guys on fake boobs...ya or no?

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  • tinabell153
    tinabell153 Posts: 292 Member
    My boobs are two different sizes. One 34B and one A. My guy is a boob guy too and I really don't want to lose weight because I know my boobs will go first. I thought about implants and asked him about it and he isn't apposed, but he thinks I'm fine the way I am. My boobs are perky, round and never get in the way! I don't think I want to go larger... I don't think I want attention for having bigger boobs either. I want guys to fall in love with my personality, not my breasts.
  • cynthiaj777
    cynthiaj777 Posts: 787 Member
    What about a women who has a breast change? Like a lift, reduction? Does that get the same disgust from guys? Technically they aren't "natural," but there's nothing in them that's fake either.....how do guys feel about that?
  • TinkrBelz
    TinkrBelz Posts: 866 Member
    Wow...they feel like plastic or water balloons???

    I breastfed 6 kids. 14 months - 2.5 years. Went from A to DD 6 times. They were destroyed. I did not care that they were small. Small fits my athletic figure, but my boobs did NOT go back to my cute perky pre-baby As. They looked and felt awful!

    So, I got silicone implants 5 months ago. They look and feel very natural. Now, I will admit, they are large and a girl my size might not have my size naturally, but I can wear a normal bra and they look natural or I can push them up and make them look super fake.

    If I had only done a lift, I would have had small breasts with scar around the nipple, down the middle of the breast, and underneath the breast. I got implants with no lift, and the only scar that I have is a tiny line in my crease. No scars around my nipple or down the breast.

    They do feel very natural. I will admit at how surprised I was at how the feel. They do not feel like a bag of water or plastic!

    I did not get them for my DH, he is an *kitten* man, and I have that department covered naturally! But, I did it for myself. I wanted to repair what was damaged from having and breastfeeding 6 kids.

    And to the men that are saying No, just wait until your wife has babies and things change and your wife wears a sports bra during sex! Not all women get implants after babies, but a good portion of women change their viewpoint about implants after babies.

    I do not care if people know or what they think. I breastfed 6 kids! My little boobies served their purpose, now I want them for fun!!!
  • ReverendJim
    ReverendJim Posts: 260 Member
    I'm not a boob man either way but natural is always better. But, of course, I do notice and appreciate them, heh heh... :)
  • I might be in the minority but, I think it is important to be concerned about what the other sex is thinking about your appearance. If I didn't care what women thought, I wouldn't even bother shaving or putting on deodorant. In stead, I like to workout, keep thin, and dress sharp and i expect my partner to do the same. Personally, I would love to see more women laughing at guys and telling them they are fat, lazy and slovenly. We really need it. I think women expect too little of us men.

    As far as the breast question, I think it is a matter of proportion. My ex-wife was 6' with size D and looked awesome. When she turned vegan, her breasts deflated to size B!! This will sound F--ked up, but I didn't like to even look at them because they looked like fingers hanging off her chest. It wasn't a deal killer and she had a lot of really good qualities, but it did bother me somewhat. Natural large breasts are better for obvious reasons, but implants work fine too. It should be proportional. I have recently seen a couple of older white women (late forties) who were skinny, but had these huge, DD knockers. It looked ridiculous and fake, too! Your breasts shouldn't be twice the size of your rump. If you are thin, I think a size C should suffice. You can always throw in a gel pad in case you want to impress the guys at the bowling alley!!
  • grex1949
    grex1949 Posts: 125 Member
    NO, with the exception of reconstructive surgery following radical mastectomy.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    Wow...they feel like plastic or water balloons???

    I breastfed 6 kids. 14 months - 2.5 years. Went from A to DD 6 times. They were destroyed. I did not care that they were small. Small fits my athletic figure, but my boobs did NOT go back to my cute perky pre-baby As. They looked and felt awful!

    So, I got silicone implants 5 months ago. They look and feel very natural. Now, I will admit, they are large and a girl my size might not have my size naturally, but I can wear a normal bra and they look natural or I can push them up and make them look super fake.

