I just had to post this. I'M SHOCKED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Cheating is cheating no matter how you look at it, if you and your other half have to stay the same just for you to love them then you didn't love them only what you see. Don't make excuse for your reason for cheating. You are cheating because you can get away with it, that is untill you are found out then what heppen you use the blame game. Just more excuses to be hurtful to your other half. As the old saying goes don't make excuse make results. If that means you and your partener have changed and one of you are no longer happy in the relationship then get out. Yes it does happen people change but guess what that's all part of life. We get old our hair turns gray, we get wrinkles and some time even gain weight. I am a woman of 47 and in the years my BF and I have been together I have gained weight no I am not happy about it but he isn't the same person either but I would never go looking outside of our relationship because of it and if I found out he did he would be gone in a second I don't put up with excuses. People use these type of sites because they are unhappy with who they are more then they are unhappy with there other half and they think this will make them happy but if thats so then how come they gor from one person to the other. Oh that right your waiting to find that person who is going to make you happy well sorry no one is responsible for your happiness. So please don't make excuses it is so belittleing to yourself.0
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Wow that's shocking!0
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terrible0
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I had never heard of this site either, and it is sad. Whatever happened to vows? For better or for worse. I think if you are one of the people who feel that way then don't get married! Everyone changes. Sure not everyone gains weight or gets fat... but everyone will eventually grow old get gray hair wrinkles etc. And if you love someone truly I don't think it is even possible to cheat on them, so the logic of the website really makes no sense. So for those who think there is nothing wrong with it take this scenario you spouse gets cancer and obviously this terrible disease can take a major toll on the way it's victims look etc so you should just say F them and go hook up with someone else. The people on that site are narcissistic a**holes in my opinion0
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what if you have two young children...you and your spouse are still good parents but no sex spark remains....you want to stay together for the kids sake....cheating is worse than splitting and disrupting the kids life?
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^^was a quote from someone else not sure why it didn't come out right.^^
I think splitting up would be better for the kids in the long run. What lesson would they being learning "oh mommy has a date tonight" or "daddy is going to get laid" I mean seriously that would mess them up a lot more than the parents getting divorced.0 -
EL o EL................................................................................................................................................... I don't even know what to say .. . O_O lol..0
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More proof that marragie between a man and a woman is sacred and should stay between an man and woman0
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what if you have two young children...you and your spouse are still good parents but no sex spark remains....you want to stay together for the kids sake....cheating is worse than splitting and disrupting the kids life?
^^was a quote from someone else not sure why it didn't come out right.^^
I think splitting up would be better for the kids in the long run. What lesson would they being learning "oh mommy has a date tonight" or "daddy is going to get laid" I mean seriously that would mess them up a lot more than the parents getting divorced.
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uh...wow...I did say "still good parents" I never said anything about telling the kids mom has a date tonight...you cant slam comments if you are going to totally change the context0 -
Im not even mad.. this just makes me sad.
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I saw this on The Doctors and was very offended as well! I knew the website existed but their new tactics are pushing limits. And why is it always a woman? Why can't a man be overweight? I'm not saying that I'd cheat on my husband for any reason, let alone weight, but why are woman targeted? My husband said it's because 11 million of the members are probably men.
Either way, I'm repulsed!0 -
Point is this: If you aren't happy, you should leave the relationship.0
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you get married...(man or women) and then change dramatically? like in letting yourself go (get fat) and things change...life is short...why be unhappy?
That's when you get a divorce/break up so that your partner doesn't have to be with someone that doesn't really want them.0 -
Well...it IS a CHEATERs site. A site. Just for cheatin'.
So...cheaters and a site catering to cheaters isn't going to be a paragon of fairness and ethics.
Cause they're cheaters.
Just sayin'.0 -
STDs.0
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It just makes me sad.
A change in appearance is no reason to cheat.0 -
It's sad really. It's so easy to get married and just as easy to divorce. Nobody takes their vows seriously anymore.
My 6 yr anniversary is tomorrow. We've had our ups and downs. Like...bigtime. We've both put on weight. I'm on a mission to get healthy for myself and I'm determined to make it happen...with or without my husband.
That website is pretty sad. It's even more sad that they have 12 million people using it. But...I'm a believer in karma. What goes around, comes around. In due time....one way or another, it'll get back to them.
