Long Distance Relationship

How do you yall feel about this for it or against?

Eventually someone will need to move, or it's break-up time.

*I started my relationship long distance, and we just got to the point where we didn't want to go a day without being together, so I moved in.

I was in a long distance relationship for 3 years.

We are getting married in 3 weeks

They usually don't workout in the long run, unless one or the other decides to move closer to the other.

But that's just MY opinion, I like having someone to cuddle with, hold hands with.. etc etc. Not just someone to talk on the phone or skype with.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4.5 years. In August he took a big step and is attending Law School in California. We decided that his first year would be incredibly busy and that it would be easier for us to have him live out there and me stay here in Colorado while he attends his first year. But we make it work. Since August I drove out there to help him move then flown back, went out there again in October, we meet up at his moms for Thanksgiving in November, he was out here for winter break in December/January, went out there again at the end of Jaunary, March went to visit him. Now im flying out there again on Sunday to look for OUR new apartment. So I believe if we can survive the first year of Law School, and a long distance relationship anyone can! We talk on the phone at least four to five times a day lol. The best part is it never gets old. We always have something to say, even if it's not a full conversation but a quick hello and I love you. That's enough for us. He calls me when he's headed into class, and calls me just to say good night So yes I am all for long distance!!! But like someone said above there should be talk of a future moving together and so forth Im moving out there next month even though he will be attending an externship in El Paso, which we discussed and I could have gone out there for. But decided it was better to get moved out there and work since I will be transferring. Instead of taking a 2 month leave of absense to be with him in El Paso I will get to see him for 2 weeks when the court system has a summer break. Man I love my man! Wouldnt change it for the world. It has made our relationship a million times better then it already was....Sorry for the long rant! Im just really excited about how him and I made this work. It deffintly takes two to make it work.

It depends on who need each person is. My boyfriend lives an hour and a half away from me. Between his early 4am-10am work schedule, two full days of classes every week and my 8-5 job, we only get to see each other on weekends. IT SUCKS! This week I got sick and he wanted to come comfort me, I wanted him to come take care of me but it just wasn't an option without him missing 4 classes and work. Also, only getting sex two days a week kind of sucks.

5 more weeks until he transfers and we started dating the end of last summer. If it were any longer, I don't know we could make it last.

I had one a long time ago and we made it work by calling each other almost everyday and we saw each other monthly (he lived in Northern Virginia and I lived in Philly). The relationship ended, but it was not related to the distance, but other factors. They can work if both people are willing to work on it.

Im an attention *kitten* and a sexual being....I need constant loving. Wouldn't work on my end

Although this may be true to most of us...let me tell you something. The sex gets so much better!!! When you can't have it as much as your use to or when you want it. OMG Sex is so much more HARDCORE when you do see each other lol

This is so f*cking true.

Since I am military and travel a lot, the ability to maintain a long distance relationshp is a must. Sure, I would rather have someone here with me all the time but that's not realistic until I retire.

I have no problem with long distance relationships as long as we maximize use of technology to keep in touch and constantly re-affirm our affection for one another.

What she said, except I'm not military, just travel a lot.

I've tried it before and it didn't work out. But that was more on her insecurities and trust issues which were far more heightened long distance. But not opposed to doing it again.

For it! thats how I met my husband!

Im an attention *kitten* and a sexual being....I need constant loving. Wouldn't work on my end

Although this may be true to most of us...let me tell you something. The sex gets so much better!!! When you can't have it as much as your use to or when you want it. OMG Sex is so much more HARDCORE when you do see each other lol

This is so f*cking true.

I need me a long distance relationship!!