    If I had only done a lift, I would have had small breasts with scar around the nipple, down the middle of the breast, and underneath the breast. I got implants with no lift, and the only scar that I have is a tiny line in my crease. No scars around my nipple or down the breast.

    They do feel very natural. I will admit at how surprised I was at how the feel. They do not feel like a bag of water or plastic!

    I did not get them for my DH, he is an *kitten* man, and I have that department covered naturally! But, I did it for myself. I wanted to repair what was damaged from having and breastfeeding 6 kids.

    And to the men that are saying No, just wait until your wife has babies and things change and your wife wears a sports bra during sex! Not all women get implants after babies, but a good portion of women change their viewpoint about implants after babies.

    I do not care if people know or what they think. I breastfed 6 kids! My little boobies served their purpose, now I want them for fun!!!

    My favorite response.
  • beagle72
    beagle72 Posts: 3 Member
    The most important thing to me is the happiness of the person I am with. If they are happy, then so am I (generally).

    It's your body and you need to be comfortable with it. Every man is attracted to different things, but I think a happy, positive person is almost universally attractive.

    Good luck with whatever you decide
  • Bankman1989
    Bankman1989 Posts: 1,116 Member
    Fake boobies are fine if they are needed. If a woman feels like it will enhance her look then i am for it. Ive known women (including ex wife) who have received them and after some complications now have enjoyed them for years. I also have a friend who recently had a breast reduction. She was a 36DD but is smaller framed 5'6 130 and a 36C she is able to buy better fitting clothes. After seeing and touching them this weekend I actually see why she had them reduced. They were nice before but they are like a 20 year old boobs now..
  • HMD7703
    HMD7703 Posts: 761 Member
    I don't know why women seem to think that big boobs heighten self esteem,

    Welp.. that's because YOU ARE NOT A WOMAN! Losing weight, breast feeding, etc can leave a woman with NO boob and tons of skin. That is going to boost my self esteem? Think again hun. Why do you think Breast Cancer is SOOOO scary to us women? Breast and Vags are what separate us. While some women are beautiful with small / no breast, having them then losing them (for whatever reason - cancer, weight loss etc) can leave a woman feeling horrible. Granted, surgery is not for everyone, but why does it bother some people so much if they are real or implants?!


    Please people.... quit judging. It does not matter what reason a woman has to get enhanced... it is her body. Just like coloring your hair, whitening teeth, tanning, losing weight... it is all to make you feel better about yourself.
  • Sh0ewh0re7_BlingItOn
    Sh0ewh0re7_BlingItOn Posts: 501 Member
    ^^^ HAHAHAH, TINK, you are hilarious!
  • gingerlynnlove
    gingerlynnlove Posts: 82 Member
    A man told me once that plastic girls were fun to play with once in a while but not fun to marry.......

    My husband gets turned off by fake boobs, even with porn stars. He likes it natural, the way God mad you.

    What is this supposed to mean? Mine are fake, so I'm fun to play with, but not fun to marry? That's a pretty bold comment, livinginwoods. I'm not really sure what you're insinuating, perhaps that since you consider us "plastic" that we're dumb? I'll have you know that I'm 26 years old, have both my Bachelor's and Master's degree, and have always graduated with high honors. I am now a professional in an academic department at a University. So, I would really appreciate it if you didn't make such bold comments, as if we're all fake bimbos! Also, I'll be getting married in several months to a guy I've dated for 5 years, so I consider myself fun to marry :) I've only had mine done for the last year and a half, so I know he loves me for me haha! We all have different reasons as to why we did it, so don't judge! WHO CARES if they're fake or real!


    BOOM! Exactly!


    Thats what I am talking about TINK!
  • lickmybaconcakes
    lickmybaconcakes Posts: 1,063 Member
    ive lately been seeing alot of post on boobs" "should i get them or not" and such...so guys what do you like...fake or real...or maybe just a particular size? A? B? D? lets hear this im soo interested by this b.c it seems the girls with big fake tits get more attention but then guys say "oh i dont care for them" lol soo confusing

    Well I would prefer them to be real but I wouldn't mind If they were fake either , I am one of these strange men that is not affected by the size of your breasts in terms of how much attention I am going to give to you.
  • kimi233
    kimi233 Posts: 271 Member
    Exactly the reason I still haven't gotten them... too scared I'll loose the sensitivity. I love the look of big boobs, heck I stare at women more than my husband does, but I can't risk giving up what my girls can do for me. :wink:

    You really won't lose feeling, or at least i didn't and everyone i know hasnt. unless you go through the nipple but that looks gross once it heals i've heard.

