Did you seriously cheat on me?

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  • kimletton11
    kimletton11 Posts: 72 Member
    To Everyone talking about cheating... I'm just gonna say this.

    The vast vast vast majority of people don't cheat because they are "horny, weak, bored, lacking something at home, or even simply because they think they can get away with it"

    They cheat because they aren't happy with their relationship. Plain and simple.

    Tell yourself otherwise if you like, but its the truth.


    ^^I couldn't agree more with the above post...
  • Avalonis
    Avalonis Posts: 1,540 Member
    To Everyone talking about cheating... I'm just gonna say this.

    The vast vast vast majority of people don't cheat because they are "horny, weak, bored, lacking something at home, or even simply because they think they can get away with it"

    They cheat because they aren't happy with their relationship. Plain and simple.

    Tell yourself otherwise if you like, but its the truth.

    If you are not happy there are a few options. 1- talk to you SO and try to fix it. 2- Suck it up (which doesn't work) 3- LEAVE me, then sleep around on someone else!

    Wasn't saying it was ok, I was just stating the reasoning behind it ;)
  • TrefG
    TrefG Posts: 112 Member
    If you are in a different post-code then it's not cheating. Also if you are lucky enough to entertain 2 ladies at the same time then one cancels out the other.

    These are the rules !
  • GreatSetOfBrains
    GreatSetOfBrains Posts: 675 Member
    To Everyone talking about cheating... I'm just gonna say this.

    The vast vast vast majority of people don't cheat because they are "horny, weak, bored, lacking something at home, or even simply because they think they can get away with it"

    They cheat because they aren't happy with their relationship. Plain and simple.

    Tell yourself otherwise if you like, but its the truth.

    If you are not happy there are a few options. 1- talk to you SO and try to fix it. 2- Suck it up (which doesn't work) 3- LEAVE me, then sleep around on someone else!

    Wasn't saying it was ok, I was just stating the reasoning behind it ;)

    Oh no one can lol. That's just how I feel on that. Happy spouses don't cheat. I just wish people could admit they are unhappy rather than sleeping around.
  • writtenINthestars
    writtenINthestars Posts: 1,933 Member
    To Everyone talking about cheating... I'm just gonna say this.

    The vast vast vast majority of people don't cheat because they are "horny, weak, bored, lacking something at home, or even simply because they think they can get away with it"

    They cheat because they aren't happy with their relationship. Plain and simple.

    Tell yourself otherwise if you like, but its the truth.

    If you are not happy there are a few options. 1- talk to you SO and try to fix it. 2- Suck it up (which doesn't work) 3- LEAVE me, then sleep around on someone else!

    Every situation is different and has different circumstances. It's one of those things that I feel like you can say you'd do or want one of those 3 things but until you experience a few different scenarios, you really have no clue what you'll do (not saying YOU, just the majority who may not have experienced cheating in any form).
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    I consider sex = cheating. But there's a whole variety of things that would get my husband into SERIOUS trouble. Including emotional affairs, kissing, and everything between kissing and sex.

    i agree... theres a possibility i would forgive kissing... depending on the situation, but anything else is a definite no-no!
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    The vast vast vast majority of people don't cheat because they are "horny, weak, bored, lacking something at home, or even simply because they think they can get away with it"

    They cheat because they aren't happy with their relationship. Plain and simple.

    That's kind of what I meant by "bored" and "lacking something at home."
  • edenxoxo
    edenxoxo Posts: 29
    *Personally* ANY form of sexual contact with another individual is cheating.... not only this but to emotionally connect with someone on the same level as you would a significant other is cheating... people can cheat without meeting/touching/talking - it all depends on your own tolerance levels I suppose but I don't think you will find your answer here....

    If you feel guilty or u feel betrayed by the behavour of another or yourself... chances are your doing something wrong or they have done something wrong.... talk it through - get the full picture of whats going on and then make a decision...

    Hope your ok

    xoxo
  • livnlite
    livnlite Posts: 520
    The vast vast vast majority of people don't cheat because they are "horny, weak, bored, lacking something at home, or even simply because they think they can get away with it"

    They cheat because they aren't happy with their relationship. Plain and simple.

    That's kind of what I meant by "bored" and "lacking something at home."

    Both are kinda true ...There are ups and downs in EVERY relationship. For some people, there is an unrealistic expectation that a marriage or a relationship should be smooth sailing...and instead of working on the relationship by taking the good with the bad .. they take the (and I use there term loosly) "easy" way out, or find comfort elsewhere, because they are simply too lazy to make an effort to save what they have. There are two kinds of people who cheat. People might cheat out of emotional desperation, when they are their weakest .. And then there of course, there are people who just cheat because they are cheaters.

    Having said that .. there are relationship that are simply not meant to be .. for instance .. if two people are matched up for all the wrong reasons .. Ending that kind of relationship badly is often inevitable.

    THAT's why it is sooo important to put some effort into deciding to commit to someone. Do not chose by your 'heart' alone...you have to make an educated prediction of your longevity. Chosing to marry someone who you think you can 'change' .. is doomed right from the start.
  • jenttifer
    jenttifer Posts: 90 Member
    It is cheating if it incorporates moves like jagger.

    Love this! :)

    I think cheating is what is defined between the two people in a relationship. In my eyes, if I feel wrong about it or that I couldn't share it with my significant other then it's cheating. If you feel like you've been wronged then it's worth talking about. If you feel like you are in the wrong, then it's probably wrong. Your conscience tells you. I agree that emotional affairs can be more hurtful than one night stands. But after being victim of both I don't tolerate much anymore, sadly.
  • GreatSetOfBrains
    GreatSetOfBrains Posts: 675 Member
    Nuff said :)
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