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  • Sixteen_Tons
    Sixteen_Tons Posts: 65 Member

    Hi RL!

    I too have been fighting my weight forever, because of that my son also has weight problems also. I quit smoking 40 years ago so he didn't start. If only I had been able to control my weight and teach my son healthy eating habits. Well that ship has sailed , but I finally developed some practices that have been somewhat effective & I'm trying to pass them on to him. I managed to lose 140# , but lately I've been gaining so I re-examined what I was doing. I love to cook, so I had been developing recipes that use ingredients I like, I had been surfing the net for potential recipes and using them to develop lower calorie alternatives that taste good to me. My wife became seriously ill, and I fell back into my fast food, stress, boredom eating ways. That is not an excuse, just what happened. My son pointed out that he is most likely to eat when he is bored or stressed. For some reason I never made that connection! So after gaining 20# I'm trying to recognize situations when I'm likely to overeat. I developed some hobbies I'm interested in, I try to develop activates that get me moving. Don't laugh, I started keeping geese & ducks for meat & eggs. I live in a very rural area so the noise isn't an issue. Taking care of them keeps me moving and allows me to use my engineering background to solve the problems of being 67, with balance issues. I went back to surfing the net for interesting recipes that appeal to me. I look for projects to keep my mind occupied. My wife is out of danger now, but can't do many of the things she used to do including cooking, cleaning etc.. This has allows me to be more active and creative when cooking.

    I've waxed poetic too long so the short answer is ' there is no one size fits all solution'. Figure out what makes you want to eat, develop things that will distract you, and alternative foods to eat in those situations. If you were raised to be a 'clean your plate' person, forget it. Try and take smaller portions, if you don't, eat slowly to give your brain time to know you're full. At that time stop eating if you can, or consume lower calorie foods till the urge subsides. As much as possible avoid processed foods especially 'processed diet or healthy foods', they are full of salt, sugar, and calories. Stick with whole foods prepared in a way you like.

    Work out a plan you like and stick with it, change it as you need to, & evaluate the well meaning advice of other people. Feel free to ignore it, only you know what works for you.

    Most importantly 'NEVER GIVE UP' that's the only true failure.

    Sixteen Tons

  • yirara
    yirara Posts: 10,409 Member

    I'd say the weight comes back if the person eats too much again and has not learned anything while using ozempic and similar things.

  • age_is_just_a_number
    age_is_just_a_number Posts: 813 Member

    a quick google search has a difference opinion.


    AI Overview

    While there's no set time limit, Ozempic is generally considered a long-term or even life-long treatment, especially if used for weight loss or to manage type 2 diabetes. Stopping Ozempic often leads to weight regain, and the drug's effectiveness is linked to continuous use. However, individual needs and tolerance will vary, and the decision to continue or discontinue treatment should be made in consultation with a healthcare professional. Elaboration: 

    • Long-term use is often recommended:Ozempic (semaglutide) is designed for long-term use, even potentially lifelong, if it's helping manage blood sugar levels or achieve and maintain weight loss. 
    • Weight regain:If you stop taking Ozempic after using it for weight loss, you're likely to regain some of the weight you lost, highlighting the need for continued use to maintain the results. 
    • Individualized approach:The decision to stay on Ozempic for the long term is a personal one, depending on your individual needs, health conditions, and tolerance to the medication, as well as discussions with your doctor. 
    • Potential side effects:While generally well-tolerated, Ozempic can cause side effects, including nausea, reflux, and gastrointestinal discomfort, which might affect a person's ability or willingness to continue the medication, according to Columbia University Department of Surgery
    • Diabetes management:For individuals with type 2 diabetes, Ozempic is often prescribed as a long-term treatment to manage blood sugar levels, along with lifestyle modifications. 
    • No strict time limit:There's no set duration for how long you can stay on Ozempic, as long as you are tolerating it well and your doctor continues to prescribe it, says myDr.com.au
    • Consult your doctor:It's crucial to discuss your individual circumstances, including potential benefits and risks, with your doctor to determine the appropriate course of action regarding Ozempic use. 
  • patriciafoley1
    patriciafoley1 Posts: 406 Member

