Realizing your S.O. was the 'one' :)
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When did you realize it? How did you know?
My stepmom said she knew the minute she met my dad. Having just been through a bad divorce, my dad wasn't in that frame of mind initially, but around 4-6 months he said he realized it was going to work and last a very very long time. He told me this the other day while I was telling him about how my bf and I are doing (dad and I are really close). My beau and I have been together about 5 months. I was really screwed over before we started dating and took things really slowly at first. But now I have reached an incredible level of confidence in our relationship.
Just want to hear others' happy stories!
My stepmom said she knew the minute she met my dad. Having just been through a bad divorce, my dad wasn't in that frame of mind initially, but around 4-6 months he said he realized it was going to work and last a very very long time. He told me this the other day while I was telling him about how my bf and I are doing (dad and I are really close). My beau and I have been together about 5 months. I was really screwed over before we started dating and took things really slowly at first. But now I have reached an incredible level of confidence in our relationship.
Just want to hear others' happy stories!
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I hope someday to be able to answer this but right now can`t.
Looking forward to the responses.0 -
I knew with in the first month of us dating that it was going to last and he was the only one for me. Now we've been together for 6+ years and married for 4+ years.0
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I knew with in the first month of us dating that it was going to last and he was the only one for me. Now we've been together for 6+ years and married for 4+ years.
Yay! I fell for mine really hard within the first couple days. I'd never connected with anyone like that before. My friend told me not to contact him again so soon after our second date...but he contacted me! :laugh: Worked out great. 0 -
About 5-6 months in, we had gone away for the weekend, rented a house in the mountains. We were up late one night, talking, and without realizing it, we kept talking about OUR future, things we wanted to do together a year from now, 5 years from now, etc. It really blew me away. This relationship went from "having potential" to "I don't want to live without him." That was a fun trip.
And this picture was taken on that trip.0 -
When I saw how she could dodge bullets in slow motion.0
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We met online and were friends for a while before we met in person. But once we met we were instantly comfortable with each other, and it happened pretty fast. I know within a month he had tentatively alluded to getting married someday, and within a few months we knew we would. There wasn't just one moment where I realized it. It was just a comfortable, "right" feeling from the beginning.0
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He joined the Army and was gone with minimal communication for months at a time. I did a lot of thinking then, and realized life was much more enjoyable when he wasn't gone.0
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About 5-6 months in, we had gone away for the weekend, rented a house in the mountains. We were up late one night, talking, and without realizing it, we kept talking about OUR future, things we wanted to do together a year from now, 5 years from now, etc. It really blew me away. This relationship went from "having potential" to "I don't want to live without him." That was a fun trip.
And this picture was taken on that trip.
Awwwe! So romantic! 0 -
Never had that impression of "the one" as being realistic or even likely and not sure I'm the type anyway. But I am an INTJ Meyer-Briggs personality type, so maybe that's why, lol. Ask my husband and you'll probably get a totally different sort of answer Somehow, we work... 0
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Never had that impression of "the one" as being realistic or even likely and not sure I'm the type anyway. But I am an INTJ Meyer-Briggs personality type, do maybe that's why, lol. Ask my husband and you'll probably get a totally different sort of answer Somehow, we work...
Oh I don't mean the one as in there's ONLY one. I just mean the one you ended up finding and wanting to marry. There are plenty of people out there we can end up with. It's just finding the best one that makes life more enjoyable.0 -
We met online and were friends for a while before we met in person. But once we met we were instantly comfortable with each other, and it happened pretty fast. I know within a month he had tentatively alluded to getting married someday, and within a few months we knew we would. There wasn't just one moment where I realized it. It was just a comfortable, "right" feeling from the beginning.
I very much relate to this.0 -
I knew mine was the one like a week after we met. THEN we fought on and off for like 2 1/2 years breaking up and getting back together often. Eventually we decided if we could make it threw all that and still be together it was time to get married.0
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We met online and were friends for a while before we met in person. But once we met we were instantly comfortable with each other, and it happened pretty fast. I know within a month he had tentatively alluded to getting married someday, and within a few months we knew we would. There wasn't just one moment where I realized it. It was just a comfortable, "right" feeling from the beginning.
I very much relate to this.
Me too. We had known each other from the gym for about a year before our first date. That night we went to the movies and then came back to my apartment to drink the wine he'd brought over. We stayed up until about 3am talking. The next day we went hiking for 4 hours. It just felt like we'd already been dating.0 -
Mine is a story that's spanned over 9 years....!
I met him when I was 17, online, we were long distance until we met about 6 months after initially chatting. I knew I liked him a lot, he liked me, and when we first locked eyes at the airport... That was it, a done deal.
HOWEVER, after about a year or so of long distance, we realised that because I was so young, our future prospects looked bleak. I was underqualified and didn't want to get married straight away. With a lot of heartbreak on both sides we decided to part ways.
SEVEN YEARS LATER: He finds me on facebook, I'm in my final year of university, he's in the US Navy. We talk over skype (another amazing innovation which didn't exist back in our initial relationship) and we realise... Nothing has changed.
