WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR DECEMBER 2024

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  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,655 Member
    Allie ~ Please excuse my early post about your brother. I thought it was your brother that wanted to move in with you and didn't realize it was your son! Anyway, continue to think about the advice some of the other ladies have given. Lisa was so right when she reminded us that helping others is what makes you happy.

    Heather ~ That is a lovely thought provoking poem.

    Carol in GA
  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,251 Member
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    Lights are the thing for me too. We had turned on our Christmas lights in the window, on the tree, and my jewelry tree, when we had gone out to get our take and bake pizzas. I made husband back up after we pulled out of our driveway so I could see them.💖

    I have had many nights of lights on, Classic Christmas music playing on my Pandora, and a non music Yule log burning and crackling on the tv. Then something nice to sip. That's my happy place right there.

    My friend here asked me once how its fun eating like a treat by myself when I was telling her about my peppermint ice cream and peppermint vodka. I struck me as odd, because I have never felt like "oh I should be sharing this with someone to actually have fun with this". I am perfectly content by myself and wouldn't even think about dragging my husband into it, in order to have fun. Maybe its the military wife in me, but I found it an interesting thing.
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa


    Lights are one of my favorite parts too. I remember driving around town to check out all the lights on Christmas eve. Was my favorite thing- found out many years later that we did that so one parent could stay home and get the last of the gifts wrapped one year and we loved it so much, we just did it every year. I still like to drive around and look at the lights and I have stopped a few times to really take it all in when I come across a well lit home.

    I have more decorations to put out up front and hopefully a little more inside- haven't done much in here. Need to bring the stuff in off the deck between storms.
  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 3,885 Member
    Greetings!

    I’ll start with a question to the group: How do I message someone here? I went to the person’s profile hoping for a “Message” button but no luck. Any tips for me? Thank you in advance.

    We are finally having what passes for winter weather here. The brown pelicans leave and the white pelicans arrive. The Herring gulls move on and the Laughing gulls show up. It is 75 deg F and cloudy. I’m originally from Michigan and I live for these cooler days! Our island is part National Seashore and bird and sea turtle sanctuary and I found that the bird migrations are the surest sign of winter.

    Yesterday I finally found the energy to sketch out a week’s meal plan AND cooked everything ahead of time. Now I have 7 days of meals in little prepared boxes going in to the week. I’m excited to see how this goes!

    We still have our 18-year-old living with us. He has been out of high school for two years and working full time since then. In many ways he is much “younger” and we’re still working through mastering life skills. Last week we told him what to do and sent him by himself to buy new glasses. He did text me photos of his choices, but came home very proud of himself that he’d done it.

    We offered to let him live on our boat which is the size of a one bedroom apartment with all the amenities for a third of the cost of the average rent. He’d be in a safe, gated marina near his work but he says he’s not ready yet. When I was that age I would have been thrilled for something like that; I don’t know what’s going on with this generation. Did Covid make them timid? I can’t
    fathom it. That said, he helps my disabled husband and pays us rent and can be very handy to have around when things need lifting (!)

    Today I have a letter to finish and 1001 other things to do. Best wishes for a great day to everyone; I’m still trying to keep up with the many posts!

