Sexual orientation

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  • AmberJslimsAWAY
    AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,339 Member
    "Lololol, I'm gonna post a mildly offensive sexist/homophobic question my brother put to me on the internet instead of telling him he's dumb"

    If someone had posted a similar stereotyping comment about, say, an ethnic minority, people wouldn't be discussing it, they'd be like...eh wtf? (Will not post example because racism isn't as socially acceptable as sexism ;])

    Basically, dinny generalize a whole gender, and suggesting that the straight women who maybe kiss their friends when drunk or enjoy a bit of girl on girl porn are the same as girls that have loving relationships with members of the same sex is a bit degrading to actual bisexual women.

    ETA: Also, the reason bi curious women are seen to be more common than men is because A/It's more acceptable for women to kiss each other so men can perve on them, B/Society judges women on how they look, therefore women judge how other women look (for good or bad), C/Most straight men still see being considered gay a negative thing, and therefore are less likely to say another man is attractive or kiss another guy is less acceptable.

    Also I know it was they OPs brother that said this, but the OP posted it...

    Oh shut up, You're like the only one getting your panties in a twist. Back out of the topic if you don't like it.
  • MiniMichelle
    MiniMichelle Posts: 801 Member
    I think the woman’s body is hot and I have done my share of “experimenting” if that’s what we want to call it… although I wouldn’t call myself “Bi” because I wouldn’t ever have a “relationship” with a woman…
  • sleepytexan
    sleepytexan Posts: 3,138 Member
    We were talking about this in my psych class yesterday. It turns out that it is true. Girls have sexualy placsity and the brain cares more that we get off when we are horny then who gets it off. Thank our ancestors for this. Did you also know that the more older brothers a guy has increases his chances of being gay along with what hormones are present before birth.

    hahahahahahahaha.
  • Farfourah
    Farfourah Posts: 896 Member
    "Lololol, I'm gonna post a mildly offensive sexist/homophobic question my brother put to me on the internet instead of telling him he's dumb"

    If someone had posted a similar stereotyping comment about, say, an ethnic minority, people wouldn't be discussing it, they'd be like...eh wtf? (Will not post example because racism isn't as socially acceptable as sexism ;])

    Basically, dinny generalize a whole gender, and suggesting that the straight women who maybe kiss their friends when drunk or enjoy a bit of girl on girl porn are the same as girls that have loving relationships with members of the same sex is a bit degrading to actual bisexual women.

    ETA: Also, the reason bi curious women are seen to be more common than men is because A/It's more acceptable for women to kiss each other so men can perve on them, B/Society judges women on how they look, therefore women judge how other women look (for good or bad), C/Most straight men still see being considered gay a negative thing, and therefore are less likely to say another man is attractive or kiss another guy is less acceptable.

    Also I know it was they OPs brother that said this, but the OP posted it...

    Oh shut up, You're like the only one getting your panties in a twist. Back out of the topic if you don't like it.

    lulz
  • beccci91
    beccci91 Posts: 213 Member
    mmmm so true,

    I often fantasy about women and have watched girl on girl.

    I would totally do stuff with women, they are so sexy.

    IMO I AM STRAIGHT but I do appreciate the female form
  • cramernh
    cramernh Posts: 3,335 Member
    I was talking to my brother yesterday, and he was talking about this girl in his office that was "bi" and he said "but that doesn't matter because every straight girl is "bi""

    True?

    Nope... I know Im definitely not interested in the same gender at all. Im mad-crazy over my 6'6" neanderthal, grease-monkey, truck drivin' man!
  • jplord
    jplord Posts: 510 Member
    My two cents: Recreational sex is different from a committed relationship. Orientation, for me, refers to your committed partner's gender and your own. Promiscuity (or recreation to be less judgmental) is not your orientation. But I have no clue what I am talking about, either.
  • We were talking about this in my psych class yesterday. It turns out that it is true. Girls have sexualy placsity and the brain cares more that we get off when we are horny then who gets it off. Thank our ancestors for this. Did you also know that the more older brothers a guy has increases his chances of being gay along with what hormones are present before birth.

    Um...i thought someones sexuality was a personal preference?

    I dont think all women are bi at all, i find woman attractive but im married to a male and i dont want to go out and shag every woman i think looks good. I highly doubt what sex your siblings are is going to determine wether you like doodles or not.
  • sexforjaffacakes
    sexforjaffacakes Posts: 1,001 Member
    Oh shut up, You're like the only one getting your panties in a twist. Back out of the topic if you don't like it.