I'm still as smitten as I was when I was a teenager, and he's still the same sweet, wonderful man he was all that time ago.
We're planning a trip together in July, to see if the magic is still there! I really hope it all works out, and if it doesn't, I will be glad I took the chance.0 -
he introduced himself to me by coming up and making a joke about zombies when everyone was in between classes the first day of college... we spent every second together that semester and I've realized over time that there is no one who could possibly make me happier. he agrees =D we go to separate colleges now because of nursing school but we still talk all the time. yay for love haha0
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A couple days after we met and started dating we went to meet his dad's side, watching him with his little brother made me start to fall and and few days after that when we had our first kiss I knew that I wanted to kiss him forever.0
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Mine is a story that's spanned over 9 years....!
I met him when I was 17, online, we were long distance until we met about 6 months after initially chatting. I knew I liked him a lot, he liked me, and when we first locked eyes at the airport... That was it, a done deal.
HOWEVER, after about a year or so of long distance, we realised that because I was so young, our future prospects looked bleak. I was underqualified and didn't want to get married straight away. With a lot of heartbreak on both sides we decided to part ways.
SEVEN YEARS LATER: He finds me on facebook, I'm in my final year of university, he's in the US Navy. We talk over skype (another amazing innovation which didn't exist back in our initial relationship) and we realise... Nothing has changed.
I'm still as smitten as I was when I was a teenager, and he's still the same sweet, wonderful man he was all that time ago.
We're planning a trip together in July, to see if the magic is still there! I really hope it all works out, and if it doesn't, I will be glad I took the chance.
Awwwe! I hope it's wonderful!0 -
From the beginning, we had a lot in common and seemed to really relate to each other. It was almost like he was reading a book about me and was giving the perfect responses to all of my questions and comments. After a couple of weeks, there was actually a moment that pretty much sealed it for me... it even came up in our conversation last night. (don't laugh... this is serious stuff here!) He said he loved the Carol Burnett show! I know how insignificant that sounds to some people, but it did something for me. Everything about him, even the stuff that I don't mesh with, is something I feel like I can't do without.
I've actually been married before and NEVER could picture myself growing old with them.
With Mike, I literally can't picture my life without him. It's like it's either be with him or it's a huge void like a black hole of pure emptiness. He is it!0 -
One day we were house sitting for my SO's Nanna, He had to go off to work (at a bar, night shift), so I thought id be nice and cook dinner and dessert for him. it was meant to be a surprise for him when he got home. anyway i was being clumsy, as I am, and cut my finger while trying to cut up some watermelon (devilish food!). Not a bad cut, just enoughthat i was bleeding and needed a band-aid. Anyway i had NO idea where the hell things were in this house so i gave him a quick call asking where the bandaids were. He said Bathroom cabinet (duh!).
anyway a few minutes later i hear someone coming through the door (door was unlocked (stupid me), and I had NO idea who could be visiting me at this time of night. So I got a bit worried, and hid in the kitchen (best place for a woman).
Anyway turns out he came through the door, big batch of bandaids in his hand. He left work as soon as I called him (told his supervisor I hope), went to the store, brought some band aids and rushed back home. he wasn't sure if there were bandaids in the house and he is a big worry wart about me, but it was then, that I knew.
It only further made it clearer on my birthday when he lit up "Happy 21st Birthday Rachel", on the side of a building in the middle of the city (it was a govenrment building too hahah)... anyway, 7 years and going strong. Currently i am living in America, he is in Australia, been long distance for 6 months, only 6 months more to go, and its hard, but not as hard as i thought it would be. If we canmake it through this, we can make it through anything0 -
We weren't dating yet but we knew we liked each other. We were hanging out with mutual friends and I went to use the restroom. When I came out, he was waiting for me. I said "hi", he said "hi," then he just grabbed me and kissed me right in front of the sliding glass door, where everyone out on the deck could see us.
I though it was cool that he just made a move like that, and we didn't have to play a bunch of dumb flirting games. Plus the fact that he wasn't afraid to show everyone "hey, that's my gal" :blushing:0 -
Mine is a story that's spanned over 9 years....!
I met him when I was 17, online, we were long distance until we met about 6 months after initially chatting. I knew I liked him a lot, he liked me, and when we first locked eyes at the airport... That was it, a done deal.
HOWEVER, after about a year or so of long distance, we realised that because I was so young, our future prospects looked bleak. I was underqualified and didn't want to get married straight away. With a lot of heartbreak on both sides we decided to part ways.
SEVEN YEARS LATER: He finds me on facebook, I'm in my final year of university, he's in the US Navy. We talk over skype (another amazing innovation which didn't exist back in our initial relationship) and we realise... Nothing has changed.
I'm still as smitten as I was when I was a teenager, and he's still the same sweet, wonderful man he was all that time ago.
We're planning a trip together in July, to see if the magic is still there! I really hope it all works out, and if it doesn't, I will be glad I took the chance.
