Ladies. You do this? haha

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  • XXXMinnieXXX
    XXXMinnieXXX Posts: 3,459 Member
    Ha ha made me laugh, I'm not like that... But you can wonder all sorts of things, but men just don't talk most of the time lol. I've learnt to know it is nothing now and they'll snap outta it, ha ha x
  • liftingbro
    liftingbro Posts: 2,029 Member
    My experience with women says this is the basic male vs female line of thinking.
  • mandasimba
    mandasimba Posts: 782 Member
    Actually, the really sad part of this post was that I first noticed the mans sweater and now I have become unhappy with the fit of the one I am making and will undo all 15 inches...

    Now there is a womans response... notice the clothing first :wink:
  • 2bFitNTrim
    2bFitNTrim Posts: 1,209 Member
    I used to be this way early in my marriage. Now when my husband gets quiet, I just let him be. If it has something to do with me, it comes out sooner or later. I figure, if you're upset and want me to know about it, then by golly, tell me!
  • penny5
    penny5 Posts: 148 Member
    Here's another side: If the guy would have just told her about the motorcylcle in the first place, she wouldn't have had all those "bad" thoughts. It could have been prevented by being straight forward. So, why is the women being blamed because she is concerned for her relationship? Just another perspective......

    Personally, I don't worry about things like that anymore. It may bother me but I don't let it nag at me and control the rest of my day. You live and you learn :)
  • penny5
    penny5 Posts: 148 Member
    Hahaha. I used to do that, but now I just don't give a damn and am thankful for the days when he doesn't talk :tongue:

    LOL sooooo true!!!!!
  • mamagooskie
    mamagooskie Posts: 2,964 Member
    Nope.....I dont do that at all.
  • CouchSpud
    CouchSpud Posts: 557 Member
    lol I work in care - overanalyzing is my second nature... until I come home... then I turn into a bloke, have one line conversations and cry myself to sleep because the motorcycle won't start ^^
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Yes dear. :ohwell:
  • ThatGirlGlow
    ThatGirlGlow Posts: 68 Member
    I looked at the picture and assumed he farted... Then I HAD to read it! :laugh:

    LMAO!
  • twanthe1
    twanthe1 Posts: 407
    Lmao that sums up women.
  • lorac321
    lorac321 Posts: 614 Member
    It's the opposite in my relationship, he's the sensitive over-thinker.
  • servilia
    servilia Posts: 3,452 Member
    Cute!!
  • G30Grrl
    G30Grrl Posts: 377 Member
    um no. Contrary to popular beliefs.... some of us arent overly needy emotional basket cases. :flowerforyou:

    ^^THIS^^
  • sexycheesemonkey
    sexycheesemonkey Posts: 196 Member
    I used to do this, and still sometimes find myself doing it. But I've learned to back off and just give my hubby some space and eventually he'll tell me what's up or what not. And if he doesnt...well it will either bother me (if I feel bad enough) or I'll just let it go and move on with life.
  • ladyfox1979
    ladyfox1979 Posts: 405 Member
    I never over analyze anything. I got 1 life to life and I'll be damned if I let crap like that bother me. My hubby and I have been together for 12 years and he knows when he starts to pout or give me the silent treatment , I just let him brood and always ask "are you done yet" lol
  • lovelee79
    lovelee79 Posts: 362
    LMAO :laugh:
  • sister_bear
    sister_bear Posts: 529 Member
    Nope. In fact, he would ask me to look at it.
  • tam120
    tam120 Posts: 444 Member
    Actually he does this more than I do.... he's always asking what he did and apologizing for whatever it was even when I tell him it's me not him. But, really, it's me, I'm a b!tch. :embarassed:
  • stang_girl88
    stang_girl88 Posts: 234 Member
    Hilarious! I dont think that way with my hubby. He is such a chatterbox, I welcome the silence sometimes :laugh:
  • JennieAL
    JennieAL Posts: 1,726 Member
    I looked at the picture and assumed he farted... Then I HAD to read it! :laugh:

    :laugh:
  • sexforjaffacakes
    sexforjaffacakes Posts: 1,001 Member
    Here's another side: If the guy would have just told her about the motorcylcle in the first place, she wouldn't have had all those "bad" thoughts. It could have been prevented by being straight forward. So, why is the women being blamed because she is concerned for her relationship? Just another perspective......

    exactly what I was thinking. Man is worrying about something, even if it's trivial, not telling his partner, letting a small issue affect his relationship, being quiet and unresponsive, not discussing his life with his gf, and not speaking to her/acting weird...yeah, she's a daft cow for being worried.
  • branflake5
    branflake5 Posts: 332
    lol that's funny. I personally would be so thankful for the silence and would ask nothing.
  • L2M1D52
    L2M1D52 Posts: 616 Member
    Nope, not really. I rarely shut up long enough to register what my husband is doing.

    LoL!
  • teagin2002
    teagin2002 Posts: 1,900 Member
    lol these are the newly weds, give them a few years. He will learn to share everything like the motor cycle and she will start to realize how simple a man's mind truly is :) and I mean that in a good way by the way :flowerforyou:
  • ccadroz93
    ccadroz93 Posts: 136 Member
    I used to go through that too; but I decided to quit allowing myself to get all upset anymore if I ask him if I am the reason and he says no. 9 times out of 10 it really doesn't have anything to do with me anyway. Men compartmentalize everything and we are emotion oriented so we feel it more. I totally hate that seperated feeling though!!
  • jill92787
    jill92787 Posts: 158 Member
    LOL unlike the poster that assumed this diary entry means the woman is needy, I admit to doing this. However, I am FAR from needy. I am just an over-analyzer about EVERYTHING in my life. LOL

    Exactly.
  • Di3012
    Di3012 Posts: 2,247 Member
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    LMAO!!!!

    I tried reading this to my hubby, but when I got to the bloke's diary, I was crying trying not to laugh. By the time I blurted it out, I had tears streaming down my face.

    Now I have two big panda eyes PMSL!!!!
  • raevynn
    raevynn Posts: 666 Member
    "Men are from Mars; Women are from Venus"

    a relationship book I actually recommend to people.

    My new question: "Are you caving?" He will answer that, then I can just move along with my life while he's busy with it.
  • JennieAL
    JennieAL Posts: 1,726 Member
    Hilarious! I dont think that way with my hubby. He is such a chatterbox, I welcome the silence sometimes :laugh:

    Omg... same here. My husband is a talker. I never have to worry about things like this. I miss the silence too sometimes!
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