    Haha. I love when people say that on threads. "YOU DISAGREE AND ARE POSSIBLY OFFENDED BY MY POST THEREFORE LEAVE, ONLY PEOPLE THAT LIKE WHAT I HAVE SAID MAY STAY!"
  • Pookylou
    Pookylou Posts: 988 Member
    We were talking about this in my psych class yesterday. It turns out that it is true. Girls have sexualy placsity and the brain cares more that we get off when we are horny then who gets it off. Thank our ancestors for this. Did you also know that the more older brothers a guy has increases his chances of being gay along with what hormones are present before birth.

    Um...i thought someones sexuality was a personal preference?

    I dont think all women are bi at all, i find woman attractive but im married to a male and i dont want to go out and shag every woman i think looks good. I highly doubt what sex your siblings are is going to determine wether you like doodles or not.

    Sexuality is not a personal preference (in the sense of I pick to be gay/straight) IMO it is something you are born with, there is no choosing. Unless of course you choose to deny your real sexuality of course.

    Edit: quick google http://faculty.mckendree.edu/scholars/2001/schilling.htm regarding sexuality and birth order. I remember a documentary John Barrowman did a few years ago into the genetic of sexuality. Very interesting (didn't come to any solid conclusions)
  • dreawest
    dreawest Posts: 208 Member
    haha it's true, girls don't admit it. They "THINK" it's something else. Sometimes if you ask a girl if she's bi she'd tell you no, but then a week later she tells you she had a girlfriend.

    Ask a girl this, "if you where watching an adult film, would you rather watch guy on guy action, or girl on girl action." This was done in a study. No one liked the guy on guy action, everyone liked the girl on girl action. This was tested with both sexes.

    Sexuality is more on a spectrum. Guys are either very straight or very gay, not really in between. Girls fall in to the between category.

    Funny, I totally agree with the spectrum but think its less gender specifc, males and females can fall anywhere on it. I certainly have bi tendencies.

    My biggest point here though (and something I have never shared before) is that I LOVE guy on guy porn.
  • No dont get me wrong!

    I know its not somthing you chose to be, ofcourse. I just mean to say i doubt that because someone has so many brothers they are going to be gay or the fact that its in your genes. It just is and i think telling people that its caused by these things could be a harmful thing.
  • sexforjaffacakes
    sexforjaffacakes Posts: 1,001 Member
    Oh shut up, You're like the only one getting your panties in a twist. Back out of the topic if you don't like it.

    Haha. I love when people say that on threads. "YOU DISAGREE AND ARE POSSIBLY OFFENDED BY MY POST THEREFORE LEAVE, ONLY PEOPLE THAT LIKE WHAT I HAVE SAID MAY STAY!"

    And I was actually meaning some of the comments on the thread rather than the OP
  • sdrawkcabynot
    sdrawkcabynot Posts: 462 Member
    "Lololol, I'm gonna post a mildly offensive sexist/homophobic question my brother put to me on the internet instead of telling him he's dumb"

    If someone had posted a similar stereotyping comment about, say, an ethnic minority, people wouldn't be discussing it, they'd be like...eh wtf? (Will not post example because racism isn't as socially acceptable as sexism ;])

    Basically, dinny generalize a whole gender, and suggesting that the straight women who maybe kiss their friends when drunk or enjoy a bit of girl on girl porn are the same as girls that have loving relationships with members of the same sex is a bit degrading to actual bisexual women.



    .... Seriously?

    Some people are mad at the world :)
  • sdrawkcabynot
    sdrawkcabynot Posts: 462 Member
    haha it's true, girls don't admit it. They "THINK" it's something else. Sometimes if you ask a girl if she's bi she'd tell you no, but then a week later she tells you she had a girlfriend.

    Ask a girl this, "if you where watching an adult film, would you rather watch guy on guy action, or girl on girl action." This was done in a study. No one liked the guy on guy action, everyone liked the girl on girl action. This was tested with both sexes.

    Sexuality is more on a spectrum. Guys are either very straight or very gay, not really in between. Girls fall in to the between category.

    NO one likes guy on guy........???? *whistles, walks off in to sunset*

    Walkin next you off into the sunset. Hahahah.

    *holds hands starts skipping* Even True Blood did it! Bill and Sam, come on that was hot people!