I never understood cheating. You're unhappy? You hate your life? Then leave your husband or wife? Either separate or get a divorce. What's the purpose of cheating? At least be the bigger person and admit when things are over. And leave. It's as simple as that.
what if you have two young children...you and your spouse are still good parents but no sex spark remains....you want to stay together for the kids sake....cheating is worse than splitting and disrupting the kids life?
Just because you have a boring sex life doesn't mean you cheat. For the record, I am not an angel and I'm by no means perfect; however, to CHEAT is to go behind someone's back and screw another chick (or dude). It is the lowest of the low. You picked the wrong person to marry if you guys can't satisfy each other. If your girl wasn't giving it to you, it's probably cause you weren't doing it right in the first place. I have a very high sex drive and even though my ex couldn't keep up with me- I didn't go around and F every dude in sight. That's disgusting and you can catch a lot of *kitten* doing that. Good luck with rotten vag or pecker syndrome.0 -
I'd rather my hubby just come out and say "Hun, your getting fat, let's do something about it" - besides I like getting all sweaty with my sweetie
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I doubt there is really that many people using that site. I imagine I a lot of people go on there just to see who else is on it w/o paying or actively participating. I bet of the 12 million, less than 1 million are really on it. I mean if you were going to cheat on your spouse would you actually post your picture online, advertising it?0
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I'm not shocked at all. Considering it's a site designed around cheating spouses. I'm sure there's the equivalent one of brad pitt vs some gargoyle looking of a dude too.
Relax
Seriously, Brad Pitt is not that great. Sheesh, LOL
BITE YOUR TONGUE!!! He's delicious!! ;-)0 -
I have never seen that...its horrible! Its sad!0
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It's sad really. It's so easy to get married and just as easy to divorce. Nobody takes their vows seriously anymore.
My 6 yr anniversary is tomorrow. We've had our ups and downs. Like...bigtime. We've both put on weight. I'm on a mission to get healthy for myself and I'm determined to make it happen...with or without my husband.
That website is pretty sad. It's even more sad that they have 12 million people using it. But...I'm a believer in karma. What goes around, comes around. In due time....one way or another, it'll get back to them.
I never understood cheating. You're unhappy? You hate your life? Then leave your husband or wife? Either separate or get a divorce. What's the purpose of cheating? At least be the bigger person and admit when things are over. And leave. It's as simple as that.
what if you have two young children...you and your spouse are still good parents but no sex spark remains....you want to stay together for the kids sake....cheating is worse than splitting and disrupting the kids life?
My Dad cheated on my mom for years before any of us found out.
He wasn't just cheating on her, though-- he cheated our family. My mom, my sisters and I.
Instead of manning up & saying, "Hey guys, its been fun but I think I'm going to try this now..." he just lied to us and shattered my concept of my ideal relationship.
Cheating is selfish, unnecessary and foolish. You are not doing anyone a favor, especially not the kids.0 -
you get married...(man or women) and then change dramatically? like in letting yourself go (get fat) and things change...life is short...why be unhappy?
And yet this comes from a man. Why am I not surprised?
come on...I said a man or a woman...dont be hatin...my remark was to both men and women
i had his kids and got fat i am trying to lose it but if he wants to leave then he was not in love with me. My husband lost his hair and he is only 27 i am not leaving him cause i love him and dont care. if your not happy you divorce not cheat0 -
Completely agree. Marriage is a job in itself and a lot of people try to find excuses to get out of the relationship instead of being honest with themselves and their spouse. Obviously if someone wants to cheat instead of leave they are being a ***** and completely selfish.0
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I dont even know what to say....:noway:
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That makes me feel so lucky to have a trustworthy Husband. wtf is wrong with people these days... I am way to young to be saying that but seriously!!!0
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um yeah totally didnt know of this site either. pretty pathetic0
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This is so my husband! And this is why I'm divorcing his A** and taking all his money with me. He who laughs last laughs loudest! :laugh:0
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I think this is the site where the bigger lady in the ad sued them for using her image...?
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2059027/Jacqueline-Ashley-Madison-Supersized-model-used-promote-dating-site-cheats.html0 -
But at the end of the day isn't that what MOST peolpe think :sad: and please do not say it's not true i even think it come on now....0
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Men- If you don't like what you've got, you fix it. If your marriage isn't what you need to be happy, improve it. If she doesn't love you enough to even TRY to move in a better direction, she's not the one for you. Choose better next time!
Women- I know it sounds sexist but men are simple. If they aren't horny, make them a sandwich. Act like a girlfriend, not a nagging wife. Don't let yourself go. If that's still not enough for him, he's not the one for you. Pick better next time!0
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