Firearms in your home??

RULE #1: Always treat a gun like it's loaded. You do this and no one should get hurt.

This is the number one thing in regard to guns. People get complacent and forget that these are weapons. Many incidents with firearms are because people failed to fully empty the gun properly (bullet in the chamber).

Take a safety class, learn to shoot and handle guns properly, and invest in some gun locks. These should assuage your worries or who knows maybe even get you into a new hobby. Competitive sharpshooting is addictive.

Appreciating the advice. He is not just looking to have the guns but also in getting a license to conceal them. He has nothing to shoot at. We live in the city. We don't even have a large yard to shoot cans at. I want him to have his grandpa's guns cuz I know how much they mean, but why ammo and a license to carry? I just don't get it I guess.

Because when seconds count, the police are only minutes away!

ok everyone saying the same thing really and I get it. I do. But why guns? If you want protection why not learn a martial art? Kids can't take that from you and use it wrongly. Knowing that you don't have to worry about locks and ammo, etc... You will always be prepared, don't you think?

Not if the other person has a gun.

I have tried to sort through all the post to see if what I feel needs to be said has been said. If it has then scroll down.
I own several firearms, grew up around firearms, have kids who visit my home on a regular basis, carried a firearm for work since 1991 and do carry concealed. I visit many friends who are also in Law Enforcement and have kids. Co-instructed National Rifle Association Home Defense Firearms.
I. You need to discuss your concerns with your significant other
a. Why does he feel he needs a Concealed Carry Permit?
b. Does he truly feel he could take a human life?
II. Learn about the weapons being brought into the house and teach the kids that the weapons are like a hot stove, do not touch and tell an adult if they see it.
III. Keep all firearms and ammunition in separate locations {exception listed below}
a. Christmas is right around the corner, I keep my Duty; Backup and Off Duty weapons loaded while at home, I also own and recommend if you are going to keep a loaded weapon in the home a lock box {there are several of them on the market and you can purchase a good quality one inexpensively}. If there are kids in the home I recommend a lockbox that is not only combination lock but also key lock and that the keys to the box are placed on the key ring of you and the significant other. {Easy weapon/Ammo storage for cheap, go to Target/Kmart/Wal-Mart and get a fireproof document box}.
http://www.cheaperthandirt.com/31921206-1.html
http://www.cabelas.com/gun-safes-stack-steel-pistol-box-3.shtml?WT.tsrc=CSE&WT.mc_id=nextag&WT.z_mc_id1=1096195&rid=40&mr:referralID=1321608c-2226-11e1-8423-001b2166becc
http://www.basspro.com/Gun-Storage-&-Care/_/S-999052013

I will finish with saying that I am sure you were not really expecting the can of worms that gets opened when it comes to the right to own firearms. I have done follow up with past students who once the initial “new smell wears off” will no longer carry concealed, because they got tired of the responsibilities that come with it and {depending on state laws} where they cannot carry it into {Banks, Post Offices}.

OH HEELLLLLLLLLLLL NO!!!!!!!!

I am SO THANKFUL and GRATEFUL that gun laws are more strict here (in Canada) than in the states. The stats speak for themselves... the more guns, the more gun accidents/injuries/deaths.

Sure, I could get trained and knowledgable about proper handling and keep it locked up but I'd rather not have to bother with all those extra precautions, I would REFUSE to have guns - any type of gun - in or near my house. All it takes is one person figuring out where the keys are, or someone accidentally forgetting to lock it up properly, for something to go terribly wrong or for the gun to be used for the wrong purpose (read: suicide or killing people!! seriously). Not to mention - yes in SOME cases guns can be used maybe to save a life in a B&E situation, however.... from my understanding, most of the time its a friend or family member mistaken for an intruder that gets shot.


To repeat my previous statement oh HELLL NO

I'm sorry your country doesn't allow you the simple freedom of owning a weapon. Best to keep them out of the hands of irresponsible people.

Incorrect. in Canada you can own a gun. You just have to take the safety course. And pass the background checks. Then the gun is registered to you. If said gun is used to shoot someone, you go to jail.
We make it just a lot tougher than the US to obtain the guns.

