LESS Alcohol ~ December 2025 ~ One Day at a Time

🌟 Do You Want to Drink LESS? 🌟

"Less" can mean a lot of different things—and that's the beauty of it. Maybe you want to:

  • Cut out that one glass of wine that always turns into two (or three—hey, no judgment here)
  • Save the cocktails for weekends, celebrations… or your in-laws’ next visit.
  • Turn “Dry January” (or July, or any month you choose) into a personal tradition.
  • Or maybe—just maybe—you’re ready to go all in and explore a fully alcohol-free lifestyle.

Imagine waking up clear-headed every single morning.
(No more “wait… who did I text last night?” moments.)

💡 The beauty is: YOU define what LESS looks like.
Whether it's:

  • One less drink a day, week, or month
  • Taking mindful breaks from drinking
  • Or choosing full-on sobriety

There’s no one-size-fits-all here. It’s your journey—and you don’t have to walk it alone.

We’re here:

  • Cheering each other on
  • Sharing wins and stumbles
  • Growing stronger—together 💛

🎉 Join us in drinking LESS—however that looks in your life.
Because every step counts, and a little progress today can lead to big changes tomorrow.
Progress isn’t perfect—but it is powerful.

✨ Ready to start? Let’s do this—one mindful sip (or skip) at a time. 🍋✨

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  • itladyee
    itladyee Posts: 8,486 Member
    edited November 24

    LESS ALCOHOL RESOURCE & GENERAL INFORMATION LIST

    USING THIS THREAD:

    Join us at any time.
    Set your own goal – this thread is about drinking less and you decide what that means to you.
    There are no scheduled check-ins…post as often or as little as you want or need.
    AF is an acronym for Alcohol Free. For others commonly used on this site see -

    To follow this thread easily, bookmark it by clicking on the star or ribbon at the top right of this thread. Remember that we are here for you and care about you. Check in with us when you have time and let us know what you need!

    Reported Benefits of Less or No Drinking: (Results may be incremental, and/or they may vary)

    • Improved sleep after 2, 4, 7, 10, & 60 days
    • Improved skin/complexion after 10 days
    • Improved ease in weight loss. Not only from the savings of alcohol calories but some report making poor food choices after drinking.
    • Increased energy after as few as 2 days
    • Increase in other fun activities. Some have found that daily drinking became their main recreational activity, and their world was decreased in size.
    • Reduction of high blood pressure
    • Lower resting heart rate
    • Retention of vital vitamins and minerals
    • Less Acid Re-flux and improved gut health
    • Significant financial savings
    • Better relationships with family and friends

    Life with Less Alcohol:

    • It can be helpful to educate yourself with books and web research.
    • There is no benefit to comparing yourself to others because this is a personal journey.
    • You may often feel conflicted. You will know that there are numerous real benefits to sticking to your goal while at the same time think that alcohol is an important part of stress relief, relaxation, celebration, etc.
    • You may feel punished by not drinking or drinking less but that feeling usually fades with time.
    • Sometimes drinking less or quitting will strain friendships that centered around alcohol.
    • Having a list of reasons to stick to your goals handy for yourself can be helpful.
    • Some lists have included remembering how bad it feels to have a hangover, excess/unwanted calories, having a racing heart during the night, sleeplessness, anxiety, and depression.
    • It is not uncommon for certain activities that were once combined with alcohol to trigger temptation. Many have said that outdoor activities in warmer weather made alcohol very tempting.
    • If you begin drinking daily again whether planned like a vacation or unplanned you may once again face a struggle to get it under control.
    • For some people it is easier to not drink than it is to moderate drinking. Others have found moderating impossible.

