Out of my league...

some of these responses are creepy, lol . I'd say "nah." I tend to stay away from "gorgeous guys" and go for the cute, adorable ones They're better at settling down and having a meaningful relationship aaaannnnd they appreciate a pretty woman more!

I don't believe in leagues. Mutual attraction (initially, then chemistry and compatibility) is all that counts. And if you find him attractive and he finds you attractive... what's the problem?

I think we've all known someone who isn't text-book good-looking who is still magnetic. And likewise, someone who's gorgeous, but doesn't make anything "move." Plus, we all find different things attractive. I might feel like a mousy little dump next to a blonde bombshell type, but my husband has always, always fallen for petite brunettes. (Really... I can go through his high school yearbook and pick out which girls he crushed on by how much they look like me!)

I've had a think...

I can tell if someone fancies me, but I know for some (most?) people, that's not all there is to it. If someone fancies me but knows that their friends might not approve, unless they're sure their friends would never know, they won't follow up on that urge.

Some people grow out of this, some don't.

I don't respond. :laugh: Sometimes I'm lucky to get out a one word response.

There's NOBODY out of my league!! If I think she's cute or sexy i will approach her. The worst thing she could say is no...or f### off! lol

I forget how to speak...

This too.. I touch my hair or face WAY too much too.

What do you do if they touch your hair?

I guess that depends...
Grabbing a hold of my hair at the nape of my neck will make me weak in the knees.
Pushing hair back out of my eyes etc will make me revert back to forgetting how to speak.
Touching my hair in any other creepy way will result in a strong *****slap.

Yep, THIS! (applied before I was married & applies to my Hubby as well!)

If someone out of my league is hitting on me I know she has self esteem issues so I figure getting laid is a sure thing.

I just wish I could find someone closer to my age. Younger women seem to be attracted to me. I don't have much in common with them. Frustrating!

Probably bc you look much younger than your age

thats a great question. made me think whens the last time i got hit on by someone? I am oblivious to it.

I used to think certain dudes were out of my league but thanks to my husband and my own self-transformation (inside and out) i like to think im aight! so should everyone else! :drinker:

Obvious reaction is to laugh it off. That's what I do if she is clearly out of my league.

thats a great question. made me think whens the last time i got hit on by someone? I am oblivious to it.

I used to think certain dudes were out of my league but thanks to my husband and my own self-transformation (inside and out) i like to think im aight! so should everyone else! :drinker:

How yooooooooooooou doin'?

im doin' good! How you doin'?

I probably wouldn't realize they were doing it!

How do you know your league?

I never thought of myself in a league, but if I DO have one, I don't really feel that's anybody's "out of it." I think that people who think like that may have some self esteem issues. No one is out of your league. Quit thinking like that. We are all just people living in this wonderfully ****ty, beloved little world. No one should be elevated enough to make it so you feel that you shouldn't be speaking to them. If people are making you feel like that, they are douche bags. Yeah.....douche bags are kinda in a "league of their own"........but who wants to be in the Douche bag league? Not me.

**I just want to add that I am not totally sober right now...so if that didn't make sense? My bad.

I just wish I could find someone closer to my age. Younger women seem to be attracted to me. I don't have much in common with them. Frustrating!

maybe your not looking at the mature ones there is alot of girls my age..that are super mature and are dating your age..:)

Umm, where's the sign up sheet for that list lol?

Grabbing a hold of my hair at the nape of my neck will make me weak in the knees.

That's hilarious!! When I kiss a girl, that's like...instinctive for me...you don't jerk her hair, it's more squeezing it...and is a place for your hand to keep it from squeezing elsewhere lol.

I'd think they were out of their damn mind.