WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR DECEMBER 2024

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  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,136 Member
    Morning all
    Rained all night last night ,but sunny and in the 50s today.
    Im not feeling so hot today..tired and a bit achy..have to take Sean to Dr tomorrow morning,then take Doris grocery shopping.
    Have to stop at the garage and have them figure out the tire pressure on my car.
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,242 Member
    :)Carol, Our other dog is Bessie who is 12 years old. She is a rescue from a dog hoarding situation in Texas. We got her in 2017. She is shy and doesn't like to walk far but she is happy with us and will play with Annie until Annie gets too rough.

    :)Tracey, A woman who lives at the end of my block puts lights along her fence and on her bushes early in December. She keeps the lights on 24 hours a day because many days here are so overcast that it's dark in the daytime. She leaves the lights on until the end of January. The days here are short in December and January although not as short as they are where you live.

    :)Rita, I hope you can find and use the tools to let go of your daughter who seems to hurt you so often.

    :)Margaret, I admire how you look at what's not working in your life a seek a solution. You inspire me to do the same.

    <3 Barbie in NW WA

  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 3,873 Member
    Morning my chicks,

    The afghans I made have been received, and many heart emojis from all directions, so that's one project finished. I'm on hold on Corey's workshop apron, as the hardware I was using was insufficient, as I found out last night when I tried it on him. More coming in later in the week, but I can put that to the side for the moment.

    Doodling with yarn in the evenings, crocheting squares out of the remains left over from the afghans. I'll put those together for another afghan, possibly one for Egg. She gets Egg all over every one that I make anyway. 😹

    I've got another bag in mind, practically got it built in my mind, just need to get it going, but I'm backing and filling for some reason that is not yet clear. My only deadlines are self-imposed. I will grok in the fullness of time, I'm sure. :smiley:

    But at the moment, it's time for breakfast!
    Later y'all,
    Love,
    Lisa in AR

    Ok you you lost me and fascinated me with the sentence, "I doodle with yarn". You are such a creative soul! Hugs!
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa
  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,648 Member
    Michele ~ How tall are your ceramic figurines? Miss Piggy is cute! I would think it takes steady hands and a lot of patience to paint them.

    Margaret ~ Hope you can find a smaller painting group that allows you more time.

    Barbie ~ Thanks for letting me know about Bessie!

    Kylia ~ Hope your SnL's stepfather doesn't start a brawl.

    Carol in GA
  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 3,873 Member
    So, I am indulging husband and not looking in the checkbook where its logged the companies he bought thru for Christmas. This is the first time that all the presents under the tree were bought and wrapped by him. I have no idea what they are. So no balancing the checkbook every other week for me! I have already decided since he is marking off things that cleared, and just not balancing it, that I will have my work cut out for me after Christmas. But on the good side, its a nice change and the excitement on my husbands face is worth the math. I might even just wing it and if I am off $5 here and there, make the additions or deductions and move on. Not go on a silly hunt for pennies.
    Tuesday hugs!
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,242 Member
    :)Allie you said that at your 55+ condo only one person has to be over 55. Does that mean that Miles and Delia and Carmine could come live with you?
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,136 Member
    Barbie ,no they could come visit not live.. but older people can have one person move in with them.. Im still putting lines out in the water to see if I can get him to find a rent.
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,242 Member
    Barbie ,no they could come visit not live.. but older people can have one person move in with them.. Im still putting lines out in the water to see if I can get him to find a rent.

    :) I understand. In my 55+ community the rules are specific that the younger person be a spouse, domestic partner, or caregiver.
  • exermom
    exermom Posts: 6,548 Member
    Well, got just about everything wrapped.

    Carol – most of my ceramics are at least 9” tall, some larger. I think I do have a few that are only 7” and Eyore and Piglet (which I haven’t done yet) are probably smaller. Trust me, a steady hand I do not have. I go by the 5 foot rule...if it looks good from 5 feet away, it’s good enough

    Margaret I hear ya about groups getting bigger. When we joined Newcomers, there were less than 100 members. To me, it was so nice and intimate, we had activities in people’s homes. Then it grew to over 300 members. To me, it lost a lot of the closeness. That’s one of the reasons we quit. I’m so glad that the ceramics is on the smaller side. There are usually 12-15 people at ceramics, occasionally less and sometimes more. But I really like the closeness. You really get to know people well. Besides, it’s really not fun painting with a big crowd. So I hear ya

    Lisa – you are so talented!

