
https://youtu.be/qACj-9Y-8T4
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