OH HEELLLLLLLLLLLL NO!!!!!!!!

I am SO THANKFUL and GRATEFUL that gun laws are more strict here (in Canada) than in the states. The stats speak for themselves... the more guns, the more gun accidents/injuries/deaths.

Sure, I could get trained and knowledgable about proper handling and keep it locked up but I'd rather not have to bother with all those extra precautions, I would REFUSE to have guns - any type of gun - in or near my house. All it takes is one person figuring out where the keys are, or someone accidentally forgetting to lock it up properly, for something to go terribly wrong or for the gun to be used for the wrong purpose (read: suicide or killing people!! seriously). Not to mention - yes in SOME cases guns can be used maybe to save a life in a B&E situation, however.... from my understanding, most of the time its a friend or family member mistaken for an intruder that gets shot.


To repeat my previous statement oh HELLL NO

I'm sorry your country doesn't allow you the simple freedom of owning a weapon. Best to keep them out of the hands of irresponsible people.

Incorrect. in Canada you can own a gun. You just have to take the safety course. And pass the background checks. Then the gun is registered to you. If said gun is used to shoot someone, you go to jail.
We make it just a lot tougher than the US to obtain the guns.

Those sound like the same gun laws in my state to obtain a weapon. Gun safety course, background, fingerprinting, written application with reasons and references approved or denied by the police chief. Gun laws are state regulations, not federal, so it's not tougher to get one in Canada than where I live.

And criminals will not follow the law and get them from other criminals anyway - all the laws in world won't stop them.

It's as simple as getting a gun cabinet.

From my personal experience, the only reason to be afraid of guns is because you don't understand how they work. I grew up in a household were my step-dad was a certified CCW (concealed carry license) trainer, and a high medal winning marksmanship. There were probably 25 guns in the house. I hated them, they scared me, and I never wanted to touch one. BUT when someone was trying to break into our house, let me tell you that i was THANKFUL that we had self defense.

As soon as I turned 21 my step dad wanted me to get my CCW and learn about guns. I have major respect for them now, I understand how they work, and how to keep them SAFELY stored in the house. I do carry when I am alone on a long trip or going somewhere that I'm unfamiliar with.

My suggestion is to ask him to take a few gun safety classes with you and get your CCW together if he doesn't already have one. Get the proper storage so they are locked up when not in use. And if he won't do that....then (i believe) he doesn't respect you.

First of all, it's not a firearm problem, it's a firearm safety problem in this world. There is nothing wrong with a safe firearm. Do we want to compare home stabbings verses shootings? But that's not even really the point ...

The real issue and it's something that can't be solved on MFP, sorry, is something far greater. If this is going to "come between you" two, then you really need to sit with him, a friend, someone that you can trust (whomever), and work this out. He needs to respect your perspective, and vice versa, and if both of you can't come to an agreement on this and this is going to jeopardize the actual relationship, there are other more significant issue.

Seek counseling from friends you know and trust on this issue ... every situation and relationship is different ... too many disconnected opinions on an environment like this where people aren't really involved in your life. It can be a great tool, but a relationship needs much more serious and real attention.

I truly wish you the best of luck resolving this, I'm so sorry this is causing tension.

~Matt

My husband is a police officer and because of that we have always had his police gun in our home. Until recently, and now he is able to keep it in his locker at work. Our children all know not to touch it and it is just a way of life for us, we don't give it a second thought.

People are scared of what they dont know! I would suggest learning how to handle a gun. Take a safety course.
Also Get a gun safe. Guns are not the problem its the ignorant people that misuse guns.

I got a Red Rider that is always at the ready!

I also *flexes* boom, canons!

I am not against firearms in the home. We have many but like many people say .. first its a personal choice and second they should be secured safely within the proper storage place and everyone living in that home both young and old should be educated on the safety and dangers of firearms... Our ammo is kept seperately and out of reach of children and the firearms are locked securely.
In fact we had a stranger at our home last night and we thougnt he was trying to break in so within 2 minutes we had our handgun unlocked and loaded and in my Hubby's hand to safeguard our family. I will never not have some type of gun in my home but it will never be lying around for a child or adult to reach and the ammo will always be put away safely and guns are never left loaded.