    *wipes sweat off forehead* wasn't it though!
  • Kenzietea2
    Kenzietea2 Posts: 1,132 Member
    haha it's true, girls don't admit it. They "THINK" it's something else. Sometimes if you ask a girl if she's bi she'd tell you no, but then a week later she tells you she had a girlfriend.

    Ask a girl this, "if you where watching an adult film, would you rather watch guy on guy action, or girl on girl action." This was done in a study. No one liked the guy on guy action, everyone liked the girl on girl action. This was tested with both sexes.

    Sexuality is more on a spectrum. Guys are either very straight or very gay, not really in between. Girls fall in to the between category.

    This is wrong. So very wrong.

    The reasoning behind women wanting to watch girl on girl over guy on guy is because it is more sensual and erotic, not because there are two naked women. This was also studied very closely. It does not make them bisexual or even close to it. We are just typically less visual and more erotic/sensual and girl on girl pornography is usually much more sensual, romantic, sexy, etc.

    I do agree that men are typically more black and white when it comes to sexuality and what they're into, but it is not always the case. There are plenty that fall into the in between category.
  • dreawest
    dreawest Posts: 208 Member
    haha it's true, girls don't admit it. They "THINK" it's something else. Sometimes if you ask a girl if she's bi she'd tell you no, but then a week later she tells you she had a girlfriend.

    Ask a girl this, "if you where watching an adult film, would you rather watch guy on guy action, or girl on girl action." This was done in a study. No one liked the guy on guy action, everyone liked the girl on girl action. This was tested with both sexes.

    Sexuality is more on a spectrum. Guys are either very straight or very gay, not really in between. Girls fall in to the between category.

    NO one likes guy on guy........???? *whistles, walks off in to sunset*

    Walkin next you off into the sunset. Hahahah.

    *holds hands starts skipping* Even True Blood did it! Bill and Sam, come on that was hot people!

    I'm tagging along with you guys...

    I am in too.

    I love that there are so many of us.
  • Pookylou
    Pookylou Posts: 988 Member
    haha it's true, girls don't admit it. They "THINK" it's something else. Sometimes if you ask a girl if she's bi she'd tell you no, but then a week later she tells you she had a girlfriend.

    Ask a girl this, "if you where watching an adult film, would you rather watch guy on guy action, or girl on girl action." This was done in a study. No one liked the guy on guy action, everyone liked the girl on girl action. This was tested with both sexes.

    Sexuality is more on a spectrum. Guys are either very straight or very gay, not really in between. Girls fall in to the between category.

    NO one likes guy on guy........???? *whistles, walks off in to sunset*

    Walkin next you off into the sunset. Hahahah.

    *holds hands starts skipping* Even True Blood did it! Bill and Sam, come on that was hot people!

    *wipes sweat off forehead* wasn't it though!

    *pops on dvd* I need to do some ahem scientific research....... I may need some quiet time......
  • AmberJslimsAWAY
    AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,339 Member
    Oh shut up, You're like the only one getting your panties in a twist. Back out of the topic if you don't like it.

    Haha. I love when people say that on threads. "YOU DISAGREE AND ARE POSSIBLY OFFENDED BY MY POST THEREFORE LEAVE, ONLY PEOPLE THAT LIKE WHAT I HAVE SAID MAY STAY!"

    that's not at all what I said. There are tons of people with different views than me, and not exaplinging their points by being really b!tchy in their posts in hopes that SOMEONE might notice them. It's sad that you feel the need to be rude to get your point across, but not everyone thinks like you or agrees with you, so move along now dear.
  • beachgirl10
    beachgirl10 Posts: 54 Member
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  • beachgirl10
    beachgirl10 Posts: 54 Member
    Let me rephrase...

    I think girls are more capable of finding each other's physical attributes attractive than men are with other men. :)

    Doesn't mean every girl would actually bang another girl.


    Well said!
  • DietingMommy08
    DietingMommy08 Posts: 1,345 Member
    haha it's true, girls don't admit it. They "THINK" it's something else. Sometimes if you ask a girl if she's bi she'd tell you no, but then a week later she tells you she had a girlfriend.

    Ask a girl this, "if you where watching an adult film, would you rather watch guy on guy action, or girl on girl action." This was done in a study. No one liked the guy on guy action, everyone liked the girl on girl action. This was tested with both sexes.

