LESS Alcohol ~ SEPTEMBER 2024 ~ One Day at A Time
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17 AF
9 A6 -
Good morning my LA awakened wonders!
AF - 15
A - 11
Had so much excess energy yesterday from not drinking I didn't know what to do with myself. So, I went for a 1hr walk and then cut the grass. lol10 -
Day 26 AF done and on to Day 27. I'm sensing motivation in people's posts!
If we don't challenge ourselves, we don't change.8 -
SurferGirl1982 wrote: »@MissMay You mentioned on the October thread that you are in FL. Please be safe!
Thanks @SurferGirl1982 my area in Florida was spared harm from hurricane Helene.
Also your attention to the avoidance information is as you say, ironic. It is a circle some people can not seem to step off the rotating carousel.6 -
xbowhunter wrote: »I have been alcohol free for 10 days now.
A few observations.
sleeping way better. I wake up before the alarm.
Energy is way up during the day. Fatigue is gone.
Less bloating.
Cravings for empty calorie food and mindless snacking is gone.
I have dropped 5lbs.
Anxiety is gone. I feel calmer and more relaxed with myself.
I seem to have more time on my hands.
My overall senses are firing on all cylinders.
My wife said to me last night "you will drink again I don't think you can do it" normally this would have set me off but for some reason I found this to be motivating, and I accept the challenge! lol
This is my second go around to quit the habit.
I initially wanted to do a 90 day challenge but I have made the decision to make this a permanent change. The people in my life will either have to accept it. If they can't accept it, then I guess that's the end of our relationship.
I love how you were like “Challenge accepted!” Great to hear being AF is making such a difference for you.3 -
Low alcohol wine is really working for me. Even a 6oz glass is still not quite one normal glass, so that’s a LA win for me. I’m sleeping much better too. Sticking to one glass of the low alcohol wine is a bonus!
So my new favorite Starborough’s Starlight Sauvignon blanc. Better price point than the Decoy (which I still love), and more readily available. But- with the regular one on sale, it was more expensive! Grrr. But, I just spent the extra $2 and moved on.
I had two glasses of regular wine on Wednesday night, which caused sleep disturbances. So, when out, I really need to stick to one glass. Two is just a little too much.4 -
@MissMay, thanks for setting up October! Glad you’re ok with the hurricane.
@xbowhunter so happy for you! Your positive energy is very motivating.
@SurferGirl1982 wow, the story of you being hospitalized is terrifying! Yeah, nip that in the bud as best you can, safely, of course.3 -
SurferGirl1982 wrote: »I wish I hadn't announced my intentions of making today Day 1 AF. I'm not sure if I can do it today ☹️
For what it's worth, I think you can do it today. If you don't, tomorrow will be here soon enough.6 -
September:
AF=9
A=17
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What SparkSpringtime said, SurferGirl. You are getting a little closer each day. It's hard to kick a YEARS long habit in a few short months. Do what you can to even cut back a little when you can. Hang in there!4
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Hello LA friends,
Here we are, it's almost the end of the month. I'm not quite going to meet my goal as the last two weekends I've had some alcohol. I've had 20 AF days so far this month and my goal was 25. There are only 4 days left in the month, so my goal is no longer possible.
However, I'm still proud of myself as I've been quite stressed lately and alcohol used to be a major coping mechanism for that for me. Last night after a long day at work and with kids I was exhausted, stressed, discouraged, everything... I briefly thought about having a drink and I did kind of grieve the fact that I'm not a daily drinker anymore for a moment. But then I looked across the dinner table at my kids. I feel really proud that I am now an adult in their life who is not drinking all the time. When they were younger, that is the adult they saw in their life. Everyday with a glass (or 3 or 4) of wine. That realization and sitting with them in that moment made that desire completely go away.
My in laws were visiting last weekend and when we are entertaining I always like to enjoy a few drinks. I try not to make my alcohol days ones where there is some kind of special significance going on. My standards are pretty low for that (yes, watching a game or something on the TV with my husband occasionally counts, LOL).
So far in September,
20/26 days. I'm not counting today yet, but I don't think I'll be indulging.
Have a great Friday all!
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Do you ever find that making a list
1. 2 loads of laundry today
2. Weed the petunias
3. Make doctor's appointment
Is so satisfying that it takes the place of the actions, so that end of day, laundry is undone, weeds are still in place, and the doctor has not heard from you ??
Claiming an AF Day in the AM works that way for me...by dinnertime that meal prep glass of Chianti is in hand. No idea how theit got there.....
