What's on your mind?

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  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    I know many women in traditional relationships who when they want to turn down an aggressive suitor say they have a partner so as not to provoke an attack or further harassment. How do women in poly or open relationships do it?

    I imagine they just lie. Single women claim fake bfs all the time. Or just say that they have to go through their main bf. I know the kink community does that depending on the set up. A lot of the time guys really don’t care either way as I’m sure you know.

    You are a smart cookie❤️
  • Alinouveau2
    Alinouveau2 Posts: 6,702 Member
    8 hour zoom class today and the rest of the week. It's like I have a real job or something 😂🙄
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,623 Member
    IslandGal3 wrote: »
    My appointment with the orthopedic this morning. I already know my MRI results. I don’t want to have surgery, but if that’s my only option, let’s get it over with.

    hopefully it’s not the option 🤞
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    IslandGal3 wrote: »
    My appointment with the orthopedic this morning. I already know my MRI results. I don’t want to have surgery, but if that’s my only option, let’s get it over with.

    ♥️
  • Alinouveau2
    Alinouveau2 Posts: 6,702 Member
    The helicopter I hear flying around outside
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    If I had it to do over again, I wouldn’t
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    I hope Walmart stayed in the red on black friday. Greedy *kitten*
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    When people call the office & they have funny names & I have to ask them to spell it. “Thank you Mr. Snackenutz”
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    A friend of mine has had a good deal of success these past months selling her artwork at shows & is considering quitting working for someone else. Is there some kind of artist’s cooperative healthcare?
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    It’s important to me that the people in my life feel loved even if I don’t love them.
  • Alinouveau2
    Alinouveau2 Posts: 6,702 Member
    This bruise on my thigh and how the heck I got it
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    It bothers me that this emoji doesn't walk forward 🚶‍♀️ whyyyy???
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    It bothers me that this emoji doesn't walk forward 🚶‍♀️ whyyyy???
    She is reheating her fries
  • Alinouveau2
    Alinouveau2 Posts: 6,702 Member
    The liquor store lady giving me all the free gifts after I donated to the children's hospital and said how can you not support Sick Kids.
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    It bothers me that this emoji doesn't walk forward 🚶‍♀️ whyyyy???
    She is reheating her fries

    😂 This why I love you
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    It bothers me that this emoji doesn't walk forward 🚶‍♀️ whyyyy???
    She is reheating her fries

    😂 This why I love you
    I may not always know what you’re talking about but I am paying attention
  • cmsienk
    cmsienk Posts: 20,410 Member
    It bothers me that this emoji doesn't walk forward 🚶‍♀️ whyyyy???
    She is reheating her fries
    Or on her way to the freezer to get ice cream
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    Wondering what it's like to wake up feeling refreshed from a solid night's sleep.

    I wanna be that person that doesn't need 3 alarms, doesn't hit snooze 5 times, doesn't need a big cup of slap me in the *kitten* face when I roll outta bed.

    Is that too much to ask?!
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    Wondering what it's like to wake up feeling refreshed from a solid night's sleep.

    I wanna be that person that doesn't need 3 alarms, doesn't hit snooze 5 times, doesn't need a big cup of slap me in the *kitten* face when I roll outta bed.

    Is that too much to ask?!
    I get up right away & then take an hour to get moving. The only time I feel refreshed is when I can sleep as long as I want without guilt & without interruption. That has happened approximately three times in the past 25 years. I am so *kitten* exhausted most of the time & it’s pure will & stress that keep me moving. Most days I fantasize about a nice dark hobbit hole where there are no obligations & I can just lie still & quiet. TMI?
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    Wondering what it's like to wake up feeling refreshed from a solid night's sleep.

    I wanna be that person that doesn't need 3 alarms, doesn't hit snooze 5 times, doesn't need a big cup of slap me in the *kitten* face when I roll outta bed.

    Is that too much to ask?!
    I get up right away & then take an hour to get moving. The only time I feel refreshed is when I can sleep as long as I want without guilt & without interruption. That has happened approximately three times in the past 25 years. I am so *kitten* exhausted most of the time & it’s pure will & stress that keep me moving. Most days I fantasize about a nice dark hobbit hole where there are no obligations & I can just lie still & quiet. TMI?

    Not at all. I could have easily written this word for word....minus the dark hobbit hole 😂
  • Alinouveau2
    Alinouveau2 Posts: 6,702 Member
    My first volunteer driver should be fun on Monday. The wife of the man I'm taking was super chatty and will be coming along pluses I get to drive them downtown so I can go see the Christmas windows or maybe even go skate
  • Tigg_er
    Tigg_er Posts: 22,001 Member
    I need to find balance. My ability to get too attached to my dying patients is really weighing heavy on me.

    I know no other way, it's who I am as a person and would want the same care for anyone that I loved.

    It's hard not to take my work home with me at the end of the day.

    If I find myself in that position, it is a person like you I pray for to take care of me 🤗🤗
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    Tigg_er wrote: »
    I need to find balance. My ability to get too attached to my dying patients is really weighing heavy on me.

    I know no other way, it's who I am as a person and would want the same care for anyone that I loved.

    It's hard not to take my work home with me at the end of the day.

    If I find myself in that position, it is a person like you I pray for to take care of me 🤗🤗

    This is so damn sweet. Thank you!
  • snowflake954
    snowflake954 Posts: 8,399 Member
    I need to find balance. My ability to get too attached to my dying patients is really weighing heavy on me.

    I know no other way, it's who I am as a person and would want the same care for anyone that I loved.

    It's hard not to take my work home with me at the end of the day.

    My mother was a registered nurse and worked nights. Sometimes she'd be called to special--stay in a dying person's room. I once asked her if she was afraid to be there when a person died. She looked at me and said "No, I consider it a privilege to be there, and to comfort the family".
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    There comes a time when you just have to let go & allow people to wallow in their own ignorance
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    I made a mistake at work today & I didn’t know it was a mistake at the time & this is why I shouldn’t be allowed to make decisions & now I get to feel this pressure in my chest for a week
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    I made a mistake at work today & I didn’t know it was a mistake at the time & this is why I shouldn’t be allowed to make decisions & now I get to feel this pressure in my chest for a week

    ☹️♥️
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,623 Member
    edited November 2022
    I made a mistake at work today & I didn’t know it was a mistake at the time & this is why I shouldn’t be allowed to make decisions & now I get to feel this pressure in my chest for a week

    Tbh - most of the chit I’ve learned from any job is by ducking something up- now during your year end review you can list not afraid to make mistakes as a strength - that my friend is a silver lining