    Michele NC
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,242 Member
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    :) I off to the dentist by myself
  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 3,873 Member
    Up to 20 Christmas cards back from friends and family! I send like 65 cards out, so hopefully receiving 50% back by the New Year is good enough for me! I only have 27 flowered clips anyways!😂💖🎄
    Hugs friends!
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa
  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,241 Member
    Debbie - Sorry your sales weren’t better. I found it hit and miss this year.


    Debbie - I agree about spending too much, it always makes me nervous.
    I was told yesterday to go to a 3 day one that is about 3 hours from here. She said it cost her $800 to participate including hotel, but the return was well worth it, that would be a lot of money for me and I have to be willing to lose when I pay for the tables. That’s how I figure out if I want to do a show or not.

    I went to the pharmacy today after work to see if the pharmacist had a suggestion on help with an issue I’m having. She was quite disappointed that my doctor didn’t listen closer to me, I asked her if it would be good to see another doctor at the walk in attached to the pharmacy, she agreed and even went and spoke to the physician assistant and got me an appointment for 11am tomorrow. I’ll use that as my lunch time.
    I was so impressed with her determination to help me.

    I figured out the rest of my Christmas presents to buy, I just need to go do it now. 😂. Well except Rodger. 😕

    I spent 2 hours in the craft room tonight and managed to get 3 more layouts done in Kaitlyn’s album. I have 8 more to go, but have some ideas so hopefully they’ll go fast.

    I’m so thankful she is coming to help me wrap on Saturday!

    Well it is past 10 and I try to be in bed by then, so good night all.

    Tracey in Edmonton

    $800 is a LOT of money when you don't know if you will even break even. I would never spend what the guys do to do the shows. I would rather not have as many sales but not the worry of just breaking even instead of the way they do. Plus, for us, the big shows, we have more competition for pretty much the same type of things- yes, his are different and he does seem to focus on them when I don't go and help.
    His items are higher priced for the one of a kind ones.

    I got the boxes of treats dropped off at the PO after going to MIL's and helping dh with her. He is still in a very angry, bitter mood. He is home now taking a shower then we will go shopping for her before he goes back. Got home and he started cleaning the catio litter box-the only one I don't clean- he came in all mad because I didn't put the cat food in the cannister- said we(son and I) lived here, the least we could do was do that- No acknowledgement of all the stuff I did do. I told him- I did everything else, that was the one thing I didn't do then I walked out.
    Hopefully he can get some sleep and not stay over there again tonight- he doesn't need to.
    She is better- taking her off the meds that caused her to hallucinate is wearing off.

    Need to hopefully do more decorating and then start on cards this evening.
    Hoping for a quiet, peaceful evening. Just lights on the tree, tv off and him back in his room and not ranting about his mother all the time.

    Debbie
    Napa Valley,CA

  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,774 Member
    edited December 17
    Lovely candle stands, Lisa.

    Carol - I looked at several recipes and picked the simplest, that reminded me of the previous one I couldn't find. I even simplified it some more. It still took me 45 minutes and lots of washing up. But I like things that can just be served up on the day with no hassle. The sea bass cooks in 2 minutes. I have bought mini naans that can heat up in the toaster. My brother may only have a spoonful, as he is bringing his own food. He has lost his sense of taste anyway. Can just about taste sweet or salt. :'(

    Tracey - they will stay at the school until they leave, probably to go to university. So it's 11-18. My husband and I don't believe in private education, so we have mixed feelings, but we are pleased for her, as she really wanted to go there. She is a little bit dyslexic in writing, and has been working really hard with a private tutor. This evening she gave us a recital of some Christmas music on her cello. She really isn't perfect at anything, but has an extraordinary ability to be humbly determined. I really admire her attitude. It's the same with her sports. Not being the best doesn't deter her, unlike her younger sister who is super competitive at everything and talented beyond her eight years.
    Max announced he would like to come over for a walk with John on Thursday. They will eat first at the café around the corner, then walk and talk along the seafront. The problem with private schools is that they have much longer holidays than state ones, so he has already stopped for Christmas. The girls are at school until Friday.

