would you tattoo....?

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  • ivansmomma
    ivansmomma Posts: 500
    Guess I just killed another forum. Sorry. :(
  • OMGLeigh
    OMGLeigh Posts: 236
    You'll know your husband better than we will.
    My man would give me really strange looks if I got a tattoo with his name or image. Like, REALLY strange looks, probably ask me why in the world I'd do such a thing. Maybe worry that I'm going to kill him in his sleep or something.
  • HelloSweetie4
    HelloSweetie4 Posts: 1,214 Member
    I wont get my husbands name or anniversary, but i do have a tattoo of the two nick names he calls me on my hip. I am very much in love with him, but both of us agree that getting names of spouse's isn't the best idea. I do plan to get my children's names tattooed on me (or at least their initials), when I have children.
  • bluefox9er
    bluefox9er Posts: 2,917 Member
    Tribal print tats remind me of wallet chains that you can never ever ever take off...
  • will010574
    will010574 Posts: 761 Member
    Kids yes spouse no!
  • MLgarcia3
    MLgarcia3 Posts: 503
    We got eachother's initials a few years back..
  • amylynn96
    amylynn96 Posts: 114 Member
    my son is named after my husband, a jr. so i got their intitals, i prolly wouldnt have done it if it was only my husbands. but i got lucky my tattoo for my 2 favorite boys<3
  • My husband and I wanted to get tattoos that would mean something to us both so we got matching turtles with my favorite flower in the middle. We are slow with making decisions and "turtle" into everything so it was perfect for us. Im supersticious about the names too though.
  • did the hubby's name in 1995 we separated in 1997 got it covered up in 1999 and we are still together but i believe in the superstitions. The only names i have are my children's i would get something to symbolize before i would ever get a name though like my son has a turtle with his initials and birthday worked into it and my daughter has a fairy on a flower with her initials worked into it. But to each his own.
  • LovingLisa2012
    LovingLisa2012 Posts: 775 Member
    i wouldn't get the name but a symbol yes

    my plan is once i lose 100 pounds i am getting an alligator on my leg
    1. when i met my husband his name was "gatordude"
    2. he is really into Florida gators ( i have 2 dogs Florida & Gator
    3. gators are really awesome
    4. alligators also represents where i have lived most my life ( Louisiana)

    then end..lol
  • GoldenGirl1979
    GoldenGirl1979 Posts: 716 Member
    my husband has my name tattooed on his chest :heart:
  • PapaverSomniferum
    PapaverSomniferum Posts: 2,670 Member
    i'd like to tattoo my boyfriend's face on my *kitten*

    because he's preeeeeeeeeety
  • glowbuggy
    glowbuggy Posts: 50 Member
    I agree. I want to add my husband to the one I currently have, a large sunflower with my daughters names around it. My husband and I have been together for almost 20 years, that includes dateing time :smile: , and I want to add his name. In my mind we have shared so much and he is the father of my wonderful daughters, that I want his name on. But he is against it. Worried that I might regret it sometime... if I do I do, but after almost 20 years.. i think it should be there...
  • Jen32285
    Jen32285 Posts: 281 Member
    Nope. I love tattoos, but there is no way i'd tattoo something on my body for a spouse.
  • Bentley2718
    Bentley2718 Posts: 1,689 Member
    Hell and no, unless they are dead. In my book, the only truly safe names to have tattooed on you are your children, on the logic that you pretty much love your kids no matter what (especially if you're the type of person to get their names tattooed on you in the first place). After that, I think that people you were close to (parents, siblings, good friends) are safe only once they're dead. It's possible you'll find out something about them that makes you regret it after they're dead, but it's less likely (and you can't have a falling out with a dead person, so you're good to go there).
  • LilynEdensmom
    LilynEdensmom Posts: 612 Member
    Never tattoo a lovers name...

    Children..ok..

    but never a partner..