    Here's my question about ozempic. I tested very high for diabetes and was offered Ozempic, even insulin, but I told the PA that I wanted to try it with just diet and exercise. So 190 days and 50 lbs less (after low carb dieting) later I am testing at or close to normal blood sugar in the morning most days. I probably still need a couple of months to get my A1C in a normal range. I don't really understand why the need for Ozempic, if diet can reverse T2. Is it necessary to go on a life long medication when you can't really eat carbs anyway, if you are T2? Is it so you can eat carbs? I don't think I have a normal insulin response at this point (maybe after another six months to get my A1c back to normal) but is it really worth it, and more healthy, to go the ozempic route?

  • yirara
    yirara Posts: 10,409 Member

    Careful with AI. It often does not give correct or clear answers. In this case there's no reason why stopping with ozempic leads to regaining weight. While there seem to be some effects on hormones related to hunger, the main reason seems to be not feeling as full as before, hence eating more again. Which should not happen if you prepared for it and logged your food.

  • AnnPT77
    AnnPT77 Posts: 36,061 Member

    Think about how AI works, assuming you have some inkling of that. Essentially, it reads kazillions of web pages, and draws conclusions from that. The Google one appears to be somewhat coded to prefer certain authoritative sites, but that seems to include some sites that may have biases. Right now, IMO, the web is more dominated by enthusiasm for these drugs than by cautions, in the sense that they're saying it's a miracle drug and people can/should rely on it forever, mostly.

    I ran a similar Google search myself, and sampled the links the AI recommended as their source. The sites are much more nuanced in what they say than the AI summary.

    That nuance includes talking about things that I hope people here on MFP already know: Overwhelmingly, most diets fail, most people regain, people who make permanent lifestyle changes are more likely to succeed, etc.

    The articles say those things around the issue of quitting Ozempic, just like lots of us here would say them about any weight loss method, especially a fast weight loss method that never includes learning how to live reasonably happily long term on reduced calories. I'm not going to go into the details that the sites discuss, but the AI summary completely lacks that dimension, as far as I can read.

    What I strongly suspect we'll find is that using the drug as a "lose weight fast then go back to normal" strategy (including going off the drug in the "normal") is going to work just about as well as that works for every other method of weight loss: Mostly fail, long term.

    From reading experiences of people here, I feel like the drugs potentially do have a little bit of physiological magic for at least some people, using the term "magic" pretty loosely. That reduction in appetite, "food noise", etc. - maybe even feeling sick when overeating - seems quite powerful for overcoming what are quite possibly individual hormonal issues. Can lifestyle change eventually reach a point where those helpful factors recede into the background, even when people cease taking the drugs? I'm not sure we know that yet, in a mass-numbers sense. I'm not even sure how long it might take to get such results, because with any weight loss method, so few people actually permanently change behavior patterns.

    I'm pretty sure, though, that if people using the drug rely only on the appetite/cravings reduction, and don't take other steps toward revamping lifestyle, then go off the drug, they're very likely to regain . . . just like any other temporary weight loss intervention.

  • yakkystuff
    yakkystuff Posts: 417 Member

    this is my thought? if the glp's wear off in the brain and the 'food noise' returns, then would think the struggle returns and the losing battle unless the person has truly changed their eating approach.

    @patriciafoley1 - i think you are on the right thinking - that impaired glucose numbers would return with weight regain. AFAIK, diabetes can be progressive from multiple factors including age, illness & meds… My thinking is the more we do to help ourselves, the longer, the better we can improve, maintain or slow progression - so totally worth it.

  • PAV8888
    PAV8888 Posts: 14,766 Member
    edited April 18

    There is regain following MOST types of dietary intervention, including drug therapy, surgery, exercise, diet, or diet and exercise.

