is it considered flirting?

Parris420
Parris420 Posts: 69
edited December 17 in Chit-Chat
I recently got hired as chef In an italian restaurant.....after meeting everyone I was greeted by a female waitress who shook my hand softly ....after a formal introduction .....she placed.her finger on my left chest muscle like in a soft poking gesture....as she slowly brushed passed and walked.away.....what would u do? how would you react? what do you think I should do the next time we are around each other?
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  • w_i_n_d_y
    w_i_n_d_y Posts: 216 Member
    I'd hit it if I were you.
  • 412HeavyLifter
    412HeavyLifter Posts: 170 Member
    I'd hit it if I were you.

    lmao I was gonna say the same thing!
  • w_i_n_d_y
    w_i_n_d_y Posts: 216 Member
    I'd hit it if I were you.

    lmao I was gonna say the same thing!

    Great minds.....:bigsmile:
  • neverstray
    neverstray Posts: 3,845 Member
    I'd hit it if I were you.

    ^^^^^^^This.
  • Parris420
    Parris420 Posts: 69
    :-D thank yall for being straight forward with me!!!
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    Did you have a piece of lint on your shirt maybe??
  • jplord
    jplord Posts: 510 Member
    "dating" in the workplace can be a dangerous thing. I'd tell her she makes you feel uncomfortable when she does that, then decide if you want to add "...at work." what you do outside the workplace with your spare time is your business.
  • skinnywithin
    skinnywithin Posts: 1,392 Member
    I say return the favor......DO to others as they have done to you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Il_DaniD_lI
    Il_DaniD_lI Posts: 1,593 Member
    I think you're over reacting. It was probably thoughtless on her part..IMO.
  • Parris420
    Parris420 Posts: 69
    Did you have a piece of lint on your shirt maybe??

    ;-) maybe!!!
  • Parris420
    Parris420 Posts: 69
    I think you're over reacting. It was probably thoughtless on her part..IMO.

    true didn't think of it.like that!
  • neverstray
    neverstray Posts: 3,845 Member
    Maybe there's a back room, or in the walk-in fridge? No need to be classy about it.
  • Parris420
    Parris420 Posts: 69
    I say return the favor......DO to others as they have done to you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    :-D sounds nice but they old school italians I don't think that would fly to well!!!
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,162 Member
    should have a made a low purring noise as she went past you
  • Parris420
    Parris420 Posts: 69
    "dating" in the workplace can be a dangerous thing. I'd tell her she makes you feel uncomfortable when she does that, then decide if you want to add "...at work." what you do outside the workplace with your spare time is your business.
    @ first im like that sounds super lame ...then I re read how u put it "at work" ....haha that's pretty smooth...you right business and pleasure don't mix
  • chrishgt4
    chrishgt4 Posts: 1,222 Member
    Without knowing anything else- my guess is she's the workplace flirt who loves to have guys under her control. I've been you in that situation.

    Best thing to do is play it like you aren't bothered about her at all. If you can slip into a conversation how you get on so well, it's like she's your sister...winner winner....make her wonder why you aren't bothered and she'll be onnnn you lol

    If you believe it's a privilege for her to get with you then so will she...
  • Farfourah
    Farfourah Posts: 896 Member
    Bone her.
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    Sounds like flirting to me. I can't speak for all women, but I try to keep my hands off men I'm not interested in. A man who intrigues me ... I'll look for an excuse to touch him, as in "Oh, excuse me. I'm just trying to go over there, and your tall, muscular self is in the way."
  • Parris420
    Parris420 Posts: 69
    Maybe there's a back room, or in the walk-in fridge? No need to be classy about it.

    that would be pretty dope!
    I would come work early and stay late!
  • Parris420
    Parris420 Posts: 69
    should have a made a low purring noise as she went past you

    :-D you outta control!!!
  • HMD7703
    HMD7703 Posts: 761 Member
    I recently got hired as chef In an italian restaurant.....after meeting everyone I was greeted by a female waitress who shook my hand softly ....after a formal introduction .....she placed.her finger on my left chest muscle like in a soft poking gesture....as she slowly brushed passed and walked.away.....what would u do? how would you react? what do you think I should do the next time we are around each other?

    She probably couldnt help herself because you are fine as wine. What to do? I am with the others and say - HIT IT!
  • ColCul
    ColCul Posts: 53
    Sounds like flirting to me. I can't speak for all women, but I try to keep my hands off men I'm not interested in. A man who intrigues me ... I'll look for an excuse to touch him, as in "Oh, excuse me. I'm just trying to go over there, and your tall, muscular self is in the way."


    Oh, oh! I am a touchy-feely sort of girl. I almost always touch someone during a conversation, usually the arm, and am not flirting. I hope I haven't confused people.
  • Pookylou
    Pookylou Posts: 988 Member
    Just walk up to her and lick her face. If she's interested she'll lick back.
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    Y.O.L.O.

    That's your sign!!!

    You only live once that's the motto...

    Ahh Drake.
  • Parris420
    Parris420 Posts: 69
    Without knowing anything else- my guess is she's the workplace flirt who loves to have guys under her control. I've been you in that situation.

    Best thing to do is play it like you aren't bothered about her at all. If you can slip into a conversation how you get on so well, it's like she's your sister...winner winner....make her wonder why you aren't bothered and she'll be onnnn you lol

    If you believe it's a privilege for her to get with you then so will she...

    damnnnn that's real talk you think I would have learned from my previous situations..... that's good game bruh...I will defently use that to my advantage.....my only problem is im not patient...if I see it ....I want it ....I get it ....
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    Wave your hand at her. Chicks dig that.
  • DannyMussels
    DannyMussels Posts: 1,842 Member
    This is the 2nd thread I've read by you, and you're already weirding me out.

    You remind me of that dannylives guy or whatever. Who's gonna out-hunk mfp somehow.
  • LindseySprake
    LindseySprake Posts: 333 Member
    Just walk up to her and lick her face. If she's interested she'll lick back.

    THIS!!!
    Defo do this. hahahahahaha!
  • lik_11
    lik_11 Posts: 433 Member
    Just walk up to her and lick her face. If she's interested she'll lick back.

    disgusting!

    A touch on the arm- harmless. A pec rub... she couldn't keep her hands off you.
  • delilah47
    delilah47 Posts: 1,658
    I see you are young. A good thing! But, take it from an old lady that has had some experience in this area: NEVER, NEVER date (or do anything else naughty) with a co-worker, or especially your boss. End results: one of you will lose your job, at the very least. It is NOT worth it. And if it's with someone who's been there longer than you; it will be YOU (or both of yas) who loses the job. And it definitely won't be your boss.

    Good luck with your career as a chef.
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