    Getting Started or Starting Over:

    • Some people find it easier to set small attainable goals at the beginning to help boost confidence.
    • If you have been drinking daily the first days will be some of the hardest and drinking again will feel like a cure but it delays the relief that only time can provide.
    • There will always be a reason to delay the start/restart of your journey.
      For those ready to commit to being alcohol-free permanently, the videos on YouTube by Craig Beck will help. He also has a program you can join.
    • You may experience mood swings and anxiety during your first two weeks. It is suggested you try and focus on the benefits of your goal.
    • Cravings are said to last only 6 minutes, so find something to distract you like arming yourself with alternatives: tea, mock-tails, activities, etc.
    • You may find that filling the time you drink with other activities like exercise or hobbies can be a helpful distraction.
    • If you find them tempting try and avoid events/outings that will have drinking for a time.
    • Don't let pride or shame keep you from asking for the help you need.
      Sometimes talking it out or posting your thoughts/feelings/struggles may help you work things out for yourself.
    • It is okay that you don't always have all the answers.
    • Some days will be easier than others.
    • You may have initial/increased sugar cravings.
    • Celebrate the smaller victories too. Less alcohol is still less alcohol even if your goal was zero at that moment.
    • Failure is not giving in and drinking. Failure is to stop trying to accomplish your goals.
  • itladyee
    itladyee Posts: 8,486 Member
    edited November 24

    LINKS
    ▪▪▪▪
    •General Information/Blog Sites:
    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&target=https%3A%2F%2Fthesoberschool.com%2F       The Sober School
    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&target=https%3A%2F%2Fthisnakedmind.com%2Fblog%2F
    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&target=https%3A%2F%2Falcoholmastery.com%2Fblog%2F

    •Sobriety Blog:
    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&target=http%3A%2F%2Fmummywasasecretdrinker.blogspot.com%2F

    •The Thirty Day Experiment:
    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&target=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.alcoholexperiment.com%2F

    •Ten Things That Helped Me Quit Booze:
    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&target=https%3A%2F%2Funpickledblog.com%2F2017%2F01%2F04%2Freplacement-behaviours-ten-things-that-helped-me-kick-booze%2F%3Fwref%3Dtp

    •The Neuroscience Behind How We Make Decisions:
    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&target=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.psychologytoday.com%2Fus%2Fblog%2Fthe-athletes-way%2F201505%2Fthe-neuroscience-making-decision

    •Summary of Book on Addiction:
    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&target=https%3A%2F%2Fdrgabormate.com%2Fbook%2Fin-the-realm-of-hungry-ghosts%2F

    •Article on the Difference Between Being an Alcoholic and Really Liking to Drink:
    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&target=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.self.com%2Fstory%2Falcoholic-or-just-really-like-to-drink

    •To the Mom questioning her drinking habits:
    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&target=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.scarymommy.com%2Fquestioning-drinking-habits%2F

    •Guided Meditations:
    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&target=http%3A%2F%2Fmarc.ucla.edu%2Fmindful-meditations

    ALTERNATIVE DRINKS:
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    •Overnight Cold Brew Iced Tea:
    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&target=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.splendidtable.org%2Fstory%2Fyou-can-cold-brew-iced-tea-while-you-sleep

    •Mocktail Recipes:
    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&target=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.allrecipes.com%2Frecipes%2F1822%2Fdrinks%2Fmocktails%2F
    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&target=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.foodandwine.com%2Fcocktails-spirits%2Fmocktails
    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&target=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.townandcountrymag.com%2Fleisure%2Fdrinks%2Fhow-to%2Fg785%2Fbest-mocktail-recipes%2F

    APPS
    ▪▪▪▪
    •Daybreak - A Deakin University study of hundreds of health apps found that Daybreak is one of only four that have proven effective and provide quality assistance.
    •Dry Days by AlcoChange - is for those who want to cut down or cut out the booze throughout the year, while seeing the impact it has on your health and wallet.
    •Nomo - Sobriety Clocks: In addition to an alcohol clock and monetary savings this app lets you check in and do a sobriety exercise if you're tempted and connect with accountability partners.
    •Sobriety Counter - Stop Drinking (Sobriety Counter - EasyQuit pro version) - Provides health stats, money saved, games to distract you, motivational tips, and several other features
    •Sober Time - Track your progress in the sobriety counter. Stop drinking with built-in motivation. Look at the sobriety clock when you need it most.