    Diana on Padre Island

    Every child is so different, and unique, we can not cookie cutter them into anything until they are ready.💖👍🏼 My 36 yr old sailor is in a way younger to me than his middle brother. My eldest is happily content to be single and not dive into being any sort of family man, like his younger brother. He said, I will be that crazy single uncle with lots of toys and Legos.
    When each of my 3 sons was between their junior and senior year of high school we drove them down to the Navy recruiters and announced "we are done, its your turn now". Surprised the heck outta the recruiters! It was a relief to each of my sons during their senior year, not stressing about this college exam, or that test etc, they could just relax and enjoy their senior year. Of course putting them in the Navy early (part of the DEP delayed entry program) they had to learn all the things that boot camp jams in their heads, plus exercise with other recruits weekly. Our job as parents, we just boxed up childhood treasures, and they had a bare room for a week before going to boot camp. To get them used to the shock factor of life. Tough love 101 right there!😂💖
    Your 18 will find his fit, and dip his toe into adulthood soon enough. Heck I would cut my sons steak if they'd let me.😂🤗
    Your long strip of an island sounds idyllic! Our island had one of its many wind storms of the winter. Took out power most all of yesterday, throughout the whole of Puget Sound. We were trying to het the Army/Navy football game on the radio, listening and understanding was quite a deal!
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa
  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 3,885 Member
    dlfk202000 wrote: »
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    Lights are the thing for me too. We had turned on our Christmas lights in the window, on the tree, and my jewelry tree, when we had gone out to get our take and bake pizzas. I made husband back up after we pulled out of our driveway so I could see them.💖

    I have had many nights of lights on, Classic Christmas music playing on my Pandora, and a non music Yule log burning and crackling on the tv. Then something nice to sip. That's my happy place right there.

    My friend here asked me once how its fun eating like a treat by myself when I was telling her about my peppermint ice cream and peppermint vodka. I struck me as odd, because I have never felt like "oh I should be sharing this with someone to actually have fun with this". I am perfectly content by myself and wouldn't even think about dragging my husband into it, in order to have fun. Maybe its the military wife in me, but I found it an interesting thing.
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa


    Lights are one of my favorite parts too. I remember driving around town to check out all the lights on Christmas eve. Was my favorite thing- found out many years later that we did that so one parent could stay home and get the last of the gifts wrapped one year and we loved it so much, we just did it every year. I still like to drive around and look at the lights and I have stopped a few times to really take it all in when I come across a well lit home.

    I have more decorations to put out up front and hopefully a little more inside- haven't done much in here. Need to bring the stuff in off the deck between storms.

    Nice!
    One of these evenings we need to drive by this lake on Whidbey that has lights all over. I went with a friend last year. We need to do it before it gets too cold and icy at night.
    Enjoy decorating!
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,785 Member
    Edie was her usual great value and she has taken her painting away to finish at home. We talked about all sorts of things, including religion.
    I made an envelope out of wrapping paper to put Max's Christmas money in and painted a possible Christmas card for next year. Not entirely happy with it.
    The first thing she told us when she arrived, was that she had passed the exam to get into Max's school and had gained an 'All Rounder' scholarship. She was very happy and pleased.
    It's not as large as Max's academic scholarship, but will still make a difference. But with two there it's still big money! Of course, I expect Bea will want to go too. :o 😱

    We had a lovely time with her. <3

    Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 3,885 Member
    pipcd34 wrote: »
    Just finished making oatmeal chocolate chip cookies with pecans, mmmmm, I made them chewy, best when they are fresh out of the oven

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    Yummy! 💖👍🏼
  • Latitude27N
    Latitude27N Posts: 16 Member

    Every child is so different, and unique, we can not cookie cutter them into anything until they are ready.💖👍🏼 My 36 yr old sailor is in a way younger to me than his middle brother. My eldest is happily content to be single and not dive into being any sort of family man, like his younger brother. He said, I will be that crazy single uncle with lots of toys and Legos.
    When each of my 3 sons was between their junior and senior year of high school we drove them down to the Navy recruiters and announced "we are done, its your turn now". Surprised the heck outta the recruiters! It was a relief to each of my sons during their senior year, not stressing about this college exam, or that test etc, they could just relax and enjoy their senior year. Of course putting them in the Navy early (part of the DEP delayed entry program) they had to learn all the things that boot camp jams in their heads, plus exercise with other recruits weekly. Our job as parents, we just boxed up childhood treasures, and they had a bare room for a week before going to boot camp. To get them used to the shock factor of life. Tough love 101 right there!😂💖
    Your 18 will find his fit, and dip his toe into adulthood soon enough. Heck I would cut my sons steak if they'd let me.😂🤗
    Your long strip of an island sounds idyllic! Our island had one of its many wind storms of the winter. Took out power most all of yesterday, throughout the whole of Puget Sound. We were trying to het the Army/Navy football game on the radio, listening and understanding was quite a deal!