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AF = 21
A = 6
@forestdweller1.. YES! Those damn liars get in the way! But, I still write them.🙄🤦🏻♀️🤣
That damn magic bottle of wine showed up on my countertop again today. Walked through the kitchen to out the dog in his kennel, so he’d leave the medical transport people alone when they picked up MIL, and there it was! Just sitting there.
Debated a lot tonight on drinking it. In the end, decided against it. I have too much to do this weekend my son’s girlfriend and her family are coming over for a movie night tomorrow, and we are celebrating my oldest granddaughter’s birthday on Sunday. The cleaning, baking, and cooking triathlon begins in the morning.7 -
17 AF
10 A3 -
@NonnieDoiron you're the cleaning/baking/cooking triathlete! Add shopping
Curious to hear what you'll make. Will you have non-alcoholic drinks?
Usually my guests are my grown kids and their fiancee or the girlfriend of the month. Half the gang doesn't drink since they have a long drive back and the other half drinks like fish. Usually, I buy tequila and a few different wines and usually one of them brings the latest bourbon in fashion or whatever. I'll probably intentionally only buy alcohol I dislike (rum) because if I buy tequila, I may tempt myself and drink it. I will have to plan out what I will drink though. I'm contemplating breaking out the blender and going all out making at least 2 types of not mocktails, one fruity and one not sweet. I have to get up to speed on the latest mocktail recipes.4 -
27 days AF done and day 28 is here. The wine devil in my head sent me a crazy thought: "Hey, day 30 is coming, you can drink then since 30 days AF is enough and you deserve it; you don't need to keep going AF now, you're fine to drink 1-2 drinks now".
So yeah, the wine devil still pops into my head challenging me. I haven't been able to get rid of him yet. My mind told him to go to hell.
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15 A
13 AF
After last Sunday's drinking event at a bar watching football. I thought I would be sober this past week to get more AF days. I literally took one hour at a time, and one day at a time. This weekend, I'm at a lake house with friends who are all drinking. I told my husband don't pack me any alcohol just seltzer. I don't mind that they're all drinking. I am abstaining this weekend, because I don't want to have yet another day 1.5 -
SurferGirl1982 wrote: »@RubyRed427 That must be hard abstaining when everyone else is drinking. I know what you mean about having another Day 1. Day 1's are hard to achieve and usually aren't that pleasant either!
Thanks Surfer girl!
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@globalhiker I did most of my cleaning yesterday, and the family we had over last night are incredibly picky eaters. So, it was chicken tenders, full-sized hot dogs wrapped in crescent rolls, grapes, chips and dip, and cheese and crackers. All the adults had wine last night. I drank my wine, and everyone else had sangrias. But, I don’t feel bad today, and I didn’t get drunk not even tipsy. So, that was good.
Today, I am baking cookies for the granddaughter because she’s not a fan of cake. I stack them and put a candle in the top cookie. She requested penne with pasta sauce. So, she just wants my spaghetti with penne pasta instead of spaghetti noodles. She and I both like the short pastas over spaghetti noodles. So, I’ll be making that with Italian sausage, meatballs, Parmesan garlic bread, and salad. I make my own sauce and meatballs, so it takes all day.
Today, after church, I’ll be cooking/baking until they arrive. Tonight, I may drink the rest of my wine with dinner, but I might skip it. We’ll see.
AF = 21
A = 76 -
September:
AF=10
A=186 -
Good morning my LA friends!
Happy Sunday!
I survived 2 get gatherings where alcohol was flowing and Friday felt a little tempted but I stayed true to myself and I am proud to say I didn't cave to the peer pressure. One more event today but I feel confident I can be alcohol free again today.
AF - 17
A - 1110 -
18 AF
11 A5 -
forestdweller1 wrote: »Do you ever find that making a list
1. 2 loads of laundry today
2. Weed the petunias
3. Make doctor's appointment
Is so satisfying that it takes the place of the actions, so that end of day, laundry is undone, weeds are still in place, and the doctor has not heard from you ??
Claiming an AF Day in the AM works that way for me...by dinnertime that meal prep glass of Chianti is in hand. No idea how theit got there.....
Wow, what an interesting perspective! I hadn’t thought of that. I derive a lot of satisfaction from crossing out or checking off what I’ve accomplished-try that and see if it works! I will say that I now make weekly check lists instead of daily (unless something REALLY needs to be done on a certain day.). I find it helpful. If I don’t have my list and my paperwork isn’t in order, it gets all jumbled up in my head!5 -
28 AF days and day 29 is here. Saturday I ran into a "trigger" moment. I felt a mild desire to buy wine on Saturday after I did a double class at the gym on an empty stomach and stopped by the Albertsons supermarket to pick up fruit. The urge got stronger when I went to reach for organic red grapes and next to them in my visual field of course was a wine display. And the wine was cheaper than the grapes. Normally I would've fallen for it but instead I picked up diet doctor pepper (I know, a bunch of chemicals), diet A&W (more chemicals) and Soleil brand fizzy water in cans, mix of Mango flavor and some Cucumber Melon. I had a soda when I got home and all was well. Craving ended.