    I've heard of some silly people around here going on about long term management, taking the long view, not only considering immediate weight loss results but setting up building blocks, making silly statements such as "the biggest predictor of length of future weight maintenance is… the length of maintenance to date", going on about setting up a layered or "onion" defense to weight regain by supporting the lifestyle changes that have been gradually build during the time of weight loss, going on about more silly things such as having at least a five year post weight loss time horizon in mind and setting up reasonable goals and worrying more about the process than the immediate results… if only these silly people were totally wrong…

    The AI answers, in part, depend on the questions.

    Semaglutide vs. Non-Drug Interventions

    • Semaglutide:
      After discontinuation, patients regain ~66% of lost weight within 1 year (e.g., 11.6 percentage points regained after initial 17.3% loss)12. This rapid rebound aligns with metabolic adaptations like increased appetite and reduced energy expenditure3.
      • Example: A 17.3% weight loss with semaglutide drops to a net 5.6% loss after 1 year off the drug1.
    • Non-drug interventions (diets/lifestyle):
      Meta-analyses show >50% of lost weight is regained within 2 years, and >80% by 5 years3. The regain rate is slower than semaglutide but still significant, driven by similar metabolic adaptations3.
      • Key difference: Non-drug methods lack pharmacological appetite suppression, making sustained lifestyle changes critical23.

        Semaglutide vs. Bariatric Surgery
    • Bariatric surgery:
      Weight regain is slower but still occurs. Studies report:
      • 7% total body weight regain over 10 years on average6.
      • 8.2–23.8% of maximum lost weight regained, depending on surgery type and follow-up duration7.
      • Significant regain (≥25% from nadir) in 53% of patients by 6 years post-surgery6.
    • Semaglutide post-surgery:
      Used as an adjunct, semaglutide reduces regain. Patients with weight recurrence after surgery lost 10.3% of body weight over 6 months when treated with semaglutide4.

      Key Factors Driving Regain
    • Metabolic adaptation:
      All interventions face reduced energy expenditure and increased hunger after weight loss. For semaglutide, withdrawal abruptly removes GLP-1-mediated appetite suppression23.
    • Behavioral adherence:
      Surgery enforces dietary restrictions physically, whereas semaglutide and non-drug methods rely on conscious effort36.
    • Timeframe:
      • Semaglutide: Rapid regain (months).
      • Surgery: Gradual regain (years).
      • Non-drug: Intermediate (1–5 years).
        Percent Regain Comparison

    Intervention

    Regain (1 year)

    Long-Term Regain (5–10 years)

    Semaglutide

    ~66%12

    Not studied beyond 2 years

    Non-drug (diets)

    ~50%3

    ~80%3

    Bariatric surgery

    Minimal

    7–23.8%67

    Semaglutide discontinuation leads to faster and more pronounced weight regain compared to bariatric surgery but aligns with non-drug interventions in underlying metabolic drivers. Surgery offers the most durable results, though adjunct therapies like semaglutide can mitigate post-surgical regain.

    All methods underscore obesity as a chronic condition requiring long-term management347.

    It is now just about 124 months since I decided to take more control of my health and weight. I still log daily other than the 10 to 15 days a year I am travelling on vacation. This "non logging" is new, during the past 60 months or so ;-) I still evaluate my "departure" / "fake deficit" between what my Fitbit believes is my caloric expenditure, what my logging indicates as my caloric intake and what my weight trend change indicates is the reality! :) This evaluation is not based on a week or two or even three. I usually consider one year, six month, and three month trends. I still engage. And I still manage.

    And I'm still at normal weight after having spent the better part of the "first" 30 years of my adult life in the obese range. Sure. There WAS a blip during the past 124 months where I sat in the BMI 25 to 26 range for a good year. Still maximum regain to date has been of the order of 15% of total loss because of steps taken to slow down the cycles of loss and regain. Because obesity IS a chronic condition requiring long-term management ;-)

    Since we are playing with AI's, other interesting questions give other interesting answers. To anyone wondering I confirm that in the end I did chose non-surgical (self)intervention even though my BMI was in the 45 range before I started.

