For the guys ... how's a girl to know?...

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  • ItsMeRebekah
    ItsMeRebekah Posts: 909 Member
    If he is still talking and texting to you. He likes you.
    im no dude but i feel this could be right too.. i mean, if he was not into you i think you telling him you liked him would scare him off.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member

    you know how i tell a girl i like her? "would you like to have dinner with me? some place nice, just the two of us." usually the girl gets the really subtle hint that i am asking her out on a date.

    I like you...
  • engineman312
    engineman312 Posts: 3,450 Member
    I push her to the ground and call her stupid

    seriously. what are we, in third grade? any guy that tells you he likes you is socially inept and doesn't know how to date or woo a girl.

    you know how i tell a girl i like her? "would you like to have dinner with me? some place nice, just the two of us." usually the girl gets the really subtle hint that i am asking her out on a date.

    and if she says no, she's a skank anyway.
    next time I suggest using the comic sans font to indicate sarcasm.

    i got the sarcasm.
  • T_R_A_V
    T_R_A_V Posts: 1,629 Member
    Theres always a hidden agenda.....LOL

    Ouch I just said it
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    He throws rocks at you. I had much success with this in kindergarten.

    Hair pulling works also.

    Hair pulling is a direct link to my heart... FYI.
  • the_journeyman
    the_journeyman Posts: 1,877 Member
    The guy runs up beating his chest and yells "Me Tarzan, You Jane!"

    JM
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
    Take a deep breath and ask yourself, " do I really deserve him?"
  • Don26
    Don26 Posts: 46
    I push her to the ground and call her stupid

    seriously. what are we, in third grade? any guy that tells you he likes you is socially inept and doesn't know how to date or woo a girl.

    you know how i tell a girl i like her? "would you like to have dinner with me? some place nice, just the two of us." usually the girl gets the really subtle hint that i am asking her out on a date.

    sarcasm, brah

    and freaking hysterical if you ask me!
  • candykay0605
    candykay0605 Posts: 1,019 Member
    This is something I wouldnt know either unless it slapped me in the face. I was never really confident enough in myself to date but some how ended up with my husband :)
  • fitnatic67
    fitnatic67 Posts: 154
    Sooooo, I guess sending a note saying that i like you and asking you to check 'yes' or 'no' if you like me too is not the way to go? i'm fresh out of ideas. guess it's time to move on to the 4th grade.
  • Legalchica
    Legalchica Posts: 462
    ummm if he does like you and doesnt tell you why bother?
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    He throws rocks at you. I had much success with this in kindergarten.

    Hair pulling works also.

    Hair pulling is a direct link to my heart... FYI.

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  • Legalchica
    Legalchica Posts: 462
    Sooooo, I guess sending a note saying that i like you and asking you to check 'yes' or 'no' if you like me too is not the way to go? i'm fresh out of ideas. guess it's time to move on to the 4th grade.

    hahahahaha thanks i was trying to be nice :)
  • gwild0r
    gwild0r Posts: 135 Member
    if you're from Lower Sackville, NS and he didn't respond with a " Holy eh! I totally dig you too eh.. Holy Eh? There's a mouse in my beer eH? Holy." Then i'm also voting for he's not that into you..

    If a girl told me she dug me and I was into her.. I would take my pants off in excitement and scream Touch my pee pee!

    Ok what?! This post is getting out of control..
  • Don26
    Don26 Posts: 46
    Seriously though...he may just be shy for whatever reason.
    Maybe he had a bad experience with some bimbo in the past and is reluctant...who knows.
    If you really want this guy, suck it up and ask him out.
    One way or another you will have your answer and you will never know unless you try.
  • ljd0693
    ljd0693 Posts: 289 Member
    I'd take that as: he still wants to be friends, but doesn't feel the same way. :(

    How shy is this guy around other women? If he is normally a very shy guy then you'll need to make the next move yourself.

    You also need to look at the women that he's dated in the past to figure out what type of girls he likes. Are they tall, short, skinny, big, outgoing, shy, confident, needy, ... do you fit his "type".

    I always very shy and dated the skinny, quiet, needy types of girls and I had a friend that was the total opposite (drama/music major) that made it clear that she liked me. I just didn't have the same feelings but we still remained friends and spent a lot of time together.

    It won't necessarily end your friendship but it's good to get it out in the open.
  • hbrittingham
    hbrittingham Posts: 2,518 Member
    I'd be interested in the ages of the majority of the posters. Especially the ones who say it's basically all or nothing.

