We are pleased to announce that as of March 4, 2025, an updated Rich Text Editor has been introduced in the MyFitnessPal Community. To learn more about the changes, please click here. We look forward to sharing this new feature with you!

How do you choose your MFP friends??

24

Replies

  • rgoodearl
    rgoodearl Posts: 360 Member
    I will request a new MFP friend if they have similar interest....ya trying to stick with this new and improved lifestyle !!! If someone request to be my friend, I hope they have a short note...but most of the time I will connect...just because....I also maintain my MFP friends by login time....if someone has not logged in in over 10 days, I usuallly delete them...it's nothing personal, but gotta have some guidelines.
  • drvvork
    drvvork Posts: 1,162
    They pick me - I have no clue as to why.
  • staceyb2003
    staceyb2003 Posts: 203 Member
    I'm too shy to pic them but I generally approve them when they request. Maybe I'm still shell-shocked from Facebook and am afraid that MFP friends will find a way to send me Farmville requests, LOL!

    lol to Farmville requests. Tell me about it, I did my best to block all of that. I do find myself looking for the like button on here.
  • jhardenbergh
    jhardenbergh Posts: 1,035 Member
    if they ask to add me, I will accept, I figure there's a reason why they want to be friends with me on here, we are all in it to get healthy. I usually only add people I know don't take offense, but I am kind of shy when I am not drunk and I haven't been drunk in a while.
  • Silverkittycat
    Silverkittycat Posts: 1,997 Member
    magic8ball_animated.gif
  • staceyb2003
    staceyb2003 Posts: 203 Member
    I've only asked a few people when they introduced themselves. I think support is crucial when trying to obtain your weight loss and fitness goals. It is always a bonus when they are very knowledgeable in stuff I'm interested in.:bigsmile:
  • Hananiah
    Hananiah Posts: 128 Member
    I only accept friend request from either:
    1. People I know in real life
    2. Imaginary people
    3. People who aren't imagined, but I don't think they exist because my imaginary friends told me they don't exist
    4. Wild animals (preferably endangered species)
    5. Minerals
    6. Extra-terrestrials
    7. People who can make me laugh so hard I start choking
  • mwright24skinny
    mwright24skinny Posts: 122 Member
    Since, I recently joined I add who ever sends me a request. I don't worry if they are similiar in size or what not. We are all struggling with losing weight and to become healthy. I like all my new friends ! I send random requests too whoever I saw in message boards that I thought was funny or interesting.:smile:
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    -those who make me laugh and I can allow my freak to come out.
    She's freaky, yo....
  • I only accept friend request from either:
    1. People I know in real life
    2. Imaginary people
    3. People who aren't imagined, but I don't think they exist because my imaginary friends told me they don't exist
    4. Wild animals (preferably endangered species)
    5. Minerals
    6. Extra-terrestrials
    7. People who can make me laugh so hard I start choking

    I think I fit number 3. I exist, I promise. :wink:
  • Wow. What a fun read this was - from Skanks to Imaginary People. Thanks for all the laughs. MFP is a great group of people!
    ~Mary
  • Football_N_Guns
    Football_N_Guns Posts: 297 Member
    If you're an *kitten* like me or can keep up at the very least with my mouth, we're good. If you're sensitive to foul language you and I will not get along. That's what's required to be my friend.
  • antimike
    antimike Posts: 24 Member
    I generally don't get any friend requests. I'm not saying that I'm looking, but all of the people I have on my list are people that I know and care about their journey as well.

