What do you buy men for valentines?

mickipedia
mickipedia Posts: 889 Member
edited November 9 in Chit-Chat
I am stuck.. every year i have the same issue.. i mean do you guys even care about valentines?

I'm not fused myself.. just an excuse to get flowers (although my boyfriend will probably forget)
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  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    If I had someone giving me a Valentine I wouldn`t really care what exactly it was,just the desire to have done it would be what mattered. :smile:
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,989 Member
    Can never have too many tools.......................or sports gear!

    A.C.E. Certified Personal Trainer
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    Been in fitness for 28+ years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition
  • MrDude_1
    MrDude_1 Posts: 2,510 Member
    no. most of us dont care.

    You know what we want. its either going to involve certain special actions on your part... or food.


    and if they're dieting.. food isnt a good idea.
  • Suzieqt81
    Suzieqt81 Posts: 96 Member
    A plate of home made cookies placed on a valentines day decorated plate and before you place the cookies on said plate, write some kind of sweet message...which would be revealed later...

    FOOD ALWAYS WINS!!!
  • fiveferrels
    fiveferrels Posts: 397 Member
    <<<<<< don't really care if I get anything, kina a waste of $$$ to me.
  • MysticMaiden22
    MysticMaiden22 Posts: 324 Member
    Food. Definitely food. Men love baked goods. Especially cookies.
  • bethdris
    bethdris Posts: 1,090 Member
    We don't celebrate Valentines day....We've been married over 12 years, and don't feel to need to pay triple for something on one day when we love eachother every day.
  • bhalter
    bhalter Posts: 582 Member
    The most my fiance and I have ever given each other is a card. We have a tradition where we go out for Chinese every year around Valentine's Day. That's it. We love it. =)
  • datguy2011
    datguy2011 Posts: 477 Member
    nothing, never buy them anything. just get undressed. thanks.
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    My "gift" for Valentine's Day is the gift of not celebrating the holiday. :smile:
  • jack_martha
    jack_martha Posts: 3
    I usually make a card. It's personal, and I like it. Who cares what he thinks?
  • bjshields
    bjshields Posts: 677 Member
    Buy some pretty lingerie & do a strip tease. It can even be funny. He'll love you for it!:smile:
  • rgrange
    rgrange Posts: 236 Member
    nothing, never buy them anything. just get undressed. thanks.
    this.
  • doctor_mike
    doctor_mike Posts: 70
    I can't speak for all men, but what this one desires would be a heartfelt love note...doesn't even have to be a card....about what he means to you and how he makes you feel...build him up....if he means something to you tell him and tell him how and what......yes, some of us can be sentimental :)
  • deevo
    deevo Posts: 276 Member
    I always go with their favorite 6 pack- or bottle- which have you and then just dinner out or cooking together in. Other then that I with you...at a lost as to what to get men ha
  • ItsMeRebekah
    ItsMeRebekah Posts: 909 Member
    nothing, never buy them anything. just get undressed. thanks.
    lol lov that
  • Heaven71
    Heaven71 Posts: 706 Member
    A weekend away is always great. I usually buy tickets to see his favorite Hockey team and if there is a second game that weekend, I try to get tickets regardless of the team...we always have a blast and find fun things to do in whatever city we end up in. One year we drove for an hour to find tennis courts and had a blast playing when we finally got there.
    I have also done a weekend in Williamsburg and a weekend in the mountains. He is always happy with that and a Gift certificate for Hockey Gear.
  • ajp913
    ajp913 Posts: 100 Member
    As a guy who considers himself a hopeless romantic I don't think it so much matters what you get us. What matters is that you showed you care. I mean, obviously, don't get him anything outside his realm of taste, or anything "dumb." But put some thought into it, and then make sure you're appreciative of what he gets you. I think those two things combined are the big winner.

    Deep down, you know your bf better than anyone else... You can find a way to show him you care.
  • Heaven71
    Heaven71 Posts: 706 Member
    nothing, never buy them anything. just get undressed. thanks.

    Hahaha, this is a given, the rest is a bonus!
  • shelby623
    shelby623 Posts: 55 Member
    nothing, never buy them anything. just get undressed. thanks.
    this.


    my boyfriend would agree with those responses.
  • jconnon
    jconnon Posts: 427 Member
    I only want one thing and doesn't cost any money.
  • PJilly
    PJilly Posts: 22,173 Member
    My "gift" for Valentine's Day is the gift of not celebrating the holiday. :smile:

    Same here. :smile:
  • MILFdoesabodyGd
    MILFdoesabodyGd Posts: 347 Member
    food? this came up last night. My bf claims I don't do anything for him when I told him he doesn't ever do anything for me,.....ANYWAY I said I cook for you! He said then stop cooking for me.

    wtf I am suppose to be pms'ing not him???
  • jennbriere
    jennbriere Posts: 63 Member
    Cook him a nice meal, give him a massage...following "good times" ...that's all a man really cares for =) haha
  • MILFdoesabodyGd
    MILFdoesabodyGd Posts: 347 Member
    A weekend away is always great. I usually buy tickets to see his favorite Hockey team and if there is a second game that weekend, I try to get tickets regardless of the team...we always have a blast and find fun things to do in whatever city we end up in. One year we drove for an hour to find tennis courts and had a blast playing when we finally got there.
    I have also done a weekend in Williamsburg and a weekend in the mountains. He is always happy with that and a Gift certificate for Hockey Gear.

    I wanted to do this, the hockey game and a hotel for a night.... I was going to do it without telling him but I don't like keeping such financial things a secret (he makes the money,I am job hunting) ....he said he didn't want to do that he works 6 days a week and doesn't want to make the HOUR AND A HALF drive. gahhh.
  • BerryH
    BerryH Posts: 4,698 Member
    Anything other than an agreement to buy each other nothing except a card leads to crushing disappointment for at least one party.
  • JennC831
    JennC831 Posts: 628 Member
    My husband and I usually go to dinner... He'll usually buys me flowers and chocolates then I usually get him some new colonge and chocolates or some small gift that he's been eyeing... Simple stuff...
  • Whaleluvr
    Whaleluvr Posts: 156 Member
    Cook him a nice meal, give him a massage...following "good times" ...that's all a man really cares for =) haha

    Except for the "Good Times"................that's everyday in my house..............I guess all that's left is "Good Times!"
  • myers0machine
    myers0machine Posts: 685
    U don't buy them anything u give them somethin every guy wants :p simple
  • mickipedia
    mickipedia Posts: 889 Member
    So summary.. shall I just bake cookies in my underwear and then feed them to him in a seductive manner?

    LOL

    Sex and food seems to be the main theme here!!
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