GUYS: what do u want in a woman?

nolachick
nolachick Posts: 3,278 Member
edited October 2024 in Chit-Chat
Just curious about this. Women always talk about what they want or don't want in a girl and guys usually are assumed to focus on the physical aspects only but even when they do have a hot/smart/ nice girlfriend/wife they seem to get bored and start slacking/stray/cheat anyway....so i'm curious...what do guys really want in a woman (as in for a relationship/ marriage).

Please keep it clean, I actually wanna be able to read your responses before this gets closed down. Thanks :flowerforyou:
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  • BeeElMarvin
    BeeElMarvin Posts: 2,086 Member

    Please keep it clean, I actually wanna be able to read your responses before this gets closed down. Thanks :flowerforyou:

    Well, never mind then...
  • Jeff92se
    Jeff92se Posts: 3,369 Member
    What do u want in a woman

    me
  • honesty....nuff said!
  • afv417
    afv417 Posts: 466 Member

    Please keep it clean, I actually wanna be able to read your responses before this gets closed down. Thanks :flowerforyou:

    Well, never mind then...

    LEGEN- wait for it -DARY!
  • UponThisRock
    UponThisRock Posts: 4,519 Member
    I like big butts and I cannot lie
  • AZTrailRunner
    AZTrailRunner Posts: 1,199 Member

    Please keep it clean, I actually wanna be able to read your responses before this gets closed down. Thanks :flowerforyou:

    Well, never mind then...

    Man, what a perfect set-up too. Darn. :bigsmile:
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Intelligent,funny,able and willing to have a real back and forth conversation,not letting herself feel second to anyone,attractive in my eyes,caring,her own person and not the slightest worried about what others have or look like,nice,friendly...
  • sms1986
    sms1986 Posts: 113 Member
    Like I said in another thread - creativity, a love of reading and a love of learning.
  • richx83
    richx83 Posts: 334 Member
    someone nice and kind who likes me for me i.e. doesn't care I am a big guy.... I am yet to find one though :ohwell:
  • AZTrailRunner
    AZTrailRunner Posts: 1,199 Member
    What do u want in a woman

    me

    Ska- dooosh!!!
  • iAMaPhoenix
    iAMaPhoenix Posts: 1,038 Member
    Breathing and No Adams Apple...Ya, that does it for this old guy.
  • CasperO
    CasperO Posts: 2,913 Member
    I want a reasonably cute gal who's intelligent, fun to talk with, has opinions and thoughts and feelings and aspirations. Enthusiastic about life, likes to do stuff. Not afraid of life, willing to put it out there. Interested in the long haul. Likes men in general and me in particular.

    Ooh yeah, lady in the living room, freak in the boudoir, :-)

    Today I celebrate 23 years with that gal. Wouldn't change a thing. Happy anniversary to us!
  • liz3marie
    liz3marie Posts: 211 Member
    :noway: really? one man wants honesty the others cant answer??
  • Serious answer: honesty and a sense of humor. Those go a long way.
  • iAMaPhoenix
    iAMaPhoenix Posts: 1,038 Member
    Intelligent,funny,able and willing to have a real back and forth conversation,not letting herself feel second to anyone,attractive in my eyes,caring,her own person and not the slightest worried about what others have or look like,nice,friendly...

    Dang Carl, you are not particular, are you?...lol.
  • A woman who is smart, funny, loves the outdoors, animals, likes to travel, she must have her stuff together and not have emotional baggage, children from a previous relationship or relationships, she must be intofitness, must have a job, must have a car and doesn't talk about herself or work 24/7 and doesn't have to take 2 hours to get ready to go somewhere. She has to be as comfortable in jeans or sweats as she is a dress?
  • skinnywithin
    skinnywithin Posts: 1,392 Member
    I have always heard that a pulse helps !
  • jakejacobsen
    jakejacobsen Posts: 584 Member
    Respect
    Positive Attitude
    Caring
    Time
    Love

    It does often start with a physical attraction to find the hidden quality's
  • I want a reasonably cute gal who's intelligent, fun to talk with, has opinions and thoughts and feelings and aspirations. Enthusiastic about life, likes to do stuff. Not afraid of life, willing to put it out there. Interested in the long haul. Likes men in general and me in particular.

