JUST GIVE ME 10 DAYS ROUND 216

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  • CamandJarvis
    CamandJarvis Posts: 2,040 Member
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    39flavours wrote: »
    I have had some bad news this morning. My daughter's grandfather passed away last night. (My ex partner's father) He had been ill for some time with early onset dementia and cancer. My daughter (19 years old) and her father have a difficult relationship and she has been avoiding his calls for the last 6 months. He has mental health issues and can behave in a narcissistic, psychotic way that can be quite intimidating and aggressive, so my daughter found it too hard to maintain a relationship with him. She was really close to her grandad though, when she was younger, and now is feeling overwhelmed with guilt and feeling pressure to reach out to her dad and family. It's such a hard thing for a young person to have to manage. My daughter has a lot of difficulty dealing with uncomfortable emotions, she tends to shut down and avoid facing things. I'm doing my best to support them both, but my main priority is to protect her from any attempts to make her feel shame and hurt from her father. He has already been sending me messages saying that she wouldn't be shocked at granddad's passing if she'd shown any interest and answered his calls. I am staying calm with him as I understand how much pain he is in right now and is likely lashing out but at the same time I don't want him to say anything to her that will leave lifelong emotional damage.
    It's going to be a tough few days in this household. I know this isn't the right forum to discuss this but I needed to share my thoughts with someone, and also I would be interested to know if anyone else has been through anything similar or has any sage advice for me.

    No advice, unfortunately, but wanted to let you know you and your daughter are in my thoughts through this challenging time. Sending lots of love and comfort your way <3
  • quiltingjaine
    quiltingjaine Posts: 5,823 Member
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    @clprieur “ Holy Heck! @quiltingjaine, you’re a genius! You should start your own app! I’d buy the premium version of that!”

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  • quiltingjaine
    quiltingjaine Posts: 5,823 Member
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    @CamandJarvis I was so excited when I heard of “double red” donations a couple of years ago. My blood type is fairly rare and I really wanted to do that. Unfortunately, there is an age limit and I was/am TOO OLD. You would think the computer would have known that and not sent me the “request.”

    @HoopsGuy72 You know, if I had remembered that I had your number, I would have called you! It was saved under your “old” name.
  • clprieur
    clprieur Posts: 264 Member
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    @clprieur “ Holy Heck! @quiltingjaine, you’re a genius! You should start your own app! I’d buy the premium version of that!”

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    Started these 10 day challenges!! Genius!!! So achievable!! With always a chance of redemption, right around the corner! :)
  • musicsax
    musicsax Posts: 4,279 Member
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    39flavours wrote: »
    I have had some bad news this morning. My daughter's grandfather passed away last night. (My ex partner's father) He had been ill for some time with early onset dementia and cancer. My daughter (19 years old) and her father have a difficult relationship and she has been avoiding his calls for the last 6 months. He has mental health issues and can behave in a narcissistic, psychotic way that can be quite intimidating and aggressive, so my daughter found it too hard to maintain a relationship with him. She was really close to her grandad though, when she was younger, and now is feeling overwhelmed with guilt and feeling pressure to reach out to her dad and family. It's such a hard thing for a young person to have to manage. My daughter has a lot of difficulty dealing with uncomfortable emotions, she tends to shut down and avoid facing things. I'm doing my best to support them both, but my main priority is to protect her from any attempts to make her feel shame and hurt from her father. He has already been sending me messages saying that she wouldn't be shocked at granddad's passing if she'd shown any interest and answered his calls. I am staying calm with him as I understand how much pain he is in right now and is likely lashing out but at the same time I don't want him to say anything to her that will leave lifelong emotional damage.
    It's going to be a tough few days in this household. I know this isn't the right forum to discuss this but I needed to share my thoughts with someone, and also I would be interested to know if anyone else has been through anything similar or has any sage advice for me.