    Rebecca


    Hey there! Trying to message you about pen pals but can’t figure out how to do so

    Diana on Padre Island
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,354 Member
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  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 3,885 Member
    edited December 16

    Every child is so different, and unique, we can not cookie cutter them into anything until they are ready.💖👍🏼 My 36 yr old sailor is in a way younger to me than his middle brother. My eldest is happily content to be single and not dive into being any sort of family man, like his younger brother. He said, I will be that crazy single uncle with lots of toys and Legos.
    When each of my 3 sons was between their junior and senior year of high school we drove them down to the Navy recruiters and announced "we are done, its your turn now". Surprised the heck outta the recruiters! It was a relief to each of my sons during their senior year, not stressing about this college exam, or that test etc, they could just relax and enjoy their senior year. Of course putting them in the Navy early (part of the DEP delayed entry program) they had to learn all the things that boot camp jams in their heads, plus exercise with other recruits weekly. Our job as parents, we just boxed up childhood treasures, and they had a bare room for a week before going to boot camp. To get them used to the shock factor of life. Tough love 101 right there!😂💖
    Your 18 will find his fit, and dip his toe into adulthood soon enough. Heck I would cut my sons steak if they'd let me.😂🤗
    Your long strip of an island sounds idyllic! Our island had one of its many wind storms of the winter. Took out power most all of yesterday, throughout the whole of Puget Sound. We were trying to het the Army/Navy football game on the radio, listening and understanding was quite a deal!

    Rebecca


    Hey there! Trying to message you about pen pals but can’t figure out how to do so

    Diana on Padre Island

    We can message on Facebook Messenger if that's easier. My name is Rebecca Gossett and I have divinity candy as my profile pic.😂
    Here's my home page on here, up top is the message area. I sent a message to you.
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  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 3,885 Member
    Oh Allie I'm sorry you had a nausea moment, but it could have easily been all the crowds. Having the kids on you for a sec, was probably the best medicine.💖. When I saw the g'kids at mynsisters, toward the end of the evening after the kids had played, Athena go up in my lap, leg on each side facing me, and just crashed! Her head was on my chest, (she loves my squishiness). Son was just amazed she was asleep that hard. I guess she rarely takes naps maybe when they're traveling in the car she does. Also amazing is that neither son nor daughter in law had their phones out. It was refreshing to see them interact with people.💖👍🏼
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa
  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,251 Member
    Can't remember who followed my recommendation for the Dawgs brand sandals over the summer but, they are running a big sale right now. They also have ones like crocs that are lined- bought two pair for dh who has been complaining about his feet are too cold in his regular ones.
    https://dawgsusa.com

    ALL Solid Color Sandals & Clogs

    2 Pairs for $25

    Code: XMAS25

    ALL Fleece Lined Clogs

    $15 Per Pair

    Code: COZY
  • kymarai
    kymarai Posts: 3,727 Member
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  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,251 Member
    1948CWB wrote: »
    Allie ~ I think the others have given you some good advice regarding your brother. Does he even have a job that would help support him? As I remember, he doesn't have a car for transport and has/had a court date for some reason. I know you said he had problems with his vision due to some sort of eye problem. All of that makes his life complicated but it would also make your life complicated. I hope you will think hard about what advise you have been given.

    Tracey and Debbie ~ You are both to be congratulated for your efforts. Sorry that Debbie's show was a bust but happy that Tracey did well. It takes a lot of courage to get out there and try to sell your goods. Debbie, I'm not sure exactly what you are selling. Are these things that you made or that your husband made?

