guys drive me nuts

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  • benzzito
    benzzito Posts: 35
    just text him . if he doesn't respond , now u will understand that it's time to move on.
  • jill___
    jill___ Posts: 188 Member
    I can't help but wonder if this post was by a guy, that he hooked up with a girl now she no longed texts him, if he would be criticized for hooking up part.

    Ahh double standards. I love them.

    I'd criticize a guy too. As my fiance always says, the problem with our generation is that everyone just wants to throw DNA at each other.

    I can't stand people -- male or female -- who just have random, meaningless sex. It's gross.
  • cbear017
    cbear017 Posts: 345 Member
    I love how conflicting the advice is here. So here's some more:

    Forget him. This guy wanted to hook up with you but clearly doesn't think much of it. I'm not judging you at all only saying that this is how he handles casual hook-ups.

    Anyhow, dating nowadays is downright confusing. Personally, I'd wait for him to text/email/call me. I was raised to believe that pursuing a man smacks of desperation (hey, I didn't make up the rules....lol.) I prefer the zen-like approach to courtship which involves being confident, being yourself and you'll attract great people to you who will make a point of letting you know that they like you...it's kind of a Field of Dreams "if you build it they will come" attitude. Demand respect by being yourself and making guys realize how great you are but make them work for it. Don't throw yourself at someone just because they show the slightest bit of interest.

    I do realize I might get lots of flack for this.
  • acasey0123
    acasey0123 Posts: 640 Member
    Im gonna move on with my life and then invite him to a party we are having and if he comes he comes if not then hes missing out
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