worst comment ever made about your weight

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  • jagar07
    jagar07 Posts: 330 Member
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    my dad was always on my case growing up, as was my brother. But it was a family friend tht made a comment that just stuck. She was leaning on me and said I was so comfortable because of how soft and squishy I was .....never was a good friend, but I will never forget that
  • mccarol1956
    mccarol1956 Posts: 422 Member
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    MOOOOOOO!!!

    Your A.. is so wide you could drive a tractor trailer through it.
  • SinkTheBismarck
    SinkTheBismarck Posts: 133
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    I also get one every time I shop for clothes. I'm so sick that every time I choose something the ladies ask "did it fit?" instead of "did you like it?"
  • DawnVanSlim
    DawnVanSlim Posts: 10,471
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    My sister who has always been much heavier then me, told me one day after I had my second kid. She said" I always thought I would be happy when you finally got fat, but now that you are I don't feel as good as I thought I would about it". All I could do was laugh and say "gee thanks!"
  • NicolettetheGreek
    NicolettetheGreek Posts: 246 Member
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    It's a toss up, both family members actually.

    Ten days after having my 2nd son we drove 7 hours to surprise my Granny on her 80th birthday. As soon as my mom saw me she gave me a big hug, held me at arm's length and said "Wow, you sure packed on the pounds didn't you?!"

    and

    One day I was changing clothes and my husband walked in. His words: "Damn baby, you used to look good, what happened?"
    I gave birth to 4 of your children, that's what!!
    ^ ^ ^ ^

    Yeah, my hubbie was the one who said "you're not pretty, you're big." As I stand in amazement looking at HIS pregger's belly, ripe to give up twin's at any moment.
  • alsilecchia
    alsilecchia Posts: 27
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    "You have such a pretty face."

    Oh is that not the worse ...uuugghh !!!
  • CMB1979
    CMB1979 Posts: 588 Member
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    "Why not just kill yourself, you fat ugly troll."
  • Squidgeypaws007
    Squidgeypaws007 Posts: 1,012 Member
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    My mother-in-law once "banned" me from the garden swing saying I was too fat and I'd break it by sitting on it.


    Charming eh.
  • GetFitE
    GetFitE Posts: 247 Member
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    my dad was always on my case growing up, as was my brother. But it was a family friend tht made a comment that just stuck. She was leaning on me and said I was so comfortable because of how soft and squishy I was .....never was a good friend, but I will never forget that

    I used to get the squishy comments too!
  • mmstgr
    mmstgr Posts: 578 Member
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    An elderly lady that lives across the street from my inlaws asked them when I was due again. But the worst part is that my father in law TOLD ME she had said this. He didn't have to tell me that :( I know she's a nasty old lady, but I thought it would have been nicer for him to not even mention it to me.
  • Claire594
    Claire594 Posts: 357 Member
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    I reversed a work car into the door of another work car denting the door slightly and had to confess to my boss and another colleague said (jokingly) just tell him you leaned against it.
  • NicolettetheGreek
    NicolettetheGreek Posts: 246 Member
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    "Why not just kill yourself, you fat ugly troll."

    Oh. My. Gosh. That is just too mean. Horrible manners. I would have been tempted to hit them. But probably would have prayed for them instead. So, So, sorry. That was inexcusable.
  • Bankerbob67
    Bankerbob67 Posts: 3 Member
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    I don't know how people can be so judgmental. What are they some God's gift? The only reason a person would make a comment like that is most likely due to inadequacies they feel about themselves. We’re all unique, that makes us irreplaceable. When one of us leaves this earth, it has an impact on those who know and love us. If you can, when someone makes such a comment, maybe you can say to yourself, “what an asshole”. Brush it off and keep on doing what you are doing to make yourself healthy and to live a good life. Those who love you will really appreciate your doing just that.:wink:
  • kiminikimkim
    kiminikimkim Posts: 746 Member
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    I'm sorry this happened to you:(

    He is an angry *kitten*. *kitten* have no rhyme or reason to their stupidity.

    I met someone like that and he went a step further and squeezed my butt as I walked by. I was too much of a coward to do anything but ignore what had happened and walked away. Felt violated.
  • NicolettetheGreek
    NicolettetheGreek Posts: 246 Member
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    I reversed a work car into the door of another work car denting the door slightly and had to confess to my boss and another colleague said (jokingly) just tell him you leaned against it.

    Coworker eh? They might have had a slight flat tire or two..just kidding.
  • KansasRain
    KansasRain Posts: 65
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    my by brothers and kids at school and my sisters

    Shamoo the beached whale, fat *kitten*, hippo, it, parade balloon, fatty mcfatterson, beluga whale, killer whale.

    "you would have such a hot body if you lost 3 people"

    "your so fat it takes every sheep in the world to make one sleeve of your shirts"

    pretty much every version of the "your so fat" jokes

    "thats not my sister, its just the fatass that ate her"

    " you cant eat that because the other kids will starve, you can have whats left when everyone else is done."

    "my mom says we dont have enough food to feed you dinner, so your not allowed to come over"

    "you have 2 gym classes this year because your father says your over weight"

    all of these were from when i was in middle-high school, the most i had weighed back then was 165 at 5'6. i was in a size 9 i didn't think i was that big, but due to all the negative stuff i ended up getting bigger and bigger.
  • babytmarie27
    babytmarie27 Posts: 161
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    Are you pregnant?....I just laugh it off and say, no this is my cheesburger bump :) wanna rub it?b:happy:
  • mrsbarz
    mrsbarz Posts: 99 Member
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    I am a wheelchair user now due to mistakes made by a specialist when I was 2 years old. The mistake has left me with arthritis in nearly all my joints, degenerative spinal disease, calcification of the ligaments, bone structure breaking down in both my legs - all of which means I'm not as moblie as I should be. I once went to see the doctor so I could have my meds. It wasn't my normal doctor and she told me that I was overweight (no? really?) and that I should exercise more (I'm disabled, not lazy). She suggested I take an exercise class. After I stopped laughing, I asked if she wanted to sign me off work sick for the next 6 weeks!
  • patriot201
    patriot201 Posts: 117 Member
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    I've gotten that "Did it fit?" one, too. :(

    Perhaps that is because I have no clue what size I wear, though? I am a 34-24-36, which apparently means I am a size 0-2 at some stores, a 4-6 at others, an 8 at others, and a 12 in pattern sizes (so anything I make for myself). Size 0-12? Seriously?


    I wish I could get my hips down to a 32-34, but that doesn't seem to ever change. Even when I was WAY under 100 pounds, I still had 34-inch hips.
  • CMB1979
    CMB1979 Posts: 588 Member
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    "Why not just kill yourself, you fat ugly troll."

    Oh. My. Gosh. That is just too mean. Horrible manners. I would have been tempted to hit them. But probably would have prayed for them instead. So, So, sorry. That was inexcusable.

    Yeah... worse part is that this was on an online dating website. It came out of the blue from a total stranger and when I read it, my heart skipped a few beats.

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