    Couldn't even imagine going through the nipple, yuck. Good to know, thank you, I've just heard you can loose sensitivity and that scared me enough. I've been really considering it though now that I'm done having babies.
  • Changing__Christina
    Changing__Christina Posts: 245 Member
    I want fake boobs! I have big ones, so it isn't about size. I want them a bit more perky. Big boobs aren't usually that appealing after your 20s. I just want them to look a bit nicer. But, I will live without fake boobs unless I find a sugar daddy! LOL
  • mikda999
    mikda999 Posts: 41 Member
    Wow...they feel like plastic or water balloons???

    I breastfed 6 kids. 14 months - 2.5 years. Went from A to DD 6 times. They were destroyed. I did not care that they were small. Small fits my athletic figure, but my boobs did NOT go back to my cute perky pre-baby As. They looked and felt awful!

    So, I got silicone implants 5 months ago. They look and feel very natural. Now, I will admit, they are large and a girl my size might not have my size naturally, but I can wear a normal bra and they look natural or I can push them up and make them look super fake.

    If I had only done a lift, I would have had small breasts with scar around the nipple, down the middle of the breast, and underneath the breast. I got implants with no lift, and the only scar that I have is a tiny line in my crease. No scars around my nipple or down the breast.

    They do feel very natural. I will admit at how surprised I was at how the feel. They do not feel like a bag of water or plastic!

    I did not get them for my DH, he is an *kitten* man, and I have that department covered naturally! But, I did it for myself. I wanted to repair what was damaged from having and breastfeeding 6 kids.

    And to the men that are saying No, just wait until your wife has babies and things change and your wife wears a sports bra during sex! Not all women get implants after babies, but a good portion of women change their viewpoint about implants after babies.

    I do not care if people know or what they think. I breastfed 6 kids! My little boobies served their purpose, now I want them for fun!!!

    That is awesome! I know I changed my viewpoint!!!

    Mine are flat and floppy after bfing 2 babies. It's gross and I don't want to think about what they'll look like after I lose weight. Ugg. I'm tired of looking for a bra that can lift and shape them. I've done the all natural thing for my kids now it's my turn to have fun again!
  • tquig
    tquig Posts: 176 Member
    If I wanted to play with plastic I'd buy a Barbie doll.

    Only fake on the inside... [wife hates it when I say that].

    Seriously though, nice to look at I guess, but as the significant other, I wouldn't want the maintenance headache to go with them, i.e. long-term, repeatitive surguries to keep them "fresh".
  • Maude_Lewbowski
    Maude_Lewbowski Posts: 395 Member
    As mentioned on an earlier thread last week; fake boobs are for strippers and ProWrestlers. So where does that leave me? A full scholarship athlete who has worked in Institutional Asset Management for 15 years and is studying for the Hedge Fund Exam. ( I am SOOOOOOO plastic and stupid, I know!)

    I'll have to save the ProStripping Wrestling circuit for the weekends. You know, in my spare time.

    Get a grip people. Live and let live.
  • Maude_Lewbowski
    Maude_Lewbowski Posts: 395 Member
    If I wanted to play with plastic I'd buy a Barbie doll.

    Ignorant.
  • HMD7703
    HMD7703 Posts: 761 Member
    If I wanted to play with plastic I'd buy a Barbie doll.

    Ignorant.

    ^^ This!
  • Masachapa
    Masachapa Posts: 79
    A man told me once that plastic girls were fun to play with once in a while but not fun to marry.......

    My husband gets turned off by fake boobs, even with porn stars. He likes it natural, the way God mad you.

