Do you feel sexy?

ollybollysmommy
ollybollysmommy Posts: 35 Member
edited October 7 in Motivation and Support
Since i can remember i have always thought of myself as ugly or fat, and even at 113 lbs and 4'11'' you would think i would feel good about myself,right? Well anyways do you ever feel sexy? if you do, what makes you feel that way?
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  • Jenene88
    Jenene88 Posts: 281 Member
    One thing that makes me feel sexy is seeing that I have muscle. I may be 144lbs but I do see muscle in my stomach an in my arms so I feel better about myself. And I was 117lb 5'3 and felt fat or like I have a huge belly
  • Not in the slightest.
    Actually I quite like from my ankle to my knee.... its extremely out of proportion with the rest of my body, so pretty and slim.
  • jennajava
    jennajava Posts: 2,176 Member
    A little pat on the rear, or waist caress from the hubby :)
  • TORNATO1
    TORNATO1 Posts: 52 Member
    I feel absolutely amazing! Stick to your goals and stay focused. You can do this!
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
    I am not sexy.

    I was when I was thinner and had a really nice figure. Hopefully, will be back to that soon.
  • ItsMeRebekah
    ItsMeRebekah Posts: 909 Member
    Yes. Every time i exercise i feel super HOT
  • teagin2002
    teagin2002 Posts: 1,900 Member
    I do feel very sexy. I like wearing skirts and dresses or waist fitting clothes, I also shop for sexy clothes to wear in private.
    I enjoy being feminine, and love my new body.
  • havingitall
    havingitall Posts: 3,728 Member
    Yes. Every time i exercise i feel super HOT

    ^^ This

    And when my husband holds me and tells me how sexy I am
  • YukonJoy
    YukonJoy Posts: 1,279 Member
    Yes. Every time i exercise i feel super HOT



    Me too. And also.... taking sexy boudoir photos.
  • Yes. Every time i exercise i feel super HOT
    Me too!!
  • Mustangsally1000
    Mustangsally1000 Posts: 854 Member
    no
  • demery12371
    demery12371 Posts: 253 Member
    Sadly the only time I feel truly sexy is when I see an old friend of mine.

    Should feel that way with my hubby but just can't..... He took that away several years ago....

    Give me another 50 pounds and I think I just might be able to feel that way all on my own.
  • bikermike5094
    bikermike5094 Posts: 1,752 Member
    nope, not sexy...not, feel more angry, distgusted and depressed....
  • 2dayirun4me
    2dayirun4me Posts: 336 Member
    Absolutely! I love the euphoric feeling of a kick butt workout!
  • MaximalLife
    MaximalLife Posts: 2,447 Member
    Since i can remember i have always thought of myself as ugly or fat, and even at 113 lbs and 4'11'' you would think i would feel good about myself,right? Well anyways do you ever feel sexy? if you do, what makes you feel that way?
    When I was fat, I thought of myself as ugly.
    My wife disclosed that I was no longer sexually attractive due to the lard.

    OUCH!

    I got to work, lost the weight and set new, higher goals as of Nov 2011.
    And guess what?
    Things in the bedroom are BACK ON and going strong - better than ever!

    I used my ugliness as a motivator to lose the fat and find the real me.
    That's just reality.
  • papastu
    papastu Posts: 737 Member
    nope, not sexy...not, feel more angry, distgusted and depressed....



    wow !
  • jnance82
    jnance82 Posts: 149
    I feel sexy every time my boyfriend look at me clothed and unclothed. Like he just cant get enough. But when I look at myself unclothed... :frown: When I look at myself with clothes on, especially in my skinny jeans, I think I am the hottest chick around lol.
  • TheAncientMariner
    TheAncientMariner Posts: 444 Member
    Don't know if this one is just for the females, but I always feel sexy. I don't feel that way because of anything related to me physically, but simply because I can. Why not? I'm the only me in the world and I'll be damned if I call myself trash. Not gonna do it!
  • YukonJoy
    YukonJoy Posts: 1,279 Member
    Ladies, being sexy has nothing to do with the way you look.

    It is all in the way you act and feel about yourself.

    Honestly. The men will agree with me here.
  • I always felt that way to but when I met my husband he helped me overcome that. Dress correctly, sexy but not slutty. Wear some nice natural makeup. Just have confidence in yourself, you have to learn to love yourself.
  • sarahkatara
    sarahkatara Posts: 826 Member
    yes- because my fiancee is always saying it and tells me what he loves about my body in particular (and i'm lucky that he loves curves, big butts, and thick thighs because thosei have plenty of, lol! what makes me feel sexiest though is that he loved my body and me just the same at my highest weight too. he's pretty effin awesome :smooched:
  • yoshi91610
    yoshi91610 Posts: 177 Member
    even if the scale doesn't move as fast as I would like it to, when my hubby sees me putting in the effort he gets more...excited. So that makes me feel very sexy.
  • Rejuvn8
    Rejuvn8 Posts: 74
    No, don't feel particularly sexy today. I'm coughing like a barking seal and not feeling very fit. I do feel great after keeping with an exercise and eating routine that makes me proud and I start to notice changes....even if they are minor in another person's eyes, they are such an inspiration and I do feel "sexier".
  • Sugar_Apple
    Sugar_Apple Posts: 951 Member
    Yes I do...I did at 200+ and I do now...
    I didnt feel sexy when I was young and 120 lbs so for me it comes from within not so much what size I am.
  • SexyCook
    SexyCook Posts: 2,249 Member
    I have felt Sexy Before the weight and after losing it....Being sexy is definitely not an outer appearance...ITs about the confidence, attitude, and intelligence....I know thats what attract me to others...Its the sexiest Look I know! The outer appearance is just a added bonus....
  • Begood03
    Begood03 Posts: 1,259 Member
    Yes I do. After shedding 50 pounds, and going to the gym 4 to 6 times a week for the last 2 years. I feel very good about how I look.
  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    Don't know if this one is just for the females, but I always feel sexy. I don't feel that way because of anything related to me physically, but simply because I can. Why not? I'm the only me in the world and I'll be damned if I call myself trash. Not gonna do it!

    I love this! i used to feel sexy, but am in a not so great place right now with my relationship, and i kind of forgot... a friend helped me see it though, and now i definitely feel sexy. even as i sit here in my sweats, not showered yet, with messy bed-head! :laugh:
  • kristarablue
    kristarablue Posts: 702 Member
    Sexy you say, I wish and I long to feel sexy or attractive, however it feels so evasive lately
  • adjones5
    adjones5 Posts: 938 Member
    At the moment I don't feel sexy at all. When I put on a pair of 6 inch stilettos and a form fitting dress that usually does the trick.
  • Sometimes...I have a hard time doing so because I've NEVER been told I'm sexy =/
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