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What’s the biggest challenge you face in staying consistent with your fitness or health goals while juggling a demanding 9-to-5 job? Is it lack of time, energy, motivation, or something else?

Please share your thoughts.

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  • oakster69
    oakster69 Posts: 79 Member
    Mine is travel and business lunches. Trying to get to the gym to consistently work out is a challenge when i am on the road frequently for work. Additionally, we try to travel in the evenings to avoid missing billable work time during the day and to help keep projects moving. Then, when we are at other offices its the big dinner and drinks along with a fast paced schedule and lunches with teams who are not all watching calories like I am. I made it through two weeks of travel and meals and the Thanksgiving holiday without gaining any weight though, so that is good!
  • springlering62
    springlering62 Posts: 8,679 Member
    And because Ann follows up on everything, I also think to myself “Ann would scoff and go rowing in this. This is mild to her!”
  • lisakatz2
    lisakatz2 Posts: 572 Member
    The biggest challenge for me is energy. I've been putting off workouts (bad, I know) because I get up very early in the morning (4:30 AM) and also take meds that tend to make me feel sleepy. My energy starts to wane particularly in the afternoon and by the time I get off from work it's an uphill climb. I think I really need to join a gym again because once I'm there I'm committed to doing SOMETHING. Plus, I'm not strength training and I think I ought to start doing that. I don't know why I've been putting it off.
  • AnnPT77
    AnnPT77 Posts: 34,617 Member
    edited December 3
    And because Ann follows up on everything, I also think to myself “Ann would scoff and go rowing in this. This is mild to her!”

    Yes, with my head hanging in shame, I do follow up too much, including now, maybe especially now.

    But no, we stop rowing when it gets too cold, air or water. Those boats flip pretty easily. (Racing singles are about 12"/30cm wide at the waterline, 26'/8m long.) As it gets colder, we go in only multi-rower boats for a while (wider, somewhat less flippy). Then we stop, because flips (hypothermia) can be deadly.

    Eventually, the river gets solid. :D

    Personally, I also stop biking outside when it gets too cold to be fun (and too snowy to be safe taking the roads I need to get to trails).

    I used to XC ski some, but don't feel safe doing it alone anymore (osteoporosis, not stranger danger). I don't have any current friends who ski to do that with.

    I do live in a place with seasons (Michigan) because I like that, and subjectively dislike extreme heat more than cold (except the "can't row" part).

    I do admit to being stubborn. Right now, because of the skull fracture/ brain bleed recovery limitations, I'm just stationary biking at home . . . crazy slowly, because I'm directed not to do anything that gets heart rate up beyond "easily talk in full sentences". 🙄 I'm aiming for 115bpm, not to exceed 120, when a normal moderate pace would be 130s/140s bpm. Average watts are barely over half normal.

    Can you tell I'm finding this frustrating? 😆

    Yeah, injury and recovery is a challenge. 😉
  • springlering62
    springlering62 Posts: 8,679 Member
    Why shame?! 🤣

    I’m the one who bellyaches at every ache and pain. I can’t even imagine busting my skull open. If one internet granny can be proud of another, I think you’re absolutely awesome, both before, and especially after The Fall.
  • AnnPT77
    AnnPT77 Posts: 34,617 Member
    Why shame?! 🤣

    Because I post too much, and ramble too long in posts. Nothing to do with the head injury, except I may be posting even more recently because I need to avoid any type of physical exertion right now.
    I’m the one who bellyaches at every ache and pain. I can’t even imagine busting my skull open. If one internet granny can be proud of another, I think you’re absolutely awesome, both before, and especially after The Fall.

    Heh. Strictly, the skull wasn't open, just cracked a little. Skin was broken, and those who get queasy over medical stuff shouldn't click the spoiler . . .
    . . . because it bled crazy much, as head wounds do. I actually drove myself to the emergency room (nearby, at a low traffic time, on familiar secondary roads), because I didn't even pass out or anything, but figured I needed stitches. Got a couple staples. Didn't know about the fracture/bleed until they did a CT scan. Happened at a friend's house where I was alone. When I went back there after the hospital stay, I was so, so glad it didn't look like a crime scene. I pretty much just bled on myself. Some of the clothes I'd had on looked kinda crime scene-y. :D
  • NeedToLoseWeight2000
    NeedToLoseWeight2000 Posts: 39 Member
    @AnnPT77 get well quick. I feel your pain of trying to follow doctors orders when it doesn’t at all fit our lifestyle!
    Interesting observation reading this thread, (and many others, and also just living life). There are those of us who were just blessed with ridiculously high energy levels and we don’t know the word “no”.
    So yes, it is a real challenge for me to not do all the physical activities I want to do, because I know that my body is just not strong enough yet!
  • springlering62
    springlering62 Posts: 8,679 Member
    Welcome back @zebasschick !!!!!

    I’m sorry life is banging on you. When it rains, it pours.

    Hope everyone is back to glowing health - and sleep- soon! 😘
  • zebasschick
    zebasschick Posts: 1,071 Member
    ann, i completely agree. a lot of what life has handed me has not made me stronger. some of the trauma has left me permanently damaged. while i came back partway from the emotional damage, i'm more fragile and not as functional as i was. physically i never got over several injuries completely, although they're better, but they continue to hold me back, cause me unexpected pain that often lasts for weeks.
  • HoneyBadger302
    HoneyBadger302 Posts: 2,085 Member
    It's never just ONE thing - one thing is able to be overcome with just a tiny bit of determination. My struggles hit the hardest when the challenges stack up. Not saying they are excuses, just a lot to balance. In my case:
    • Juggling the day job; part time job (adds activity to my days, but also takes up time); and starting a business that takes another 13-20 hours a week
    • Care and training of my pets (can help with exercise and movement, but also isn't a negotiable)
    • Peri&menopause and hormones causing havoc - working on treating, but not just a simple fix. Causes issues with everything from fatigue, brain fog, aches and pains worse than "normal," weight shift, cravings, mood changes that aren't just resolved like 'normal,' and the stress that comes from these and many other issues, plus trying to treat it
    • Culmination of injuries to date add up into less great sleep, aches, set backs in workouts, limits to what one can do, etc.

    I'm not one for being overly accepting of blanket excuses, so long as one owns the situation. For example, for me, the hormone issues have been far worse than I ever would have imagined they would be, and significantly intrusive when one is also juggling all the other pieces and nothing in your life is going to give you a break to focus on working through those (fluctuating) changes. I'll admit I am not doing all the things I should be doing to lose weight and maintain fitness. The items above are my challenges in making that happen, but I don't "wonder" why the weight won't come off, either....