    I feel your frustration and concern for your DD, I've not been through this myself so all I can offer is that you are there for her and support her as much as you can which you obviously are.
    This forum is exactly the place to share any problem which makes life difficult, we all support each other.
    Sending confirming hugs and keeping you both in my thoughts xx
  • musicsax
    musicsax Posts: 4,279 Member
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    @clprieur - you are amazing!! So many achievements, brilliant !!👋👏
  • chloeguo
    chloeguo Posts: 235 Member
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    SW (12/27/22): 150.2lb
    Round 215: 138.6

    Round 216:
    3/3 140
    3/4
    3/5
    3/6 138.6
    3/7 139.2
    3/8 139
    3/9 138.2
    3/10 137.2
    3/11 137
    3/12 138.4
  • deepwoodslady
    deepwoodslady Posts: 10,814 Member
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    clprieur wrote: »
    @clprieur “ Holy Heck! @quiltingjaine, you’re a genius! You should start your own app! I’d buy the premium version of that!”

    WHAT did I say/do?

    Started these 10 day challenges!! Genius!!! So achievable!! With always a chance of redemption, right around the corner! :)

    @clprieur ---- Our lovely @quiltingjaine is not the original one who started this challenge, but she is the lovely lady who has stepped up to post and host this challenge of late. She does know the history of the past hostesses as she has been with this challenge since the beginning (or nearly the beginning?). Along with you, I am very grateful for her!
  • deepwoodslady
    deepwoodslady Posts: 10,814 Member
    edited March 2023
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    Round 216

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    MY NAME IS DONNA. I AM 62 YEARS YOUNG & FROM THE MIDWEST USA. I AM APPROX 5’ 5” TALL.
    ROUND 173 FOR ME.

    “Today….I am choosing Me”

    MY STATS:

    Highest weight ever (05-10-2016): 253
    Original starting weight on MFP: (01-11-2018) 235.0
    R215 EW= 193.2
    R216 EW= 189.0


    Current New Goals:
    Weight:
    Short Term Goal: To weigh less at the end of this round than I did at the end of the last round.
    Final goal: 145-155. We’ll see how I look & feel when I get there.
    Exercise: Move 30 minutes per day rotating activity.

    COLOR CODE: Fuchsia is a Happy Weight Loss for me. Blue is a sad weight gain.Black is no change.

    ********LOOK AND SEE HOW THE UPS & DOWNS OF MY JOURNEY JUST HELPS ME BE A STRONGER & MORE DETERMINED ME********

    R43 thru R52 (06/07/18 thru 09/23/18) = -19.4 LOST (Ending weight 179.0)

    R53 thru R62 (09/24/18 thru 01/01/19) = -4.1 GAINED (Ending weight 183.1)

    R63 thru R72 (01/02/19 thru 04/11/19) = -8.1 GAINED (Ending weight 191.2)

    R73 thru R82 (04/12/19 thru 07/20/19) = -5.5 GAINED (Ending weight 196.7)

    R83 thru R92 (07/21/19 thru 10/28/19) = -8.7 LOST (Ending weight 188.0)

    R93 thru R102 (10/29/19 thru 02/05/20) = -2.0 GAINED(Ending weight 190.0)

    R103 thru 112 (02/06/20 thru 05/06/20) = -14.9 GAINED (Ending Weight 204.9)

    R113 thru 122 (05/07/20 thru 08/23/20) = -4.7 GAINED (Ending Weight 209.6)

    R 123 thru R132 (08/24 thru 12/02/20) = -1.5 LOST (Ending Weight 208.1)

    R133 thru R142 (12/03/20 thru 03/01/21) = -0.7 LOST (Ending Weight 207.4)

    R143 thru 152 (03/02/21 thru 06/10/21) = -3.6 LOST (Ending Weight 203.8)

    R153 thru R162 (06/11/21 thru 09/18/21) = (b]-16.2 LOST [/b] (Ending Weight 187.6)

    R163 thru R172 (09/19/21 thru 12/27/21) = (b]-5.0 GAINED [/b] (Ending Weight 192.6)

    R173 thru R182 (12/28/21 thru 04/06/22) = (b]-7.0 GAINED [/b] (Ending Weight 199.6)

