Question for all ladies that go to night clubs with their fr

I personally have never gone for the dude that assumes he can have or do whatever he wants. Before I got married, I always went for the guy that acted like he had some sense and used his words. That "hey girl" stuff never flew with me. I would say there's hope, maybe you're just trying to get the girls with no brains... there's nothing wrong with a smart girl. In the long haul, you'll want a woman that you can work with to accomplish your dreams, not a bimbo that has no idea where to begin

I've seen that approach work for people... they wouldn't keep doing it unless they thought it worked at least once. It's about casting a wide net, lol.

If you ask me to dance, or start a conversation, you have a much better chance of getting anywhere. I hate when a guy just starts dancing with me out of nowhere.

I was out once and this guy actually introduced himself and I was blown away. I danced with him on and off the rest of the night.

I go to clubs every now n then and have always been quite the party animal... i have never had a problem in dancing with anyone... jeezz just couple months back i was dancing with a guy dressed as a mummy in middle of a road outside a club :laugh: ... guess what i'm saying is... if he's nice and we have a laugh... then why not?...afterall, part of the reason i still go out is coz i try to attract the opposite sex... although do know that some guys find a bunch of chicks together quite intimidating... so if they have the balls to approach... even better i say :drinker:

Nope, we get all dressed up and look hot for ourselves

If you have game and good looks, you will have no problem at the night club. You also have to know how to choose the females that are looking to meet guys.

So in short, it is a bad setting for most guys to try to meet women.

Well most of the time I go out with my girls we are all married. We are just out to have fun and dance. We stay together to keep each other out of trouble and from doing something we might regret.

This sounds like a joke by Dane Cook. About how women go out dancing and ignore everyone around them. I don't do that, mainly because I really don't like women enough to go out with them and also because if I wanted to just dance in a circle with my 5 best friends and dance horribly to music we could just save the gas money and do it at the house.

Primarily for their friends, I'd say, but single girls also aren't *opposed* to meeting guys. It just has to feel right, and happen right. You don't want someone who tries too hard to dance with you because there can be no mistaking what he's trying to achieve (you know what I mean). But if you happen to click with someone, and you have fun with him, that's a great feeling.

Of course, how much do you really end up having in common with randoms at a club?

Yep, I get dressed up for myself when I go out. Because it's fun. Definitely not to pick up guys. (Well, I'm married now, but before...nope, definitely not to pick up guys.)

usually theres no shot because the guys go there to get lucky and hook up with girls and the girls dancing with their friends just wanna dance. Lol my friends and I only would talk to the guys who's buying us drinks then just ignore him after. I know, kinda mean but oh well

usually girls go to the club to dance/have fun with their girlfriends.

agreed.

but in my experience, i would be more inclined to at least dance for one song with the guy who approaches face to face and starts with an opening line ("what's your name?", "wanna dance?" nothing groundbreaking!) rather than the sneak behind grind! also, that way you can at least see the face of the person.

my girlfriends and i always had an unwritten code that if the guy approached from behind it was necessary to rescue. not cool guys! not cool! :noway:

oh... how i don't miss "clubbin" lol :drinker:

I have a boyfriend and just go out to have fun with my friends or with him. Even if I were single, I go out to have fun with my friends, so unless I was really into the guy, I probably would just be all about having the night with my friends, since that's what we planned. Sometimes guys do come up to me and say 'Hey, I think you're really cute', but as long as they're not creepy about it, I just politely tell them I have a boyfriend.

If you try and grind against my butt or any of that invasive, pervy **** though, it's a different story. I like to wear heels out and I will not think twice about stepping on delicate areas with them if you invade my personal space like that.