    I love the "dietary and behavioral support" concept that is seen in many studies when comparing outcomes. Reminds me a bit of "wonderful weight loss results if you take blah blah*** Note: *** Our big promises are valid only if you take blah blah in conjunction with an appropriate diet and exercise intervention.

    In a "do-it-yourself" environment such as with most of us using MFP… we sort of have to provide the ongoing dietary and behavioral support to ourselves by ourselves!

    Here is some more "generic" AI info when prompted appropriately!

    I will note that myself, and many other people anecdotally on MFP, have experienced some form of type-2 remission or improvement with weight loss and exercise, so not sure how rare rare is or whether it is rare because of subsequent regains for example.

    Some of the references used in the AI discussion below are:
    https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7773341/
    https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8427732/
    https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5764193/

    Of course I would urge people to do their own research. AI's are getting there… but they are NOT quite there yet.

    Non-drug dietary interventions and bariatric surgery comparison based on outcomes and side effects:

    Weight Loss Results

    Metric

    Non-Drug Dietary Interventions

    Bariatric Surgery

    Short-term (1–2 years)

    5–8% total body weight loss with lifestyle programs24.
    VLEDs (very-low-energy diets) achieve ~10–15% loss initially, but differences vs. LEDs fade by 2 years2.

    20–30% total body weight loss (e.g., Roux-en-Y gastric bypass: 78% excess weight loss at 2 years)16.

    Long-term (5–10 years)

    ~50–80% weight regain by 5 years4.
    - Lifestyle programs maintain ~5% net loss at 10 years4.

    >50% excess weight loss sustained at 10 years, though 7–23.8% regain occurs14.

    Diabetes Remission

    Rare, with modest glycemic improvements2.

    60–80% remission rates for type 2 diabetes16.

    Side Effects and Risks

    Category

    Non-Drug Dietary Interventions

    Bariatric Surgery

    Common Risks

    - Hunger, fatigue, and nutrient deficiencies if unmonitored2.
    - High dropout rates due to adherence challenges2.

    Short-term: Nausea, vomiting, infection, blood clots35.
    Long-term: Dumping syndrome, malnutrition, hernias, gallstones35.

    Severe Complications

    Rare, but may include electrolyte imbalances2.

    5–20% risk of reoperations or chronic issues (e.g., bowel obstruction, ulcers)35.
    15% risk of iron deficiency anemia6.

    Lifestyle Impact

    Requires sustained behavioral changes; no physical restrictions.

    Permanent dietary modifications (e.g., small meals, vitamin supplementation)35.

    1. Efficacy:
      • Bariatric surgery produces 3–5× greater weight loss than dietary interventions, with superior metabolic benefits (e.g., diabetes remission)16.
      • Dietary methods are less effective long-term but safer for mild obesity24.
    2. Durability:
      • Surgery maintains >50% excess weight loss at 10 years vs. ~5% total loss with diets14.
      • Both approaches face regain, but surgical regain is slower and less severe14.
    3. Risk-Benefit Trade-off:
      • Surgery suits patients with severe obesity (BMI ≥40) or comorbidities, despite higher complication risks35.
      • Dietary interventions are preferable for lower-risk individuals prioritizing non-invasive options24.

    NB: the above is the AI conclusion, not my own. Thank you for reading ;-)

  • patriciafoley1
    patriciafoley1 Posts: 406 Member

    so, diet and lifestyle weightloss vs semaglutide weight loss - we all know people generally regain weight after a diet. Most people seem to have the mindset of dieting down to get back to eating what they want, instead of realizing that will put them right back into a weight gain. It's hard I think for people to deal with realizing it has to be a permanent lifestyle change. But is the recidivism or regain worse for people who go off the drugs, vs those who fail maintenance after dieting? Or is it about the same?

