Dear Ladies

FORKDOWN
FORKDOWN Posts: 1,754
edited September 19 in Health and Weight Loss
For those of you killing yourselves on exercise equipment for hours, killing yourselves in gyms for several hours per week, just sweating your butt off to a dvd in your own house, and to those starving themselves to death. Here is some reality for ya.

Britney Spears now has her body back after all the drama she went through a year ago. She has spent over $250,000 on a tummy tuck, breast lift, lippo, trainers and nutiionists (heard this on the radio this morning).

A few of you ladies may have the genetics to look like the Hollywood starlets or women on the covers of magazines but the majority of you will not as long as you are working or stay at home mom and you are not a millionaire.

Guess what ladies, we as men are ok with that. I have seen numerous ladies complaining that they have lost 40 plus lbs and need only to lose 10 more lbs and they are frustrated. Be happy you lost 40 lbs ladies, dont focus on what you have not done.

Give me a lady who is happy with herself at 140-160 over a lady who is unhappy at 120-140. Happieness breeds confidence and confidence is sexy.

Just a guys perspective.
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  • Shannon023
    Shannon023 Posts: 14,529 Member
    :smooched: :heart:
  • TamTastic
    TamTastic Posts: 19,224 Member
    :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:

    You rock!! :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:

    :wink: :bigsmile:
  • TuscanySun
    TuscanySun Posts: 3,608 Member
    much :heart: !
  • Mireille
    Mireille Posts: 5,134 Member
    What a great perspective it is! :flowerforyou:
  • blacKandi
    blacKandi Posts: 2
    You sound like my guy. I don't want to look like anybody else, I just want to be as fit as I can be. Thank you for your kind words!
  • hartkid13
    hartkid13 Posts: 1,551 Member
    Preach it, Brotha!
  • arewethereyet
    arewethereyet Posts: 18,702 Member
    Why thank you. I think I will take this day to be thankful for my 30+ pounds lost, put on a pair of shorts, and go for a walk!!

    :flowerforyou: Jeannie

    (seriously, thanks for the post:heart::heart: )
  • GraceKelly
    GraceKelly Posts: 7,378
    :smooched:
  • cwalters
    cwalters Posts: 4
    YOU ARE AWESOME! thanks so much! :happy:
  • carlafreeman
    carlafreeman Posts: 91
    :smooched: Totally Awesome!!
  • dkell
    dkell Posts: 408 Member
    :flowerforyou: Hurray for you.:drinker: I will be watching what I eat for the rest of my life. Not to look like Brittany Spears or any movie star but to feel healthy and have some energy. I'm getting older and health doesn't just happen, you have to work at it. But its good to hear that some males out there have a realistic image of women and not all are meant for center folds. We have beauty in other ways beyond tight abs. Confidence in themselves adds to that beauty twice fold. Nothing bothers me more than a girl that is very skinny saying she needs to loose 5 pounds and is worried to death about it. :flowerforyou: So thanks for voicing your outlook on women that do not have perfect bodies.:drinker:
  • oEmmao
    oEmmao Posts: 466 Member
    thank you for that reminder :heart:
  • smadag1
    smadag1 Posts: 1,368
    BUMP
  • FluffnStuff
    FluffnStuff Posts: 387
    :flowerforyou:
  • tig3rang3l
    tig3rang3l Posts: 270 Member
    It would be great if the majority of men figured this out while they were still in their twenties...

    But thanks for the nice words :love:
  • beckyi88
    beckyi88 Posts: 604
    Awesome post. Thank you! :heart: :heart: :heart:
  • chrissyh
    chrissyh Posts: 8,235 Member
    :happy: Great post!
  • sweatingtofitness
    sweatingtofitness Posts: 6
    Good Post and thanks for the reminder that guys out there like you do exist!!! :smile:

    I would never in a million years go under the knife if I knew I could get the same or similar look by working hard for about a year!

    I have never used diet pills and I have never done yo-yo dieting but I will admit that it has crossed my mind several times. I put up a picture of myself in my home from almost 10 years ago when I was the most active and the most healthy. I use that as my inspiration to keep plugging along and working hard and eating better. Good habits can be formed again and I know I have the genetics to look fab again.

    I wish all you ladies luck and keep in mind that drastic surgery is not always the answer!

    Cheers!
  • shyangel
    shyangel Posts: 2
    WOW..........what a great post. It's always nice to read what a real man thinks and his point of view. :wink:
  • taylorgirl
    taylorgirl Posts: 81
    Yep! That's me lost over 50 pds and sweating over the last 10....Feel and look great now just focus on completing a goal!! Nevertheless...needed to hear those words to know... whether or not I lose the last 10 it won't take anything away from what I've already accomplish :flowerforyou:
  • dimplzz
    dimplzz Posts: 456 Member
    Will you marry me? :laugh:

    Oh wait.... I am already married. :love:

    Thanks for this post! It was just what I needed. You rock!
  • artschoolgirl
    artschoolgirl Posts: 598 Member
    Great words of encouragement for everyone...the same goes for guys ya know?!
  • candy76
    candy76 Posts: 15
    Are you trying to make us all fall in love with you cause it's working!:love:
  • kellch
    kellch Posts: 7,849 Member
    You sooo sweet :smooched: :flowerforyou:
  • agarlits
    agarlits Posts: 429 Member
    Exactly, I couldnt agree more
  • plantlady99
    plantlady99 Posts: 1,338 Member
    How nice to hear. :flowerforyou:
  • FUNinTHEsun
    FUNinTHEsun Posts: 284 Member
    thank u!!!!

    :heart: :heart: :heart:
  • staclo
    staclo Posts: 511 Member
    Thanks!! :smile:

    That's really all I have to say!!
  • ndiamond
    ndiamond Posts: 37 Member
    Theres no better motivation than being around people that love you just the way you are! Thanks for the sweet words :)
  • MissesOfficer
    MissesOfficer Posts: 368
    It's true, most guys don't care a whole lot, as long as a girl looks healthy. I also got hit on a lot more than my friend when I was 242 & she was 160... :p
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