    Sexuality is more on a spectrum. Guys are either very straight or very gay, not really in between. Girls fall in to the between category.

    NO one likes guy on guy........???? *whistles, walks off in to sunset*

    Walkin next you off into the sunset. Hahahah.


    I sense a new MFP group.

    Girls who like guys who like guys.

    Oohhh im likin the sound of that. :o)
  • lickmybaconcakes
    lickmybaconcakes Posts: 1,063 Member
    haha it's true, girls don't admit it. They "THINK" it's something else. Sometimes if you ask a girl if she's bi she'd tell you no, but then a week later she tells you she had a girlfriend.

    Ask a girl this, "if you where watching an adult film, would you rather watch guy on guy action, or girl on girl action." This was done in a study. No one liked the guy on guy action, everyone liked the girl on girl action. This was tested with both sexes.

    Sexuality is more on a spectrum. Guys are either very straight or very gay, not really in between. Girls fall in to the between category.

    NO one likes guy on guy........???? *whistles, walks off in to sunset*

    Walkin next you off into the sunset. Hahahah.

    *holds hands starts skipping* Even True Blood did it! Bill and Sam, come on that was hot people!

    *wipes sweat off forehead* wasn't it though!

    What episode was that ?I definately would remember seeing that
  • I am the only girl in a family with four children... and yes, my youngest brother is gay. I honestly think that there is a difference betweeen sex and appreictation for beauty. i also believe that there are many people that do not realize that they are unwilling to even concieve of a homosexual "act" is because it has been ingrained into them that it is wrong. Then there are the people that do it, because they were told it is wrong. And then there are the people that are born to prefer the same sex to the opposite sex. I personally believe that the amount of estrogen or testosterone in a person's body can lead to the way they see sex, the way they view an attractive person, either gender, and that ultimately, everyone is physically capable of choosing what they do and do not act upon. I wouldn't say that all people are "bi" nor would I say that most people fall "in the middle" on the spectrum of sexuality... there are straight people, there are gay people... and then there are people that are up for what life throws at them. Sometimes, it's about being in the moment... not what it "means"...
  • AmberJslimsAWAY
    AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,339 Member
    I am the only girl in a family with four children... and yes, my youngest brother is gay. I honestly think that there is a difference betweeen sex and appreictation for beauty. i also believe that there are many people that do not realize that they are unwilling to even concieve of a homosexual "act" is because it has been ingrained into them that it is wrong. Then there are the people that do it, because they were told it is wrong. And then there are the people that are born to prefer the same sex to the opposite sex. I personally believe that the amount of estrogen or testosterone in a person's body can lead to the way they see sex, the way they view an attractive person, either gender, and that ultimately, everyone is physically capable of choosing what they do and do not act upon. I wouldn't say that all people are "bi" nor would I say that most people fall "in the middle" on the spectrum of sexuality... there are straight people, there are gay people... and then there are people that are up for what life throws at them. Sometimes, it's about being in the moment... not what it "means"...

    Very well put
  • Beezil
    Beezil Posts: 1,677 Member
    I like boobies. :)
  • fatboypup
    fatboypup Posts: 1,873 Member
    everyone is gay, its just to what extent lol
  • sexforjaffacakes
    sexforjaffacakes Posts: 1,001 Member
    Oh shut up, You're like the only one getting your panties in a twist. Back out of the topic if you don't like it.

    Haha. I love when people say that on threads. "YOU DISAGREE AND ARE POSSIBLY OFFENDED BY MY POST THEREFORE LEAVE, ONLY PEOPLE THAT LIKE WHAT I HAVE SAID MAY STAY!"

    that's not at all what I said. There are tons of people with different views than me, and not exaplinging their points by being really b!tchy in their posts in hopes that SOMEONE might notice them. It's sad that you feel the need to be rude to get your point across, but not everyone thinks like you or agrees with you, so move along now dear.

    At what point was I rude? :S Blunt perhaps, not rude. You're rather thin skinned if you think that was rude.
  • LifeOnMars_
    LifeOnMars_ Posts: 720 Member
    I like boobies. :)

    Me too! :)
  • Melissa_Suzanne
    Melissa_Suzanne Posts: 75 Member
    I think its safe to say no. If you take a look at all the previous posts there is a combination of everything including just being "straight" and there is nothing wrong with that. I have not fantasized, experimented or anything like that with a girl and I have never wanted to, I love being married to a man and I think that would make me full out straight.
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