  • PAV8888
    PAV8888 Posts: 14,766 Member
    edited April 18

    All we know so far by easy searches is that there is a higher initial loss and higher initial regain for "most" people in the really fast time-frame. Same as saying that keto loses weight fast (and regains it fast when going off keto) by only considering the amount of glycogen manipulation. You have to equalize for protein intake and exercise and look at several months down the road.

    So far I, personally, do not see compelling evidence of being any worse in terms of results. Which doesn't make it great either. One suggestion was tapering with additional support and intervention. In any case: self diet and exercise does remain less expensive to implement ;-)

    But, a common mistake, in my opinion is the belief that maintenance is entirely based on voluntary "mindset". You have a whole interplay of internal physical and mental and environmental factors that come into play. What one decides is THEIR mindset TODAY doesn't always play out when the rest of life happens to them. Just like teens are not always in full control of their emotional responses.

  • PAV8888
    PAV8888 Posts: 14,766 Member
    edited April 18

    Sigh. My apology to the OP. Man you didn't need the whole fear uncertainly and doubt thrown in when you're starting out. YOU, specifically, as you well know, are definitely at a point where you can't continue on with life without making changes.

    And that's all YOU need to know right now.

    Plus to embrace the opportunity to make these changes and to move forward to seize the moment and to get a few more years out of life while feeling good (or to be more specific: while feeling BETTER) than you would get without making any changes.

    Once you get started and things start improving… then you can review and modify and work towards optimizations that will improve adherence and sustainability of effort.

    One powerful concept not covered by the above AI searches is "time at reduced weight" keeping in mind that even a 10% reduction in total weight has concrete health benefits.

    Sure. I am going on in year 9+ of maintenance. But when I was starting out one of my initial goals was just to play for time. Mainly because of the concept of "time at reduced weight".

    So even failed interventions that are well managed can have real benefits! Broad statistics are only part of the story… details do matter!

  • yakkystuff
    yakkystuff Posts: 417 Member

    So interesting...

    A few random thoughts.

    • Easy to talk options, harder to actually choose an approach, then start and do it
    • Any of the options is likely better than nothing.
    • Emotional tolerance is important for deciding. If you can't tolerate the idea of the choice, choose something you are willing to try - personally, the risks of surgery or drugs doesn't appeal to me, so I am better able to try self-intervention with food and movement.

    We are unique and can be in the 5% - of any of the paths.

    • It was noted that for some approaches, most has significant regain and 5% manage to not regain.
    • I think that is similar to quit smoking for the hard cases, 5% make it.
    • Somewhere read that for the 'super-obese, bmi 60+, maybe only 1% keep the weight off post- bariatric surgery, the rest regain over a number of years.
    • All of the fails and stats can be a barrier de-motivation to even try...
    • So instead, have the goal to shoot for the 5% who do make it,
    • Be willing to keep trying and adjusting. Shoot for the moon with it.

    So, I would agree that the time that is better is better than nothing.

    Personally, have a lifelong yoyo pattern - which means there was some time better than nothing - and more trying ahead... whether it's losing or maintaing...

    The statistical liklihood of failure will NOT be a reason for me NOT to even try. I have to choose to try... If I don't even choose to try, well then... whatever, sometimes we just don't, sometimes we just talk about it.

    But, when we have an urge to try, then we should... and trying is always better than nothing… stopping before I do that circle again ;)

  • ddsb1111
    ddsb1111 Posts: 950 Member
    edited April 19

    Making small changes will not work for me as I will not make progress and will keep falling back into old ways.

    The truth is, real change starts with small steps. Waiting for a huge, perfect overhaul to magically fix everything isn’t realistic, that’s just another excuse to stay stuck. If you’re not willing to make even small changes, then you’re choosing to stay where you are. Progress isn’t about perfection, it’s about consistency and willingness to try something different, even if it’s uncomfortable.

