Honest Question - Men & strip clubs

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  • AlsDonkBoxSquat
    AlsDonkBoxSquat Posts: 6,128 Member
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    I think it depends on your own value and moral structure as well as your own comfort level. Personally, I wouldn't really be comfortable with it, but if he's not buying lap dances . . . which really aren't that different from grinding on a dance floor anyway . . .
  • JennaM222
    JennaM222 Posts: 1,996 Member
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    Personally, I LOVE the strip club.

    BUT I think guys who go to strip clubs often, alone, have issues. It is one thing for the guys to get together and go for the sunday happy hour special, or the bach party, but having it be your regular spot means they sit at sniffers row and know the strippers by name.

    OR he has an infatuation with supporting single moms... :laugh: :laugh:
  • _GlaDOS_
    _GlaDOS_ Posts: 1,520 Member
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    I have a hard time answering this, because I wouldn't date someone who frequented strip clubs in the first place. I don't have a problem with it once in a while, but I'm not attracted to someone who thinks strip clubs are really *that* much fun.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
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    How frequent is "frequent" in reality. Once a month? 3x a year? This matters.

    I think it's a couple times/month...
  • DietingMommy08
    DietingMommy08 Posts: 1,366 Member
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    If she trusts him then she shouldnt worry about him bein there.

    If she dnt trust him being there then she probably shouldnt be with him in the first place.

    I am a female and I go to strip clubs all the time. Its a place to hangout with your friends, ect. No different then a club except a lil less clothing to be honest.

    & just bcuz you go to a strip club DOES NOT mean u will one day or have in the past paid for sex .Smh...
  • stampede55
    stampede55 Posts: 474
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    What do you think of Men that frequent strip clubs? Let's say, Guy in question has friends that work at the club, friend's wives/SOs that work at the club. So he goes frequently, stating it's no different than any other bar...

    Discuss. This is an honest question. I need an outside perspective to figure out my own feelings about it *LOL*
    Eventually he will pay money for sex...or he already has. Unless he happens to have the strongest willpower on the planet.
    I don't think this is the case necessarily, but now we know who has probably frequented strip clubs and paid for hookers....overshared, oops? :drinker:
    Maybe its just the ones in St Louis then. I went for the first time in 10 years a couple of months ago, and if some higher power would not have knocked my drunk a** out, I would have probably done something really stupid. Nice attempt to make me feel silly though. It almost worked.
  • JIsh09
    JIsh09 Posts: 158
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    If we go together, it doesn't bother me, I use to work at one when I fist met my husband and he hated it, so I stopped. I didn't like the lifestyle after a while. I go occasionally, haven't been in over 3 years though.

    I guess it would bother me if he was going with his guy friends because I know what truely happens in some areas, lol

    I remember those late night lap dances from you! Oh how I miss them.:tongue:
  • MikeM53082
    MikeM53082 Posts: 1,199 Member
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    I find strip clubs to be really depressing. I mean, it's fun at the time and it's surely entertaining. But usually when I leave, I just feel down and depressed. It's like I can't believe I had to pay a pretty girl to see some boobs.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
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    Personally, I LOVE the strip club.

    BUT I think guys who go to strip clubs often, alone, have issues. It is one thing for the guys to get together and go for the sunday happy hour special, or the bach party, but having it be your regular spot means they sit at sniffers row and know the strippers by name.

    OR he has an infatuation with supporting single moms... :laugh: :laugh:

    Sniffers Row! *ok, hysterical...
  • gwlamb1957
    gwlamb1957 Posts: 3
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    It is a good way to unwind from work, and can satisfy the Voyeur in all of us. Girl watching has been something guys have done and will do as long as they have eyes and breath in their body. Just because someone goes to a strip club doesn't mean he is going to "buy sex" and Cheat. "No harm at looking at the Menu, as long as you Dine at Home".
  • FearAnLoathing
    FearAnLoathing Posts: 4,852 Member
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    I see no problem with it
  • russelljclarke
    russelljclarke Posts: 836 Member
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    What do you think of Men that frequent strip clubs? Let's say, Guy in question has friends that work at the club, friend's wives/SOs that work at the club. So he goes frequently, stating it's no different than any other bar...

    Discuss. This is an honest question. I need an outside perspective to figure out my own feelings about it *LOL*
    Utter bollocks. Men that go to strip clubs, no matter what their excuse, are there to ogle naked women. Sleazy in the extreme and I for one wouldn't go near oe.
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
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    I don't think much of it...unless that man is my husband. And then it's not OK. But he's OK that it's not OK with me...so we're OK.
  • erxkeel
    erxkeel Posts: 553 Member
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    Eventually he will pay money for sex...or he already has. Unless he happens to have the strongest willpower on the planet.
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    We all pay for sex, one way or another.
  • russelljclarke
    russelljclarke Posts: 836 Member
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    What do you think of Men that frequent strip clubs? Let's say, Guy in question has friends that work at the club, friend's wives/SOs that work at the club. So he goes frequently, stating it's no different than any other bar...

    Discuss. This is an honest question. I need an outside perspective to figure out my own feelings about it *LOL*
    Eventually he will pay money for sex...or he already has. Unless he happens to have the strongest willpower on the planet.

    Interesting. I've been to many strip clubs, and yet, not once have I paid for sex. I guess I possess the strongest willpower on the planet.
    You ARE paying, in overpriced drinks and with your reputation.
  • wannababyH
    wannababyH Posts: 106
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    Yes, a few times a month would bother me.
  • wannababyH
    wannababyH Posts: 106
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    and with your reputation.

    That's your opinion.
  • killerqueen17
    killerqueen17 Posts: 536 Member
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    Neither *LOL*

    A friend's Significant Other. Grown man of fine age *LOL*

    ...not to mention the ways in which pornography, prostitution, and human trafficking (including of underage boys/girls) are related...

    So, we consciously avoid supporting any of those industries!!

    buzzkill

    well, sorry, but that's my honest opinion! if my husband started going, I would have major problems, for the reasons I mentioned before. (shortened the quote to save space)
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
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    I wonder, though, if the argument is that it's no different from any other bar, then why go there? It has a significantly expensive cover charge and more expensive drinks *LOL* But that may be the accountant in me...
  • LoseItJourney
    LoseItJourney Posts: 122 Member
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    I personally wouldn't care all that much.

    I mean if its a place he likes to go, sure.

    and I mean strippers and hookers are 2 different things..


    Whats wrong with watching people dance?
    Some have a higher sex drive than others.

    Some go just to be around friends..


    Theres nothing actually wrong with it in my opinion.



    I mean heres my example:

    All my friends turn 19 - and spend it at the bar.
    I turn 19 in a few weeks and Im going to an arcade..

    Like its just their choice of fun, I don't see what the problem is.

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