    I very much disagree. Even if it were to go bad, its still a great story and can always be modified. FOr me I dont have to worry abotu that

    Thats the way I feel. I have my husband name on my neck, he has mine as well. I don't buy the superstition about it. And even if things didn't work out, we have been off and on since we were 13, we are almost 32 now...We have an amazing story and bond..and he will always be a part of my life no matter what.
  • 20believe12
    20believe12 Posts: 6 Member
    When people ask me why I don’t have any tattoos, I ask them “Would you put a bumper sticker on a Ferrari?”
  • jrhodges20
    jrhodges20 Posts: 103 Member
    I would never tattoo my significant other's name on myself...Thought about it once, and am so glad I ddin't. Symbols are great, but like others have said tattoos are permanent...not people. I did get a Celtic cross with my grandfather's initials on my arm as he meant the world to me. The only other names on my tattoos are those of my two mustangs that both changed my life.
  • Rjdj3530
    Rjdj3530 Posts: 154
    We have tossed the name thing around. The husband mainly wanted to get my name. We did go ahead a couple years ago and get the Cancer symbol tattooed on the back of our right shoulders. It kind of looks like 69 sideways. Our birthdays are 9 days apart. We may still do the name thing one day.

    I have also been told "bad luck" to get SOs name.
  • branflake6
    branflake6 Posts: 115
    I have my fiances name and my kids names tattoo'd on me. I disagree that it is bad luck. I've been with my fiance over 6 yrs we've been engaged for almost a year and are saving for a wedding, neither one of us is going anywhere. I know quite a few long lasting relationships where the couple have each others names tat'd on them
  • 67Maureen
    67Maureen Posts: 37 Member
    Never a lover. Only your kids or parents. My son has his father's and my name tattooed in a cross
  • Caro1991
    Caro1991 Posts: 97
    So i was wondering if you have a tattoo of the name of your spouse or what are yall thoughts about it? If not name, maybe a picture or something that symbolizes them. For example my spouse loves jordans and i was thinking of getting the jump man insted of his name.

    wow, seriously?

    You would put MICHAEL JORDAN'S logo on your body? for someone else?

    The only person I'd ever tattoo anything for is my Mom. And even then, it's a debate.
    Qell for one i like jordans as well, two i have 2 kids with him, and 3 when my dad past away my mom didnt want me to get his name or hers on me so am not. I am however going to get my babies name with a toy they like. Thanks for your opinion
  • Scorpioangel
    Scorpioangel Posts: 951 Member
    I personally would not but I have seen people who have and they look great :)
  • Caro1991
    Caro1991 Posts: 97
    to those afraid of getting a lover's name tattooed on u...i would say you're afraid of committment
    I love all your opinions and your right with this one i mean its different that someone goes out with someone for 3months and they.get each others name to having kids with them or being married for them for so long. Thanks
  • Caro1991
    Caro1991 Posts: 97
    I have vines and flowers of all our birthstones on my back (I have 6 kids, so lots of flowers). DH was going to get my name tattoo on him along with kids' names...but that would be a huge laundry list, so he did a cross with Psalms 127:5 to represent all of the kids. When he wanted to put my name I was like NOOOOO!!! haha! He says he still wants my name on him...so I will let him! ;)
    aww lol :) yeah let him, if he wants it, its for a reason. Different story if the girl bugs a guy to get her name :)
  • Caro1991
    Caro1991 Posts: 97
    I know a guy who gets all his girlfriends names tattooed on him and has about 7 of them, the new girls name is there but all the others have a cross out line through them lol
    Lol i would of done that if i was a guy. Thanks for sharing
  • coachblt
    coachblt Posts: 1,090
    Obviously, the question is: Would you?

    I don't have any tats, nor will I ever get one. But you are the only one who can answer the question for you. Are you making your decision based on the opinions here? What is the consensus?
  • ivansmomma
    ivansmomma Posts: 500
    Whew, I didn't kill the board!! I do not agree with superstitions at all. As I said, my husband and I have been married for 32 years and together for 34. I am proud and honored to have his name, and our daughter's name on my arm. As so many have said, and I totally agree - it is a personal decision. All of my tattoos have meaning, and that's the only reason I have my four.
  • AmberJslimsAWAY
    AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,339 Member
    I had his name... Then we got divorced. Now I have a giant black gecko on my butt to cover it! DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!
  • krystonite
    krystonite Posts: 553 Member
    to those afraid of getting a lover's name tattooed on u...i would say you're afraid of committment

    With a divorce rate of 1 in 2 marriages, I would say that's accurate.
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