How do you like to be flirted with?

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  • AmberLiscous
    AmberLiscous Posts: 644 Member
    A "How you doin" works for me!!!!:bigsmile:
    [joey's voice]How you doin'?[/joey's voice]
    :tongue:
  • Jeepinmom4
    Jeepinmom4 Posts: 298 Member
    I don't like to be flirted with,it makes me uncomfortable as he//. Might be cuz I havnt been single for 12 years!

    BUT,if I was single,id want them to be blunt! I HATE when people beat around the bush... :)
  • WifeNMama
    WifeNMama Posts: 2,876 Member
    In college, I had just broken up with another guy when my now husband started flirting with me and sitting down with me at lunch. We had some great conversations, but he didn't really kick it up a notch and actually ask me out until we were at a friends house with a bunch of people for dinner, and I baked a pie for dessert. So ladies, if you want a guy to take a hint, bring him pie. :-P
  • Mios3
    Mios3 Posts: 530 Member
    I haven't had anyone flirt with me in I can't remember how long....but a compliment is nice.
    I don't believe that for a second

    Sadly it is true Lol.
  • i_love_vinegar
    i_love_vinegar Posts: 2,092 Member
    I haven't had anyone flirt with me in I can't remember how long....but a compliment is nice.
    I don't believe that for a second

    Sadly it is true Lol.

    Maybe you dont go out enough? I have a hard time believing this either!!
  • ImKindOfABigDeal40
    ImKindOfABigDeal40 Posts: 807 Member
    Sadly it is true Lol.
    Well I certainly think you are very beautiful. How's that for a compliment?
  • GabriellaMaria
    GabriellaMaria Posts: 150 Member
    I like a woman to look me in the eye. But not in a "I'm crazy" sort of way. A deep gaze, a little shy smile, playing with her hair, that sort of thing. And if she bites her lip I'm a gonner!!!!!!! Lol
    This is a perfect wat to flirt!!I am a dreadful flirt,always have been,but not in an aggressive manner...I tend to twirl my hair wen nervous,and I always bite/lick my lips...I live a guy to make me giggle,and I always make eyecontact for just long enough to let them know they are on my mind..bad girl really!!!
    :blushing:
  • Tani316
    Tani316 Posts: 28
    Love it when it's done tastefully and respectfully. :happy: I don't like feeling like a piece of meat dangling in front of a starving wolf. :devil:


    Amen to that. Also I don't mean for it to but really engaging direct eye contact coupled with asking questions that show genuine interest in me sends me all a-flutter. (Mwah)
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    I haven't had anyone flirt with me in I can't remember how long....but a compliment is nice.
    I don't believe that for a second

    Sadly it is true Lol.

    Hello there! th_flirt.gif
  • rmartin72
    rmartin72 Posts: 1,085 Member
    Smiles & A Special look.
  • Secret_Agent_007
    Secret_Agent_007 Posts: 1,082
    I like a girl who's really forward. The more direct she is the better... I like to know their intentions from the beginning... like when they walk right up and grab a nice big handful.......................



    of my wallet...

    I completely agree with this. I would sometimes flirt with guys before I got married, but when I first met my husband I knew he was my destiny and was very agressive when it came to flirting. I had no scruples and made him blush. Happily married for 5 years now! I still make him blush.



    I completely agree as well. And the grab a big handful has happened to me before. I was completely shocked.
  • MJKing2
    MJKing2 Posts: 177
    A smile or nice eyes can grab my attention. After that it's all about how much we have in common and a good sense of humor. I'm a huge flirt (thank God my husband is okay with it) so if a guy pays me a genuine compliment it definitely helps.
  • LaPistolaSexola
    LaPistolaSexola Posts: 243 Member
    a compliment is nice. but i'm pretty oblivious to flirting. i'd say i rarely get flirted with, and if it's happening, i don't notice it.
  • jamiesgotagun
    jamiesgotagun Posts: 670 Member
    Eye contact and a cute little smile is always good :)
  • Lindsey_81
    Lindsey_81 Posts: 118 Member
    As someone said already, I try to save the flirting for my husband but that being said, a girl wants to still know she is attractive, so I love when I get nice little compliments or a smile and wink :wink: I am big on making eye contact and I smile at people all the time so I guess if that is flirting...I am more of a flirt than I thought.:happy:
  • Jade_Butterfly
    Jade_Butterfly Posts: 2,963 Member
    A smile or nice eyes can grab my attention. After that it's all about how much we have in common and a good sense of humor. I'm a huge flirt so if a guy pays me a genuine compliment it definitely helps.