    What is this supposed to mean? Mine are fake, so I'm fun to play with, but not fun to marry? That's a pretty bold comment, livinginwoods. I'm not really sure what you're insinuating, perhaps that since you consider us "plastic" that we're dumb? I'll have you know that I'm 26 years old, have both my Bachelor's and Master's degree, and have always graduated with high honors. I am now a professional in an academic department at a University. So, I would really appreciate it if you didn't make such bold comments, as if we're all fake bimbos! Also, I'll be getting married in several months to a guy I've dated for 5 years, so I consider myself fun to marry :) I've only had mine done for the last year and a half, so I know he loves me for me haha! We all have different reasons as to why we did it, so don't judge! WHO CARES if they're fake or real!

    Way to go, Leslie!! Don't listen to the background chatter.
  • CADreaming09
    CADreaming09 Posts: 269 Member
    Mine are fake but are under the muscle and look and feel real except for being symmetrical (which most real boobs arent). i went from a 32B to a 32DD and i love them. i think the only times fake boobs look bad is if its over the muscle, or if there is a big gap in between them.

    Did you get silicone or saline?
  • Tiggerrick
    Tiggerrick Posts: 1,078 Member
    For me - If I get to play with them, I don't care fake or not.:wink:

    Give a guy the option to play with fake boobs or no boobs... 98% are going to play with the fake boobs, even if they have said they would not.

    Two of my exes have had fake boobs. One very large, one more moderate. Though I like the more natural look, I appreciated both, and I would never tell a woman to not have it done if that's what they wanted. However, because I've seen first hand the results of implants, quality of work is very important. So I'd suggest a thorough research of the doctor doing the work, including recent cases/results.
  • SkinnieFinnie
    SkinnieFinnie Posts: 145 Member
    LOL! Guys like boobs.. period. They don't care if they're real or fake. A boob is a boob is a boob.. LMAO! (Probably as long as they're not touching the floor)
  • LuckyAng
    LuckyAng Posts: 1,173 Member
    Everyone needs to feel comfortable in their skin, and if that means they choose surgery to feel good in said skin then so be it. I am top heavy, and I want a reduction. That's still going under the knife and altering my body, so does it really make me any different than someone who'd have something added instead of removed? Your body isn't there to make someone else happy, it's for you. You have to live with it, so who cares what someone else thinks?
  • jwaitman
    jwaitman Posts: 367 Member
    I think men are going to look whether fake or real. They are men and most of them enjoy boobs, even if they are *kitten* men. Even as women I think when we see a woman out and about with a huge set of boobs we look too. I even point them out to my husband.

    :laugh:
  • TinkrBelz
    TinkrBelz Posts: 866 Member
    Mine are fake but are under the muscle and look and feel real except for being symmetrical (which most real boobs arent). i went from a 32B to a 32DD and i love them. i think the only times fake boobs look bad is if its over the muscle, or if there is a big gap in between them.

    Over the muscle can get a bad rap of looking overly fake. Mine are over the muscle. My PS said that would be best for my body. I love the results. I have seen Under the muscle implants that look bad too.

    I think a lot depends on the surgeon. If you have a good surgeon, he/she will give you good results whether they are silicone/saline, over muscle/under muscle. You really need to do a lot of research and a lot of research on your plastic surgeon.

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    Before kids, I could have rocked this dress with my cute tiny boobs!!! But, after nursing 6 kids, I look a lot better in this dress now with implants!!
  • joeygirl84
    joeygirl84 Posts: 224 Member
    Be happy with the boobs God gave you. If they explode you'll wish you wouldn't have gotten them ; ) hehe
  • catherine4211
    catherine4211 Posts: 944 Member
    If I wanted to play with plastic I'd buy a Barbie doll.

    Total BS. I have implants and they feel VERY natural.
  • AlSalzman
    AlSalzman Posts: 296 Member
    You're playing with boobs, and you're complaining about the feel or the look or the lack of nipple sensitivity? Dude... YOU'RE PLAYING WITH BOOBS! Shut up already and play with teh boobs!

    Buncha f'in' boob connoisseurs in here? Like you're the f'in' Boobie Gourmet or something?

    Shut up and motorboat!