what makes a man sexy?

The thing I find the most sexy in a man is a lack of arrogance. You know the arrogant guy, the one who ASSUMES that women will want him because he works out and has ripped muscles. I meet plenty of men like that in the military and it is an immediate turn off. The rumour starts that I am into women because I don't fancy them. Pffft, I am happy to let that spread if those are the men I am attracting.

However, oooh, the man that turns me on the most is a humble man. One that maybe tries to look good but doesn't it flaunt it like a badge of honour. One that keeps himself in shape because he wants to be healthy but doesn't overkill it. And most importantly, I want that gorgeous smile, reserved especially for me. You know what I mean? The kind of guy whose face lights up because you walk in the room...

I've been watching too much Disney lately...

Someone funny and someone with great manners.

The guy I'm crushing on now is such a comedian. No really, that's his job. He's a comedian. haha Anyway, he is the funniest guy I've met and super sweet. He once asked me if I was uncomfortable and I said, "No, I'm just cold." He said, "Well, I'm not cold at all! You can have my jacket." Before I could even argue, he stood up and handed me his jacket. My heart melted... haha

Seriously, THAT is the sexiest thing a guy could do: treat you like a lady.

Chris pontius! Haha everything about him...manly, funny, daring, fun, amazing body, beautiful hair and doesn't take life too seriously....

....you can tell I've been watching too much *kitten*. Hahah

Or Trey Songz... Totally different direction hahaha

Chris pontius! Haha everything about him...manly, funny, daring, fun, amazing body, beautiful hair and doesn't take life too seriously....

....you can tell I've been watching too much *kitten*. Hahah

Or Trey Songz... Totally different direction hahaha

Haha, Party Boy has always been my favourite out of the *kitten* guys as well He just looks like he would be a blast to hang out with, plus he is kinda cute!

And his voice is so deep!!! Amazingly sexy haha

I am a sucker for a great set of teeth and a great smile!!! And blue eyes!!! A huge sucker for blue eyes.

Chris pontius! Haha everything about him...manly, funny, daring, fun, amazing body, beautiful hair and doesn't take life too seriously....

....you can tell I've been watching too much *kitten*. Hahah

Or Trey Songz... Totally different direction hahaha

Haha, Party Boy has always been my favourite out of the *kitten* guys as well He just looks like he would be a blast to hang out with, plus he is kinda cute!

And his voice is so deep!!! Amazingly sexy haha

Yes, I looooove deep voices So manly and hot

humor

Physically? Strong hips, legs, and abs. lol... Really though, my favorite feature on a man is typically the eyes. My hubby's are just amazingly blue. I still get all dreamy-eyed when I look at them sometimes. But a man or woman with some deep brown eyes can melt me too. haha! And I love being picked up and tossed around, even if it does scare me just a little... kinda like riding a roller-coaster is scary - but fun too.

Other things I find sexy... animal lovers, good with kids, great sense of humor and can make me genuinely laugh from my gut, intelligence, blunt honesty, pride (not to be confused with arrogance) and responsibility. Money isn't important to me so much as him being able and willing to go out and MAKE it.

Well, since we're on it... I really like white guys. Blonde hair, blue eyes. Dark hair, green eyes. Hazel, grey! It doesn't really matter. Me being black, I guess it's a forbidden fruit thing. I hope I don't get too much flack about that... it's just a preference.

I'm a black girl brought up in a white country - Malta, and now live in Scotland surrounded by very pale people!

My boyfriend is nicknamed The Milkybar Kid. Blonde, blue eyes, gorgeous smile. I can't believe other people say he is plain looking when to me he is GORGEOUS. So called friends tried to break me up to date random black guys they thought I should be with. These men were just arrogant as hell and were used to women throwing themselves at them. My man won hands down, no one is a match for his wonderful nature and beautiful personality not to mention his sea blue eyes.

Smitten.

good sense of humor turns me on (naughty and yet nice ) add brains as well, i like it when i can learn something from them.
physically - i like them tall, broad shoulders, arms and their sexy back (eyes & nice smile w/complete teeth)

I love nice voices. Jean Reno, Clive Owen sexy kind of voices. Mee-rowr.

And then I love men who fit a certain character. Alpha males, soft voiced nerds, cowboys, bikers, street thug, atlanta professional, pretty much everyone but the rowdy college kid. I can't stand jerks- I like to be treated well, but I can really appreciate a -sexy- bad boy from very very far away.

And ugly sexy men. Oh boy, do I love ugly sexy men. If I could get a piece of Bruce Willis or Woody Harelson I would be one happy woman.

A great smile.

Deep voice, easy to talk to, confident, honest laugh, a certain look in his eyes-like a promise, makes me feel sexy with just a look, and really big um hands

Here's my updated list (it is ever evolving):

Classiness, confidence but not arrogance, tall (at least 5'11", preferably 6'2" or taller), goals in life beyond chasing women, muscular (LOVE big strong men), smart, fun to be around, good sense of humor, takes care of his life (owns his own place, car, etc. not a mooch), takes care of his body but doesn't spend too much time in front of the mirror in the morning, kindhearted especially to his elders and children, deep voices are HAAAAAWT, finds smart, driven, and successful women sexy. I've found many men sexy who aren't tall or superfit also. The physical sexiness can be second if the personality is there.

Ethnicity, skin color, eye color, hair color are all irrelevant to me.

Oh, more eye candy for the ladies:

Tim Hardy:





Joe Manganiello from True Blood:





Vin Diesel



The Rock:

Maybe Ill get there some day!

Um, are you blind! You are very sexy

Congrats on your progress!