Negativity....I literally want to strangle someone!!

Unfriend them, they don't sound like friends! You look fantastic! Congratulations!

awww... Im so sorry people were being mean. They suck! And to be honest, I would delete them from my facebook friend list because they aren't very good friends. When i first got fb i had like 400 "friends", then one day I went through and deleted about 360 people... took me an hour... but I didn't talk to must of them on a regular basis. Just bc I went to school with them, used to hangout, or met them through other people didnt mean they deserved to see my personal info now. Now, I have about 60 people on my friends list and if I post something Happy or Sad they are supportive in an appropriate way. Good Luck sweety!! :flowerforyou: And I think you look great, so CONGRATULATIONS!

You look REALLY good, and they are hating because they know they don't or they are jealous that you look as good as you do. I hate when people make comments like that. I post things here and there. I have had family make comments more than friends, and I can't really delete family. So I block them from my statuses. Mostly my cousin. I had posted about wanting to lose weight before having another baby, and she told me that you should lose weight after the pregnancy, and not before. I explained I had medical issues from being obese and she told me I explained too much...

Bottom line is, people will always find something to ridicule you for. No matter what you say or post. I stick to being on here mostly. FB drags me down and depresses me too much.

There's always one (or two, or ten) who are unhappy with themselves so they try to bring down anyone who is doing what they know they should be doing, but aren't. You look fantastic!!!!! And you every right to be proud and show that to the world. I agree with everyone else. Unfriend them!

I agree that they are just jealous. Ignore them! You look fabulous! Good for you!

You look aammmaaazing! BUT "nothing tastes as good as skinny feels" is a bit of an anorexic slogan. I have fallen down the thinspo rabbit hole on tumblr many times and it's one of the pro-ana battle cries. Also, the originator of that statement was Kate Moss.

ALSO I can think of like 500 different things that taste as good as skinny feels. Not even just chocolate and speculoos and mounds bars. What about blackberries? Carrots? all food all the time. I'm not trying to be negative, just pointing out that it does sound a bit extreme. I've lost weight by eating lots of good, healthy, delicious food, not by denying myself.

I don't deny myself anything! If I wanna eat it, Im gonna eat it (as long as I stay in my calories) People have told me that I am obsessive about it, but to be completely honest - If I didnt obsess about it - then how am I supposed to keep on track. If I did all of this half-hearted - I wouldn't have lost nearly 2 stone!

That saying tells me that if I am going to eat a big chocolate cake and keep eating it then I am not going to be thin. Which is bloody true! And I wont feel good. I feel better eating some stuff that isnt so 'satisfying' and looking the way I do!!

:-) x

I get the same but not coz I post pictures but because I post about my running! Well I don't get slated but people say I am boring now! I just love this quote

If someone has something bad to say about you, it's probably because they have nothing good to say about themselves.


Stick with it coz you look great and ignore those ugly green eyed monsters, they just wish they could do as well as you

Thank you so much guys - I feel a lot better about it now :-)

I do understand that is does look a little pro-ana now (just because they aren't mfp'ers and so they don't see this motivational stuff all of the time) But I hope it is understood that I never meant it in that way!

xx

You look great; my suggestion is to ignore the haters! Facebook is more social than motivational, so for support, I would stick with MFP over FB any day!

And, I changed the wording on the quote some time ago on my page ~ it now reads "NOTHING tastes as good as HEALTHY feels". I think it reflects my mindset a lot better than the original quote! :flowerforyou:

You cant worry about them just keep up the hard work

Well OP... you're hot. When you're hot, you're going to get things. When you get things because you're hot, people are going to get pissy who aren't hot because they don't think it's fair.

Keep on doing what you're doing. It's obviously working very well. If negative people are throwing comments at you that are derogatory... get rid of them. They aren't your friends.

You know what. People piss me off!!

I posted the below photo on my Facebook (yeahhh showing off I know) ... and I get some ****ty comments!




'Its amazing what you can do on photoshop these days' HONESTLY - can someone not just lose weight and muscle up a bit and it be natural?

ALSO I was reading a thread on here with motivational photos - and there was one that said 'Nothing tastes as good as thin feels...' so I put that as my status - and I get 'Oh, posting anorexic slogans now are we' I am FARRR from anorexic.

People need to be educated.

Rant Over!! (sorry guys!!)

Time to utilize that "unfriend" button.

This.

And this is also why I don't talk about my weight loss journey on Facebook. Only to the close people in my life.