    Staying stuck is costing you way more than making small changes ever will. Every day you don’t commit is time, energy, and potential lost, and that’s a much heavier price. The physical, mental, and emotional suffering that comes from doing nothing is far harder in the long run than the discomfort of change. You say small changes won’t work, but the truth is, they’re the only sustainable way forward. What you’re really battling isn’t the method, it’s the self sabotage. That’s the real challenge here, and until you get curious about why you keep choosing discomfort over progress, nothing will change. I hope you find out the real “why” for being stuck so you can find a new strong “why” to get unstuck.

  • rl2010
    rl2010 Posts: 42 Member
    edited April 19

    wow. This tread into allot of details.

    Well the decision has been made for me )and maybe for the better) as my insurance won’t cover any weight loss medication. I don’t know why 100lbs overweight severely obese, sleep apnea and on blood pressure and cholesterol meds won’t qualify. But that is ok. One less thing to worry about. Now if I can get the commercials to stop playing for these……


    went for a physical fitness evaluation and get results and plan this week. Had to walk the treadmill for 6 min at 2.5 mph, some leg presses and weight rows. Was shaking like crazy after that mini workout. They stated they will show me a gym workout plan and a plan for home. Their gym is 1/2 hour away in the wrong direction from my work so it’s not practical. Going to dig out the old weight bench, weights for the home stuff.



    @pav8888. I am trying to do a more. Still on very low carb and added some protein shakes to bump three protein up. Down 30.5 lbs now. Only 99 to go.


    @ddsb1111 by small changes I mean one small thing. Like just changing to 8 glasses of water a day for 2 months then walking 10 minutes for another 2 months and then walking 20 minutes 3 months later. I understand a combo of changes maybe small but hopefully will add up. Maybe the example of the water, walking, good meals, will add up and then progress. One of these won’t be enough if that makes sense on my thoughts.

    As far as the doctor, yes they may know better on their plan, their plan with 10000 steps a day, 30-60 minutes of cardio a day and 30-60 min of strength exercises from day 1 is not practical or could I do it. Those are GREAT goals to get to, but there is no way I could TODAY. I am at 2500 steps a day and took a flight of stairs at work.

    Am I going to try, yes as we want to go on vacation this summer and I want to go and be able to move. I would love to not be out of breath getting dressed or a small flight of stairs. Maybe even stand more than a few minutes without back pain. Just did some yard work and there is a long way to go. I just hope it’s the weight and deconditioning and not the lung issues that are causing the shortness of breath.

  • PAV8888
    PAV8888 Posts: 14,766 Member

    It's good to see you "in the game"

  • springlering62
    springlering62 Posts: 9,259 Member
    edited April 19

    As far as the doctor, yes they may know better on their plan, their plan with 10000 steps a day, 30-60 minutes of cardio a day and 30-60 min of strength exercises from day 1 is not practical or could I do it. Those are GREAT goals to get to, but there is no way I could TODAY. I am at 2500 steps a day and took a flight of stairs at work.


    there was a lady here a few years back who was very similar to you.

    She set a goal of walking to the end of her driveway and back every day.

    Then she added the neighbor’s mail box.

    Then she increased to a phone pole, and then another. It took a while but I remember her joy when she accomplished a mile.

    Small goals are way better than no goals

    I see you there, and I see you being of the ones who says “I started taking the stairs at work instead of the elevator and stairs don’t get me out of breath any more!”


    I sincerely hope you see you there! 😘

  • AnnPT77
    AnnPT77 Posts: 36,061 Member

    Wow:

    • You arranged a physical fitness assessment
    • You went to the assessment, and completed tests that were hard
    • You have a plan to set up a home workout space so you can follow the personalized fitness improvement recommendations that result from the test
    • You're sticking with the low carb
    • You've lost over 30 pounds already, nearly 25% of your goal
    • You've added protein shakes to bump up your protein intake

    This is really wonderful: I'm so glad to hear it. Keep up that great forward momentum, and I'm sure you'll gradually be able to do more, plus do it more easily, and will enjoy your vacation accordingly.

    Nice progress! I hope you're proud, because I think you should be.

  • SuzanneC1l9zz
    SuzanneC1l9zz Posts: 493 Member