That is very sweet, I hope your trip goes well!! :bigsmile:0 -
My story with my husband spans 20 years. I had a huge crush on him when I was 18 years old, and he was 23. We had mutual friends and would see each other often, and one night we kissed. Shortly after this, however, he moved to Colorado and I went back to college. I often wondered about what had happened to him, but life goes on....fast forward 12 years, and I move back to my hometown with my young daughter Lily. Being a single parent, and coming out of a bad relationship, I really have no desire to date but my best friend convinces me to just look on an on-line dating site. Normally I only looked at profiles that had pictures of the guy, but there was one profile that really drew me in....no picture, but I loved what he wrote. So, we started exchanging emails, but no full names given. Finally we decide to email a picture, and you guessed it.....it was the guy I had a huge crush on 12 years earlier! We couldn't believe that we had reconnected this way...I think from the moment I saw his picture appear on my screen, I knew he was the one I was meant to be with. But we took things slow and formed a really solid friendship first. Been together now 8 years, married for five. 0
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My story with my husband spans 20 years. I had a huge crush on him when I was 18 years old, and he was 23. We had mutual friends and would see each other often, and one night we kissed. Shortly after this, however, he moved to Colorado and I went back to college. I often wondered about what had happened to him, but life goes on....fast forward 12 years, and I move back to my hometown with my young daughter Lily. Being a single parent, and coming out of a bad relationship, I really have no desire to date but my best friend convinces me to just look on an on-line dating site. Normally I only looked at profiles that had pictures of the guy, but there was one profile that really drew me in....no picture, but I loved what he wrote. So, we started exchanging emails, but no full names given. Finally we decide to email a picture, and you guessed it.....it was the guy I had a huge crush on 12 years earlier! We couldn't believe that we had reconnected this way...I think from the moment I saw his picture appear on my screen, I knew he was the one I was meant to be with. But we took things slow and formed a really solid friendship first. Been together now 8 years, married for five.
OMG! that is fate right there! it was meant to be0 -
What a nice topic..
Our moment happened for us at the same time. About 5 months into dating he had an accident at work and had to get rushed to the hospital. I met him there and the doctors eventually sent him home for a few hours before he had to go back in for surgery. Even though it wasnt a major surgery it hit me that there was a possibility I could lose him and I realized in that moment I couldnt live without him and told him. He replied that he couldnt either and knew that he wanted to marry me. About a year ago we were married :-)0 -
The very first day I met him. We met online by chance, talked for hours and hours that night about anything and everything. I wasn't quite sure why, but I went to bed thinking about him and envisioning a future together--which was silly to me! I didn't really talk to him the day after we met, but then the next day, January 15, 2010, he had written me the sweetest thing anyone has ever written pretty much ever. I realized I loved him as much as he loved me, and we were both so unbelievably happy the other felt the same. What are the chances of randomly being connected to someone on the Internet by PURE chance (no dating site), 1200 miles away, that you immediately connect with, and you BOTH fall head over heels for each other? Neither of us are very spiritual, but we knew this was meant to happen.
We are now living together and he proposed to me this past Thanksgiving. I said yes, of course. 0 -
My story with my husband spans 20 years. I had a huge crush on him when I was 18 years old, and he was 23. We had mutual friends and would see each other often, and one night we kissed. Shortly after this, however, he moved to Colorado and I went back to college. I often wondered about what had happened to him, but life goes on....fast forward 12 years, and I move back to my hometown with my young daughter Lily. Being a single parent, and coming out of a bad relationship, I really have no desire to date but my best friend convinces me to just look on an on-line dating site. Normally I only looked at profiles that had pictures of the guy, but there was one profile that really drew me in....no picture, but I loved what he wrote. So, we started exchanging emails, but no full names given. Finally we decide to email a picture, and you guessed it.....it was the guy I had a huge crush on 12 years earlier! We couldn't believe that we had reconnected this way...I think from the moment I saw his picture appear on my screen, I knew he was the one I was meant to be with. But we took things slow and formed a really solid friendship first. Been together now 8 years, married for five.
Woahhhh that is so cool!
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So awesome coming back from my workout and seeing all of your wonderful stories. So romantic!0
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The first time I met my now husband we were both in unhealthy relationships. Our first conversation was me telling him that he should never get married. A year later we got married LOL. A couple of months after we first met we were both single and starting 'talking'. The first night we hung out we talked from about 8 pm till 4 am on my couch...nothing else just talk. After that, I knew he was the one.
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I knew on our very first real date, and I told my father.
He just grunted something.
At age 16, we were engaged.
31 years later, here we are, 5 kids, a life and still knockin; boots.
Not Bad:smooched:0 -
The first time I met my now husband we were both in unhealthy relationships. Our first conversation was me telling him that he should never get married. A year later we got married LOL. A couple of months after we first met we were both single and starting 'talking'. The first night we hung out we talked from about 8 pm till 4 am on my couch...nothing else just talk. After that, I knew he was the one.
Love those all-nighters! There are few people I feel totally comfortable *really* talking to about anything. My bf is one of them. We can talk forever!0
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