    BOOKS
    ▪▪▪▪
    •Quit Like a Woman: The Radical Choice to Not Drink in a Culture Obsessed with Alcohol
    by Holly Whitaker
    •The Naked Mind by Annie Grace
    •Alcohol Lied to Me by Craig Beck
    •Rational Recovery by Jack Trimpey
    •The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober by Catherine Gray
    •The Liars Club, Cherry, and Lit by Mary Karr (3 different publications)
    •Kick the Drink...Easily by Jason Vale
    •Drinking: A Love Story by Caroline Knapp
    •Being Sober: A Step-by-Step Guide to Getting To, Getting Through, and Living in Recovery by Harry Haroutunian
    •The Easy, Illustrated Way to Quit Drinking by Alan Carr
    •Alcohol Explained by William Porter
    •Tired of Thinking About Drinking: Take My 100-Day Sober Challenge by Belle Robertson

    Credit and thanks to the MFP Less Alcohol One Day at a Time participants For their willingness to share their insights and resourcefulness in finding this information~Established 2017~

  • itladyee
    itladyee Posts: 8,486 Member
  • itladyee
    itladyee Posts: 8,486 Member
    edited November 24

    Shared by xbowhunter:

    5 Life-Changing Lessons From Quitting Alcohol

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    Highlights from Westcoastgirl_1

    Alcohol is toxic to every cell in the body.
    Alcohol increases oxidative stress that can cause cell damage, inflammation, DNA damage and chronic diseases such as cancer, heart disease, and neurodegenerative diseases.
    Alcohol directly affects neurotransmitters that effect mood, cognition and sleep.
    Alcohol causes weight gain due to empty calories.
    Alcohol reduces fat oxidation which decreases our liver’s ability to manage cholesterol and fatty acids which can cause an increase in visceral fat leading to insulin resistance and metabolic syndrome.
    Alcohol raises BP. There is a direct correlation between the amount of alcohol consumed and BP. In other words, the more alcohol you drink the higher your BP will rise. And alcohol can cause irregular arrythmias like atrial fibrillation.
    Alcohol increases the risk of cancers. Also, directly correlated to the amount of alcohol consumed. It has been classified as a Group 1 carcinogen.
    Alcohol promises everything that sobriety delivers.

  • itladyee
    itladyee Posts: 8,486 Member

    Welcome to yet another great month of support in drinking LESS, and doing what works best for you!! Such fabulous successes in November!!! Congrats all! If you feel you weren't successful, think again, you were here and you were making the effort. Don't ever give up!!

    I encourage any person out there struggling with alcohol at any level to either follow us or join in on the conversation.

    For many of us, Holidays are approaching. Start thinking NOW about how you will handle. Share if you like..

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  • tmbg1
    tmbg1 Posts: 1,737 Member

    November stats - decent but not my best. Hello December!

    15 AF

    4 LA

    10 A

  • nbruns83
    nbruns83 Posts: 3,136 Member

    Hi all,

    I left my comments on the November discussion, sorry. Good wishes to you all for December and the holidays.

  • Michieb125
    Michieb125 Posts: 1,595 Member

    Greetings:

    It’s December 1st and a Monday! Great way to kick off the new month and first week of Advent.
    According to my tracker, my November stats showed improvement from October (wasn’t too difficult). But mission accomplished.
    This month is my Arc to January - meaning I want to stay the course and build upon the goals I started in September.

    December Goals:

    No more than 2 glasses of wine on A days

    AF - targeting 3-4 per week

    Exercise - 4-5 days of week of anything! Walking, the gym, a class, weights or yoga stretch
    Rest - build in time to rest my body and mind when needed

    Here’s to a clear headed LA holiday season!

  • WestCoastGirl_1
    WestCoastGirl_1 Posts: 162 Member

    Thank you everyone for your Congrats and support! I did pretty good last month - 4 days AF. But the last 3 AF days were in a row (the last 3 days of November). That's something that I want to avoid. So, I do have to be careful if I try to moderate. It's probably not a good idea.

