WHY oh WHY do guys yell at girls? - rant

Bettsy_A
Bettsy_A Posts: 81 Member
edited November 12 in Chit-Chat
I was just out for a bike ride, and me outside exercising is NOT a pretty sight. Usually I'm sweating, covered in spiders' webs (I couldn't avoid it! YUCK!) and grimacing from exertion.

While I was puffing and panting up this hill, a 4wd filled with guys drove past, and they honked and hooted and yelled at me, and watched me as they drove past.
Their stupid little faces peering out of the window, while driving a machine capable of killing everyone on that road.
This happened 3 times!!

SERIOUSLY?? And no, it's not a compliment! A compliment is saying "hey, you look great" not "OI! SHOW US YA BOOBS! HAHABJDBAJHSBAUISJH!!!!!"

So WHY do guys do this? Act like they've never seen a girl before, and therefore act like buffoons? Don't they realise that no one likes them?

BTW this is from a girl's POV. I don't know if girls do this to guys, but if they do, WHY??
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  • KJVBear33
    KJVBear33 Posts: 628
    Cause they are immature..........they think that its okay to be pervs.......then again, if you are a guy and do this........my apologies since I don't actually know you well enough to call you that specifically. But other idiots ruin it for the decent guys out there that lose their head seeing a pretty woman.........
  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,449 Member
    Yah. No idea. I had a guy smack my backside from his car with a broom when I was riding my bike. It ended with me over-the-handle-bars. Luckily I wasn't hurt - but what if I had fallen into the path of an oncoming car.

    NOT cool.
  • Bettsy_A
    Bettsy_A Posts: 81 Member
    They do! It just blows my mind that guys think it's hilarious/acceptable behaviour! Would they like men doing the same to their mother? or their sister? or their girlfriend?
    Also, I wonder if this tactic has ever worked for them. I wonder if anyone got a wife because once upon a time, they yelled obscenities at her as she waited for a bus.
  • ScatteredThoughts
    ScatteredThoughts Posts: 3,562 Member
    Cause they are immature

    This. I've never done anything like that in my life,
  • KJVBear33
    KJVBear33 Posts: 628
    Cause they are immature

    This. I've never done anything like that in my life,

    Good for you! Here is a decent guy!! Major props.........I like how you think.........
  • Bettsy_A
    Bettsy_A Posts: 81 Member
    Yah. No idea. I had a guy smack my backside from his car with a broom when I was riding my bike. It ended with me over-the-handle-bars. Luckily I wasn't hurt - but what if I had fallen into the path of an oncoming car.

    NOT cool.

    WHAT!? Oh my goodness, that makes me mad! What a tool!! You poor thing! Anything worse could have happened, what utter creeps!
  • hapoo100
    hapoo100 Posts: 926 Member
    90% of all guys hit the pause button on maturity at age 14
    it's why we play video games into our 40s and beyond :glasses:
    it's why we laugh at fart jokes our whole lives :laugh:
    it's why we love gross out humor :bigsmile:

    with that said, I have never yelled out a car windor at a lady or hit her with a broom. Even that offends my sensibilites :huh:
  • Bettsy_A
    Bettsy_A Posts: 81 Member
    Oh, and I am well aware not all guys do it! Those guys are fantastic! I'm just ranting about the guys who do this.
    I don't know anyone who does it, at least not in my presence.
  • Bikini27
    Bikini27 Posts: 1,290 Member
    90% of all guys hit the pause button on maturity at age 14
    it's why we play video games into our 40s and beyond :glasses:
    it's why we laugh at fart jokes our whole lives :laugh:
    it's why we love gross out humor :bigsmile:

    with that said, I have never yelled out a car windor at a lady or hit her with a broom. Even that offends my sensibilites :huh:

    *kicks rocks* I have yelled out the window at a hot woman. *hangs head*
    The broom thing never happened though.
  • Bettsy_A
    Bettsy_A Posts: 81 Member
    90% of all guys hit the pause button on maturity at age 14
    it's why we play video games into our 40s and beyond :glasses:
    it's why we laugh at fart jokes our whole lives :laugh:
    it's why we love gross out humor :bigsmile:

    with that said, I have never yelled out a car windor at a lady or hit her with a broom. Even that offends my sensibilites :huh:

    Hey, hey...there is nothing wrong with video games into 40's haha! and fart jokes and gross out humour is fine! heheh
    A friend suggested that when males get together in cars, testosterone goes up and IQ goes down haha! Not sure if it's true, but I wonder if tests have been done?
  • shanahan_09
    shanahan_09 Posts: 238 Member
    It's moronic-pack mentality! Cut one from the pack and he'd be like Raj from the Big Bang Theory! :bigsmile:
  • Bettsy_A
    Bettsy_A Posts: 81 Member
    It's moronic-pack mentality! Cut one from the pack and he'd be like Raj from the Big Bang Theory! :bigsmile:

    THIS!! haha!
  • hapoo100
    hapoo100 Posts: 926 Member
    90% of all guys hit the pause button on maturity at age 14
    it's why we play video games into our 40s and beyond :glasses:
    it's why we laugh at fart jokes our whole lives :laugh:
    it's why we love gross out humor :bigsmile:

    with that said, I have never yelled out a car windor at a lady or hit her with a broom. Even that offends my sensibilites :huh:

    *kicks rocks* I have yelled out the window at a hot woman. *hangs head*
    The broom thing never happened though.

    i demand fingerprints on said broom, i have a sneaking suspicion you swung for the fences
  • hapoo100
    hapoo100 Posts: 926 Member
    It's moronic-pack mentality! Cut one from the pack and he'd be like Raj from the Big Bang Theory! :bigsmile:

    I resemble this remark
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    Groupthink and a perpetual sexual desire.
  • Bikini27
    Bikini27 Posts: 1,290 Member
    90% of all guys hit the pause button on maturity at age 14
    it's why we play video games into our 40s and beyond :glasses:
    it's why we laugh at fart jokes our whole lives :laugh:
    it's why we love gross out humor :bigsmile:

    with that said, I have never yelled out a car windor at a lady or hit her with a broom. Even that offends my sensibilites :huh:

    *kicks rocks* I have yelled out the window at a hot woman. *hangs head*
    The broom thing never happened though.

    i demand fingerprints on said broom, i have a sneaking suspicion you swung for the fences

    They were coming right for me!
    http://vodpod.com/watch/1130005-its-coming-right-for-us-clips-south-park-studios
  • Bikini27
    Bikini27 Posts: 1,290 Member
    It's moronic-pack mentality! Cut one from the pack and he'd be like Raj from the Big Bang Theory! :bigsmile:

    THIS!! haha!

    Honestly, I've seen a group of women do the exact same thing.
    It's stupid, but there is a down side to being hot.
  • elcyclista
    elcyclista Posts: 393
    I been yelled at while cycling too by group of girls in a car a few times. I think people just like scaring cyclists.
  • lacroyx
    lacroyx Posts: 5,754 Member
    immautre boys do this. MEN don't
  • i_love_vinegar
    i_love_vinegar Posts: 2,092 Member
    That's just one of many reasons why the word CREEPER exists.

    I had grown 30-40 year old men do this when I wore my high school uniform even...
    Also had guys pull over when I am ignoring them, get out of their cars, and start following me.

    I live in Japan now, and they even have separate female-only train/subway cars because of the groping problem...

    The older I get, the more I realize just how many crazies there really are. A LOT.

    PS: Sorry that happened to you!
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    Little boys who never grew into men. You will not ever see a MAN do this kind of thing. BTW, girl do similar thing but not as often, we call them hoochies
  • Captain_Tightpants
    Captain_Tightpants Posts: 2,215 Member
    Peer pressure. Not one of them would do it to you if they were alone. Put them with their friends and their libido goes up and intelligence goes down. Ergo drive-by douchery.
  • Lolli1986
    Lolli1986 Posts: 500 Member
    They do it because they feel entitled to behave that way.
  • offthedeependay
    offthedeependay Posts: 435 Member
    I have never done that before,dont know why some guys think this might work?If I like or want to compliment a girl I will walk up to them and say something nice to there face,some guys never grow up..
  • i_love_vinegar
    i_love_vinegar Posts: 2,092 Member
    Peer pressure. Not one of them would do it to you if they were alone. Put them with their friends and their libido goes up and intelligence goes down. Ergo drive-by douchery.

    While that might be so in some cases, I've had plenty of guys do this alone.
  • joeabo
    joeabo Posts: 13 Member
    Its simply because their in the macho social environment and feel the need to show off to their friends. Ive been in the car when someone has done this and i really feel like it was unnecessary. Next time bike with headphones or something so you can ignore those idiots.
  • paisley2288
    paisley2288 Posts: 913 Member
    I literally had a guy in the lane beside me whip out his PENIS while he was driving and WAVE IT AT ME! He leaned up so far I could see the whole thing.



    I called the police.
  • MUByM
    MUByM Posts: 208
    They are pigs! That is why. About a month ago I went walking to the park with my son in his stroller and I was crossing a street and a guy pulled up to the stop and yelled at me "when you gonna let me see more of that *kitten*". I was like what in the hell! I didn't even turn back and he said it again and I ignored it and picked up the pace! I really don't see why they have to be so damn disrespectful!
  • unsuspectingfish
    unsuspectingfish Posts: 1,176 Member
    I've never done anything like THAT, but a cop totally caught me checking him out as I left the grocery store, yesterday. He smiled and winked. I died a little of embarrassment and ran out the door.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    is the worst when Im out running and I have to run past all the construction and work crews in Brooklyn... there are morings when it taks all I have to get out of bed and put on my runnig gear and hit the sidewalk. I mean ALLL my motivation to go out there Im hating myself, feeling fat and bloated and disgusting and then I have to hear the sound (over my iPod) of YO BABY= - KEEP WORKIN DAT *kitten* SO i CAN SLIDE MY FINISH THIS SENTENCE IN YOUR HEAD. I just want to turn around and go home and hide in my bed again. Especially if they yell the classic DAMN THATS A BIG GIRL! (which I know their broken ENglish means tall, now, but BIG- I hate hearing someone scream at me that IM big when Im running- geeze- Im half your friggin size, pops)

    Fortunately, for every lewd bit of words thrown at me, there is some nice man who passes me when Im doing my cool don and whisper, god bless you, good job. I cant even get mad at that and Im agnostic.
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