What makes a friend a lover?

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  • Jeff92se
    Jeff92se Posts: 3,369 Member
    When the pee pee goes into the vagina
  • IronmanPanda
    IronmanPanda Posts: 2,083 Member
    Sex

    But why would you have sex with one and not another? Booze or attraction? LOL!

    THE tingle!!

    I had the tingle once.. the doc gave me some cream and it went away in about a week.

    ew :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
    I know everybody shares pretty much anything on MFP but come on!! How do you expect to find a date on here!?


    So I'm in a super *****y mood and you made me laugh- out loud.

    Don't discriminate against the "tingle" its the gift that keeps on giving. :tongue: :sick:
  • lauri78
    lauri78 Posts: 19
    sex for sure
  • hofosho1020
    hofosho1020 Posts: 179
    this thread has me trying not to laugh by myself at my desk at work. naked hugging is my favorite.
  • deeharley
    deeharley Posts: 1,208 Member
    You are happy to see a friend. A lover is someone who your heart skips around at the thought of seeing them, and you can think about nothing else.

    Until you've been married a few years. Then the line starts to blur.

    LOVE this!
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
    After you have your adult sleepover there's no weird I gotta go I'm late for work,church, boyscouts or whatever in the morning.
  • adjones5
    adjones5 Posts: 938 Member
    I wouldn't recommend ever making a friend a "lover", it will always end bad.
  • I_give_it_2_u_str8
    I_give_it_2_u_str8 Posts: 680 Member
    penetration
  • FearAnLoathing
    FearAnLoathing Posts: 4,852 Member
    rubber cloves,some crisco,a twister matt, and a clown suit
  • BrettPGH
    BrettPGH Posts: 4,716 Member
    I've converted a very close female friend or two into partners. It's always a great relationship. I recommend it.
  • Beastette
    Beastette Posts: 1,497 Member
    penetration

    Inaccurate. What if both are women?
  • T_R_A_V
    T_R_A_V Posts: 1,629 Member
    Just the tip!
  • I_give_it_2_u_str8
    I_give_it_2_u_str8 Posts: 680 Member
    penetration

    Inaccurate. What if both are women?

    then i am missing.
  • WarriorMom2012
    WarriorMom2012 Posts: 621 Member
    penetration

    Inaccurate. What if both are women?

    There's still penetration, just not the "traditional" kind...
  • Beastette
    Beastette Posts: 1,497 Member
    penetration

    Inaccurate. What if both are women?

    then i am missing.

    Ah, well. You can't be everywhere, unfortunately. Some will have to go without.

    I'm going to go with "Love". Love makes you a lover. Then, you do it sexy time.

    Otherwise, it just makes you a fb.
  • Beastette
    Beastette Posts: 1,497 Member
    penetration

    Inaccurate. What if both are women?

    There's still penetration, just not the "traditional" kind...

    Not necessarily. You can git 'er done without...
  • SmallerBecky
    SmallerBecky Posts: 177
    You are happy to see a friend. A lover is someone who your heart skips around at the thought of seeing them, and you can think about nothing else.

    Until you've been married a few years. Then the line starts to blur.

    Ha. Very true!

    I agree with the heart skipping a beat response - or at least that's how it should start, in my opinion.

    Of course, eventually the feeling of wanting to be naked with that person 24 / 7 fades (according to science, it can only last 2 years tops but I'm sure there are others who have experienced it longer) and hopefully you have the friendship, warmth, and loving feelings to fall back on in your relationship. Oh, and hopefully you still at least occasionally want to get it on with that person.

    The feelings don't stop after several years of marriage, they just shift into something more steady, kind of like a consistent warm glow instead of the flash and bang. Of course, if the two of you work at it the flash and bang still happens too:devil:
    P.S. I've been happily married for almost 15 years:love:

    This is all I need and want in life! <3<3<3
  • skywa
    skywa Posts: 901 Member
    I think it's the kind of attraction. And also the extent of your relationship a public and private level.

    I personally dont think "sex" makes a friend a lover.

    Nor do i think not having sex make a lover just a friend.
  • heart6116
    heart6116 Posts: 1
    Ditto
  • CaWaterBug8
    CaWaterBug8 Posts: 1,040 Member
    Brown Chicken Brown Cow.
  • Beastette
    Beastette Posts: 1,497 Member
    I think it's the kind of attraction. And also the extent of your relationship a public and private level.

    I personally dont think "sex" makes a friend a lover.

    Nor do i think not having sex make a lover just a friend.

    Here is what I am saying, although doing it sexy time does help...
  • skywa
    skywa Posts: 901 Member
    All this heart skipping, tingling, imaginary unmeasurable feelings are not very good answers in my opinion.

    Everyone responds to emotions differently. I dont need tingles to tell me i love someone.
  • Beastette
    Beastette Posts: 1,497 Member
    Brown Chicken Brown Cow.

    So...anal?
  • skinnywithin
    skinnywithin Posts: 1,392 Member
    Its just a slip of the tongue!
  • I_give_it_2_u_str8
    I_give_it_2_u_str8 Posts: 680 Member
    Brown Chicken Brown Cow.

    So...anal?

    thats true love
  • tinalatina
    tinalatina Posts: 499 Member
    on a serious note: my lover (significant other) is my best friend.... He's the only person who I can be completely normal, open, and honest to. I can vent to him and he doesnt judge me either. Guess you can say its the best of both rolled up into one and vice versus!
  • bikermike5094
    bikermike5094 Posts: 1,752 Member
    when the nipple makes its first appearence... -Sienfeld-
  • rudegyal_b
    rudegyal_b Posts: 593 Member
    am i the only person who hates the word "lover"? ive never called anyone that
  • benzihan13
    benzihan13 Posts: 15
    My lover is my best friend because he is the only one who knows everything about me. We have grown together and bonded even more over time. It's true when they say 'two become one'
  • kandyjo
    kandyjo Posts: 4,493 Member
    Yeah.... 10 years here and we still have Flashes and Bangs LOL
    You are happy to see a friend. A lover is someone who your heart skips around at the thought of seeing them, and you can think about nothing else.

    Until you've been married a few years. Then the line starts to blur.

    Ha. Very true!

    I agree with the heart skipping a beat response - or at least that's how it should start, in my opinion.

    Of course, eventually the feeling of wanting to be naked with that person 24 / 7 fades (according to science, it can only last 2 years tops but I'm sure there are others who have experienced it longer) and hopefully you have the friendship, warmth, and loving feelings to fall back on in your relationship. Oh, and hopefully you still at least occasionally want to get it on with that person.

    The feelings don't stop after several years of marriage, they just shift into something more steady, kind of like a consistent warm glow instead of the flash and bang. Of course, if the two of you work at it the flash and bang still happens too:devil:
    P.S. I've been happily married for almost 15 years:love:
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