    I have been in a long term relationship for 21+ years. I haven't got a clue how to flirt anymore and I am super shy, which is probably why I am still in this relationship. My ability to read signals from guys is seriously stunted. LOL. I can only imagine it's the same with the guys who have been married and are back out playing the field.
  • lilRicki
    lilRicki Posts: 4,555 Member
    I push her to the ground and call her stupid

    seriously. what are we, in third grade? any guy that tells you he likes you is socially inept and doesn't know how to date or woo a girl.

    you know how i tell a girl i like her? "would you like to have dinner with me? some place nice, just the two of us." usually the girl gets the really subtle hint that i am asking her out on a date.


    ooooo good one...that made me all giddy and I'm engaged lol
  • raige123
    raige123 Posts: 352
    If you enjoy his company, continue to stay friends with him. You've made it easy enough for him that if he had those feelings, he'd come forward. The fact that he blushed tells me he's a little immature and needs to grow up some. Anyway, don't push it unless you don't want to just stay friends. I doubt the all or none is what you're looking for though...

    Well ... he is 10 years younger then me. Is that bad? lol.
  • grapenutSF
    grapenutSF Posts: 648 Member
    you know how i tell a girl i like her? "would you like to have dinner with me? some place nice, just the two of us." usually the girl gets the really subtle hint that i am asking her out on a date.

    I think this one's on to something here.
  • realtommccarthy
    realtommccarthy Posts: 1
    ahhhhhhhhhhhhahahahahahaha
  • ljd0693
    ljd0693 Posts: 289 Member
    If you enjoy his company, continue to stay friends with him. You've made it easy enough for him that if he had those feelings, he'd come forward. The fact that he blushed tells me he's a little immature and needs to grow up some. Anyway, don't push it unless you don't want to just stay friends. I doubt the all or none is what you're looking for though...

    Well ... he is 10 years younger then me. Is that bad? lol.

    Hmm, that might make things a little tougher. Fling or long term?
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
    If you enjoy his company, continue to stay friends with him. You've made it easy enough for him that if he had those feelings, he'd come forward. The fact that he blushed tells me he's a little immature and needs to grow up some. Anyway, don't push it unless you don't want to just stay friends. I doubt the all or none is what you're looking for though...

    Well ... he is 10 years younger then me. Is that bad? lol.
    If you are 23
  • engineman312
    engineman312 Posts: 3,450 Member
    If you enjoy his company, continue to stay friends with him. You've made it easy enough for him that if he had those feelings, he'd come forward. The fact that he blushed tells me he's a little immature and needs to grow up some. Anyway, don't push it unless you don't want to just stay friends. I doubt the all or none is what you're looking for though...

    Well ... he is 10 years younger then me. Is that bad? lol.
    If you are 23

    lol.
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    If you enjoy his company, continue to stay friends with him. You've made it easy enough for him that if he had those feelings, he'd come forward. The fact that he blushed tells me he's a little immature and needs to grow up some. Anyway, don't push it unless you don't want to just stay friends. I doubt the all or none is what you're looking for though...

    Well ... he is 10 years younger then me. Is that bad? lol.

    Aww I love making a man blush!!! And I blush easily myself.

    10 years younger? I guess it only matters if he thinks it's "bad".
  • Pookylou
    Pookylou Posts: 988 Member
    I push her to the ground and call her stupid

    swoon :flowerforyou:
  • ljd0693
    ljd0693 Posts: 289 Member
    If you enjoy his company, continue to stay friends with him. You've made it easy enough for him that if he had those feelings, he'd come forward. The fact that he blushed tells me he's a little immature and needs to grow up some. Anyway, don't push it unless you don't want to just stay friends. I doubt the all or none is what you're looking for though...

    Well ... he is 10 years younger then me. Is that bad? lol.

    In that case just jump his bones and often as you can. LOL
  • ansonrinesmith
    ansonrinesmith Posts: 741 Member
    I put gum in her hair and scream about girl cooties!
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    I've always found it pretty obvious...whether he likes me or doesn't.
  • raige123
    raige123 Posts: 352
    I'd take that as: he still wants to be friends, but doesn't feel the same way. :(

    How shy is this guy around other women? If he is normally a very shy guy then you'll need to make the next move yourself.

    You also need to look at the women that he's dated in the past to figure out what type of girls he likes. Are they tall, short, skinny, big, outgoing, shy, confident, needy, ... do you fit his "type".

    I always very shy and dated the skinny, quiet, needy types of girls and I had a friend that was the total opposite (drama/music major) that made it clear that she liked me. I just didn't have the same feelings but we still remained friends and spent a lot of time together.

    It won't necessarily end your friendship but it's good to get it out in the open.

    I get butterflies everytime I know I am going to see him ... and get giddy like a teenager around him. He flirts back with me but who knows. He has been very "giddy" around me too. And is always "adjusting" himself around me ... this is supposed to be a sign? lol.

    He is friends with so many "perfect" looking girls and with me just getting into being comfortable in my new body ... I keep telling myself "I am good enough". I've been single 9 years so I'm so out of sorts here ... and I am 36 ... he is 26.
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