Kinda wish my local politicians would work to control the number of unnecessary wine displays dispersed within supermarkets. Like we don't need 5-10 wine bottle displays scattered throughout the store. This produces temptations in people trying to improve their health. Be respectful and just keep the booze to one aisle at the back of the store please.
Happy I am not drinking though. Very happy7 -
globalhiker wrote: »28 AF days and day 29 is here. Saturday I ran into a "trigger" moment. I felt a mild desire to buy wine on Saturday after I did a double class at the gym on an empty stomach and stopped by the Albertsons supermarket to pick up fruit. The urge got stronger when I went to reach for organic red grapes and next to them in my visual field of course was a wine display. And the wine was cheaper than the grapes. Normally I would've fallen for it but instead I picked up diet doctor pepper (I know, a bunch of chemicals), diet A&W (more chemicals) and Soleil brand fizzy water in cans, mix of Mango flavor and some Cucumber Melon. I had a soda when I got home and all was well. Craving ended.
Kinda wish my local politicians would work to control the number of unnecessary wine displays dispersed within supermarkets. Like we don't need 5-10 wine bottle displays scattered throughout the store. This produces temptations in people trying to improve their health. Be respectful and just keep the booze to one aisle at the back of the store please.
Happy I am not drinking though. Very happyxbowhunter wrote: »Good morning my LA friends!
Happy Sunday!
I survived 2 get gatherings where alcohol was flowing and Friday felt a little tempted but I stayed true to myself and I am proud to say I didn't cave to the peer pressure. One more event today but I feel confident I can be alcohol free again today.
AF - 17
A - 11
You're both doing great! It's very inspiring to read about your temptations and ultimate successes.4 -
15 A
14 AF
I have been AF for 7 days. I thought I'd never hit 15 AF this month but I surprised myself.6 -
SurferGirl1982 wrote: »Hi All! I don't have anything to report today. But I just wanted to check-in.globalhiker wrote: »27 days AF done and day 28 is here. The wine devil in my head sent me a crazy thought: "Hey, day 30 is coming, you can drink then since 30 days AF is enough and you deserve it; you don't need to keep going AF now, you're fine to drink 1-2 drinks now".
@globalhiker That thought is soooo me! In the past, whether my goal was 30 days, 60, or 90, I always feel that the day after I fulfill my goal that it is "OK" to drink again. I'm not sure what your personal goal is, but isn't it funny, how people that have some problem with moderating their alcohol think the same? The more I read in this group, the more I realize that I'm not so different!
And @xbowhunter I'm very proud of you. I don't think you posted yesterday. It scared me! I know you didn't ask for it. But, you've become my inspiration! If you can do it, so can I! No pressure though 😁
So happy I can help you consume LA. Just got home from another drink fest party. I stayed strong and drank my Heineken 0.0... lol8 -
SurferGirl1982 wrote: »SparkSpringtime69 wrote: »Thanks @surfergirl1982, Unfortunately I didn't get a third day into that streak
@KarinSanden Very impressive numbers! Keep up the good work!
Thank you, it is not so impressive as I don't have much of a problem with alcohol. Sweets is my problem and my results with that is not as successful.4 -
SurferGirl1982 wrote: »@RubyRed427 Doing good! Are you feeling any better or changes?
It is a relief to wake up without even the slightest hangover.
Changes: my brain goes between happy and very sad. I know it's adjusting to a new pattern.
After a weekend with friends who were all drinking, and I was not, I was relieved to come home Sunday feeling well. I am much more productive!
I also have a priceless friend who is going through this with me. So, we text each other a lot. She and I are the same with our drinking, and she is quitting too.
Thanks for checking up on me. October will be your month, I can feel it!6 -
I just caught up on everyone's updates. So many are doing so well! Great job and thanks for inspiring us! I have not been AF since my last update on Wednesday. I made it through the whole football game at the stadium yesterday with just water and then had wine later at home. Doh.
Anyway, no wine tonight. Tonight begins a streak for me, I hope. I think I might go for a sober October. I need it. See you all in the October thread!
Final numbers
AF = 7
A = 236
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