People hitting on me now?!

Photos or it never happened.

I almost posted one a little bit ago... of just cleavage

Almost only counts in horseshoes and hand grenades.

Some people just have a type, don't take it personally... a person should not be automatically be labeled as "shallow" if they start to show interest as you lose weight, some body types aren't sexually attractive to some people, yknow? I know I wouldn't date a guy who was 300lbs, but if he dropped some weight, hell yeah I'd start to see him as more than just a friend if I started to find him attractive. I wouldn't hit on the 300lb version of him, just because I don't find that look sexually attractive, and I don't think that makes me shallow...

When someone loses weight, they also can become more confident and a happier person, that could be another reason why people are hitting on you now. Just don't assume because someone is interested in you now and wasn't before that they're shallow! Give guys a chance

WTH?! Where were you when I was FAT?! Why didn't you want my booty then??? Now I'm all hot and skinny, and NOW you want to get all up in my kool-aid? psh, people are shallow.

How about, "I would totally be do you if you were fat."

Some people just have a type, don't take it personally... a person should not be automatically be labeled as "shallow" if they start to show interest as you lose weight, some body types aren't sexually attractive to some people, yknow? I know I wouldn't date a guy who was 300lbs, but if he dropped some weight, hell yeah I'd start to see him as more than just a friend if I started to find him attractive. I wouldn't hit on the 300lb version of him, just because I don't find that look sexually attractive, and I don't think that makes me shallow...

When someone loses weight, they also can become more confident and a happier person, that could be another reason why people are hitting on you now. Just don't assume because someone is interested in you now and wasn't before that they're shallow! Give guys a chance

He should like me for me... Not because I look like Leonarda, or the chick that played in fargo, I think her name was Melissa...



that doesn't work as well...

Maybe a guy just wants a girl that looks like she gives a f- about herself. If a guy cares about his own physique, is it so terrible if he expects the same in somebody he'd pursue? I think not? But I suspect the OP should been written in a sarcasm font so that's all I'm going to say.

Shirely you gals jest?

People are very into looks but I bet it feels good to be hit on?!?! I honestly miss feeling like I'm attractive to others.

You are attractive!!!!

Everyone has a "type" that they like and are attracted too. If you are their type now, but you weren't before, it doesn't necessarily mean they are shallow.

Agreed. I do understand the frustration of the original poster. Being 5'10" and, currently, 235 lbs, I can't say that the boys are bangin' down my door. But like it or not to be initially attracted by the physical is how we're wired. And anyway, can you honestly say you ever walked up to some really obese man and said, "Hey guy, I'm going to date you because I'll bet that, even though you weigh 500 lbs and don't take care of yourself in the least. that you have a super-great personality?" I can't, and I don't think I'm particularly shallow.

Yeah and theres a mens fat group that get hit on by normal @zz get to know whats inside you first women. lol

I think I understand.
I need that biology class, now.

Maybe a guy just wants a girl that looks like she gives a f- about herself. If a guy cares about his own physique, is it so terrible if he expects the same in somebody he'd pursue? I think not? But I suspect the OP should been written in a sarcasm font so that's all I'm going to say.

I don't think I used the "sarcastic font" the right way.... *sigh* FAIL! REPORTED!!!

It looks fine on my screen. Must be the settings on their PCs.

Yup yup - hit away (almost starting to think it is a batting cage) Shoot men who would not look my way 8 months ago now go out of their way to talk to me lol

Sounds like momma is getting some here!!

Awww, but its whats on the inside that counts.

Sometimes your attitude does change when you lose weight too, and people do notice your confidence.

But I typically get the opposite. I have had dude ask me why i lost all that weight. "Say girl, why you lose all that weight? You were looking good thick"

Now I just fell in the floor laughing. Holy crap abs are hurtin now.