What do you miss doing for your ex

_binary_jester_
_binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
edited December 2024 in Chit-Chat
Yeah...i know. You can wish that your ex would DIAF, but is there something you miss doing for them?

For example. I miss cooking breakfast for my ex every Sunday. I'd get up early, make the kids something to eat, then cook up breakfast for us in bed. No kids were allowed in the room until we were finished eating. Then normally she could go back to sleep for a while and I would play with the kids. Weird but I miss that.
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  • tig_ol_bitties
    tig_ol_bitties Posts: 561 Member
    I miss the overwhelming joy I got when I kicked him out. Does that count?
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
    I miss the overwhelming joy I got when I kicked him out. Does that count?
    BWHAHAHAHAHAHA! I said for...not to
  • JennaM222
    JennaM222 Posts: 1,996 Member
    Making him a sammich. No really, I did and it made me happy.
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    You are all full of warm fuzzies today. I sort of want to hug you, which is sort of strange, since I'm not a fan of clowns, but I can't quite help it.
    Anyway...
    What I miss doing for him most isn't really fit for the public forums, but it was also nice to have someone appreciate when I cleaned the bathroom so, although I didn't enjoy cleaning the bathroom, I liked how grateful he was when I did it.
  • tig_ol_bitties
    tig_ol_bitties Posts: 561 Member
    I miss the overwhelming joy I got when I kicked him out. Does that count?
    BWHAHAHAHAHAHA! I said for...not to
    Yeah, but I did do it FOR him...it gave him an opportunity to grow the eff up. :laugh:
  • BIGJIMMYU
    BIGJIMMYU Posts: 1,221 Member
    the exhilerating feeling of winning in court.
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  • JoolieW68
    JoolieW68 Posts: 1,879 Member
    Nothing. I miss nothing.
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    I do miss deleting the emails he would send trying to get back in my life.




    Mostly though, anything I might miss doing in a positive light just gets done for my fiancee, who really appreciates me.
  • usedasbrandnew
    usedasbrandnew Posts: 300 Member
    I would have to say cooking for him, and the happy noises he made when eating something delicious...

    Also surprising him with clean clothes or a clean kitchen when it was his turn.

    Also the happy noises that occurred when I did other favors... ;)
  • _Timmeh_
    _Timmeh_ Posts: 2,096 Member
    Packing her clothes in garbage bags and leaving it on the front porch.
  • hikezilla
    hikezilla Posts: 174 Member
    I feel left out....I never had an ex.
  • Ironman2be
    Ironman2be Posts: 140 Member
    Making him a sammich. No really, I did and it made me happy.

    Marry me?
  • BeeElMarvin
    BeeElMarvin Posts: 2,086 Member
    viewing her nekkid pictures for her oh, and donkey punches
  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,644 Member
    I miss the overwhelming joy I got when I kicked him out. Does that count?

    i love you for this and I dont even know you.

    He did make me laugh, mostly because he was a moron...but occaisonally it was intentional.
  • xraylady33
    xraylady33 Posts: 222 Member
    I miss the overwhelming joy I got when I kicked him out. Does that count?

    HOO RAH
  • KnottyJen
    KnottyJen Posts: 1,070 Member
    Nothing. I miss nothing.

    Exactly. Not a damn thing.

    And Bee - she was quite the lucky lady. ;-)
  • Microfiber_wechange
    Microfiber_wechange Posts: 640
    My ex was a complete toe-rag
  • atlantapiper
    atlantapiper Posts: 133 Member
    For Ex--nothing, zippo, zilch....I love my 'new' (now almost 7 years) hubby so much more and love doing everything for him, everything!!! He's the best ever....
  • sofitheteacup
    sofitheteacup Posts: 396 Member
    I would have to say cooking for him...
    Also the happy noises that occurred when I did other favors... ;)

    Yes, those things. Cooking for my guy has always been something I enjoy doing. But I never felt like he did anything to make me happy. Eventually being happy to do things for him wasn't enough to keep me happy.
  • secretlobster
    secretlobster Posts: 3,566 Member
    I really miss waking up in the middle of the night and finding him chatting online with his little sister's friend, bonding over Jewel song lyrics
  • Micheetah
    Micheetah Posts: 184 Member
    viewing her nekkid pictures for her oh, and donkey punches

    LMAO... I dont miss doing anything for my ex.. but if my bf now became an ex I would miss cooking for him
  • Pipergirl2
    Pipergirl2 Posts: 25
    Letting him know how stupid he was...now I have to be nice because of the children.
  • hiker282
    hiker282 Posts: 983 Member
    Having it be appreciated when I would buy flowers. I never buy them for myself and sometimes they're just nice to have around, even if it's only the time between the time I buy them and I gave them to her. Also post it notes left in inconspicuous places for her to find whenever so she'd know I was thinking of her.
  • tomomatic
    tomomatic Posts: 1,794 Member
    Passing notes to her in class. Wow... that was a long time ago.
  • Trail_Addict
    Trail_Addict Posts: 1,340 Member
    I definitely don't sense any bitterness in this thread. :laugh:
  • supermom2002
    supermom2002 Posts: 180 Member
    ex husband....absolutely NOTHING. I don't miss bailing him out when the bar fight in Hawaii got out of control...i don't miss paying all the bills after he cleared out his account...i don't miss paying all the legal expenses during our divorce...

    some of my ex boyfriends however...there's one thing in particular i miss doing FOR them...but i'll be banned from the forums if i say what that is...
  • JennieAL
    JennieAL Posts: 1,726 Member
    Making him laugh.
  • barongaston
    barongaston Posts: 109
    Making her laugh, she had a wonderful laugh that alays ended with a smile that would make me forget all ills.
  • HarleyQuinn_12
    HarleyQuinn_12 Posts: 363 Member
    Having it be appreciated when I would buy flowers. I never buy them for myself and sometimes they're just nice to have around, even if it's only the time between the time I buy them and I gave them to her. Also post it notes left in inconspicuous places for her to find whenever so she'd know I was thinking of her.

    @Hiker282
    WOW....now you are an awesome guy! How sweet is that?
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