Are you a hugger?

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  • skittybang
    skittybang Posts: 1,525 Member
    **shudder**

    No way!
  • SexyCook
    SexyCook Posts: 2,249 Member
    I can be at times... but mostly at person that hit when saying hello....Like" Hey Girl and smack on the arm"..:laugh: :laugh:
  • aneumany
    aneumany Posts: 165 Member
    ive been told by many that i give the best hugs! how can anyone not like hugs? one hug from someone can instantly make the worst day better! love hugs! but im a cuddler and super affectionate!
  • LaDiablesse
    LaDiablesse Posts: 862 Member
    Total hugger here.
    People that I know aren't huggers, I'll hug them longer 'til it's that uncomfortable time lapse. Makes me laugh.

    This is me too!
  • IRONAMY
    IRONAMY Posts: 20
    I'm a hugger lover ! I Love to hug non huggers and creep them out !
  • kb455
    kb455 Posts: 679 Member
    It really depends on who it is.

    I'm not big on the whole girlfriends hugging whenever they see each other. Not sure why. I just try to give the 'back tap' and end the hug as soon as possible.
  • Secret_Agent_007
    Secret_Agent_007 Posts: 1,082
    Huge hugger here.
  • oberon0124
    oberon0124 Posts: 10,524 Member
    Very much so, big time hugger here!!!
  • garnet1483
    garnet1483 Posts: 249 Member
    I like hugs in social situations. There are a couple people I know professionally who hug, and it's a little odd. Mostly because I know that if I were a man, they wouldn't try to hug me. It's irritating. BUT I definitely try to respect other people's views on hugging. There are one or two people I'm very good friends with who are very anti-hug, and I don't hug them. I think you can avoid hugs by keeping a reasonable distance between you and the potential hugger when you say hi. There's a chance they'll step in, but if you can catch the moment before they open their arms, stick out your hand for a handshake. Hug avoided! (This is what I do at work.)
  • springermad
    springermad Posts: 242
    The only thing I like to hug is my dog, anything else can go away x
  • skinnywithin
    skinnywithin Posts: 1,392 Member
    100 percent hugger !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
  • alpha1029
    alpha1029 Posts: 139
    I love hugs with my husband. It's the most comforting, safest feeling in the world. I will hug my puppy. Otherwise, I am strictly anti-hug. Also anti-kiss-on-the-cheek. Anyone other than my husband will have to make due with a wave or a handshake.
  • jefarrell
    jefarrell Posts: 42
    Hug it out!!!!!! Always!
  • ♥Faerie♥
    ♥Faerie♥ Posts: 14,053 Member
    Me:

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  • katkins3
    katkins3 Posts: 1,359 Member
    i'm happy to hug someone i know and love, but a stranger, no, never. way too intimate..

    i dont even like shaking a strangers hand.. i dig bowing like they do in japan..

    I feel the same way.
    When I was growing up we never hugged. I worked at being more comfortable with hugging my children, but still avoid hugging anyone I don't know well and like. I've gone to 12 step retreats where there is Lots of hugging and wrote "No Hugs" on my name badge.
  • luv_lea
    luv_lea Posts: 1,094 Member
    Very much NOT a hugger. Even my grandma will say..."now I know your not huggy type...but give me some hugs."

    My son and person I'm with are only people I get all 'huggy' with.
  • katherinemm31
    katherinemm31 Posts: 163
    I can be pretty huggie, but I don't like to make people uncomfortable, either. I try to be sensitive to their boundaries.
  • legmotor
    legmotor Posts: 197 Member
    I am a hugger with people I feel close to. I don't hug just any ole' body.
  • teephil
    teephil Posts: 135 Member
    No. Don't touch me. If you do, the most you're going to get is an awkward pat on the back. Sorry, no arm action.
  • Pete1471
    Pete1471 Posts: 126 Member
    Absolute no hugger even saying no if people try to hug me. I'll even block and if necessary push people away if they decide to try pushing their luck.
  • YouAreTheShit
    YouAreTheShit Posts: 510 Member
    Hugger snuggler type here... and proud of it.
  • ThePinkPachyderm
    ThePinkPachyderm Posts: 140 Member
    Sober I am totally anti-hug, not a fan of human contact in general. Get a few drinks in me though and I am the guy going around hugging everyone, usually past the point where it is comfortable for anyone involved, plus I often lose my pants when I drink, so then I am giving uncomfortable hugs in my underwear .. it gets weird pretty quick....
  • silvergurl518
    silvergurl518 Posts: 4,123 Member
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  • lovinlife71
    lovinlife71 Posts: 230
    OH YES I love to hug.....I am a very touchy feely person!:happy:
  • Begood03
    Begood03 Posts: 1,259 Member
    I am a hugger, I give great hugs!
  • stormieweather
    stormieweather Posts: 2,549 Member
    I'm definitely a hugger! But I avoid hugging strangers because I don't want to offend the non-huggers. My 23yr old son and 6yr old daughter are huggers, but my 16yr old daughter is like a damn porcupine. All bristly and stiff, so we don't hug much at all. (she probably needs it the most though).
  • stormieweather
    stormieweather Posts: 2,549 Member
    Sober I am totally anti-hug, not a fan of human contact in general. Get a few drinks in me though and I am the guy going around hugging everyone, usually past the point where it is comfortable for anyone involved, plus I often lose my pants when I drink, so then I am giving uncomfortable hugs in my underwear .. it gets weird pretty quick....

    ROFL!!
  • vnmw121212
    vnmw121212 Posts: 102 Member
    I am so a hugger...I'm all about physical contact..makes me want to do it even more if I know the other person hates it..lol
  • xx_sinnuendo_xx
    xx_sinnuendo_xx Posts: 44
    Total hugger here.
    People that I know aren't huggers, I'll hug them longer 'til it's that uncomfortable time lapse. Makes me laugh.

    Me three!
  • rybo
    rybo Posts: 5,424 Member
    In normal situations I'm a hugger, I won't shy away or give a half hearted one. Although there have been a couple times I've gotten one from a co-worker that I didn't expect, but again, didn't shy away from it.
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