    I will have a quick hoover tomorrow and tidy, but my brother and his wife are good guests because they have such low standards in their own house. It is always a tip! Hair wash first thing for me. I have felt really tired today, which I assume is a combo of my cold, not sleeping last night, and the jab. I did have a nap, but was still dragging. Fell asleep watching TV this evening. I'm hoping tomorrow is a new day.

    Love to all, Heather UK xxxxxxxx
  • skuehn48
    skuehn48 Posts: 3,067 Member
    It is so nice to come into a warm, cozy house after being outside in the cold and rain caring for critters. Makes me very grateful for the new furnace and heat pump. Christmas shopping done and mostly wrapped. Cats have not bothered the tree but messed with the presents under it and the crocheted tree skirt so presents are temporarily in the closet.

    Sunday we sang a Christmas cantata at church. Then the men sponsored a potluck afterwards. Later in the afternoon I went with a friend to a Christmas concert and sing-along in Everett. It was a busy day but lots of fun. We had family here for Thanksgiving when we had no heat so it will be a warm quiet Christmas with just DD and me and we will enjoy it.

    The farrier will be here this evening to trim horse and goat hooves so dinner is in the crockpot and we can eat whenever she is done.

    Everyone take care, Sue in WA
  • TerriRichardson112
    TerriRichardson112 Posts: 19,134 Member
    Heather: We had our RSV last Monday. No ill effects. Well done Edie. They are a clever lot 😂

    Debbie: WOW! Cool items.

    Lanette: That must be unsettling. I hope it’s nothing serious.

    I put my Christmas tree up.

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    🤗🤗🤗 and 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for those who need them.

    🙋‍♀️ Miele failte to any newbies.

    ☘️ Terri

  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,241 Member
    Debbie - it could be the medication. That happened to my grandmother. She was seeing all kinds of weird things.
    But it could be a UTI. That's the most likely culprit. That happened to my mother. Hallucinating people indistinguishable from reality.
    A doctor or nurse would check that out from a urine test.



    Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx

    Yes, we think it is the pain meds- she has been taking more often than before. Dh stopped that one and she isn't as bad today.
    Yes, she has had UTI's before and really messed her up. That is what started all this drama where dh says he has to be at her place twice a day every day. She got disoriented and hallucinating- fell on the stairs and broke bones in her hand and wrist. The next day fell again while dh was in the bathroom(he had told her to just stay in her chair while he went to the bathroom)that time broke 3 ribs. He stayed with her 24/7 for a month or more. Only taking breaks when I could be there. I stayed a few nights until I pretended to be asleep and I watched her get up, use her comode chair all by herself, no problem. She didn't need me there. Then she got mad telling dh to make sure I didnt come back because I didn't do anything anyways. I was too tired to get up one time- worked all day, up almost all night, got a total of 30 min of broken sleep and had to rush home to work again..
    This was 2 1/2 yrs ago.
    She no longer needs the help but thinks she deserves to be waited on

    She is better today so dh will come home at his usual time.

    We used to have cameras all over her house so he could keep an eye on her but she doesn't want to pay for internet service for it. Wants him to pay for it even though it is to help him make sure she is ok..
    Yesterday, she fell and laid on the floor for who knows how long because, she won't wear her LifeAlert which we are paying for every month- it sits inside a cabinet and she doesn't remember how to use her cell phone most of the time.
    With the cameras, he can look on his phone and see if she is sleeping, if she is ok, etc.
    He said he is going to put them back in and pay for the service then take the money for it out of her account without telling her. She has enough money to pay for it, not a problem but she doesn't want to.
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,344 Member
    Stats for the day-

    Walk W/kids
    Walk to gym
    Elliptical machine
    Walk gym to home

    Total cal 848c

    720720
  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,241 Member
    Hello, my babies...