    Ooh yeah, lady in the living room, freak in the boudoir, :-)

    Today I celebrate 23 years with that gal. Wouldn't change a thing. Happy anniversary to us!

    Aww! Congratulations!
  • drog2323
    drog2323 Posts: 1,343 Member
    who can hold a conversation for more than 3 minutes. I'm not talking rocket science...just normal crap.

    humour works too.
  • liz3marie
    liz3marie Posts: 211 Member
    Respect
    Positive Attitude
    Caring
    Time
    Love

    It does often start with a physical attraction to find the hidden quality's

    i like this one
  • exacerbe
    exacerbe Posts: 447 Member
    Someone I can connect with: honesty, generous, warm hearted, caring, comforting, smart, opinionated, altruistic yet capable of fighting her own battles, takes care of herself, humor.
  • 76tech
    76tech Posts: 1,455 Member
    Enough in common with me that we get along and do things together, but enough differences to keep it interesting.

    Someone who is not afraid to try new things, and to change. Change brings people closer, or further apart, but these changes keep life interesting. I don't want to be the same person I am now 30 years ahead. I don't want her to be either.

    A woman who loves herself, who doesn't need someone else's love to be happy. If you don't love yourself first, someone else will only be a crutch, a prop, and it's no longer sincere emotion.
  • wrevhn
    wrevhn Posts: 864 Member
    I like big butts and I cannot lie

    i asked my hubby...

    & that was basically my his response. lol. you dont even have to be nice if you got junk. jk about the nice part.

    that and loyalty and honesty. he always tells everyone that friendship and trust are important and why be with them if you dont trust them or enjoy it.
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,162 Member
    besides being attractive to me? i wish she would be loyal and would let me have some freedom too
  • rileamoyer
    rileamoyer Posts: 2,412 Member
    I want a reasonably cute gal who's intelligent, fun to talk with, has opinions and thoughts and feelings and aspirations. Enthusiastic about life, likes to do stuff. Not afraid of life, willing to put it out there. Interested in the long haul. Likes men in general and me in particular.

    Ooh yeah, lady in the living room, freak in the boudoir, :-)

    Today I celebrate 23 years with that gal. Wouldn't change a thing. Happy anniversary to us!

    Happy Anniversary!!!!
  • rileamoyer
    rileamoyer Posts: 2,412 Member
    A woman who is smart, funny, loves the outdoors, animals, likes to travel, she must have her stuff together and not have emotional baggage, children from a previous relationship or relationships, she must be intofitness, must have a job, must have a car and doesn't talk about herself or work 24/7 and doesn't have to take 2 hours to get ready to go somewhere. She has to be as comfortable in jeans or sweats as she is a dress?

    You are as picky as Carl :laugh:
    :
  • engineman312
    engineman312 Posts: 3,450 Member
    i want a woman... that posts in the groups area so i can tell her what i really think.
  • UponThisRock
    UponThisRock Posts: 4,519 Member
    I like big butts and I cannot lie

    i asked my hubby...

    & that was basically my his response. lol. you dont even have to be nice if you got junk. jk about the nice part.

    that and loyalty and honesty. he always tells everyone that friendship and trust are important and why be with them if you dont trust them or enjoy it.

    It's not everything, but it does cover a multitude of other sins
  • JasonSwetland
    JasonSwetland Posts: 235 Member
    Honest about who you are and what your thoughts are (Dont tell me stupidwhite lies to save me from YOUR fear about my feelings getting hurt)

    Tolerance for me and the changes that I make in my life throughout the years.

    No matter how hot a chick is some guy some where is sick of putting up with her ****. Hence the tolerance rule #2, cause it goes both ways.
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