    That may sound a little jerky but that is the truth. I got one invite and was like WTF who is this and denied it.
  • ajbeans
    ajbeans Posts: 2,857 Member
    I can count on one hand the number of friend requests I've sent out. I accept everybody who sends me a message, or I'll accept them without a message if I know them from the boards. I am kind of choosy with who I keep on my list though. If I'm finding that I'm unable to be supportive of someone because I don't agree with their goals (such as constantly undereating), I'll delete them because people need support on here and if I can't give them that, they don't need me around. And I'll delete someone if I'm just not jiving with them personality-wise.
  • juicymama08
    juicymama08 Posts: 38 Member
    I only accept friend request from either:
    1. People I know in real life
    2. Imaginary people
    3. People who aren't imagined, but I don't think they exist because my imaginary friends told me they don't exist
    4. Wild animals (preferably endangered species)
    5. Minerals
    6. Extra-terrestrials
    7. People who can make me laugh so hard I start choking


    YESSSS!!!!!!!...... I made the cut! :drinker:
  • kapeluza
    kapeluza Posts: 3,434 Member
    I only accept people who send me cookies.


    :noway: But I dont have any cookies......:frown:

    LIES!

    Actually someone sent me a friend's request with a cookie earlier. It was accepted! :flowerforyou:
  • meagalayne
    meagalayne Posts: 3,382 Member
    Some of my reasons:
    -I see their posts on other friends' walls and think we'd have things in common
    -they enjoy the same exercises or activities that I do
    -friends in common
    -people who are in great shape and I'd like to learn from
    -similar goals
    -people who seem fun
    -around my age
    -live close to me

    Don't know why those who sent me FRs picked me, but I'm glad you did...you rock!! :bigsmile:

    You already typed out my answer for me... so... thanks! ;)
    Maybe you two should be friends, then! :huh:
    Not that I want to share.... :wink:
  • zenJes
    zenJes Posts: 197 Member
    ooo yeh totally agree if they havent logged in for an age i do delete them though i feel really guilty until i think well they gave up on themselves first by not logging in..
  • Must have picture of cat .. or we cant be friends : / that is all..
  • RahBuhBuh
    RahBuhBuh Posts: 585 Member
    Carp! All the witty answers I was going to post have already been posted by others. Darn you people who can read my thoughts the way the government/aliens/donut salesmen can.

    I guess I just add people that I think will tolerate my nonsense and who knows what's wrong with people to make them add me.
  • Christina1007
    Christina1007 Posts: 179 Member
    People similar to my weight and also people who will support me along the way.
  • HonkyTonks
    HonkyTonks Posts: 1,193 Member
    I always accept friend requests, and if I add people it's usually due to geographical location or I see them around a fair bit and like what they have to say.
  • dreamshadows
    dreamshadows Posts: 734 Member
    bumb
  • hosnowjo
    hosnowjo Posts: 145 Member
    I don't want stacks of friends just for the sake of it.

    I have friends who:-
    1 - log in daily
    2 - similar outlook on life
    3 - can have some banter with
    4 - encourage me to reach targets
  • EddieG77
    EddieG77 Posts: 185 Member
    I like everyone!! It was the way I was brought up...I am just a really nice guy!!! LOL.....I don't turn anyone away!!! Keep strong people!!!
  • dreamshadows
    dreamshadows Posts: 734 Member
    kiwiburger wrote
    If they have a picture of their cat.
    <snip>
    I don't add them.
    You mean you don't like my cat?

    6515165665_f7d7d2746b.jpg
  • gazz777
    gazz777 Posts: 722
    Common interests and goals ... that'd be most on here !

    FRs only denied if they look like they are selling something and in that case I usually add them and sus. them out.
  • WarriorMom2012
    WarriorMom2012 Posts: 621 Member
    You have to be:

    a. Hot
    b. Funny
    c. Sarcastic
    d. Hot
  • I only accept friend request from either:
    1. People I know in real life
    2. Imaginary people
    3. People who aren't imagined, but I don't think they exist because my imaginary friends told me they don't exist
    4. Wild animals (preferably endangered species)
    5. Minerals
    6. Extra-terrestrials
    7. People who can make me laugh so hard I start choking
    You almost made me choke! Love it!
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,130 Member
    I take everyone. I'm pretty sure I know why they picked me. But I do delete anyone if they've been more than 30 days of no activity.


    A.C.E. Certified Personal Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 28+ years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition
This discussion has been closed.