    Just about the minute he got off the phone, my gut started going sideways and hasn't really let up until just the last few minutes. Hate being nauseated - In my opinion, it's one of my top three least-favorite symptoms of this disease, coming in third only to diarrhea and vertigo. All that was said to note that I still haven't had breakfast, dang it! And here it is nearly noon...


    Love y'all,
    Lisa in AR

    have you tried ginger tea for the nausea?
    I have ginger tea and ginger candy(as well as fresh ginger for cooking) on hand all the time
    The ginger tea I get is granulated so mix in hot water or just take a spoonful of it and eat that.(great in cooking too because it is a bit sweet along with the kick of the ginger)
  • LisaInArkansas
    LisaInArkansas Posts: 2,941 Member
    Debbie, thanks for the thought, I'll try some. I have a lot that I dehydrated... Corey makes ginger beer using it.
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,136 Member
    Im going to try and get some sleep,between my brothers issues,Dan and the move.. and running Doris up to BK dropping her off tomorrow and grocery shopping and then picking her up.. you wonder why i try and relax and rest.Wow and did I say my SIL is jerk?
  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,241 Member
    skuehn48 wrote: »
    It is so nice to come into a warm, cozy house after being outside in the cold and rain caring for critters. Makes me very grateful for the new furnace and heat pump. Christmas shopping done and mostly wrapped. Cats have not bothered the tree but messed with the presents under it and the crocheted tree skirt so presents are temporarily in the closet.

    Sunday we sang a Christmas cantata at church. Then the men sponsored a potluck afterwards. Later in the afternoon I went with a friend to a Christmas concert and sing-along in Everett. It was a busy day but lots of fun. We had family here for Thanksgiving when we had no heat so it will be a warm quiet Christmas with just DD and me and we will enjoy it.

    The farrier will be here this evening to trim horse and goat hooves so dinner is in the crockpot and we can eat whenever she is done.

    Everyone take care, Sue in WA


    Our church will have their cantata this coming Sunday. I am so looking forward to it. The choir always does an amazing job. They sing a special every Sunday plus there is a solo/duet/group special music each Sunday
    This past Sunday, the Sunday school kids put on their program. They did a great job- memorized a lot
    for it.

    It will be just mom and I as far as I know for Christmas eve and then one friend(my best friend's older sister) is planning on coming out on Christmas- her son and his wife will be working and mom and her have gotten really close in the past few years. She has been very helpful to mom which I really appreciate
    Not sure what my son and his girlfriend are doing- they don't know yet if they will go to mom's or go to her house(she still lives at home with her parents in her brother and sister in laws house.
    Dh said I could just stay at mom's Christmas night, no reason to come home. I am NOT falling for that one. Then it will be a pitty party- how I left him all alone with no food.......
    I will NOT stay home for Christmas- I WILL be with my mom and not leave her all alone just to sit and listen to him cuss and rant. I will come home at my usual time, before it gets dark.
    I have to work the next day anyways, as far as I know.

    Made more cracker toffee with son and his girlfriend. Nice to have a little good in the house.

    Debbie
    Napa Valley,CA
  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,977 Member
    Debbie - Hallucinations is a side effect of some pills, UTI’s and also some diseases. I feel for you and your husband. I hope the doctor can help.

    Heather - Breakfast for dinner is one of my favourite meals. I like it better at supper than at breakfast.

    Kylia - sorry to hear about your SIL’s grandmother, hopefully the funeral goes off without incident.
    The kittens are learning.
    I would like to set a timer on my inside lights. It angers me that I have to come home to do it, DH is sitting here and just can’t be bothered to say “Google turn on Christmas”. It meant a lot to me when he did it last year and I told him so.

    Lisa - I build so much in my mind that never gets done. I need to get some actually completed.

    Diana - I think it’s wonderful your meal prep is working. A true friend wouldn’t expect you to hire her daughter. What an unfortunate mess she made.

    Carol - I remember my Dad and Grandfather going out and buying gifts for us. It meant so much to me. Lauryn actually mentioned the other day that she remembers the only gift she remembers her Dad picking out for her himself.