    I'm not exactly sure what my goals for December are…I'm going to play it by ear. I may go the whole month AF. If I do drink, it will be 6 A days or less (and no consecutive days).

    @SparkSpringtime69 It's good to see you back! We can do this!

    @GGinCA You're stats for November look good to me! I'm glad you decided to join the "Fresh Start in December" club 😀

    @nbruns83 Your November stats look awesome! I was just being a smart"*kitten*" about the song. I actually have trouble remembering who sang what 🤔 I just got lucky. I also have a pretty good LP collection. I don't listen to them much though.

    Happy December everybody!

  • WestCoastGirl_1
    WestCoastGirl_1 Posts: 162 Member
    edited December 2

    @NonnieDoiron Boy, your day sounds grueling! Hopefully, you wake up later since you're in the Central time zone 😀

    Here we are starting a new month again! AF today!

    December:

    AF - 1
    A - 0

    Now if I can just keep it going 😬

    Have a good night everyone!

  • nbruns83
    nbruns83 Posts: 3,136 Member

    December 1

    AF 1

  • tmbg1
    tmbg1 Posts: 1,737 Member

    1 LA

    Have any of y'all gotten a popup that says "reward unlocked" from mfp? I'm scared to click on it because I don't know what it is.

  • SparkSpringtime69
    SparkSpringtime69 Posts: 1,563 Member

    I haven't seen any pop ups, but I'm in the free version, not premium. Also I have a pop-up blocker on.

    I'd be afraid to click on it though.

  • WestCoastGirl_1
    WestCoastGirl_1 Posts: 162 Member

    @tmbg1 I have the premium version and I've never gotten any pop-ups. I wouldn't click on it.

  • WestCoastGirl_1
    WestCoastGirl_1 Posts: 162 Member
    edited December 2

    @itladyee I like your goals. Especially, not drinking more than 3 days per week. For me, I would add no drinking on two consecutive days. But, that's just me. If I drink two days in a row, by Day 3, I get the WTF attitude and will drink the 3rd day, 4th (you get the picture). I'm really good at designing moderation plans. The problem for me is carrying them out 😕

    I probably wouldn't be able to limit my drinks on A days (maybe if I was a wine drinker), except by starting drinking later in the afternoon and buying a smaller bottle.

    I also like your exercise goals. I have some core & hip floors exercises that I keep threatening to start doing. I will get on it soon! For a while, I was getting cramps in my legs, but I'm no longer getting those. I also have some lower and upper body strength training exercises that I like to do. I also like to walk. But, in Oregon, it's either raining or it's cold during the winter. But, I can do step-ups and other exercises that get my heartrate up in the house. I guess I should just put the shorts away and bundle up 🤔

    Good for you on drinking yesterday and not drinking today. That's the way to do it!

    Have a good day everyone!

  • tmbg1
    tmbg1 Posts: 1,737 Member

    1 AF

    1 LA

    Thanks for your input - definitely not going to click on it. They made it look like it was from mfp, but I don't think it was.

  • NonnieDoiron
    NonnieDoiron Posts: 672 Member

    Coworkers are at Buffalo Wild Wings tonight watching basketball and getting $h!t faced.

    Again, I stayed in the hotel tonight. I Door Dashed dinner, but it wasn’t healthy. I had a craving and gave into it.

    The first day of our review went well. Tomorrow is day two/last day. Then, I’ll be scrambling to revise our presentation for final submission in 5 calendar days.

    Tomorrow evening is a get together at my boss’ home, and Thursday is the company’s anniversary party and award recognition. I’m sure there will be drinking at both, but not me.

    A-0
    AF-2

  • GGinCA
    GGinCA Posts: 31 Member

    Coming to the end a tired and somewhat stressful day here, but happy to report day two AF in December (streak is four.)

    @NonnieDoiron work trips are so tiring and then to have the challenge of needing to avoid the co-workers drinking. I feel for you!


    @itlaydee - love the super specific goals.


    Great work everyone and stay strong!

  • WestCoastGirl_1
    WestCoastGirl_1 Posts: 162 Member

    December:

    AF - 2
    A - 0