    Heather ~ Thank you so much for the recipe. I am bookmarking it and may try to make it soon.

    Rosemarie ~ I hope the pup doesn't get ink on your rug. I am so glad that you are finding new things to do and wish I could just make myself get out of the house and try new things.

    Love to you all,
    Carol in Georgia

    Most of what we had for sale was our 3D printed items. I did have some glass ornaments, rhinestone pins and magnets and a few other things I made a few years ago.

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    This is just some of what we sell. It was nice having a double space to ourselves but just didn't have the customers. Thankful there was no cost to be a vendor at this one. In the past when we did this one, it was packed with vendors and customers.
    We both make these- I have a printer in the kitchen that I use and I help with the clean up after they are printed before we can sell them.

  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,251 Member
    just reread last night's post- Tried to go to bed early but that didn't happen. And when I did, didn't get to sleep until 11 because the neighbors next door were having a party with a bit off key Mexican Karaoke plus many others were setting off fireworks-
    Was there a holiday I didn't know about. At least 4-5 other homes were setting off the fireworks. No where near what it will be like on New Year's eve/day and 4th of July. Wasn't expecting them last night.
  • skuehn48
    skuehn48 Posts: 3,071 Member
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  • LisaInArkansas
    LisaInArkansas Posts: 2,948 Member
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  • pony4us
    pony4us Posts: 165 Member
    Debbie I am the Dawgs lurker...thank you, just ordered the fleece clogs. I tend to unsubscibe to most promotion companies so didn't know about the sale.
  • SophieRosieMom
    SophieRosieMom Posts: 3,699 Member
    Tracey - glad to hear you had some good sales at the craft shows. Also I laughed out loud at your good memories of Christmas with your girls when they were young - the cell tower light as Santa was very clever, and the elf watching throughout the year was brilliant as well. You and Rodger did some great parenting. :)

    Rebecca - what a neat Christmas photo of middle son's family. Athena and Eli are just adorable! <3

    Ginny - have a great trip and enjoy some warm sunshine. :p

    Debbie - that's a tremendous assortment of neat items you and DH have made. Have you though about selling any of them online? (I'm not necessarily pushing this, it can be a lot of labor-intensive work shipping and dealing with customers who gripe "it's not what I thought it would be.")

    Heather - hope you get over your crud quickly and the RSV jab has minimal after-effects.

    I have an appointment with Dr. Lisa this morning. T is going with me. I have had 2 episodes of light headedness in the past month. Several weeks ago, I was doing dishes after supper and "swooned" - so I lowered myself onto the floor for a couple minutes, then was fine. Last Friday I was walking with weights after breakfast and suddenly "swooned" mid-walk. A couple minutes on the floor, everything OK again. I have a hunch I'll end up wearing an "event monitor" or "Holter monitor", which I've done several times in my life due to tachycardia and mitral valve prolapse. Had an echo about 10 years ago, nothing remarkable. :p This just might be related to my coffee habit too. :# I have some great decaf, just need to remember to switch to it sooner. And drink more water. :p

    Lanette B)
    SW WA State
  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,655 Member
    Lanette ~ The swooning episodes sound so scary. I hope the dr can give you some help. And, I did just read that too much coffee can cause it. Glad your friend is going with you.

    Debbie ~ That's a lot of 3D creations. It must take a lot of packing to get them to the shows and return home. I hope your next show will do better for you. I remember when my DH was doing Scotts Antique Show every month that he had to pack up the long folding tables along with all the antiques. That was always quite a job. I know he could not do that any more because it is too much work.

    Heather ~ Hope you heal quickly with your cold. Have thought about getting the RSV shot but have not even got the flu/pneumonia shot this year. And, have only had one Covid shot during the whole pandemic. Maybe it's a good thing that we seldom go anywhere.

    Lisa ~ Hope you can get all the thoughts rambling around in your mind corralled. LOL

    Carol in GA