    Barbie - More and more people areound here leave their lights up until the end of January. It’s sure helps with the dark.

    Michele - a lady at work was on prednisone and has been put off work for two months now as she comes off it. She is sick and they think it’s something to do with that med.

    Lisa - I had never heard the term plinth before. Those are pretty!

    Heather - I don’t know how I feel about private schools, there weren’t any where I grew up and if there were any here when our girls were in school it wasn’t part of our world.
    Hope you feel better tomorrow
    .
    I got to see a lady today at the clinic that managed to get a doctor to prescribe an antibiotic for me. I sure hope it helps fast. I’m supposed to take one every 8 hours. I stayed up late tonight so I could get a second one in.

    Off to bed now.

    Tracey in Edmonton




  • skuehn48
    skuehn48 Posts: 3,067 Member
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  • SophieRosieMom
    SophieRosieMom Posts: 3,694 Member
    Good morning ladies!

    Tracey - glad you were able to get into the "walk in" clinic attached to your pharmacy. That's a perfect solution for people who just need antibiotics to treat something and not have to try to get into a GP and maybe wait a day for an appointment.

    Debbie - so glad you are able to get away at your mom's for Christmas Eve and I'm sure it will be nice to spend some time with your friend there on Christmas Day. Have you been able to walk in the wetlands recently? If the conditions there are like what I have here, you'd need farm boots that come to your knees, lol.

    Lisa - those plinth/candle holders were a lucky find and you did a great job. They look very nice on the mantel. :)

    Mo - I neglected to mention earlier how nice that Christmas tree looks in your mom's room. :)

    Diana - you are doing a great job dealing with your responsibilities and the meal planning/box lunches. I agree - your friend who expected you to hire her daughter was out of line. If she's a good friend she'll realize her expectation was inappropriate.

    I really enjoy making my grocery runs at 6 am this time of the year - I take a back road and there are a lot of homes that have their Christmas lights still on in early morning.

    Wet and wild here. Yesterday we got a substantial amount of rain. I ended up carrying Rosie outside several times in the pounding rain and putting her in the backyard to get her business done. We both came back in soaked, but it was a success. :p It's 2:30 am right now and 50 degrees, fairly windy, pelting rain hitting the windows. We are supposed to get a bit of sunshine this afternoon, looking forward to it. :D

    A few gifts to wrap today, then I'm calling it done. Yesterday I ran down the mail lady in the rain to give her a Christmas card (I always give the carrier a small Starbucks gift card). She said she'd worked 16 days in a row, the younger substitute carriers have been cancelling a the last minute. She's in and out of her car at nearly every house delivering packages. It's a tough job and I'm so grateful for her.

    I'm going to make some vegetable beef soup in the crockpot today. Found a package of stew meat in the freezer and a jar of beef broth... so hope I don't lose power!

    Depression/Anxiety/Happiness: Just me rambling, feel free to skip.
    I ran across something yesterday that I needed to hear and was perfect timing.

    Depression is when you're worried about the past.
    Anxiety is when you're worried about the future.
    Happiness is when you're living in the moment.


    I ran across a photo of when we first got the greenhouse (hoop house covered with heavy duty plastic) and the beautiful raised beds DH built, and the hog fuel (large clean wood chips) on the paths. The wood in the raised beds has since rotted and collapsed, the plastic on the greenhouse has been replaced in spots, is tattered and I finally just stapled a tarp over part of it last winter. The beautiful paths are now a muddy, weedy mess. :( I had to pull myself out of the rut and remind myself that when I sell this place, someone will see it as a project and make it beautiful again. Trying not to get depressed.

    I haven't heard anything from Dr. Lisa about the labs or the heart monitor, and there's a bit of anxiety and of course I tend to pay attention to every heartbeat. Which is ridiculous and serves no good purpose.

    Well, I'm grateful I don't have any major problems or turmoil to deal with today. It has taken me a long time to appreciate "the moment." And that's kind of a moment-by-moment thing sometimes. I can find plenty of things to be happy about if I just stop and look around.

    I need to get this posted before the power goes out. :p Hope it doesn't!

    Lanette B)
    SW WA State