Home Wrecker!!!

Well since this post she has deactivated her account. She didn't get the response she wanted I guess.

GUESS she took the advice and walked away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If I had a dollar for every married man who told me he and his wife didn't get along and were only together for the kids, I'd be able to pay for the next Kim Kardashian wedding!

I know right!!!

who would put up a question like this on an internet forum?? the mind boggles. get in touch with your responsibilities and preserve your integrity.

walk awaaaay... i recently went through this situation but i was the girlfriend, not the homewrecker. my boyfriend of 5 years had a girl come up to him he used to work with and she got his number and they started talking (i was unaware of this).. a month later he had decided he wanted to be with her and told me he wanted to break up. we ended up working through it and we understand eachother soo much more now and cherish eachother more.. he admits he was swayed momentarily because of the flattery he got from her and he liked the attention.

i swear to god if i could catch this girl out and about i'd be ashamed of my actions later..

this isnt high school. this is adulthood. he's married with children. leave him alone.

I'm disturbed that this question was even asked.

What part of married do some people not quite understand????!!!!! go look it up in a dictionary!!!!!

Walk away. He is MARRIED. That should be your answer right there. Marriage is a commitment. Respect that as should he.

Think about it this way... If you do get together with him and you guys have a serious relationship, won't you be stuck worrying, in the future, that some hot girl from his past could come into the picture and make him leave you as he did his ex-wife?

She deactivated her account - wow! I must read some of these pages now to see the people who ripped her a new one, LOL!

Personally I found it a little odd that someone would make an account just to ask a question like this. (This was her first post and the only thread she posted in.) Second account? Troll? The thread topic made me suspicious as well... if she was seriously asking this question why title it that?

Probably a troll trying to get people fighting

If he'll do it with you, he will do it to you!

^^ This

walk away...the grass ain't always greener on the other side!

I have been here before...He was only married "because of the kids" He went back to her "because of the kids"....I walked away and 14 months later he came back to me. We began our lives together and 8 years later, our relationship didn't fair so well. We split 5 years after having a child ourselves....He never cheated but I found out what kind of person her REALLY was....I can tell you first hand - WALK AWAY IF IT'S MEANT TO BE, IT WILL BE - dealing with the roller coaster of ups and downs and highs and lows of the relationship is TOO MUCH HEARTACHE for one person to handle...and trust me...YOU shouldn't and will never be more important than his adorable children and the heartache they will have to face....Let it come without your pressure or involvement...IF he comes to you, your relationship will stand a better chance and have more respect in it - both for yourself and for him.