    THIS ^^^^ love it~
  • Krull_the_WarriorKing
    Krull_the_WarriorKing Posts: 650 Member
    I'm pretty clueless when a girl flirts with me. I basically need the direct approach otherwise... duhhhhh

    So if anyone of my MFP friends have flirted with me and I seem clueless... it's not an act. Be more direct.
  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    really, i like to be treated like a piece of meat. tell me i'm sexy and you just want to do me. not that it'll get you anywhere, as i'm married, but it's still nice to hear!!
  • AlsDonkBoxSquat
    AlsDonkBoxSquat Posts: 6,128 Member
    I like when they hit me over the head with their club and drag me to their cave.

    j/k - When I was single I liked when they approach me and just start talking. An introduction goes a long way.

    Things I don't like that people have tried on me include pinching my *kitten*, interrupting me in the middle of another conversation, cheesy pick up lines (unless they are incredibly funny), or in general being presumptious and imposing.
  • ImKindOfABigDeal40
    ImKindOfABigDeal40 Posts: 807 Member
    I like when they hit me over the head with their club and drag me to their cave.

    j/k - When I was single I liked when they approach me and just start talking. An introduction goes a long way.

    Things I don't like that people have tried on me include pinching my *kitten*, interrupting me in the middle of another conversation, cheesy pick up lines (unless they are incredibly funny), or in general being presumptious and imposing.
    Me Tarzan. You Jane!
  • Reneda
    Reneda Posts: 140
    :wink:
    I'm pretty clueless when a girl flirts with me. I basically need the direct approach otherwise... duhhhhh

    that explains a lot..
  • JennLifts
    JennLifts Posts: 1,913 Member
    A smile is about all it takes. Which gets me in trouble as I come across very flirty. Saying a statement that shows you have a brain kind of hooks me too ;-)
  • JennLifts
    JennLifts Posts: 1,913 Member
    I'm pretty clueless when a girl flirts with me. I basically need the direct approach otherwise... duhhhhh

    Hah! I tell people that to their face. "Are you flirting with me, because I won't pick up on it if you are"
    I always think people are just really nice. But if someone touches me, I get the picture pretty fast. (Not inappropriately, just in general)
  • ImKindOfABigDeal40
    ImKindOfABigDeal40 Posts: 807 Member
    Hah! I tell people that to their face. "Are you flirting with me, because I won't pick up on it if you are"
    I always think people are just really nice. But if someone touches me, I get the picture pretty fast. (Not inappropriately, just in general)
    Sometimes its hard to tell
  • eyoungone05
    eyoungone05 Posts: 119
    I flirt with a smile and a simple hello doesn't have to be over the top or difficult
  • jljohnson
    jljohnson Posts: 719 Member
    Can't believe no one's said this yet... ask me to dance. No bump and grind kind of dancing, but a real dance, like a two-step, waltz, hell, even a polka will get the job done.

    When my husband and I started dating, he used to throw popcorn down my low-cut shirts... apparently that works on me too :noway:
  • Jovialation
    Jovialation Posts: 7,632 Member
    Im friends with almost exclusively men and we playfully flirt all the time. Then again, me and my female friends playfully flirt all the time too.

    My favorite way, tho? When my bf smacks my butt, hahaha
  • aj_rock
    aj_rock Posts: 390 Member
    I like when they hit me over the head with their club and drag me to their cave.

    j/k - When I was single I liked when they approach me and just start talking. An introduction goes a long way.

    Things I don't like that people have tried on me include pinching my *kitten*, interrupting me in the middle of another conversation, cheesy pick up lines (unless they are incredibly funny), or in general being presumptious and imposing.

    This reminds me of my very first post asking why people follow caveman diets when we no longer socialize like cavemen :P

    All the same, pretty smiles make me weak in the knees. Subtle talk and wit will win me over :D
  • ImKindOfABigDeal40
    ImKindOfABigDeal40 Posts: 807 Member
    Can't believe no one's said this yet... ask me to dance. No bump and grind kind of dancing, but a real dance, like a two-step, waltz, hell, even a polka will get the job done.

    When my husband and I started dating, he used to throw popcorn down my low-cut shirts... apparently that works on me too :noway:
    I swing dance but it's hard to find women that can follow. I also, waltz, tango, foxtrot and rumba but swing dance is by far my favorite.
  • Jeff92se
    Jeff92se Posts: 3,369 Member
    I like when they hit me over the head with their club and drag me to their cave.

    j/k - When I was single I liked when they approach me and just start talking. An introduction goes a long way.

    Things I don't like that people have tried on me include pinching my *kitten*, interrupting me in the middle of another conversation, cheesy pick up lines (unless they are incredibly funny), or in general being presumptious and imposing.

    Buhaha. Perfect reply to all these "flirt" thread. Jesus people.
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