    R183 thru R192 (04/07/22 thru 07/15/22) = -1.4 LOST (Ending Weight 198.2)

    R193 thru R202 (07/16/22 thru 10/23/22) = -3.8 GAINED (Ending Weight 202.0)

    R203 thru R212 (10/24/22 thru 01/31/23) = -7.2 LOST (Ending Weight 194.8)

    R213 (02/01/23 thru 02/10/23) = -1.2 LOST (Ending Weight 193.6)

    R214 (02/11/23 thru 02/20/23) = -0.4 GAINED (Ending Weight 194.0)

    R215 (02/21/23 thru 03/02/23) = -0.8 LOST (Ending Weight 193.2)

    R216 (03/03/23 thru 03/12/23) = -4.0 LOST (Ending Weight 189.0)


    Day/Weight/Comment
    03/02 …..193.2….. ENDING WEIGHT LAST ROUND
    03/03 -194.6- (Trend weight 193.2)

    03/04 -193.0- (Trend weight 193.1)

    03/05 -194.0- (Trend weight 193.2)

    03/06 -191.2- (Trend weight 193.0)

    03/07 -191.6- (Trend weight 192.9)

    03/08 -190.6- (Trend weight 192.7)


    03/09 -192.2- (Trend weight 192.6)

    03/10 -191.6- (Trend weight 192.5)

    03/11 -189.2- (Trend weight 192.2) Well, here’s the true weight after the water pill took all the excess fluid out that I spoke of yesterday. What a relief to my ankles especially! Interestingly, the last two nights I dozed off on the couch and woke up STARVING TO ABSOLUTE DEATH, both times at about 12:30 a.m. I was so close to a binge it was UNBELIEVABLE! I found myself justifying (out loud, mind you) why it’s okay for me to eat whatever I want right now, and in large quantities. Why I should just shove in many kinds of foods and “get it out of my system” as long as I’m so hungry anyway. I tell you folks, it took EVERYTHING I HAVE INSIDE THIS NEARLY 63 YEAR OLD BODY to stop myself. I grabbed a handful of almonds (21 of them to be exact, which is ¾ of a serving) and I ate those, drank water and focused back on something on TV. It worked both nights. Hunger banished because of the healthy fat. I would have grabbed walnuts (so healthy) but I had already had some during breakfast both days. I’m so glad I did this two nights in a row as I know it has helped continue my weight loss. I knew, by the way, that I had already had sufficient calories, carbs, protein etc. or I would have eaten something more. My body was fighting the weight loss. We were in a bitter battle – I won this time.

    03/12 -189.0- (Trend weight 191.9) What a good round this has been for me. 4.2 lbs down. Spent most of my time at home (minimal travel) so that always helps since my food choices are more controlled. One other thing..... my underwear are too big now. That’s all I have to add. I hope that gave someone a chuckle or put a smile on someone’s face today. It did mine! See ya’ll tomorrow at round 217.


    Every healthy habit brings me closer to scratching each of these off to NEVER see them again!
    250’s; 240’s; 230’s; 220's; 210's; 200's; 190's; 180’s; 170's; 160's; 150’s
  • NuggetBrain
    NuggetBrain Posts: 526 Member
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    MFP SW: 297
    R200 EW: 291
    R201 EW: 286.4
    R202 EW: 283
    R203 EW: 280.2
    R204 EW: 273
    R205 EW: 274.4 (yikes!)
    R206 EW: 268.2
    R207 EW: 265.6
    R208 EW: 260.2
    R209 EW: 256
    R210 EW: 252.4
    R211 EW: 248.6
    R212 EW: 249.2 (booooo)
    R213 EW: 245
    R214 EW: 241.4
    R215 EW: 237.6
    3/3: 237.8
    3/4: 236.8. 60 pounds down!!
    3/5: 237.2
    3/6: 237.4
    3/7: Missed
    3/8: 236.6
    3/9: 235.6
    3/10: 326.4
    3/11: 235.8
    3/12: 235.8